He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 16 March 2011: That's good. Time heals all wounds eventually.... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 5 October 2010: Hi Tisha and Denimandlace
Thank you both so much for your replies it really helps to talk about it with other people apart from your family. The funeral is tomorrow (Thursday the 7th Oct) so it will be a very sad day. I was talking to one of his ... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 4 October 2010: Just thought I'd let you guys know that my cousin died yesterday. Can't believe that in July we thought he had gallstones and now he's dead. Life is such a fragile thing. I'm glad he's no longer suffering but oh what a terrible thing for us all. ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 24 August 2010: Honestly I wouldn't confront him cause if you really stop and think about it this is a waste of time it's not going to sink in with him. Write him a letter that you DONT send and tell him everything you want to say. Get it all off your chest and ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to open up to me?
Q. lets see where to begin, well me and my girlfriend are great, we never fight, we always talk things out if or when something is wrong, we've been together just passing 8 months, and I've fallen in love with her a long time ago, we both did, I'm ...
A. 15 July 2010: Long distance relationships can work, I married my husband after spending 3 years in another city from him. We talked on the phone at least once a week and I was close enough to him to travel and spend weekends with him. It was hard work but we ... (read in full...)
Now the family has come along our sex life is almost non existent!
Q. Hi everyone. This is my first question as it is really the first time in a long time that I've had a problem like this. I've been with my wife for 5 years and the sex has been increadible for both of us since day one. Now my wife is usually very ...
A. 15 July 2010: Yay great to hear. We are complicated creatures us women :-)... (read in full...)
Am I suffering from depression?
Q. lately i have been feeling so down and rubish my self confidense has plumited and i am so upset and gumpy all the time which is hurting my friends to see me like this and i am really worried it may have somthing to do with my nan is dying that i am ...
A. 15 July 2010: Best wishes to you on this journey just keep on putting one foot in front of the other the very best way you can and allow yourself to be sad and grumpy when you need to be to help yourself heal.
Good bless... (read in full...)
He's in the army and I'll wait for him but I don't know if I can trust him
Q. My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. ...
A. 15 July 2010: My advice is to love and care for him sure but to also love and care for yourself by not hanging around waiting for him. Carry on and have a life that includes socialising with other people male and female. I gotta say the fact that he has ... (read in full...)
I don't want to put myself out there if he thought it was a mistake.
Q. I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months. Nothing serious, we've just been drinking, listening to records and talking. I kind of liked him but I didn't want to get into anything serious since he is over 5 years older than I am and he ...
A. 15 July 2010: I know what you mean but at the end of the day that is what a relationship is we each have our strenghts and weaknesses and shite that comes along as part of the package deal :-)... (read in full...)
How can I get her to open up to me?
Q. lets see where to begin, well me and my girlfriend are great, we never fight, we always talk things out if or when something is wrong, we've been together just passing 8 months, and I've fallen in love with her a long time ago, we both did, I'm ...
A. 15 July 2010: Happy to help. Honestly I wouldn't even ask her about it anymore now. She knows that you want to know and she will definately tell you when she is ready.
Go forth and be happy may the force be with you :-)... (read in full...)
I miss having sex but he isn't working on the problem!
Q. okay so my boyfriend of a year has lost his sex drive. This isnt a recent problem, it's been going on since about November last year. I could count the times we've had sex this year on one hand... it's gettting me down. Now we've talked about this ...
A. 15 July 2010: You might point out to him that pot is a medication too just not a prescribed one and look at what it's doing to him. (Don't mean this to sound as harsh as it reads)... (read in full...)
How can I get her to open up to me?
Q. lets see where to begin, well me and my girlfriend are great, we never fight, we always talk things out if or when something is wrong, we've been together just passing 8 months, and I've fallen in love with her a long time ago, we both did, I'm ...
A. 15 July 2010: When the time is right she will tell you what the secret is and the more you worry and obsess over it the longer it will take for the time to be right. 8 months being with someone is great and you sound like a great guy but it's not very long to be ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of nine months is ignoring me!
Q. i have been in relationship from past 9 months. i love her very much. but now she is ignoring me. she doesnt call me. she is calling me for 1 week and saying that she is having some problems in home thats why she is not able to call me. now what ...
A. 15 July 2010: Hard as it is, you need do your own thing for a while and leave her be. Hang out with some mates, catch a few movies etc. She sounds like she needs some space and if you give it to her I'm sure she will come back soon.... (read in full...)
My female friend likes me, but I'm straight!
Q. Okay my friend told me she was bisexual and I said I would be okay with that as long as she don't like me. She said she never would like me. I have nothing againist gay people. Then she told me she was a lesbian. I was okay with that to because you ...
