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... Send *ebble a private message | | | *ebble's profile:Hiya, I am a 19 year old mummy-to-be from Wales, UK. I'm in my second trimester and it's all going very smoothly so far.
My partner and I are super excited about the future and all the stuff we now have to look forward to.
I'm very interested in all things fashion and beauty. I am currently employed by a well-known clothing and accessories company and I love it there. However, after a great deal of research, when my baby is born I plan to start my own online cosmetics business so I can work from home. I want to be there for my baby at all times, while still contributing to the family finances.
I absolutely love to read. My house is filled with books, fiction, non fiction, magazines... everything! And when I don't have a book in my hand you can usually find me bargain hunting on Ebay. The site is fantastic and I recommend it to anyone searching for a bagain.
I live a quiet life and I love it this way. I am happy in my own little world with my own little family, including my fish Dave, Pete and Hayley.
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The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 29 April 2009: The only people who complain about it being the educational system's fault are the parents who couldn't be a*sed to teach the kids themselves and expected teachers to do the job for them.... (read in full...)
I have bruises from where he thumped me!
Q. A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...
A. 26 April 2009: I think it's time for you to go hun, you shouldn't be living a life like this.... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 25 April 2009: It's good to hear that there are still some young people out there that know they do not need to be having at 13, 14, 15 years old. It's far too much hassle at that age!! I mean, I got seriously stressed from just coursework alone, I can't imagine ... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 24 April 2009: If they don't know what a penis is for then they would not be on here asking if they could be pregnant at all would they? I too did not know what a blowjob was when I was 13, and that was only 7 years ago!! Times have changed VERY quickly.
They ... (read in full...)
I have bruises from where he thumped me!
Q. A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...
A. 23 April 2009: I would like to completely ignore the war going on here and ask the poster what decision she made and how things have worked out so far...?... (read in full...)
My ex has threatened to beat me up!
Q. I have a massive problem!! My ex-boyfriend Jack has threatened to beat me up just because I added his present girlfriend on Facebook. But I also know that he is cheating on this girl. This girl, let's call her Shelby, has told Jack that I've said ...
A. 23 April 2009: Delete them both and move on with your life. You and him are broken up, his relationship/girlfriend aren't really any of your business now. Make sure your facebook is set to friends only and don't talk to them again.
And if he does manage to threa... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to think I'm pregnant?
Q. Someone please help me is it stupid to think I'm pregnant? I was rubbing on my bf's penis with my vagina. It was stupid to do that cause I was jerking him off with my hand too this was 3 weeks ago. I know it was stupid so please don't lecture me. I ...
A. 23 April 2009: Have you been to a doctor to have it confirmed yet?... (read in full...)
Effectiveness on Implanon contraceptive?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles I'm on the implanon contraceptive (rod in my arm) when i went on to this type of birth control the doctor told me it was completely effective and the risk of getting pregnant was something like 0.05% however im getting worri...
A. 23 April 2009: You need to take a test :) All the symptoms you've described can be signs of pregnancy so take a test as soon as you can. Then you can work out what happens next. Take it step by step, and try not to worry until you have a positive pregnan... (read in full...)
Sad and depressed and can't cope with problems
Q. I just can't seem to deal with all these problems. My car broke down about 2 months ago. My life is so much more difficult now without a car. I'm very sure I got an STD and scared of not being able to get pregnant because of it. Just everything ...
A. 23 April 2009: And where did I tell her she was insane? 'Insane' was used by the poster. Something I find rather childish when talking about mental health problems. Having a mental health problem does not equal insanity, I get that, I've been there. And at NO ... (read in full...)
He smelled awful!!!
Q. Hi aunts, I really need some advice, I've been going out with a boy for a while and tonight for the first time we discovered a little more about each other and when he pulled down his boxers a horrible smell came, it was so ghastly that I wanted to ...
A. 22 April 2009: Gosh, I feel for you, I really do.
The only thing I could suggest would be steering him towards the shower next time you get a bit intimate. Say it's a fantasy or something. But that might be a bit forward if you haven't been going out long... ... (read in full...)
Sad and depressed and can't cope with problems
Q. I just can't seem to deal with all these problems. My car broke down about 2 months ago. My life is so much more difficult now without a car. I'm very sure I got an STD and scared of not being able to get pregnant because of it. Just everything ...
A. 22 April 2009: I'm sure you saw some horrible things in there, I don't doubt it, and I feel for you, but I will stand by my point that if you want things to get better, you have to make the changes yourself. I'm sorry that I did not tell you what you wanted to ... (read in full...)
