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Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 20 October 2010: kind of depends what sex you want. however you cnt go wrng with a little bit of the xx listen tm their song called stars... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity and now I'm weak and afraid I won't be able to stop having sex
Q. I am seventeen years old and Muslim. I met my 19 year old boyfriend 5 months ago and have been dating since in secret. Coming from a strict family and myself valuing the teachings of Allah, i have continually felt ashamed and scared about being ...
A. 20 October 2010: Okay, so I don't know enough about your religion BUT think about a real sin... Like stealing from someone helpless, or physically or mentally hurting someone. Then think of what you did. It's not a "sin" at all!!
Its natural!!... (read in full...)
What makes a girl 'girlfriend material'?
Q. Have you ever noticed how "girlfriends" tend to be pretty average looking? I mean, think of your guy friends' girlfriends, the ones they've been with for 3-6 years... they're usually not drop dead gorgeous... Meanwhile, a lot of beautiful women, ...
A. 20 October 2010: I don't believe looks play a massive part, because no one can be ina relationship with some boring shallow girl with a boring early teenage attitude to how life should treat you becauseof your looks.
The most attractive woman I know is not conv... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my sister's 30 year old ex!
Q. Okay, so I need alot of help. I'll start off by saying I'm 16 years old and I'm mature for my age. And I'm not just saying that. I'm not a fake person. I dont wear to much makeup, but I am very pretty. I dress nicely and I'm chill, but I have a wild ...
A. 20 October 2010: It's very easy for someone more "mature for their age" to fall for an older guy and I don't personally think age should be anything to judge a relationship by, however, it IS to others.
I've had my fair share of problems with this!
Just bear... (read in full...)
Is my mom always going to judge me? I'm almost 18!
Q. Around three months ago, my mother took my iPod and began to snoop on my conversations. She found one where I was having cyber sex with this guy I had met over the internet. She sometimes scolds me and tells me I am failing school (I'm not) because ...
A. 20 October 2010: Yep, your mum will probably judge you for at least a vary very long time. The only advice I can offer is make sure you delete photos etc!! Also delete these dirty conversations and try to act like what she is saying isn't even important/bothering ... (read in full...)
Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??
Q. I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...
A. 19 October 2010: Get away from this guy. He sounds socially... Stupid. Imagine if it worked out, you couldn't let him near your friends or family in case he acted up.... (read in full...)
Is it over? Have I been played?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am so confused. I met a nice guy online, I live in UK and he lives in Norway. We started chatting for a few days, all seemed to be going well, so I suggested a phone call, which also went well. We spoke for about an hour, and seemed ...
A. 19 October 2010: He sounds like a guy who will say whatever you want to get sex, it's hard to get to know someone online!! As long as you learn from this and move on you should be fine. Hope you feel better soon x... (read in full...)
Thoughts on technology and long distance relationships
Q. It never fails to amaze me how many questions I see on here about long distance relationships (LDR's). I will admit, I understand the temptation. I've been there. I've tried it. I've concluded that they don't work. Still, what is it about these ...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm in an LDR, I have written about it on my profile, I don't mind the time apart, yes it is hard but whilst I'm at uni (and before whilst I was at sixth form) it really works because study and work during the week and then I see him almost every ... (read in full...)
I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??
Q. hey im 14 and i really want a baby i have wanted one sence i was 11 and i dont know what to do my family and friends say i am a natual when it comes to looking after children and careing for them i really don tknow what to do please help x...
A. 19 October 2010: You might want a baby but what about when it grows up, when it grows up. One day that baby will turn 20, and 30.
How are you willing to pay for all this? You know babies are expensive! And if your reaction to all this is to ignore it then anot... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 19 October 2010: Wouldn't bother to being it up unless specifically asked and if you are make it clear you are who you are NOW, not who you were back then.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I haven't had sex in 8 years?
Q. just started talking to an old boyfreind. Its been 19 years! We want to be together again and he is out of state, but coming back. How and do I tell him i havent had sex in 8 years? What will he think of that? Don't know what to do!...
A. 19 October 2010: I agree with dirtball, you don't really need to bother bringing it up. I don't really see why it's important.
However if by some strong impulse to tell him you need to I would just mention it near the time when things are about to get hot and heav... (read in full...)
Do guys like this?
