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... Send *ebble a private message | | | *ebble's profile:Hiya, I am a 19 year old mummy-to-be from Wales, UK. I'm in my second trimester and it's all going very smoothly so far.
My partner and I are super excited about the future and all the stuff we now have to look forward to.
I'm very interested in all things fashion and beauty. I am currently employed by a well-known clothing and accessories company and I love it there. However, after a great deal of research, when my baby is born I plan to start my own online cosmetics business so I can work from home. I want to be there for my baby at all times, while still contributing to the family finances.
I absolutely love to read. My house is filled with books, fiction, non fiction, magazines... everything! And when I don't have a book in my hand you can usually find me bargain hunting on Ebay. The site is fantastic and I recommend it to anyone searching for a bagain.
I live a quiet life and I love it this way. I am happy in my own little world with my own little family, including my fish Dave, Pete and Hayley.
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How can I hide birth control from my mom?
Q. MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide t...
A. 7 June 2009: Well yeah, in an ideal world that is what all parents would do, but reality check time, this world is not ideal.
Everyone has their flaws, even you, and the poster is just trying to make the best of a bad situation. How you can think that inflicti... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 7 June 2009: Miss d, you just said "ignore pebbles she is wrong that she needs to tell her bf"
and then you yourself said
"she needs to tell her bf"
How does that make any sense? If we both agree she needs to tell her boyfriend then how am I wrong? lol... (read in full...)
How can I hide birth control from my mom?
Q. MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide t...
A. 6 June 2009: You can't stop a mother from searching in her own house. I'm not saying it's right, it most certainly isn't but it's the mother's house. She can do what she wants there.
Some mothers are just like that. Mine is. The poster understands that her... (read in full...)
Should I tell a one night stand I'm pregnant with him?
Q. We had sex a couple of weeks ago.. I wasn't really supposed to happen, but we were both drunk and I went to his home and that's pretty much how it happened. It didn't really mean that much to me, until I found out I'm pregnant.. I am on the pill, ...
A. 6 June 2009: Yes you should tell him.
But be prepared he might question whether it's his, if you were actually on the pill and will probably have a lot of questions for you.
He might be extremely supportive, but then again he might not. At least give him t... (read in full...)
Is it possible that I could be pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex with my bf and he ejaculated 3 times inside me! Now ive started to feel light headed and tied. Could i be pregnant?...
A. 6 June 2009: Well obviously your age must be wrong...
But of course you could be pregnant!
You had unprotected sex - that's how babies are made. There really isn't much more to say.
Get to a doctor for a pregnancy test and while you're there ask them to... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 6 June 2009: That's what I'm saying - she might well be pushing him away but if she's letting him give her lovebites and kissing him then it's not giving him the same signals is she?
He's not going to back off if she's doing that stuff because that's what he ... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend forgive my cheating?
Q. i ve cheated on my boyfriend and asked for forgivenness but he hardens up whereas he has cheated too although not caught redhanded but he still makes life difficult for me....
A. 6 June 2009: He makes life difficult for you? Wow, what a totally selfish thing to say. Maybe you should have thought about how he would react before you cheated on him. He has every right to be angry at you, you should be grovelling, not complaining how ... (read in full...)
Help me name my baby!
Q. Alright, I am New so Hi! everybody! well, uh my question is I'm pregnant so I was thinkin of names ok, for a girl, I like Valentine, or Kairee (Kyree) for a boy I like Rohan (Row Hawn) what do you think? You can put suggestions too!...
A. 6 June 2009: My name is Leanna. I have that problem where people don't seem to read it properly and call me Leanne. It gets really annoying because people just cannot be bothered to read it properly. A lot of the people actually carry on calling me Leanne even ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend notice that I slept with someone else?
Q. I have a problem that needs some answers. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend and we don't have sex all the time because we don't live together. But when we are together we do. But I had sex with someone else and it was really good. I know when ...
A. 5 June 2009: If you feel this way then why the hell are you together?
Wouldn't it be much easier if you were single? Then you could sleep with whoever the hell you want...
You don't seem to have a very high opinion of him so I don't get why you're still... (read in full...)
Haven't been taking the pill properly...am I pregnant?
Q. im 17 and on the bc pill but i tend to miss it, but this month i seemed to miss 5 tablets, first i missed the 6th or 7th non sugar tablet on the thursday or friday had sex on sunday night, i missed 1 tablet again the next day (monday) then missed it ...