Sad and depressed and can't cope with problems
Q. I just can't seem to deal with all these problems. My car broke down about 2 months ago. My life is so much more difficult now without a car. I'm very sure I got an STD and scared of not being able to get pregnant because of it. Just everything ...
A. 22 April 2009: God does not hate you. You make your own future. If you want to get better then YOU have to make that change. YOU KNOW that not taking your medication will make things worse. You say you don't like your life yet you are scared of things changing.... (read in full...)
I have to see my g/f secretly as her controlling mum dislikes me, any help?
Q. My girlfriend is 22 and i am 23 and she is totally dominated by her mum, she has her own car and she has her own job but her mum controls her like mad. my Gf cannot go out without her mum's permission and it seems the only time her mum will allow ...
A. 22 April 2009: The change here needs to come from your girlfriend. If she has a job then she must have her own money and at 22 is more than within her rights to move out and get her own place. Her mother is being unreasonable but it's your girlfriend that ... (read in full...)
How could my best friend's dad stoop so low as to offend his own daughter?
Q. My best friend had her "wedding" this weekend, well, it was a wedding but she couldn't go through with it. It wasn't because of her groom - he's an absolutely lovely guy. It wasn't because of worries about the wedding - she was so happy to get marr...
A. 22 April 2009: This isn't real. We've had posts about someone's Dad or someone's husband turning up to weddings/parties/nights out in various ridiculous attire lots of times before. If you're going to hoax post then at least make it believable. And then get a ... (read in full...)
My teacher has a crush on me!
Q. What should I do?! My Maths teacher has a crush on me since about 2 years ago. And it is bothering me. I can't concentrate in class , while she stares at me occasionally. She even thinks i like her as well! But I don't! She's annoying me sooo...
A. 21 April 2009: What has she done to make you think she has a crush on you?... (read in full...)
My husband found out he was molested
Q. i need help. My husband found out he had been molested as a child, but he doesn't know who or even when. He says he knows it happened. He has not wanted to have sex with me at all. He used to ask for it every day and he used to get off to porn when ...
A. 21 April 2009: Who told him that he was molested?... (read in full...)
I'm not on birth control. Can I get pregnant?
Q. I'm not on birth control but when I have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't ejaculate inside my vagina. He normally ejaculates on my stomach but last weekend he was a bit slow pulling out and some of his sperm went in me. It was mostly outside but ...
A. 21 April 2009: Why can't you get birth control? Why is it impossible to go to the doctors and ask to be put on the pill? Or pop to a family planning clinic where condoms are usually free? I don't get it.
And surely, the mature, sensible thing to do if you inde... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to think I'm pregnant?
Q. Someone please help me is it stupid to think I'm pregnant? I was rubbing on my bf's penis with my vagina. It was stupid to do that cause I was jerking him off with my hand too this was 3 weeks ago. I know it was stupid so please don't lecture me. I ...
A. 21 April 2009: Sadly, it's uncommon for the tests to be wrong, so if it said positive then it is probably positive. It's time to get yourself down to the doctor to confirm it.
And if you're not pregnant, get on some birth control!!... (read in full...)
I "need" a second lover!
Q. Hi! I've got a family and I like sex very much. I don't know how to do. I would really like a second love. My wife is really fat and things are so difficuclt that I can't enjoy having sex with her any more. I don't want to dump her because we've ...
A. 20 April 2009: So you're asking us to help you find someone to cheat on your wife with? Really?
Or are you asking us if one of us is willing to be this "second lover" that you apparently 'need' to cheat on your wife with? lol ;) Again, really?
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Loving a cheater
Q. Dear Cupid im pregnant and love my boyfriend very much but the thing is he is cheating on me, when i ask him about it he always want to put the blame on other people, for instance he would blame me accusing me of listening to my brother's girlfr...
A. 20 April 2009: You can either move on from him and make you and your baby a better life OR you can stay with him and spend the of your life wondering where he is, who he is with and if he's having sex with her right now...
In my experience cheaters don't ch... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 20 April 2009: I think the poster is a little out of her depth now... lol.... (read in full...)
What is a "rainbow kiss?"
Q. I'm 13 my boyfriend is 16. We are both non virgins from other relationships. We have had sex and done everything. Finger, BJ, 69, toss off, lick out ect. We were keen to move onto a rainbow kiss he said, I don't know what a rainbow kiss is.. What is ...
A. 20 April 2009: Did he actually know what a rainbow kiss was anyway or did he think it was something else?... (read in full...)
I have bruises from where he thumped me!
