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Is this normal behavior for a LDR!?
Q. so i have been with my man for 2yrs and the first yr was great see each other everday talk everyday all that good stuff 2nd yr he moved a hr away so we became long distance relationship the first 8 months was good talked when he was @ school break ...
A. 4 November 2010: It's always hard when someone says one thin yet does the other. Tell him it's bothering you that he doesn't make that effort anymore. If he ist going to act like your his girlfriend then there is really no point in going out with him.
Just tell... (read in full...)
Facebook: What does it really mean?
Q. Nothing! Several situations can be mistaken to mean something more, when they truly don't carry much significance. For example: The friend you've been crushing on for the last six months accepts your third attempt at a friend request, and...
A. 4 November 2010: It will be interesting to see how sting the backlash against Facebook will be. Especially as people spend so much time on it and it's come on so strongly.... (read in full...)
I've realised I have messed up but now she has lost all her feelings for me! What can I do to bring them back?
Q. Hie guys, i am a guy aged 31 married for 3 and half years to a 25 year old lady. We have a two year old kid together. The problem is during this whole period my wife used to complain that i dont show her love and i dont talk to her. This was for ...
A. 3 November 2010: Sorry but I don't think you have a chance. Your obviously not the person she could have fallen in love with, and you you have treated her really badly and coldly. Once the feeling has gone it's gone.... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?
Q. This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...
A. 3 November 2010: No. Unless they lied, but that's the principle not because they were a virgin.... (read in full...)
Boys get erections, so what happens to girls?
Q. i know boys get erections but what do girls get? ...
A. 3 November 2010: They get "wet" ... (read in full...)
Will this get in the way when I have sex?
Q. Hello. when i am on an errection and go to pull back the forskin, i can only pull it back a little bit, only enough to see the top of the penis, i am nervoius that this will get in the way when i have sex?...
A. 3 November 2010: Isn't that what's supposed to happen?
Unless you mean you can't pull it back properly in which CSS étouffée should go to a doctor or if you mean that your foreskin is too long for your penis then I'm sure your fine but you should probably go to a do... (read in full...)
Am I destined to be alone because I don't want children?
Q. I am a 25 year old female and I do not have children. I dont want children- never have and never will and this is something that I will not compromise on as its not fair to bring a child into this world that is not wanted. Anyways, that ...
A. 3 November 2010: There was a guy on here about a month ago who posted this exact same question so there are people out there who don't want kids!... (read in full...)
How can I speak to my dad about writing a will?
Q. My Dad is 75 and has not made a will. How can I speak to him about this? He goes all weazilly when I mention it, but I feel really sad. I know that if he dies without one not only will his kids be left broken hearted but we will have a hell of a ...
A. 3 November 2010: Tell him it's unfair to leave the stress to you all as well as the grief.... (read in full...)
My sister has been reading my personal emails, should I write something mean about her so she can read it?
Q. So my sister has been reading my emails for a while not sure how long.I emailed my mother she quickly replied and also said i should delete that email because my sister can read them.I cried im hurt i talk with my husband and my friends very ...
A. 2 November 2010: maybe just email someone saying "hi, i would like to talk but my rude sister has been hacking my emails and im deeply upset and finding it hard to deal with this email right now as i'm too preoccupied."
she is really out of order and yes, i woul... (read in full...)
Can a girl have sex during her period?
Q. Can a boy and a girl have sex when the girl is in her periods time ...
A. 2 November 2010: yes, but don't take it that you can unprotected sex if your not trying for a bay because you can still get pregnant during this time.... (read in full...)
Why does his erect penis go down and not up?
Q. Right I'm a twenty year old girl and I've just found my third sexual partner... He's different from the others in the way that when he's hard his penis goes downward instead of up... I know he's hard but... Does this mean he's not that attracted to ...
A. 1 November 2010: guys are just diff like women in that area. He is obvs attracted to you if he gr getting hard and the downness will just be part of his uniqueness... (read in full...)
I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?