A. 5 June 2009: If you're not going to take your pill properly then you need a better form of birth control such as the injection or the IUD coil. Because eventually you're going to end up pregnant.
And really, if you know you've missed a pill then you need to ... (read in full...)
How can I hide birth control from my mom?
Q. MOD NOTE: poster age stated as 26, believe that is incorrect based on the info in this post. Okay here's a classic: How can I hide birth control from my mom? I know, I know. Half of you will read this and be like "Honey, you shouldn't hide t...
A. 5 June 2009: Hiya, when I was a few years younger I had like a 'safe' box, a metal, really secure lockable box that I kept my pills, my diary and tampons (they were frowned upon in my house too lol). I kept the key in the little zippy sanitary pocket in my ... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 5 June 2009: Well, it's her fault for not putting her foot down and showing this guy that she doesn't want him. She's leading him on, no one forced her to kiss him and no one forced her to let him give her a lovebite (classy by the way). If she doesn't want the ... (read in full...)
What I found in his wallet floored me!!!!!
Q. this one is a toughy! So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half! just last week I took out everything in his wallet while he was at work (it got all wet the previous day so I wanted to dry it all out) and found a............. sex ...
A. 5 June 2009: This is rubbish. It doesn't make any sense at all.
He knows the details yet, the boyfriend hasn't told him?
A sex offenders registration card? Really?
He didn't do it yet keeps it in his wallet like some kind of badge of honor?
Fake p... (read in full...)
How can I have sex with her without her knowing?
Q. hi am a boy,i want to do sex with my friends sister.She has a boyfriend but she likes me also.She always gives me hugs and kisses but never gives me permision to do sex.She says "DO whatever you want while am sleeping but i should not get any ...
A. 5 June 2009: So you want to drug her and have sex with her while she's out?
You have some serious issues if you think this is ok. We're NOT going to advise you on how to RAPE a woman.
Are you sure 22-25 is the correct age for you because you sound more l... (read in full...)
7 month anniversary..sexy pictures?
Q. okkay so me and my long distace boyfriend have been together for 6 months our 7 month annevirserry is coming up soon and i dont know what to do for him! i cant send him any thing in the mail because i dont know i send him something and get it back. ...
A. 4 June 2009: Yeah, the fact that he's given you an address that is wrong and he doesn't actually live at should be a gigantic, flashing red flag for you.... (read in full...)
Have had two abortions and I used to smoke weed, can I still get pregnant?
Q. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 30. I have had two abortins in my life I use to smoke weed but I have stop now. My boyfiend still smokes weed we have been trying to have a baby for about 8 months now. It is getting realy stressful he wants to go an...
A. 4 June 2009: Weed reduces the number of healthy sperm a male produces DRAMATICALLY. Just google weed + male fertility. It's a well known fact.
He needs to stop weed for good. No question about it and if he won't then DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT HAVING A BABY WIT... (read in full...)
Could be pregnant but can't afford a test
Q. I had sex with this boy two weeks ago and the condom was to big so the week after i had sex with a differant boy without protection he said he would stop before he came (i dont no wether he did) and this week i have had unprotected sex with a ...
A. 3 June 2009: You NEED to go to a doctor. They will test you and tell you if you are pregnant. You can't just ignore it, it won't go away. You won't be able to hide it for very long if you are pregnant.
We can all say lots of stuff on here but the only way... (read in full...)
Comments or opinions on planned teen pregnancy
Q. My bf and I have been together for about 11 months. He is 17, and I'm 16. Ever since my cousin got pregnant at 18 I've wanted to be a young mum. This came up in conversation with my bf and he has said he wants to be a young dad as well, which I ...
A. 3 June 2009: This is an interesting question, let me tell you a little bit about my situation.
I'm 19 and 12 weeks pregnant. My baby wasn't planned, I was on the pill but my partner (he's 23) and I are still over the moon about it. And I mean absolute... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 3 June 2009: Britt is right. Things have a habit of coming back to haunt you in the future. Send him sexy pictures if you want but we're not going to advise you on poses here. Be aware he might brag and show them to his friends or put them on the Internet, th... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 2 June 2009: Sweetheart, you just said yourself that you're up for anything. You're asking us how you can "shag" him or get him to break up with his girlfriend.
"but i am fair game for anything.
is there not anything i can do to get them to split up quicker... (read in full...)
Fiance doesn't want to hang out because we always have sex
Q. My fiance doesn't want to hang out because we alwyas have sex and he doesnt want to risk it so he refuses to hang out with me. why are men so confusing...
