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writes:What does my fella mean when he asks me to call myself a "dirty slag" when having sex? - Is it a disrespectful phrase or is he just getting off on it as a weird kind of sex speak?should I be offended or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): How does he treat you otherwise ?. Do you trust him, and does he seem caring, loving and genuine ?. How is your relationship ?. If everything else is going well, then i think he will just be asking you to say that to turn him on. However, if he treats you badly in any way, and if the relationship isn't good, it's possible that he could be saying it in a disrespectful way...
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (1 November 2010):
I'm sure you know what a slag is? (slang for a woman who sleeps around)
Sounds like it turns him on. So its up to you if you wanna say this when you are having sex.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 From what I googled, it's a slang term for slut, whore, slovenly woman..
I'm sure he doesn't mean it as being disrespectful but more of like Caring Guy said a turn on. It doesn't sound like it make a difference if you said it or not, as long as you keep up the dirty talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): Its called role play. No you shouldnt be offended as you are the focus of his fantasy. If you are not happy then tell him.
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reader, Natalie:) +, writes (1 November 2010):
 I wouldn't take it as a personal attack he just wants to get off using dirty talk. If your not a big fan of being aloes a dirty slag then just agree beforehand whether he can call you it during this session
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): Some people just like talking dirty. If you don't like it, let him know.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 November 2010):
He's just getting off, there's nothing else in it. But if you don't want to do it, don't. You don't need to do anything you don't want to.
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