Q. I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his ...
A. 1 November 2010: be very cautious. If you go on my profile you can see the details of my relationship with an older man. Bear in mind i'm from the uk where legal age is 16. I would say that age isn't a problem, however the way this man is slowly feeding you info ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but am afraid of the "what ifs"
Q. I am a 20 yo male and have never done it before. I have a gf who is also virgin and we have been hinting sex to each other. I want to do it, but I fear for many things. I fear that she will feel pain during it, that the condom might break, that she ...
A. 1 November 2010: when she looses her virginity she is very very likely to feel pain, but she has got to loose it one day and will experience that pain at some point in her life! The best thing you can do for her pain wise is stop if she asks you to! Make that deal ... (read in full...)
Tall and short women hate short guys equally
Q. Why do taller women have so much hate for the shorter guys who approach them only to complain themselves about being single and the lack of quality available men? Is it so wrong for a short guy to be attracted to a woman more than a couple of...
A. 1 November 2010: that totally not true where i live although generally speaking a lot of people go with people of similar sizes my dad is 5/5 and my mum is 6ft. Don't let your height restrict you or get you down! One of the hottest guys i've met was about your ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my boyfriend to spank me as a punishment instead of during sex?
Q. I've only been with my boyfriend for 3 months but we have sex and i told him that i like to be spanked. the truth is that i don't actually like it, i just want him to dominate me. when he spanks me it really hurts and i want him to stop but when i ...
A. 1 November 2010: hm, well if he enjoys spanking you hard you have got to assume he enjoys dominating. If you whispered in his ear that you want him to spank you only when you've been bad then i don't see how he could resist. Maybe involve a role play where you can ... (read in full...)
My he/she wife has left me and I'm broken
Q. What can or should I do; (heartbroken)? On Aug.26, 2010,I picked up my fiance from OKC Airport;she just arrived from Republica Dominicana, where she lives. Met her on the internet about a month before. We married on Sept.01, 2010,deepest love I've ...
A. 1 November 2010: This question is pretty hard to decipher. I guess what you are trying to say is you are upset that he/she has left you? And you wonder why this has happened? If she is hoping back from counrtry to country and being wierd with you then she/he is ... (read in full...)
B/f wants me to call myself a "dirty slag" during sex
Q. What does my fella mean when he asks me to call myself a "dirty slag" when having sex? - Is it a disrespectful phrase or is he just getting off on it as a weird kind of sex speak? should I be offended or not?...
A. 1 November 2010: I wouldn't take it as a personal attack he just wants to get off using dirty talk. If your not a big fan of being aloes a dirty slag then just agree beforehand whether he can call you it during this session... (read in full...)
Anal sex and condoms?
Q. My boyfriend of two years and i are both virgins. I have known him forever and know that there is no chance that he has ever slept with anyone and therefore he has no std's. We are considering trying anal sex but i was wondering how important it ...
A. 1 November 2010: Virgins considering anal sex?? If this is a religious thing I though the Christian god was more against sodomy than regular sex? If it's some kind of way of believing you'll still be virgin you won't because anal SEX is SEX. If your just brave then ... (read in full...)
Thanks to my ex I feel extremely insecure about my small breasts
Q. This is going to sound stupid, but I have a huge complex with my small boobs, thanks to my ex. We didn't break up because of that, we broke up because he was abusive and too controlling. But the thing is, in some occasions he bluntly told me ...
A. 1 November 2010: Man that guy has actually annoye me! Why an absolute idiot!!! I find most guts actually find every type of boob hot and I'm an A but it's never bothered me! But that guy is such an idiot! He ... Give him a slap from me will you !! ... (read in full...)
They say masturbating makes you more horny
Q. hi guys,i'm 14 and i had only started masturbate a few months ago. At the start few weeks i kept doing it,up to 4 times per day.and now i had always feel so horny and wanted to have real sex.what should i do? do i have to stop masturbating?and my ...
A. 1 November 2010: Your definitely not dying. An orgasm releases happy feelings and your not allowing them!
Also just preoccupy yourself if you don't want to masturbat however don't listen to your teacher, they aren't right and you should not feel guilty for mast... (read in full...)
