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... Send *ebble a private message | | | *ebble's profile:Hiya, I am a 19 year old mummy-to-be from Wales, UK. I'm in my second trimester and it's all going very smoothly so far.
My partner and I are super excited about the future and all the stuff we now have to look forward to.
I'm very interested in all things fashion and beauty. I am currently employed by a well-known clothing and accessories company and I love it there. However, after a great deal of research, when my baby is born I plan to start my own online cosmetics business so I can work from home. I want to be there for my baby at all times, while still contributing to the family finances.
I absolutely love to read. My house is filled with books, fiction, non fiction, magazines... everything! And when I don't have a book in my hand you can usually find me bargain hunting on Ebay. The site is fantastic and I recommend it to anyone searching for a bagain.
I live a quiet life and I love it this way. I am happy in my own little world with my own little family, including my fish Dave, Pete and Hayley.
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I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 26 May 2009: Sorry to hear you're feeling so bad. And also that your father made you reconsider whether or not you wanted the baby. Can I ask if you're still 100% sure about it?
You know, it's a difficult one because you say you want someone to make you feel... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to my friend?
Q. I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best f...
A. 23 May 2009: To you Leanne, maybe. But the poster is not you, is she?
She is in a completely different situation and wanted advice so I gave it to her. If you think the only way to lose virginity is penis in vagina then fine. But you might have to accept t... (read in full...)
All the signs of pregnancy but all the tests are coming back negative!
Q. Help! I always have regular periods and i skipped my first ever one two weeks ago! I went to my local family planning clinic a week after it was due to be tested for pregnancy and it came back negative, they told me to wait a week and go back. I ...
A. 22 May 2009: That's a really good attitude to have. I'm currently 10 weeks pregnant myself, I got pregnant on the pill and am only 19 but am of the same mindset as you - the baby didn't ask to be concieved so we're going to be the best we can and give it the ... (read in full...)
Whenever I try to talk about him coming to the doctors with me for a pregnacy test he just changes the subject to sex! What gives?
Q. My boyfriend is acting really odd. It all started when I told him I missed two periods and told him about it. For then on all he talks about is sex and not just normal things he talks about how he pees on himself and licks his own cum. Hes nev...
A. 21 May 2009: I think you have more important things to be thinking about right now. The idiot can wait. Find out whether you're pregnant or not first.... (read in full...)
Why do men masturbate when they have girlfriends?
Q. Why Do Men Masturbate When They Ave Girlfriends???? Plzzzzzzzzz Help My Bf Dose It N It Make Me Really Angry N We End Up Arguein About Itt!!! I Think It Rude N It Make Me Fill Like He Dosen't Love Me N That He Get More Pleasur Wen He Masturba...
A. 21 May 2009: You really do need to learn to type in proper English. This is not a text message, most people here are mature, clever individuals. Not 13 year old girls. You do not seem to understand men at all. You cannot control how much he masturbates. It'... (read in full...)
I WON'T leave her!
Q. There is a girl in my grade that I like and she hates me. I will NOT leave her. Please help me!!...
A. 21 May 2009: Well it's no wonder she hates you is it? We don't always get what we want. Be adult about this and realise she doesn't want to be with you. You need to learn how to treat a lady properly. Keep this up and they'll never come near you. ... (read in full...)
How can I force my girlfriend into dropping some weight?
Q. Ive been dating my girlfriend off and on for two years. We are both in our 40's and she is a couple of years older than me and has two grown up kids. We get on really great and spend a lot of time together, although we don't live together. She is a...
A. 21 May 2009: It's men like you that destroy women's confidence and make them feel like they will never be good enough for anyone. You're not going to get any nice replies here I'm afraid. If your partner is happy with her weight then leave her the hell alone. ... (read in full...)
All the signs of pregnancy but all the tests are coming back negative!
Q. Help! I always have regular periods and i skipped my first ever one two weeks ago! I went to my local family planning clinic a week after it was due to be tested for pregnancy and it came back negative, they told me to wait a week and go back. I ...
A. 21 May 2009: Sometimes it can take weeks for the pregnancy hormones in your body to be strong enough to show up on a pregnancy test. They say the tests are 99% accurate but that's only true if you have everything you need for the test to work (enough hormones to ... (read in full...)
Finding it hard to stand up for myself without making the argument worse!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been friends for four years and dating for 1, and this is really starting to bug me. We'll get into these stupid ridiculous fights and he'll accuse me of really dumb things (ei. my friend that doesn't like him: he thinks that ...
A. 21 May 2009: So he accuses you of ridiculous things that he probably knows aren't true, and eventually manipulates you to the point where you feel like you should be saying sorry, even though you know you've done nothing wrong?
