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... Send *ebble a private message | | | *ebble's profile:Hiya, I am a 19 year old mummy-to-be from Wales, UK. I'm in my second trimester and it's all going very smoothly so far.
My partner and I are super excited about the future and all the stuff we now have to look forward to.
I'm very interested in all things fashion and beauty. I am currently employed by a well-known clothing and accessories company and I love it there. However, after a great deal of research, when my baby is born I plan to start my own online cosmetics business so I can work from home. I want to be there for my baby at all times, while still contributing to the family finances.
I absolutely love to read. My house is filled with books, fiction, non fiction, magazines... everything! And when I don't have a book in my hand you can usually find me bargain hunting on Ebay. The site is fantastic and I recommend it to anyone searching for a bagain.
I live a quiet life and I love it this way. I am happy in my own little world with my own little family, including my fish Dave, Pete and Hayley.
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Parenting advice please!
Q. Ok some parenting advice please!!My daughter is 4 1/2years old and currently going to pre school 3 1/2 hours a day(due to start full time in sept). She is a lovely little girl but she has a very short attention span!Her teacher has told us that she ...
A. 1 May 2009: I think Gina is talking about 'Supernanny' Jo Frost. Her techniques do seem really effective - but then again it is a tv show. Her website is www.supernanny.com - there's lots of good advice on there. Good luck.... (read in full...)
He provides everything for me, apartment, money and everything I ask him for, I do not work. He thinks I depend on him too much, is this true?
Q. My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. he provide everything for me, apartment, money and every thing i ask him for, i do not work, when we just started out he said he wants to spoil me, and he is doing just that. i don't ...
A. 1 May 2009: Wow, aren't you a delight? You carry on living your fabulous lifestyle then. Until the day he gets sick of you sponging off of him. You said yourself he's getting sick of it already. He's only going to put up with it for so long. After that you'r... (read in full...)
Can you trick a pregnancy test into showing a positive result?
Q. Is it true that you can trick a pregnancy test into saying "yes"? If so how is that even done?...
A. 1 May 2009: You cannot fake a positive pregnancy test. It isn't possible. The only way would be to get someone else who is pregnant to take the test for you.
Someone mentioned the pill giving false positives but this is incorrect. Tests measure the level of... (read in full...)
He provides everything for me, apartment, money and everything I ask him for, I do not work. He thinks I depend on him too much, is this true?
Q. My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. he provide everything for me, apartment, money and every thing i ask him for, i do not work, when we just started out he said he wants to spoil me, and he is doing just that. i don't ...
A. 30 April 2009: What happens if he decides he doesn't want to be with you anymore? You're left with nothing?... (read in full...)
Man whore got me knocked up!
Q. sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy ...
A. 30 April 2009: Where did I say you were a hooker? I just pointed out that if this guy is a huge player then it's likely he might be the one spreading gross diseases to everyone he goes near. STIs are everywhere. Chances are, he's got something. No one can disag... (read in full...)
Experiencing an abnormal amount of discharge and pain during sex!
Q. Hi im a 19 year old student. im dating a 20 year old student. im having this problem...im having an abnormal disharge at the moment and i experience pain during sexual intercourse. after sexual intercourse i feel pain inside my vagina and its ...
A. 30 April 2009: The only way you can find out what this is, is if you go to a doctor and have it checked out.... (read in full...)
Man whore got me knocked up!
Q. sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy ...
A. 29 April 2009: Mental issues? God Lord, isn't someone being a bit dramatic?
The poster is in pain because he had sex with someone who was unavailable and couldn't be bothered to protect herself. She's in this situation because of her own terrible decision... (read in full...)
Man whore got me knocked up!
Q. sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy ...
A. 29 April 2009: You know what else is out of order? Childish name calling. Don't be a hypocrite.
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Half penetration sex, am I still a Virgin?
Q. Hi, My BF's penis went in me about half way, the head was fully in and we did this a few times. He didnt push all the way because I want to keep my virginity but i cant help but think have I already lost it from what we wer doing. We tested ...
A. 29 April 2009: The penis was in your vagina, whether you still have your hymen or no you are NO LONGER A VIRGIN. It doesn't matter that it didn't go all the way in or that you didn't bleed, your virginity is gone. ... (read in full...)
2 questions about sex....
Q. So i have 2 questions basically and i need some advice... my gf got topless for me couple days ago, but her nipples didn't get hard at all nd i tried everything, kissed the, sucked on them touched them and kissed her body... by the way we didnt...
A. 29 April 2009: Rck hard nipples? Shaved?
Sounds like someone's been watching too much porn.
Have you any idea how much hassle it is for a woman to keep herself shaved down below? Firstly, there's the sharp razor you're putting near your bits, then there... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 29 April 2009: The only people who complain about it being the educational system's fault are the parents who couldn't be a*sed to teach the kids themselves and expected teachers to do the job for them.... (read in full...)
I don't want my fiance to have a stripper!
Q. I'm engaged to my partner (we have been together several years), and he said the only reason he won't be having a stripper on his stag night is because i'm really paranoid (I have a mental illness). So, I said that I thought he was doing it to ...