Q. A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...
A. 20 April 2009: pvtguy - your wife is one lucky lucky lady.
Poster, your partner overreacted to the extreme. You did not deserve to be hit, you said sorry, and sure he should be allowed to be a bit mad at you but to beat you is beyond unacceptable.
Please ... (read in full...)
Is his "number" too high?
Q. My boyfriend recently told me that he has been with 7 girls and he lost his virginity at 17. He is 23 and I am almost 20 and have only been with 2 people in my life. I know he is telling the truth because I overheard him telling his guy frie...
A. 20 April 2009: I don't think I could even find 40+ people that I liked enough to sleep with lol.
But, seriously, I don't think it's THAT bad, it's not great but I don't think you should stress over it. No one likes no know their partner slept with a lot of peopl... (read in full...)
Taking my own innocence
Q. I have been toying with the idea recently that I may take my own virginity. I hate the fact that someone could give themselves rights to "taking away my innocence" so I thought to do away with it myself. I am completely ready, I have been in situ...
A. 20 April 2009: You'll still be a virgin even if you do break your hymen. You lose your virginity when a penis goes in (if you are straight) so broken hymen or not you'll still be 'innocent'.... (read in full...)
I want him to not use b/c but he won't
Q. I really want my new boyfriend to cum in me. I'm not back on birth control, but the way i feel is if we have a baby, then htat's God's plan. If we don't that's even better! I just don't know how to get him to loosen up since he already has a kid and ...
A. 20 April 2009: God's plan? How immature is that?! If you do not use birth control, you WILL become pregnant, God has no hand in it. It will be your fault, no one elses. That just like saying "I'm not going to wear a seatbelt because if we have a crash and die th... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 19 April 2009: Sex equals pregnancy. If it's normal for a 14 year old to have sex these days, is it normal and ok for a 14 year old to be a mother? Do you say it's ok for a penniless, 14 year old single mother with no job or qualifications to bring up a child... (read in full...)
How do I prove that I love him?
Q. Okay Now me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and i told him i love him but he wants me to prove it to him how do i do that??? i mean i do love him cuz i broke up with my Exboyfriend and went out with him but HOW do i prove that i love ...
A. 18 April 2009: I would kick my boyfriend's ass if he asked me to 'prove' that I loved him. Relationships aren't about proving your love - they're about giving and recieving love and feeling cherished. Though I'm sure my idea of feeling cherished and your boyfrie... (read in full...)
He's not holding up his end financially and its really stressing me out!
Q. My finace and I are living together in my house, he has rented his out. He earns far more than me and yet only pays for food and the odd utility bill, I am seriously overdrawn, and when i try to talk about the subject he gets angry, he has promised ...
A. 18 April 2009: I agree with Emily. If he still doesn't start paying his way after you confront him again, tell him you're not going to marry him - and mean it. You cannot get married to this man in your current situation. He won't change unless you make him. He's ... (read in full...)
How can I get the motivation I require to lose weight and gain some confidence in my body?
Q. Hi. This isn't a love problem well not exactly. It's just I have no motivation! I have a baby of 9 months. After I gave birth I was actually slimmer than what I had been for a couple of years! But then I started piling on the pounds again, I want to ...
A. 18 April 2009: I'll share a tip with you that I felt helped me get back into shape after I put on a bit of weight. I went through all the magazines I had in my house, cut out lots of pictures of celebrities and other random people that looked fantastic and I ... (read in full...)
How can I find out who the father of my child is?
Q. Please help me... i had sex with one guy round dec 11 or 12 we only had sex once n it was unprotected.. but ive been having sex with this other guy for a while n its always unprotected.my last cycle was dec 26 and now im 16wks pregnant who could be...
A. 18 April 2009: You can't be entirely sure who the daddy is I'm afraid... I really don't envy your position. The only thing you can do is wait until the baby is born, and then have a DNA test done. I think you should tell both potential fathers that they're i... (read in full...)
What is a "rainbow kiss?"
Q. I'm 13 my boyfriend is 16. We are both non virgins from other relationships. We have had sex and done everything. Finger, BJ, 69, toss off, lick out ect. We were keen to move onto a rainbow kiss he said, I don't know what a rainbow kiss is.. What is ...
A. 18 April 2009: Oh wow, what a case of too much, too young. I hadn't even heard of a rainbow kiss until I saw this page. And oh my, it is disgusting. But hey little girl, I don't think anyone here is going to be able to convince you not to do it, are they? Clearl... (read in full...)
Sex! Where can we go and not get caught?
Q. I want to have (protected)sex with my bf tomorrow. But we can't go to my or his house. Any suggestions to where we should go and not get caught? And if we do get caught by the police and since I am 18 and he is 19 will we get in troubl...