Why do they only seem to want to be friends with me?
Q. Hi! My situation is wired because I'm 22 and I'm still virgin. I'm not ugly but always I have problem to have relationships. Some of the girls are curious to know me but after we pass some time everything changes and most of them want to be only be ...
A. 1 November 2010: This is a very small comment but I think for guys as soon as you aren't acting like a "man" then you just slip into the friend zone. What I mean by man is basically showing your interested and being masculine in your posture and attitude (but not in ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex
Q. I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought ...
A. 1 November 2010: Seriously the best thing you can do here try be all smiles and ask for your stuff back before becoming annoyed and demanding! before continuing to make her think you don't care. That's what will annoy someone so paranoid the most.... (read in full...)
I am average to say the least and cannot ever compete with these guys!
Q. I am so gutted, my sweet and innocent 20year old girlfirend turns out to be not so sweet and innocent. She has slept with many many many men including black guys with what she says had enormous dicks and white guys with 9inc dicks. I am s...
A. 1 November 2010: Just a comment about the age and in reply to the comment that girls are highly sexualised very young these days - I don't agree, there are some girls who go and sleep around a lot, was that not the case for anyone in your generation?? I didn't loose ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend too young for me?
Q. I really need some help i am 27 my boyfriend is 24 is that to young for me....
A. 1 November 2010: Age is just a number it's maturity and personality that count... (read in full...)
What can I do about my feelings for my teacher? And why am I attracted to a girl when I am straight?
Q. Ok, I'm going to be vague about this, as I don't want to much revealed but here goes. I'm a straight girl, and I'm in love with one of my teachers... Who is also a girl. She's a young teacher, I think about 25. She's been at our school for a f...
A. 1 November 2010: I think as a teen this is totally natural and often you can confuse admiration for a crush. I know I I'd when I was about 17 so don't worry. I would just advise you now though don't make a move because I have a friend who was in love with our ... (read in full...)
First time sex anxiety!
Q. how to overcome anxiety in first sexual intercourse?...
A. 1 November 2010: I would say that if you like they guy then then and there you will feel completely comfortable with him or her.
However if you've built it up in your head you will think of stuff that you won't even consider at the time! That being said if you don'... (read in full...)
For the ladies - how long does it take for you to orgasm?
Q. i was wondering, this is for the ladies. How long does it take for you to orgasm?. I know everyone if different but surly there must be some connection. This is either Oral or vaginal i guess anal too. Or better how long (time wise) do you prefer ...
A. 28 October 2010: Most women obviously like sex to go on for about half an hour I'd say. Well that's just my pref, I get a bit sore after too long!! After sex I'm so aroused it can take about 2 mins to get me to orgasm using my clit.... (read in full...)
They say masturbating makes you more horny
Q. hi guys,i'm 14 and i had only started masturbate a few months ago. At the start few weeks i kept doing it,up to 4 times per day.and now i had always feel so horny and wanted to have real sex.what should i do? do i have to stop masturbating?and my ...
A. 28 October 2010:
Wht ridiculous sex education! Thats not true because masturbation helps relieve. All it does which can be negative is you may experience a higher sex drive as your used to sexual stimulation on a more regular basis.... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable with all her male friends!
Q. me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and almost 4 months but one thing bothers me and its her guy friends. i only know a few of them that are my friends as well but there a lot i don't know should i be worried? i keep hearing from ...
A. 28 October 2010: I dont really think she is being fair on you. Have you ever just told her you don't like it?... (read in full...)
I dumped g/f 10 months ago and want her back!
Q. I dumped my girlfriend 10 months ago and everyday I regret it. I treated her bad. Now she's hanging around another guy who treats her like a queen and she acting in a way that she didn't act with me. It torments me to watch anothe guy make her ...
A. 28 October 2010: I'm sorry. You don't have a remote chance, you treated he like rubbish then dumped her and it's been 10 months! Let her be happy if you really like her let her have the guyshe deserves. Sounds like you just like being in control and want to control ... (read in full...)
