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... Send *ebble a private message | | | *ebble's profile:Hiya, I am a 19 year old mummy-to-be from Wales, UK. I'm in my second trimester and it's all going very smoothly so far.
My partner and I are super excited about the future and all the stuff we now have to look forward to.
I'm very interested in all things fashion and beauty. I am currently employed by a well-known clothing and accessories company and I love it there. However, after a great deal of research, when my baby is born I plan to start my own online cosmetics business so I can work from home. I want to be there for my baby at all times, while still contributing to the family finances.
I absolutely love to read. My house is filled with books, fiction, non fiction, magazines... everything! And when I don't have a book in my hand you can usually find me bargain hunting on Ebay. The site is fantastic and I recommend it to anyone searching for a bagain.
I live a quiet life and I love it this way. I am happy in my own little world with my own little family, including my fish Dave, Pete and Hayley.
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Was on a "break" and slept with a guy and now I don't know who is the Daddy!
Q. im 14 and im 19 weeks pregnant everything is ok and everyone knows but the problem is that the baby might not be my boyfriends. he doesn't know that she might not be his and i feel awful he is getting all exited he can't wait. i had sex with this ...
A. 20 June 2009: You did the right thing. The secret would have eaten you up inside if you hadn't told. I hope you get the result you are looking for. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy, stay healthy. x... (read in full...)
I'm so annoyed at people who play the victim!
Q. Ok so lately these past three days my "friend"(only calls when she has a problem or isn't stuck up her man's ass) been calling me crying or texting me saying "ohh my bf is so mean he makes me cry he calls me a bitch etc" but the dumb bitch always ...
A. 19 June 2009: This sounds so much like the girl I knew, it's unreal. She'd say thhinks like "no cares if I get mugged/stabbed/raped/hit by cars on the way home, if they did I wouldn't be walking home alone" and it's like 6pm, still light and she lived 10 min... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mother driving me insane!
Q. My boyfriends mum is driving me insane. I am pregnant and this is her first grandchild so I understand that she is super excited. But she's being so controlling, it's unreal. She treats my boyfriend like he is a child (he's 23), she speaks to...
A. 15 June 2009: Thanks again for all the replies :) I've been with him for two and a half years. Lived together for five months. My boyfriend's brother has just left with the army so that has had a huge effect on how she's feeling, I'm sure. She does feel we are... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mother driving me insane!
Q. My boyfriends mum is driving me insane. I am pregnant and this is her first grandchild so I understand that she is super excited. But she's being so controlling, it's unreal. She treats my boyfriend like he is a child (he's 23), she speaks to...
A. 14 June 2009: So marriage always mean that two people are seriously committed to each other? There are lots of posts on this site that will beg to differ. Maybe if you knew anything about my track record of responsibility then you would have the right to comment ... (read in full...)
Are we infertile?.... 5 years of unprotected sex and no baby!
Q. I have been married to my husband for almost five years. Although we have'nt been trying to have a baby, we have had unprotected sex since day one but we have'nt been able to get pregnant. Is it possible to still get pregnant after all this time or ...
A. 14 June 2009: After five years I would definately think it be time for a trip to the doctors. Here in the UK, you have to have been trying for one year with no luck to be entitled to tests for infertility or reduced fertility.
So I think to put your mind at ... (read in full...)
What can I use for sexual pleasure?
Q. I am 17 and I'm not allowed to have a sex toy, so what else can I use around the house to get sexual pleasure?...
A. 13 June 2009: She's too young for a sex shop or to buy online as someone suggested, I'm not sure whether it's 18 or 21 in the US but either way, they'll ask for I.D and a credit card to verify her age.
It's not good putting anything random inside you, you'll e... (read in full...)
I want to have sex and yet am repulsed by it
Q. I've never heard of anybody who has this problem. I am a man in my late 20's, who like most other men is desperate to have sex, yet at the same time I'm repulsed by it. The reason why is because I despise the human race, I view all emotions as ...
A. 13 June 2009: What you need is most definately not sex or a relationship, it's a psychologist. Or is needing help admitting that you're weak and disgusting just like every other human out there?
That might be your opinion of people but you are nothing special ... (read in full...)
My bf is always slagging women off!!
Q. This all started a while ago, me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and I used to be able to just ignore it but now it's getting ridiculous. My boyfriend has had a bad past with girlfriends, cheating, stealing, using etc and he...