Q. do guys like it when you say there name during intercourse?...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm not a guy but I can place a safe guess on that they love you to compliment them with their name put in there for a bit of personalisation. ... (read in full...)
I need more ideas for kinky sex!
Q. Hey everyone, me and my boyfriend having being going out about 2 months but have been seeing each other for over 2 years. He is slightly older and we like that whole dominant submissive kinky thing and seem as we seem to have tried almost everything ...
A. 18 October 2010: Thankyou so much guys! Really looking forward to trying all these out!!... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me figure out what she meant?
Q. My wife has an active fantasy life and requires lots of attention. Recently, she asked me to spank her--she said the idea of being spanked excited her, but then afterwards said that it was disappointing, that I "didn't do it right." I guess she ...
A. 15 October 2010: That could be because a) to her the fantasy was so built up reality could never be as good B) she wanted you to ask he how she liked it so you would do it right
Ask for another try. Suggest a riding crop! They're very sexy.... (read in full...)
What constitutes actually losing your virginity?
Q. There are many questions posted about losing virginity on this board? But I want to know exactly what it means by losing virginity. (1)Penetration of the penis into the vagina, with the result that the woman's hymen is broken. For both the mal...
A. 15 October 2010: Once you've actually had sex!!! And as it's virginity and therefore likely that the guy will be the only one having an orgasm so once ed done.
If you didn't get all the way to the guys orgasm then you attempted to loose your virginity but I woul... (read in full...)
Cheating hb treating ME badly!!!
Q. I caught my hb of 6 years cheating on me for the 2nd time... The 1st time was last year in November.. When I caught him he literally begged me to give him a 2nd chance.. And I did for our kids sake....everything was great until about august this ...
A. 14 October 2010: As a kid I can safely say that if my dad was a cheater I would rather that my mum was with someone who treated her better! Even if your kids are young explain to them and it will only be a matter of time until they understand.
It's better to be apar... (read in full...)
Why do you answer to these questions?
Q. I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...
A. 12 October 2010: Not familiar with the concept of altruism?
But it's not just that, it's one hell of a learning curve.... (read in full...)
Why do I find teenage girls attractive?
Q. Hey, I'm a 22 year old guy and would just like to know why I still find teenagers attractive, nothing under legal age of course, just barely legal really turns me on. My last few girlfriends have all been 16, it's not that I don't find girls my own ...
A. 12 October 2010: Maybe your into the whole dominant male thing? So you just like the idea of a girl who is sort of smaller/less worldly because it makes her subordinate and submissive in your mind.
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Does fingering mean I'm not a virgin?
Q. I see sex as a binding act of marriage, but I'm with a guy I love. I told him I do not want to have sex, and he's ok with that. The thing is, every time I'm with him, things get a little further. I enjoy it, but should I? Last time I was wi...
A. 12 October 2010: You lose your virginity by HAVING SEX. Did you do that? No! So your a virgin.... (read in full...)
My g/f wants to get intimate while on web cam, I'm not sure how I feel about that
Q. Dear cupid, so I wrote several times on your website, and I would like to thank everybody for the help that you acquired me. So my story is like this I’m with my gf 3 years…and we have a problem I’m on 4 year of university and I’m on this program ...
A. 9 October 2010: I'm in a LDR and everynow and then we do get carried away on skype, if your turned on tel her hat your imagining happening so you can dirty talk and then ask each other to do stuff. Just go for it!! There is no need to be shy she's seen it before!... (read in full...)
Guys put off by a 24 year old virgin?
Q. Do guys feel put off if a girl is a virgin at 24? I'm pretty shy and lacking in confidence because of being mentally and physically (not sexually) abused when I was younger. I've never told anyone that I'm a virgin because I find it really embarr...
A. 9 October 2010: Guys like different things, some will like that your a virgin others might freak out. But as long as you just throw your self into places and maybe, and I know this is hard, just try to be outgoing and confident on a night out just to try it out!!
I... (read in full...)
Amazing guy who ticks all my boxes but he's engaged!
Q. I'm really unsure what to do. I have me an amazing guy who basically ticks eveyone of my boxes but he is engaged. I know I should just cut all ties but I can't help thinking that maybe I should see what happens, or am I just setting myself up for a ...
A. 9 October 2010: I would cut all ties, just imagine if your friend told you this had happened to them, you'd tell them they had to stop because he ant possibly be so perfect if he cheats. Wouldn't you?... (read in full...)
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