Could he be gay/bi? And what do I do now?
Q. I am 16 and a sophmore in highschool. I am a bi guy. Nobody knows that I am bi. I have a huge crush on this guy. He doesnt know im bi, and I'm not sure if he is gay or bi. He takes every chance he has to hug me, and he said that I was cute. In our ...
A. 28 October 2010: The chances are that he is just a cheeky curious guy. The only way to know is to ask him!!! ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble concealing my penis!
Q. I have a very odd problem. My problem is I am having trouble concealing my penis in my pants(especially shorts). I guess you could say its above average in size, 8 inches long and 6 inches around. The problem is many times it just looks like I ...
A. 28 October 2010: As a girl I wouldn't know how to sort that issue however I can tell you now no girl is going to mind seeing a big penis in a guys trousers or shorts!!!... (read in full...)
Need advice on how to be a modern day Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice?
Q. To have a Mr.Darcy you must first be an Elizabeth... I fear I'm closer to being a Lydia, what a fool I've been. I'm upset at myself for not trusting my instincts and falling for an a**faced jerk. Now I'm trying to maintain my dignity and my sense of...
A. 28 October 2010: I'd have to say the one thing that makes me think someone is classy is them being reserved socially, having very good posture! And being clean cut and neat with their appearance.
However whilst going on literature I wouldn't try be someone your not ... (read in full...)
How big is too big?
Q. Girls only: What penis size is too big for you?...
A. 23 October 2010: Too thick is bigger than a wrist. I know wrists can be diff sizes. But generally speaking!!... (read in full...)
Do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating?
Q. I am a little bored and was intrigued by all the ads for Asian massage places and something called "table shower". My question to you all is do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating? It seems to me that it is not ...
A. 22 October 2010: How would you feel if your wife went to get a massage and got fingered? I think you'd be pretty upset.
Same thing.... (read in full...)
How big is too big?
Q. Girls only: What penis size is too big for you?...
A. 22 October 2010: Agree with the first comment. Although I would say 8/9 is my limit before panic!! My bf is 7 (which is average) so that's the best size to be in myopinion!!... (read in full...)
Must I spend the rest of my life alone?
Q. I have been single for some years now after the break up of a very serious relationship (eight years). Since that time I have had one short-term relationship that ended when I discovered I was being used. Prior to that I had two other serious ...
A. 22 October 2010: It's such a strong instinct in a lot of women that saying you don't want kids is a bit of a let down. It's also that if you say you don't want kids it does seem a bit like you don't want the relationship to progress to that point which I guess is ... (read in full...)
Why do women want to stay friends with their ex?
Q. This one is for the females. Please enlighten me or tell me if this is true. What is with the obsession in remaining friends with the ex boyfriends? Do all women do this? For those that say yes, why?! I have never remained "friends" with a...
A. 22 October 2010: I'm a woman and I would never want to stay friends with an ex, unless before the relationship we had been very good friends.
Some girls just like a lot of attention (and a backup plan in their mind)... (read in full...)
Did the condoms get too hot to be safe to use?
Q. Dear agony aunt, I have purchased a box of condom as a gift for my man. I recently read that heat could destroy condoms. Out of my ignorance on the day of my purchase, I kept it in my wooden desk drawer for 24 hours. I use my laptop (which he...
A. 22 October 2010: Agree with the if in doubt throw them out. Because it's not worth getting pregnant because your happy risk it.... (read in full...)
Do you think he's sterile?
Q. I'm nineteen and my boyfriend is a thirty-seven. We've been dating for over a year now. Our sex life has always been great. We have sex at least once a week if not more. (Usually on weekends due to busy schedules.) We're not interested in ha...
A. 20 October 2010: Why are you not on the pill or why haven you got the implant???
Did you get this conformation from a pregnancy test??... (read in full...)
Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 20 October 2010: kind of depends what sex you want. however you cnt go wrng with a little bit of the xx listen tm their song called stars... (read in full...)
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