A. 2 June 2009: I don't understand the question either. What is that he doesn't want to risk? Having sex? Getting pregnant?
If he's your fiance then you're planning on spending the rest of your life with him - he can't just stop hanging around with you. Ask him ... (read in full...)
Could be pregnant but can't afford a test
Q. I had sex with this boy two weeks ago and the condom was to big so the week after i had sex with a differant boy without protection he said he would stop before he came (i dont no wether he did) and this week i have had unprotected sex with a ...
A. 2 June 2009: Nobody has left hurtful comments. You only don't like because it's not what you want to hear.
You should have thought of the consequences before you made such a silly mistake. You may have created A HUMAN LIFE. Do you not understand how serious ... (read in full...)
Is she pregnant? What is the Women's Health Card?
Q. Rumors are going around now that my girl friend is pregnant. She has been throwing up in the morning sometimes and has been telling her close friends that she is three months pregnant. So I know it is not mine, if she truely is pregnant. Her stomach ...
A. 2 June 2009: Well she can't exactly hide it for long... If she's pregnant then it will come out eventually.... (read in full...)
I have what seems like white skin all around the vaginal opening, is it because I've used soap and shaving gel to clean my inside? Sex is uncomfortable and I'm panicking!
Q. This is going to be long so ill apologize in advance! Im really embaressed about this, and im sorry but im going to have to tell you everything to get the answer as im going on holiday tomoro and im panicking! Ive been with my boyfriend for...
A. 2 June 2009: You can catch genital warts from oral sex too, so you need to look into that. As it sounds similar to some of the symptoms. Also, it's very very not good to use soaps around the vaginal area. If you've been doing it for a while then I'm really ... (read in full...)
Sex with my ex... could I be pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex with my ex on saturday night, i have been taking the pill but went away and forgot to take it on thursday or friday and saturday morning. I took it again when i got home sunday morning. I woke up this morning and had my perio...
A. 2 June 2009: The anonymous person below doesn't seem to know much about the pill. The withrawal bleed will happen whether or not you are pregnant because it' a withdrawal from the hormones from the pill. NOT a normal period. A normal period would probably mean ... (read in full...)
Worried about color, shape of "down there"
Q. hi, im 17 and this is quite embarrasing but im worried about down there, it seems to be quite big and the lips hang quite low,and im ideal weight, so its not fat or anything but im really embarrassed by it and i have a boyfriend and wont let him go ...
A. 2 June 2009: I promise you guys don't even think about the shape of them. They're just thankful to be allowed in that area in the first place. When he's down there the only thing he's going to be worried about is how much pleasure he's giving you, not what ... (read in full...)
Can I lose my virginity without really having sex?
Q. Okay im 19 years old and up until yesterday I was sure I was a virgin. Me and my boyfriend were in bed together and things got a bit too heated as he layed on top of me. I know for a fact he didnt go inside of me but I felt some pressure coming from ...
A. 2 June 2009: The hymen doesn't have anything to do with virginity anymore. In the dark ages it did, now we know better. You (and I'm not talking you specifically, just the world in general lol) don't stop being a virgin just because you broke your hymen with a ... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 2 June 2009: Well carry on acting this way and it won't be long before you do.
:D... (read in full...)
Sex with my ex... could I be pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex with my ex on saturday night, i have been taking the pill but went away and forgot to take it on thursday or friday and saturday morning. I took it again when i got home sunday morning. I woke up this morning and had my perio...
A. 2 June 2009: You bled because you stopped taking your pill. It wasn't a real period. It was a withdrawal bleed that you're supposed to have every three weeks when you stop. Because you missed pills there is a possibility that you could be pregnant. Just b... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 2 June 2009: Well it's no wonder you have the reputation you do then is it? ... (read in full...)
He's 30ish, I'm 14, is it illegal for the two of us to date?
Q. Well i like a guy who is about thirty years old but im only 14. would it be illegal for u s to date?...
A. 1 June 2009: Answer me a question sweetheart... Do you think it's ok for a grown adult to date a child? Do you think paedophilia is ok? Because that's what this is. What normal man wants to go out with a 14 year old?
If you cannot see that this is wrong th... (read in full...)
If it hadn't been for the alcohol, it never would have happened!
Q. I am completely and utterly in love with my boyfriend of 1 and a half years who is also my best friend. Three nights ago however, I got very, very drunk on a night out with a friend, so drunk that I can't remember the majority (apart from little f...
