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writes:I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of questions. It's so bad that I sometimes cry because of the mean things people say. What should I do?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (22 November 2009):
 No big surprise there, she is a bully and a coward.. So it's not HER making stuff up now it's her BF.. I still say - stay away from her.
Good for you that you stood up for yourself and faced of with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI talked to the girl and told her that i was straight. She was really embarrassed and said that she never said anything like that. Her bf was just spreading rumors.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 At your age there is LOADS of bullying, just ignore it, I know it's easier said than done, but it's very true. There was a guy in my year and he picked on me and two other girls in my year lesbians, and now he's a drag queen and has bummed every working class guy in the city.
good luck
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 Sheesh! With all the stuff in the media about bullying these days you'd think these clowns would try to get a grip on themselves.
So you've ateempted to be friendly and been met with nastiness. That's her problem, not yours. If you get a chance to be alone with her somewhere, just quickly mention the word "dafamation" and tell her to look it up in a dictionary - she may learn something. And maybe point out that decent people don't spread spiteful lies about other people to get attention. Keep your chin up and take no notice of this dimwit. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx so much!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (20 November 2009):
Wow, that is jsut sad.
You are being bullies. Lesbian or not who cares? The girl obviously have some homophobic issues or she has a crush on you. Either way I would not only ignore her, I would stay the heck away from her, she is toxic.
Join a club at school if you can and get to know people worth your while. People who want to be your friend not just bully you.
I might also suggest that you talk to a teacher or guidance counselor about this. Bullying should not be allowed.
You have done nothing wrong so don't cry. Dry your eyes and remember this... Bullies bully because they lack so many thing themselves. They lack a personality worth a darn for starters, they lack REAL friends, cause really who wants to befriend a bully? Some even come from really abusive homes, they learn that behavior some place, usually this is from the home.
Chin up hun. Avoid that girl like the plague. Let her say whatever she wants to, sticks and stones hun.
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