A. 29 April 2009: "We work on the basis that he can tell me what to do most of the time (we live a 1950s style life) and I love it that way, it's just I don't want him to have a stripper!"
There is a big contradiction here. To be frank, if you like him telling ... (read in full...)
Man whore got me knocked up!
Q. sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy ...
A. 29 April 2009: Well this guy sounds like he's perfect for marriage.
Maybe you should use your nice allowance from this privilaged life of yours to get you some condoms. And an STI test. Just a thought.... (read in full...)
Should I have a sex change and become a man...
Q. My ex-boyfriend had a sex change recently, but I am still in love with him!!! Now that he is a woman, I feel like I am a lesbian, although I have never felt this way about a girl before. Should I have a sex change and become a man, and therefore ...
A. 28 April 2009: Yes, do it. Go for it. Tut.... (read in full...)
Does she want me to be a lesbian?
Q. hi, ive just moved in with my girlfreind into a flat, and all my clothes were in the suitcases as we just got there and i went to the shop and got talking to one of my mates and when i got back she was staring in my suitcase and there was thongs in ...
A. 28 April 2009: How can she MAKE you wear the thongs that are yours anyway? I smell BS.... (read in full...)
I don't want my boyfriend to go to jail...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for five months now - since about a week before he and his ex broke up. They were together for two years and I'll admit, he was not the nicest guy towards his ex. For two years, he emotionally and physically ...
A. 28 April 2009: So your boyfriend is an emotionally abusive rapist who hits women? And you want to help him get away with it all? By lying for him you are spitting in the face of every single rape victim out there. If he can do it once, he will do it again. Pro... (read in full...)
We're both married, how do I get him to leave his wife for me?
Q. i have been seeing this guy for about 1 year and the thing is hes married and before you start to judge me please just hear me out! i really love him. and he loves me too! anyways i am just the type of person that believes that if you want something ...
A. 28 April 2009: "if there was anything left in his marriage than he wouldn't be seeing me right" If there was nothing left in his marriage he wouldn't be still in the marriage. If he wanted to sacrifice what he has for you, he would have done it a long time ago,... (read in full...)
Pregnancy from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...
A. 28 April 2009: Have you even done a test yet? ... (read in full...)
Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?
Q. Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, ...
A. 27 April 2009: So what exactly do you want us to say to you then? You say your problem is you cannot love people and then you say you'd rather not love people. You're going to end up very sad and very alone and it's going to affect EVERY relationship you... (read in full...)
We're both married, how do I get him to leave his wife for me?
Q. i have been seeing this guy for about 1 year and the thing is hes married and before you start to judge me please just hear me out! i really love him. and he loves me too! anyways i am just the type of person that believes that if you want something ...
A. 27 April 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-love-means-sacrifice-am-i-right.html
I see he still hasn't left her for you then. I'm sure he's going to continue telling you he will though.
The answer I posted on your previous question still s... (read in full...)
Pregnancy from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...
A. 27 April 2009: It isn't going away, you need to help from someone, you need to see a doctor to be checked over otherwise you're putting your health in danger. Just tell her, once you've said the words then it's done.... (read in full...)
My 14 y/o daughter wants to have sex with her b/f
Q. My 14 year old daughter has just told me she wants to have a sexual relationship with her 15year old boyfriend. What should i do?...
A. 26 April 2009: Don't put her on protection if you want to be a Grandma.
It's excellent that she asked you first. She needs your advice and guidance and a lot kids don't really care what their parents think so I think you should be quite proud of her for that.
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Raped -- what can I do?
Q. I have a rather strange question. I am pretty sure I was raped. I question it becasue I don't think I can do much about it. I knew this guy since forever..he gave me a ride home, and next I know we are out in the woods and he parks the truck. Next, ...
A. 26 April 2009: Please, please, please go to the police. Tell them that this man threatened you also. He will do this to other women, probably already has. No one should scare others into silence to cover for their disgusting actions.
It's not going to be easy ... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister.
Q. My sister 6 year elder then me see is marred and see live her husband and see have a 6 year old baby. She only come my home only when her baby school close during summer. But see is so beautiful my question is I want to sex with my sister But ...
A. 26 April 2009: What do you want us to say to you? 'Yeah go ahead sleep with your sister, everything will be fine and you'll live happily ever after being f*ck buddies'?
I'm afraid not.
Your sister isn't going to want to have sex with you (unless you come... (read in full...)
I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!
Q. hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the ...
A. 26 April 2009: You are being extremely childish. You're an adult and you sound like a stroppy teenager.
Do you earn your own money? If not, why not? And why is it up to your father to provide everything for you? If you are unhappy with your life do somethin... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not allowed to see my kids! I think this is so unfair.
Q. my ex boyfriend and i have 2 kids together however i have a new boyfriend and its court ordered that my new boyfriend not have contact with our two kids i want to know how he can dictate this and also why he has a new girlfriend and baby and shes ...
A. 26 April 2009: Why is the court order in place? Does your old boyfriend think the new boyfriend poses a danger of some sort? ... (read in full...)
I have bruises from where he thumped me!