A. 13 June 2009: Lol, 'slagging' means talking bad about someone, saying bad stuff or expressing a bad opinion on someone/something.
However, 'slag' is a derogatory term for a women who sleeps with lots of men.
teehee ;)... (read in full...)
I don't know how I am going to survive without seeing my teacher!
Q. I have been madly in love with my teacher for a year, and I still am! But now school is all coming to end and i wont see him as much, I dont know what I am going to do without him? I miss him over weekends, and have been during exam leave! I really ...
A. 13 June 2009: Just because it's 'legal' doesn't mean it's not frowned upon. If he started a relationship with you he would be suspended from his job. No headteacher would allow one of their employees to start a relationship with a former pupil who is so young. ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity to my brothers friend, who has a gf and I'm starting to get attached to him...
Q. Ok well I'm 18 and the guy im secretly seeing is 22. Yes we have sex and what not but the problem is he has a girlfriend. Oh i lost my v card to him and he's my brothers close friend. but obviously no one knows that me and him are messing around ...
A. 13 June 2009: You realise that he's using you for sex and nothing, get over him and walk away.
He's getting the emotional stuff from his girlfriend and sex from you. If he wanted you and you alone, his girlfriend would no longer be around.
I know it's harsh,... (read in full...)
My bf is always slagging women off!!
Q. This all started a while ago, me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and I used to be able to just ignore it but now it's getting ridiculous. My boyfriend has had a bad past with girlfriends, cheating, stealing, using etc and he...
A. 13 June 2009: I'm sorry but there is absolutely nothing attractive about a man who has no respect for women.
What is it about him that makes you want to stay? If he had ANY respect for you he would keep his opinions out of your earshot, because lets face it ... (read in full...)
He says abortion, but it was something that never crossed my mind
Q. so im about 3 months preg, i tell my boyfriend and the first thing out of his mouth is ABORTION, didnt really give me much option... what should i do.. i mean i have two kids already i really dont need another one (financially) and i obviously cant ...
A. 13 June 2009: I don't understand how people can have or suggest abortions when they have already felt the love that a parent has for a child.
But, ultimately it's your body. If you don't want an abortion then make clear that it's absolutely not going to happe... (read in full...)
Ex rings me while on vacation with new g/f
Q. hi all My ex is on holiday with his gf who is pregnent and last nite he rang me and he said are you missing me i repled kinda, but then i asked why he rang me and he said just seeing how you are then as we speak hes texting me. Does anyone think...
A. 13 June 2009: You shouldn't be telling a guy with a pregnant girlfriend that you 'kinda' miss him.
I'm guessing you still have feelings for him, otherwise you wouldn't be asking if he still has feelings for you.
Time to get over him and stop living in the pa... (read in full...)
Should I call her? Or just write a note?
Q. Well, I gave this girl I like two notes, she didn't respond to any of them, and then I started shouting "DEVIN I LOVE YOU!" in hallways, and she told a teacher 'cause kids were teasing her about it and she was really upset. I feel really bad about ...
A. 13 June 2009: This is bordering on harrassment. Don't ring her number, throw it away. You'll only end up involving her parents if you ring it because she's going to tell them. Either that, or teachers will ask your parents to come in to talk about what's ... (read in full...)
Was it rape or sex?
Q. okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to ...
A. 13 June 2009: If you DIDN'T make clear to him that you did not want to have sex (i.e didn't say "no", "I don't want to" etc...), then he DIDN'T rape you.
You can't just accuse people of rape just because you didn't want to have sex. If you didn't want to do it... (read in full...)
I like to smell my boxer the morning after I've jerked off
Q. when i pleasure myself in my bed at night i always let it come out into my boxxers, then fall asleep, it dry's over night. But in the morning i cant help but take them off and smell where the cum has dried and where my penis has been alnight, it ...
A. 13 June 2009: This is normal?! Do all men do this? I hope to hell not.
That is disgusting.
I hope you have the decency to wash them yourself and not make your mom do it.... (read in full...)
I had my period, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. sooo I came my period like a week before my birthday and my birthday is the 22nd of may. and I obviously have been having sex,but now the date is the 12th of june and still no period,could I be pregnant??? I have had all the syptoms :( but n...
A. 13 June 2009: You take one when your next period becomes late. You haven't told us whether that is the case or not so... If it's late already, take one now!... (read in full...)