A. 1 June 2009: It's reasons like this why people become teetotal.
Why do you need to drink so much that you can't remember what happened? Is this going to happen the next time you get drunk? And the time after that?
If this is what you do when you are dru... (read in full...)
If I fail my next exam mom says I have to finish with my boyfriend!
Q. I dont know what to do. At school I have alwaiis been good at maths and now am failing it as i failed my first exam. I have another one coming up in a weeks time and my mum said that if I do not pass it I have to break up with my boyfriend cause ...
A. 31 May 2009: Maths is just as important as science and English. Those are the three main ones that employers/colleges find essential. If you're finding it difficult then talk to someone, your maths teacher should only too willing to help you with whatever you ... (read in full...)
If I fail my next exam mom says I have to finish with my boyfriend!
Q. I dont know what to do. At school I have alwaiis been good at maths and now am failing it as i failed my first exam. I have another one coming up in a weeks time and my mum said that if I do not pass it I have to break up with my boyfriend cause ...
A. 31 May 2009: So revise hard and pass your exam!
I'm guessing by your age you're doing GCSEs. Maths is an important one, and if you're planning to go to college or sixth form then they'll need a pass at C or above. Most higher education courses ask for maths GS... (read in full...)
Does this mean that I am pregnant?
Q. what are the early signs of pregnancy? i felt very sick and run down a few hours after i had sex and went to be sick a few times but nothing came up. i also had stomach cramps a day later. does this mean that i am pregnant?...
A. 31 May 2009: You don't get pregnancy symptoms a few hours after having sex. Symptoms usually around 1-2 months.
That doesn't mean you're not pregnant though. You need to see if you miss a period. If you do then you need to go to a doctor for a pregnanc... (read in full...)
I was treated unfairly by the police!
Q. Hey this isnt a relationship question sorry. Right i went to a huge birthday party on the eighth of may and there was sixty odd people there, most of them either 16 or 17 and one 18 year old. (my mum bought my alcohol as im not eighteen for a...
A. 31 May 2009: Seriously, just accept that you did something wrong. If you don't want to be treated this way then don't break the law in the first place. The police were making an example out of you in front of your friends, trying to teach them that eventually ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how long it might be before I can expect a period again?
Q. Hey everyone Not sure if anyone can help but... I've been taking the pill (microgynon) continually for about 8 weeks - you're meant to have breaks but the whole reason I went on the pill was to not have any periods whilst I was doing my fi...
A. 31 May 2009: You should get your withdrawal bleed a few days after you stop taking it, just like you normally would. It shouldn't matter how many periods you have skipped, when you stop taking it you should have your bleed. If it's been a while and it's n... (read in full...)
Why don't underage kids respect the boundaries that are put in place to protect them?
Q. just something thats bothering me. There are so many girls from the age of 10 - 16 having under age sex and not knowing a single thing about it then going oops could i be pregnant. its really depressing because when i was little i was content as a ...
A. 30 May 2009: You raise some good points. I find it extremely annoying to think that my hard earned tax money is being paid toward some 14 year old girl's child benefit (whose paraents are stil getting child benefit for her!). I've been called a hypocrite seve... (read in full...)
I am worried I have some kind of ovary problem!
Q. I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 3-4 months now, we never use protection. I was 1-2 weeks later starting my period, so I took the test which came back undecisive. This morning I came on, but the blood flow is just water, I woke up to the ...
A. 30 May 2009: It does sound more like an infection than anything else but the only way to be sure is get yourself to a doctor who'll give you all the tests you need.
Then you and your boyfriend need to have a serious talk about contraception because you're b... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 30 May 2009: It's very sad if that's what you think flirting is.... (read in full...)
Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?
Q. hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the qui...
A. 30 May 2009: Is this what you call romance?
"(23:22) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: i wud shag u if u war that"
Maybe you guys should learn some class before you go anywhere near him.
A boy that tells you you're up for anything has no respect for you. Are you proud o... (read in full...)
Could my sister be pregnant even though she's on the pill?
Q. My sister is on birth control she has been taking her pills faithfully and she had unprotected sex her period should have started already but it didnt she just spotted could she be pregnant even thought she is on birth control...
A. 29 May 2009: I'm 11 weeks pregnant and I was on the pill. I also took it faithfully, same time, never missed any, never threw any up. But here, I am.
Thankfully, I am ecstatically happy about it but your sister may not be so she needs to do a pregnanc... (read in full...)
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