A. 18 April 2009: Couldn't you two rent a hotel room for the night?
If you get caught by the police doing it in public then you will be arrested for inecent exposure, probably given a hefty fine, and your parents will be called to pick you up as your under 21... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?
Q. Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prov...
A. 17 April 2009: Maybe she's just trying to get her 'best friend' to dump you because your a bit of an a** who got with her best mate after dating her. Even though you apparently still love your ex.
Do you enjoy destroying friendships?
If she's got any se... (read in full...)
Teacher has hots for me? or not?
Q. MOD NOTE: I don't believe the poster is the age stated... can someone plz tell me if this person has the hots for me or not. well there is this teacher, and my frineds and i think that she has the hots for me. u see everymorning we see each other in...
A. 16 April 2009: Are you sure you're seeing these things? Are you positive that your friends are not just taking a joke to far?
And how on earth do you know that your teacher is bisexual?... (read in full...)
What would you do in this case?
Q. Hello, What would you if your boyfriend cheated on you with his ex? The ex confronts you and tells things you never knew (not even that your boyfriend was seeing her behind your back), and all this time you his was over with his ex? What would...
A. 16 April 2009: A rational woman would walk away and realise that too much damage has been done for this relationship to salvaged.... (read in full...)
Weird situation-help!
Q. about 2 weeks ago my boyfriend hit me several times during an argument, although I decided to forgive him this time, he's been acting really paranoid that I will report him- then the other day, I noticed a group of young men following me across town...
A. 16 April 2009: What kind of advice are you looking for? You forgave a man that beat you. You've put yourself in a dangerous situation... Only you can get yourself out of it.
Men who hit women are usually clever, charmer, manipulative liars. They don't change. ... (read in full...)
What is an acceptable age to conceive a child??
Q. im just wondering on everyone's opinion, looking at this site you see a lot of young girls with pregnancy problems but what in your own opinion is an acceptable age to conceive a child?? i am 19 and me and my boyfriend want to start a family (...
A. 16 April 2009: "Or to put it another way, you are ready to start a family with this guy, when you are ready to be single mother." Wow, that's a bit harsh. Nobody wants to be a single mother, granted, but why do you assume that is automatically going to happen?... (read in full...)
He is recieving texts from "boobs"...do you think he is hiding something?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now, and are very much in love. So much so that a lot of drama went down before we could be together, we had secretly been in love with each other for 6 months until he told me, he dumped his ...
A. 16 April 2009: Well at some point you're going to have to question him about it - otherwise it's going to drive you mad! I think it's clear that there's something going on here. A £300 birthday present after 2 months screams 'guilty conscience' to me. You said ... (read in full...)
Trusting my girlfriend's mates
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for about a month now. We had been close before, but it was never 'official'. I love her alot, I put her infront of myself every time I can. The only problem is, im finding it hard to trust her. Its not so much her I don'...
A. 16 April 2009: "I suppose its partly my fault as well." What exactly has she done wrong here? Has she ever given you a reason not to trust her? If not then it isn't her fault at all. She can't help that she has friends that are boys. Have you got friends t... (read in full...)
Do girls like to suck "it"?
Q. Do all girls like to suck "IT" ? you know..(the man's thing)...and wut position do they like? cuz am trying to make my GF happy......
A. 16 April 2009: You mean a penis? Penis ;) Some girls adore it, others are completely disgusted by it. It may be a good idea to have a conversation together just to see what your and your girlfriends boundaries are. You can also bring up the position thing a... (read in full...)
What is an acceptable age to conceive a child??
Q. im just wondering on everyone's opinion, looking at this site you see a lot of young girls with pregnancy problems but what in your own opinion is an acceptable age to conceive a child?? i am 19 and me and my boyfriend want to start a family (...
A. 16 April 2009: I'm 19 and I've just found out that I am pregnant. I will be 20 when the baby is born but like you, I have been worried about the acceptable age part. I look a lot younger than I am, maybe 16 or 17 so I am definately worried about what people in the ... (read in full...)
I think love means sacrifice am I right?
Q. I have a question! Do you think that if a man loves a woman (and wants to be with that woman) that he should do whatever he needs to do to be with her Even if he has a lot like three business and lots of properties! i mean you only have one lif...
A. 16 April 2009: "he would do anything for me! its just he hasn't done that yet!" There are so many things wrong with thoses sentences. He might tell you he'll do anything for you but he hasn't has he? He hasn't left his wife, he hasn't made you the most importa... (read in full...)
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