Wow, he sounds like a keeper. ... (read in full...)
Why do men masturbate when they have girlfriends?
Q. Why Do Men Masturbate When They Ave Girlfriends???? Plzzzzzzzzz Help My Bf Dose It N It Make Me Really Angry N We End Up Arguein About Itt!!! I Think It Rude N It Make Me Fill Like He Dosen't Love Me N That He Get More Pleasur Wen He Masturba...
A. 21 May 2009: Don't be so rude to people. You're only angry because your man does something you don't like. You should be talking to him about it, not freaking out at people here. You can't tell people to shut up when they give advice that you asked for. If you ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and scared...
Q. Hi. well basicly im 17, living in the UK and im not going to be all dramatic and cry at you, because its my fault im in this mess and whats happened cannot be changed. i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and a month. ill admit, im still madly in ...
A. 21 May 2009: Hello sweetheart, I'm around 10 weeks pregnant at the moment, so I'm understanding almost every fear you're going through here. I got pregnant while taking the pill so at first my partner and I were not impressed. But, we let it sink in for a few ... (read in full...)
I want to try lesbian sex!
Q. I wana try lesbian sex, but i don't know who i would try it with, i don't have many friends and the ones i do have are too close to be asking that kinda stuff. girls really turn me on, i love boys though just the thought of women together gets me ...
A. 21 May 2009: Kaylaleeann, you do not belong on this site. This site is for open minded people to give advice to those who need it. Narrow-minded, closeted people like yourself aren't even able to give balanced fair advice because your biggoted views cloud ... (read in full...)
Is my little sister attracted to me?
Q. My little sister is 13 and I am 19. The last two times that I was hanging out with her in her room she says, "I'm horny". Not just once but on two different occasions. I just say like yeah me too... and blow it off. I'm starting to wonder if she has ...
A. 20 May 2009: Please stop wasting your time replying to this. It's obviously some sicko getting his kicks out of talking about underage incest. I'm pretty sure a VERY simillar question has been posted here before.
Obviously Mr 36-40 isn't as clever as he thoug... (read in full...)
B/f 11 years older than me is abusive and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!
Q. First off, I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of days; my boyfriend is ELEVEN years older than me. We've been together for 7 months and I do really like him, but every single month I've tried to end it because he's made me feel like sh*t, I have rea...
A. 20 May 2009: Sweetie, the second you tell your parents he's hitting they'll do everything within their power to make sure he doesn't come near you. That's what you need to do. Otherwise you'll spend the next few years under his control with him ruining your ... (read in full...)
He proposed to me in the shower and then did doggy style!
Q. Like many couples, after sex, my boyfriend and I shower together. This usually leads to more erotic play; oftentimes it is the highlight of sex for me, especially since I find the water incredibly stimulating. My boyfriend is aware of this and ...
A. 20 May 2009: Yup, a marriage based entirely based on sex, because THAT'S going to work out.... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed!
Q. Hi i am engaged and he took my virginity. i didnt bleed so now he thinks i wasnt a virgin and is getting upset. i think i tore it while stretchin one time and now what should i say/do? please? ...
A. 19 May 2009: I agree with the poster that said to direct him to a website that explains everything so that he can finally see. Or maybe show him this page. He can't go around thinking he knows everything about the female body when actually it seems he knows very ... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 19 May 2009: Good girl, stay strong and put your foot down. A little bit of time is what he may be to gain a little perspective on things, and come round to the thought that there's going to be a baby whether he likes it or not.
Or maybe he'll always be total... (read in full...)
Is this an STD? I'm scared... help!
Q. Ok basically im 18. i was having oral fun with my boyfriend (my 1st) and then his semen was like white/water (maybe precum?) then dark yellow. he even said oh its dark yellow lol... he's only had a sex with some girls and always used protection ...
A. 19 May 2009: Yeah cgrlygo, I rang the NHS helpline and spoke to a nurse over the phone who told me to go to A and E because it sounded like I had a serious heart problem - turns out I was having a panic attack, it ended before I even got in the car. lol An... (read in full...)
Is this an STD? I'm scared... help!
Q. Ok basically im 18. i was having oral fun with my boyfriend (my 1st) and then his semen was like white/water (maybe precum?) then dark yellow. he even said oh its dark yellow lol... he's only had a sex with some girls and always used protection ...
A. 19 May 2009: How can you get a good diagnosis of a problem if all you're doing is describing the symptoms for someone else? Don't listen to the nurse who said there's nothing wrong. She hasn't seen him so she cannot be accurate. He needs to go himself and you ... (read in full...)