Will the sperm die instantly when he dipped it in the water?
Q. i got a question from my friend here. my friend wit his girl was messing around. Using his left hand, he fingers his girl friend and he while masturbaiting on the right, using his right hand. then my friend came and putted his semen and sperm on his ...
A. 12 June 2009: Just use contraception... Why is that so difficult?... (read in full...)
13 and I think I'm pregnant! Help
Q. help me please im 13 and me and boyfriend have had sex lots of times but once we had sex without a condom and he pulled out before he came but i found out that that doesnt work and im really scared im pregnat... please help me... i dont know wat to ...
A. 12 June 2009: Get a pregnancy test and find out for sure first.... (read in full...)
I had my period, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. sooo I came my period like a week before my birthday and my birthday is the 22nd of may. and I obviously have been having sex,but now the date is the 12th of june and still no period,could I be pregnant??? I have had all the syptoms :( but n...
A. 12 June 2009: How long is your cycle normally and when is your next period due? I'm thinking it's been about 5 weeks since your last one.
If your period is late, take a pregnancy test.
If not, don't worry just yet.... (read in full...)
How does sex feel with a woman who was penetrated only once?
Q. how does penetration feel during sex with a woman who lost virginity only by fingering, penetrated only once, or who last had sex more 3 years ago?...
A. 12 June 2009: It feels exactly the same as it normally would. Why wouldn't it?... (read in full...)
I had my period, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. sooo I came my period like a week before my birthday and my birthday is the 22nd of may. and I obviously have been having sex,but now the date is the 12th of june and still no period,could I be pregnant??? I have had all the syptoms :( but n...
A. 12 June 2009: When is your next period due? Because it hasn't been 28 days yet...... (read in full...)
I'm so annoyed at people who play the victim!
Q. Ok so lately these past three days my "friend"(only calls when she has a problem or isn't stuck up her man's ass) been calling me crying or texting me saying "ohh my bf is so mean he makes me cry he calls me a bitch etc" but the dumb bitch always ...
A. 12 June 2009: I had a friend like this. In the end I had to cut all contact with her. She would come to me, cry about him and then go back to him and be fine without even confronting him about what he did wrong.
It drove me insane and eventually I ended up... (read in full...)
He's giving it another go with his wife. I've been left behind. What now?
Q. I wrote in before but did not give all the facts. Yes, I am married and so is he. Yes, we have been seeing each other for 3 years. He has told me many many times that he loves me and I him. He just told me last week that he told his wife he was ...
A. 11 June 2009: You sound mentally unstable. Honestly.
You're wasting your life. But whatever, it's your life.
Again, have fun waiting for the guy that is never to leave his wife. How sad that you'll settle to be nothing more than the other woman. I hope on... (read in full...)
Should I have sex at 13?
Q. i want to have sex with my boyfriend and he wants to as well but we r only 13 is it ok if we did?...
A. 11 June 2009: You are mature enough to have sex if you are willing to deal with all the consequences of sex.
-figuring out TWO methods of birth control and getting him to agree
-able to get hold of the morning after pill should one or both of your methods fail... (read in full...)
16 and pregnant, and I can't get the morning after pill!
Q. BIG BIG BIG problen im 16 and pregnant with my 19 year old cousins baby i know some people think its gross but get over it i cant take the morning after pill and i live in ireland so if i am going to have an abortion i have to travel know one knows ...
A. 11 June 2009: Well fisrtly, have you done a test? If so was it positive and how far pregnant do you think you might be?
Have you missed any birth control pills or thrown any up? The pill isn't 100% effective, it's only 98-99%, meaning for up to two people i... (read in full...)
Girls lose their virginity without having sex
Q. is it true that girls loss their virginity with out having sex? my girl friend with whom i studied high school have no virginity and told she never dated with anyone before me.and now we are living in different worlds and about to get married with ...
A. 11 June 2009: Virginity is not defined by whether or not you have a hymen. You can break a hymen doing exercises and using tampons. Some girls are born without a hymen at all. That doesn't mean they are not virgins.
The definition of virginity is that you have... (read in full...)
If I'm 11 weeks pregnant shouldn't I be noticing more symptoms?
Q. I'm worried that I'm pregnant. Iv have sex with my boyfriend about 5 times now. We'd been going out for 3 years so I felt we were ready. The last time I had my period it was completely messed up. I had 3 periods in 5 weeks? I know thats not ...
