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writes:Am 26 and have been with my current boyfriend who is 36 for a year. When we met he was having a 6yrs girl with the ex-girlfriend. Our relationship was quite ok for all the time we were together. He didn't want us to have a baby until i become 28, hence I tried my best to protect myself from getting pregnant. But three months ago all over a sudden I got pregnant and things start to change. He is very angry with me now doesn't even want to talk or pick up my calls. He is taking the ex girlfriend back, because they get separated because of the pregnancy she got. Now since I am pregnant it has proved to him that the ex girlfriend didn't intend to get pregnant as I did hence he is felling sorry for what he did to her in the past. So what do I have to do? I real love the boy from the bottom of my heart and much less am pregnant already?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): I really feel for you, this is tough situation. I personally don't agree with abortion - i think that its a beautiful gift to be able to bring life into this world, you should be proud of that, you don't know if you will get the opportunity again. I hope you don't think that the childs a mistake, it might not be planned but its definitely meant to be!
This guy doesn't seem to have any moral fibre whatsoever and just sounds ungrateful and exploitative - but you know what, pure beauty can emerge from the most vile of humanity- that lies in your hands.
God bless you and the wee one.
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reader, pebble  +, writes (12 May 2009):
 I agree with Gina. I think you need to look after you for a bit befoe even condsiderng him. Do you want to be mother right now? If not, how do you feel about abortion? Or maybe adoption would be a better option?
Have a good long think how you feel about this baby. If you decide you do want to a mother, then your baby and you must come first.
Sure, this guy and what he is doing to you (disgusting by the way) is going to be at the forefront of your mind right now. But there's a little baby in there who needs Mom to make a decision.
My advice is do what is best for the child (whatever you think that may be), concentrate on that and show this loser that you are more than capable of coping on your own.
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