How can I increase my boob size?
Q. Hey agnoy aunt, will u please suggest me how to increse my boob's size without any surgery? My boobs is of 32 inch and I want it atleast 34. Thanks...
A. 19 May 2009: Well if it was that simple no one would have small breasts would they? You cannot increase your breast size. Neither can you enlarge your penis (just incase anyone was wondering lol) Sorry!... (read in full...)
Is this an STD? I'm scared... help!
Q. Ok basically im 18. i was having oral fun with my boyfriend (my 1st) and then his semen was like white/water (maybe precum?) then dark yellow. he even said oh its dark yellow lol... he's only had a sex with some girls and always used protection ...
A. 19 May 2009: I agree with Satindesire. All of this seems a little fishy. Ask to see his results, ask him what went on during the examination - see if he can even tell you that. I wouldn't believe him. Also, no doctor or nurse would tell YOU everything is fi... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin?
Q. Im 20 and i'm not sure if i'm a virgin or not. I had 'sex' when I was 17 but we didn't finish and he didn't fully do it. I didn't even feel anything. Now all my friends think i'm not a virgin and my boyfriend wants to have sex but i'm going to...
A. 19 May 2009: If the penis went in your vagina then you're no longer a virgin because 'technically' you've had sex (even if it was rubbish sex lol). It might hurt for the few times anyway so be prepared for a little pain, apart from that you're good to go! H... (read in full...)
Coiuld she be pregnant?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex, 2 days after she had her periods, and her next month period was late by a week, is there any chance of conception, as we are totally unsure. Please help. It's said that if you have your periods, you have...
A. 19 May 2009: There IS a chance of conception when she is on her period, a slightly smaller chance but it IS possible. There is a chance any time during her cycle. Do a pregnancy test to find out for sure.... (read in full...)
Am I weird because I'm at virgin?
Q. Iv'e just turned sixteen and im still a virgin most of my friends arent. Does this make me weird? help!...
A. 18 May 2009: I was 18 and my boyfriend was 21, and we're not weird at all. We're a normal couple. We were just sensible enough not to give it away to someone who was using us and didn't really care. :)... (read in full...)
My husband told me he's gay but he wants to be "ex-gay"
Q. My husband told me yesterday that he was gay. It wasn't a big announcement, he just said to me "I have something to tell you, it's important!" so I sat down and listened. He admitted he was gay, and said tearfully "I DON'T want to be this way! I ...
A. 18 May 2009: If he is able to make himself 'ex-gay' then why did he 'make' himself gay in the first place? Does that make sense?
My point is, you cannot choose. He has no choice over his sexuality. If he's gay, he's gay. ... (read in full...)
How to make your breath not smell bad?
Q. Hey. I was wondering, is there any way other than breath mints, mouthwash, gum, and eating the right way to make you breath not smell bad? The mints I don't always have access to, and I don't have much control over what I eat. I don't have any ...
A. 18 May 2009: Don't forget to brush your tongue too! That really helps get rid of the gross stuff that causes the bad smell.... (read in full...)
Bleeding after sex?
Q. i dont usually bleed but recently i keep bleading after sex. Its only slightly but i don't know why and my periods aren't due for 2 weeks, any ideas?...
A. 18 May 2009: I'm a little worried that I'm the only poster that has actually told you to go to a doctor. That's what you need, it could be something simple or it could be something a lot worse.
Type 'bleeding after sex' into google and see some of the things t... (read in full...)
Bleeding after sex?
Q. i dont usually bleed but recently i keep bleading after sex. Its only slightly but i don't know why and my periods aren't due for 2 weeks, any ideas?...
A. 18 May 2009: This isn't normal, especially if it has only just started happening recently. Bleeding after sex is never a good sign. If you haven't been using protection then you could have an STI. You could also have polyps (small growths) on the cervix or an ... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 18 May 2009: Yep, Star has it right. You need someone on your side now. A friend, your Mom... whoever you feel will help and support you.
Don't worry about this guy any longer sweetheart. He has made his choice. You did everything right and now only you and ... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 18 May 2009: Because your child has every right to know who it's father is. And it will resent you when it's older when it has to face possible rejection from him if it decides to go look for him. You didn't make this baby on your own, you need to make him... (read in full...)
Anyone know how to figure when baby would have been conceived?
Q. okay my ex is pregnant and i had always thought she had been faithful to me but i just barely found out that she wasnt which is why shes my ex, well the doctor told her that her due date is oct.14 of 2009 ,can any one tell me roughly around what ...