A. 10 June 2009: Sweetie, 11 weeks is long time not to find out. The first 12 weeks of the pregnancy are by far the most important. At this stage mother to be are advised to take folic acid supplements and other vitaminds to help baby grow a healthy spine and neural ... (read in full...)
I insulted my wife while drunk, she went to a hotel, how can I fix this?
Q. I got really drunk and when I home (I came home wasted 10 times in a row). My wife was in the kitchen and she started yelling at me for coming home drunk and not calling her. Then we had a fight about my drinking and pretty much everything that's ...
A. 10 June 2009: So stop drinking.
What is more important to you? Your wife or the drink that turns you into a nasty animal?... (read in full...)
He's giving it another go with his wife. I've been left behind. What now?
Q. I wrote in before but did not give all the facts. Yes, I am married and so is he. Yes, we have been seeing each other for 3 years. He has told me many many times that he loves me and I him. He just told me last week that he told his wife he was ...
A. 9 June 2009: Aren't you a little old to be so naiive?... (read in full...)
Purpose of the pill and is it wise to take it?
Q. Good day, just a quick one.... I would like to know What the purpose of the pill actually is. What is it made of? And is it really so wise to use? I tell you why, i know one of the main reasons are for birth control and so, but can it really help ...
A. 9 June 2009: The pill's main use is for birth control so of course people are going to address that. You did not mention whether you were having sex or not, so how can you expect us to know?
We were just addressing all aspects of the pill, like you seemed t... (read in full...)
Was on a "break" and slept with a guy and now I don't know who is the Daddy!
Q. im 14 and im 19 weeks pregnant everything is ok and everyone knows but the problem is that the baby might not be my boyfriends. he doesn't know that she might not be his and i feel awful he is getting all exited he can't wait. i had sex with this ...
A. 8 June 2009: It is unfair to your daughter and your boyfriend to lie about being certain who the father is. And it will come out eventually because this other guy wants to be part of your babies life, he isn't going to just go away.
There are also a few situ... (read in full...)
Purpose of the pill and is it wise to take it?
Q. Good day, just a quick one.... I would like to know What the purpose of the pill actually is. What is it made of? And is it really so wise to use? I tell you why, i know one of the main reasons are for birth control and so, but can it really help ...
A. 8 June 2009: The last poster gave a pretty good description of what it's meant for birth control wise.Just a few more things I would like to add. Not only is it used for birth control but for other menstrual related symptoms also. It is fantastic for ge... (read in full...)
Beast or lover?
Q. Hi, guys, i need your advice. I've recently been dating a guy and im not sure of his character. He victimised a previous ex girlfriend by hacking into her mobile phone and monitored her messages. He shared intimate details of her to his friends and ...
A. 8 June 2009: I'm sorry but you are very silly if you think you will be the one to change him.
He did all that to another woman, it's sick. He is a vile person.
If you continue this relationship then it will be you next.... (read in full...)
My mom said things years ago that still bother me -- could she be the one with issues?
Q. When I was 13 my mom and I got in an arguement and she told me I was so ugly. Her saying that had absolutely nothing to do with what we were arguing about. I actually can't even remember what we were arguing about, but I do remember her telling me ...
A. 8 June 2009: This poster only ever likes it when people say what she wants to hear. It's come accross that she has a lot of problems, but wants people to say "there there, it's everyone elses fault but yours" when actually some of them might actually be her own ... (read in full...)
When I drink, I hit him!
Q. hi i really need help with a problem ,,, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years ,im 20 hes 25, we have a 10 month old son,, things are usually great between us,,, until we drink ,, its not him really,, mainly when i drink vodka,, i hit ...
A. 7 June 2009: Get drink out of your lives. Both of you. There is NO excuse for violence and NO excuse for drink driving. Think of your son.
Alcohol is destructive force in both of your lives. And both of you have some issues to sort out.
And if he won't coop... (read in full...)
My mom said things years ago that still bother me -- could she be the one with issues?
Q. When I was 13 my mom and I got in an arguement and she told me I was so ugly. Her saying that had absolutely nothing to do with what we were arguing about. I actually can't even remember what we were arguing about, but I do remember her telling me ...
A. 7 June 2009: It's always much easier to remember the bad stuff that people say over the good stuff. The horrid stuff sticks in your head for a terribly long time.