Q. A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...
A. 26 April 2009: I think it's time for you to go hun, you shouldn't be living a life like this.... (read in full...)
Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?
Q. I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how doe...
A. 26 April 2009: Lol, yay for you!... (read in full...)
Discharge problems for about 3 years..help!
Q. Sorry this is a health question, I do not know where else to ask. I have a discharge problem. It's been there for about three years now and is becoming very stressful. My discharge is extremely pasty and white. I know it is not normal. It does...
A. 25 April 2009: Gosh Uncil Phil's answer made me nearly wet myself :) Ok first, I think you need to stop thinking it's something serious. Do you have any other symptoms down there? Is the discharge itchy? If not then it sounds just like every other women out ... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 25 April 2009: It's good to hear that there are still some young people out there that know they do not need to be having at 13, 14, 15 years old. It's far too much hassle at that age!! I mean, I got seriously stressed from just coursework alone, I can't imagine ... (read in full...)
HIV test tomorrow and I'm really scared....
Q. im going for an hiv test tomorrow and im so scared i might test positive.my x bf was a player and he slept around,i found out he tested positive and ever since i have been scared.i have never had sex with anyone but him he is my first.please give me ...
A. 25 April 2009: Congratulations :)
And at least a good thing has come of this horrible scare, you know you won't risk it ever again. I'm really happy for you, I can't even imagine how horrid that wait must have been. Call it an experience, you're better off in t... (read in full...)
They are say I'm anorexic, but I'm starting think it's true.
Q. I'm 13, and I haven't been on a diet long. A really short time in fact. My friends say I'm skinny enough already and think I'm crazy for dieting. It was just eating healthy and cutting back snacks, also with excersise at the beginning. But then ...
A. 25 April 2009: Fantastic :) you should be very proud of yourself. If only everyone was as mature as you. Stay strong and good luck.... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 24 April 2009: If they don't know what a penis is for then they would not be on here asking if they could be pregnant at all would they? I too did not know what a blowjob was when I was 13, and that was only 7 years ago!! Times have changed VERY quickly.
They ... (read in full...)
Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?
Q. I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how doe...
A. 24 April 2009: Look into the contraception pill if this is a prblem you face regularly. With the pill, you can decide if you want your period this month or just skip it til next month.... (read in full...)
Muslim girl confused about giving oral sex.
Q. i've known my boyfriend for 4years now, recently been going out, we've been together for a year and a half. recently he asked me for oral sex, which i did promise him but only because i was going away on holiday and i didnt want him to cheat. now ...
A. 24 April 2009: You should never have to promise a boyfriend oral sex to stop him cheating. This is not what relationships should be built on. If there is no trust and you think he might cheat then you two should not be together.
If you do not want to perform ... (read in full...)
How could I convince her to have sex with me?
Q. I live with my cousin she is 33 and has two kids but she is so hot and I'm 19. I've been wanting to have sex with her forever now. She likes having sex but just broke up with her man. I made this lie where some girl said I was a bad kisser so I ...
A. 23 April 2009: Well some people are not fans of inbreeding...... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm in love with someone?
Q. I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ...
A. 23 April 2009: Is someone doing this on purpose? There have been quite a few recently... lol.... (read in full...)
They are say I'm anorexic, but I'm starting think it's true.
Q. I'm 13, and I haven't been on a diet long. A really short time in fact. My friends say I'm skinny enough already and think I'm crazy for dieting. It was just eating healthy and cutting back snacks, also with excersise at the beginning. But then ...
A. 23 April 2009: You really need to confide in someone who you feel can help you sweetheart. Whether that be a parent, an older sibling, a teacher, whatever - but it needs to be someone who has the power to get you some help.
You have made a fantastic step to ... (read in full...)
I have bruises from where he thumped me!
Q. A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...
A. 23 April 2009: I would like to completely ignore the war going on here and ask the poster what decision she made and how things have worked out so far...?... (read in full...)
Pregnancy from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...
A. 23 April 2009: Get a test then.... (read in full...)
My ex has threatened to beat me up!
Q. I have a massive problem!! My ex-boyfriend Jack has threatened to beat me up just because I added his present girlfriend on Facebook. But I also know that he is cheating on this girl. This girl, let's call her Shelby, has told Jack that I've said ...
A. 23 April 2009: Delete them both and move on with your life. You and him are broken up, his relationship/girlfriend aren't really any of your business now. Make sure your facebook is set to friends only and don't talk to them again.
And if he does manage to threa... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 20 April 2009: I think the poster is a little out of her depth now... lol.... (read in full...)
I have bruises from where he thumped me!
Q. A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...
A. 20 April 2009: pvtguy - your wife is one lucky lucky lady.
Poster, your partner overreacted to the extreme. You did not deserve to be hit, you said sorry, and sure he should be allowed to be a bit mad at you but to beat you is beyond unacceptable.
Please ... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 19 April 2009: Sex equals pregnancy. If it's normal for a 14 year old to have sex these days, is it normal and ok for a 14 year old to be a mother? Do you say it's ok for a penniless, 14 year old single mother with no job or qualifications to bring up a child... (read in full...)
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