A. 17 May 2009: Yeah, counting back 40 weeks gives you January 7th, within a fornight either side of that would be the estimated day of conception. But due dates are only an estimate, it doesn't mean the baby will be born on that date. They're usually figured out ... (read in full...)
Why would his late wife's mother want me over for dinner?
Q. My boyfriends wife died over 30 years ago and I can't imagine how hard that must be, they had two sons together too. The problem is that he approached me and said his sons grandmother asked him and our new son over for dinner but I was invited also. ...
A. 17 May 2009: This is really childish. You're causing conflict where there needs to be none. If neither of you want to be involved in each others' families then why the hell are you together? Relationships are about becoming part of each others' family. ... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 17 May 2009: Ugh, what an idiot. Stress, high sugar levels or emotion cannot give a false positive, otherwise there would be false positives all over the place. What would be the point in home pregnancy tests if they were that inaccurate?
If you're seeing s... (read in full...)
Why would his late wife's mother want me over for dinner?
Q. My boyfriends wife died over 30 years ago and I can't imagine how hard that must be, they had two sons together too. The problem is that he approached me and said his sons grandmother asked him and our new son over for dinner but I was invited also. ...
A. 17 May 2009: You're around her Granchildren, a mother figure to them. Of course she's going to want to meet you. Especially if you and your man have given her another Granchild together.
I really don't see a problem here. You were rude not to go and owe an a... (read in full...)
We had sex and now he wants to be "friends"...???
Q. my boyfriend and i had sex then he want us to be friends what does that mean...
A. 17 May 2009: He wanted sex, got it, and now wants to move on to the next person to start it all again.... (read in full...)
We think my friend may be pregnant, but we're not sure what to do
Q. I need help and i dont know what to do. Im a 13 year old girl and my best friend(who is 13 too) had sex with her boyfriend and she hasnt had her period in about, a month n two weeks. She cant eat and she throws up all the time. We(me n our o...
A. 17 May 2009: She needs to see a doctor to get it confirmed first. Then, if she is pregnant she NEEDS to tell her mum. She cannot hide this away. I bet her mum has already noticed that she's throwing up all the time, eventually it will have to come out.
This ... (read in full...)
I'm a guy. Should I shave my legs?
Q. i am 15, 16 in a week and my legs are full of hairs i just want to know should i shave them because i am an amature footballer and i know that some footballers shave their legs? also i was woundering if i should shave them for the girl i like ...
A. 16 May 2009: I wouldn't shave your legs. It can give off an air of vanity that can be quite unattractive. People might even go as far as thinking you are homosexual - not that that's a bad thing but it might not be the impression you want to give lol. People ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to my friend?
Q. I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best f...
A. 16 May 2009: If you have used toys on each other then I would consider you not to be a virgin, because well... you can't really go much further than that in a same sex relationship. But again, it's up to you where your 'virginity line' is set. Because as Britt ... (read in full...)
I forget about b/f when his uncle is around!
Q. Well i've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Everything between us is great all the time, except when his uncle is there. His uncle is 24, i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 15. Before my boyfriend and i got together, I had a really b...
A. 16 May 2009: What you need to understand is what this man is doing is illegal. Do you think it's ok for adult men to say sexual things to children? Is that acceptable to you? Because that's what's happening here. The sooner you open your eyes to this guy bein... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 16 May 2009: I forgot to mention my boyfriend was 21, so we raise the average right there lol.... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 16 May 2009: I was 18, still with the guy now, baby on the way and don't regret a second of it :)... (read in full...)
Why does it seem like certain people get all the sex in the world?
Q. Well I am getting older and I am still a virgin. I am about to go to college, so hopefully I will meet someone at some point in the next few years. I was just wondering why it seems like there are a few people who get a TON of sex, and others ...
A. 16 May 2009: Women can smell men who only want sex a mile off. And desperation is a very unattractive quality in someone.
Here's a thought: sex isn't the be-all and end-all of everything. And there are much more important things to think about than getting ... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 16 May 2009: Good god, how old is this man? He's acting like a child. He doesn't believe that you're pregnant because he didn't come in you? I thought only teenagers believed that these days.
Does he have internet access? Send him this link:
http://www.bi... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity to my friend?
Q. I have know idea if I've lost my virginty yet. My cherry HAS been popped, I know that for sure, and it wasnt from sports or horseback riding. It was from.. Well. To help me with this you might wanna know im Bisexual. And so are 4 of my best f...
A. 16 May 2009: I think some of the answers here are way off. The people saying that virginity is only lost by penis in vagina intercourse seem to be forgetting all the lesbians out there who have only had sex with women. Does that mean they are all virgins because ... (read in full...)
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