I don't think what she says implies that she's jealous of you. Has she ever given you any othe... (read in full...)
My brother needs guidance but I'd rather spend time with my girlfriend, any ideas?
Q. My mom wants me to spend time with my brother (he's 12) because he uses our sisters (they'll 6 and 9) as punching bags. Hes like this since my dad died 4 years ago and needs an older male influence (im 16) to "guide" him. I rather spend time with my ...
A. 7 June 2009: I agree with what's been said already. Both Tasteofindia and Armymedic have it right.
The only thing I would like to add is that one day your 12 year old brother will be big enough to use YOU as a punch bag. Just something for you to think ab... (read in full...)
I keep cheating on him when I'm drunk, what should I do?
Q. I'm in a relationship with the best boyfriend ever. He would do anything for me and we love each other dearly. He's three years older than me, and works full time, whereas i am a student at university. Truthfully he's my first love, i have nev...
A. 7 June 2009: Poor guy.
I'm sorry but the answer is staring you in the face. If you're only doing it when you're drunk then don't drink. Some people become teetotal for a reason. You are one of those people who should be because what you're doing is a damn goo... (read in full...)
How do I cope with being pregnant at 13?
Q. hi i'm 13 years old and i took a home pregnancy test and it came back positive,i had sex for the first time when i was 11 and i really enjoyed it but i didn't think i was going to get pregnant, what should i do? i don't want to have an abortion or ...
A. 7 June 2009: Yeah, we're all very willing to help. I am a mummy to be myself and I believe that armywife is also. We're always here and willing to listen. You do sound like you care a lot and I second that it is fantastic that you want to bring your baby up ... (read in full...)
My wife has doubled in size, I've lost interest in sex..do I leave her to get her to get in shape?
Q. When I proposed to my wife she was 5' and a perfect size zero. She had lovely long hair and walked like a graceful lady. Exactly my type. Now after 15 yrs of marriage she's a size 14-16 w/ short hair and walks like a chimp. Doubling her weight ...
A. 7 June 2009: Troubledtoomuch has it spot on. No way is a 14/16 healthy for a person of only 5 foot. Especially not one who used to be a size zero. 14/16 is not curvy and womanly, it's obese and grossly unhealthy for a person of that height. It poses serious ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with being pregnant at 13?
Q. hi i'm 13 years old and i took a home pregnancy test and it came back positive,i had sex for the first time when i was 11 and i really enjoyed it but i didn't think i was going to get pregnant, what should i do? i don't want to have an abortion or ...
A. 7 June 2009: The first thing would be to tell someone. Have you told your parents yet? Have you been to a doctor? You need to start looking after yourself and this baby by getting all the medical help you both need first. Your medical needs begin from the v... (read in full...)
How can I hide birth control from my mom?
Q. MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide t...
A. 7 June 2009: Well yeah, in an ideal world that is what all parents would do, but reality check time, this world is not ideal.
Everyone has their flaws, even you, and the poster is just trying to make the best of a bad situation. How you can think that inflicti... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 7 June 2009: Miss d, you just said "ignore pebbles she is wrong that she needs to tell her bf"
and then you yourself said
"she needs to tell her bf"
How does that make any sense? If we both agree she needs to tell her boyfriend then how am I wrong? lol... (read in full...)
How can I hide birth control from my mom?
Q. MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide t...
A. 6 June 2009: You can't stop a mother from searching in her own house. I'm not saying it's right, it most certainly isn't but it's the mother's house. She can do what she wants there.
Some mothers are just like that. Mine is. The poster understands that her... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 6 June 2009: That's what I'm saying - she might well be pushing him away but if she's letting him give her lovebites and kissing him then it's not giving him the same signals is she?
He's not going to back off if she's doing that stuff because that's what he ... (read in full...)
How can I hide birth control from my mom?
Q. MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide t...
A. 5 June 2009: Hiya, when I was a few years younger I had like a 'safe' box, a metal, really secure lockable box that I kept my pills, my diary and tampons (they were frowned upon in my house too lol). I kept the key in the little zippy sanitary pocket in my ... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 5 June 2009: Well, it's her fault for not putting her foot down and showing this guy that she doesn't want him. She's leading him on, no one forced her to kiss him and no one forced her to let him give her a lovebite (classy by the way). If she doesn't want the ... (read in full...)
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