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writes:So my sister has been reading my emails for a while not sure how long.I emailed my mother she quickly replied and also said i should delete that email because my sister can read them.I cried im hurt i talk with my husband and my friends very personal things.It hurts i am so cross with her how am i supposed to react to this?i was thinking of cutting her out of my life i havent said anything because my husband said he wants to send me emails about her life that will hurt her deeply, what should i do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 First get yourself a new email account with a very different password. Be sure to use a password that she can't possibly guess.
Cutting her out of your life is rather harsh. As angry as you are now, do you really want to lose her forever? That's a possibility when you cut someone out. The other suggestion, that you make her aware that you know what she's been doing and try to find out why, is a very mature first step.
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reader, Natalie:)  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 maybe just email someone saying "hi, i would like to talk but my rude sister has been hacking my emails and im deeply upset and finding it hard to deal with this email right now as i'm too preoccupied."
she is really out of order and yes, i would make a new email account. and telll your sister to get a life!!
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reader, es12 +, writes (2 November 2010):
I don't think you should cut her out of your life or write mean things about her - it's not very nice Karma wise - but please talk to your sister and ask her why would she does this?
Once you know the motives - and possibly it could be just to be nosey - but possibly she also doesn't realise that this would hurt you so much.
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