A. 15 July 2010: Relax she knows your straight (i presume). Just try to forget about it and be normal around her but if she brings it up again you need to tell her on no uncertain terms that you don't want to go there and she needs to back off.... (read in full...)
He's in the army and I'll wait for him but I don't know if I can trust him
Q. My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. ...
A. 15 July 2010: Unfortunately trust is something that has to be earned. The only thing you can do is just take it day by day and see how you feel. I'm sure it'll all be fine but as I say only time will tell. Can you talk to someone else who has a BF away and see ... (read in full...)
I've stopped taking the pill, when will my period be due?
Q. I was just wondering when my period will be due? I was birth control for just a few months and was very regular. I was also regular before starting birth control but had a shorter cycle (24 days). The last month I was on the pill, I skipped several ...
A. 15 July 2010: I remember when I went off the pill it took a wee while for the regularity to come back again. For a quite a few cycles it could be anywhere from 28 - 32 days. Eventually you will fall back into your normal cycle in the meantime carry tampons and ... (read in full...)
How do you show someone that you love them?
Q. hi, i never belived in love until i met my boyfriend we have been together for so long and my boyfriend is so lovely and romantic, but i have troble expressing myself. how do you show someone you LOVE them? thankyou for any replys xx...
A. 15 July 2010: By being there for them and doing little things like feet rubs if he likes them back massage or stroking his arm or face. You will eventually get brave enough to tell him you love him I promise.... (read in full...)
This boy I like kissed me but my friends say he is using me, what should I do?
Q. I'm in high school and on the last day of school, my best friend who i have a big crush kissed me on the lips..The history between us is that my best friend introduced us and we've been friends ever since. For most of the time he's always there for ...
A. 15 July 2010: time is the only thing that will tell if he is using you or not. In the meantime ignore your friend who cares what she thinks this is YOUR life.... (read in full...)
Shes having pregnancy symptoms but the signs say she's not pregnant
Q. Hi me and my girlfriend are trying to have a baby and we have unprotected sex atleast 4 to 5 times a day and I ejaculate in her every single time and this has been going on for 5 to 6 weeks now maybe a little bit more and she has been takin pegrnacy ...
A. 15 July 2010: My god how do you have the energy to do it 4-5 times a day!!!???? :-) By the way that is actually counterproductive because the more you ejaculate the less sperm is in it.
Usually a pregnancy test will show positive the first week after a peri... (read in full...)
I lied to my b/f and now I think he is punishing me
Q. hey, i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have a 14 month old little boy!!...we are currently on a break because i lied to him about money which has got us into debt and he is really angry with me so we are now on a break...i have ...
A. 15 July 2010: Oh sweetie you've really got yourself into a pickle here. Hey you are going to have to put in the miles here to stop this and don't worry about being away from your little boy cause in the long run you are doing the best for him and your BF. If ... (read in full...)
I don't want to put myself out there if he thought it was a mistake.
Q. I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months. Nothing serious, we've just been drinking, listening to records and talking. I kind of liked him but I didn't want to get into anything serious since he is over 5 years older than I am and he ...
A. 15 July 2010: PS 5 years older than you at your age is no problem so don't worry about that aspect.... (read in full...)
I don't want to put myself out there if he thought it was a mistake.
Q. I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months. Nothing serious, we've just been drinking, listening to records and talking. I kind of liked him but I didn't want to get into anything serious since he is over 5 years older than I am and he ...
A. 15 July 2010: I think he does like you and is feeling as unsure about it as you are. Bite the bullet and ask if he would like to be more than friends.... (read in full...)
PLEASE HELP - I'm jealous and I shouldn't be!
Q. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 2. A year or so before we got married we broke up for 6 months and ended up getting back together. Everything was going well (leading up to the wedding) and then she told me th...
A. 15 July 2010: Hell yes I'd be jealous about this too. In fact I'd hit the flippn roof!!! She sounds like she still hasn't forgiven you for the breakup. Why did she marry you if she's still pissed at you? HOw would she feel if the boot was on the other foot? ... (read in full...)
What was he doing with the laptop for 30 minutes?
Q. I spent a week over my cousins house. One is my age and one is younger. The boy is my age. Well he went down stairs with his laptop and never came back up until 20 or 30 minutes later. I'm not sure what he was doing though. When he came back up he ...
A. 15 July 2010: Sweetheart whatever he was doing it's none of your business. Put it out of your mind what he does with his time is his business not yours.... (read in full...)
4 years and no sex! Who else would put up with this?
Q. my boyfriend n i have been together for 4 years. we've never had sex. for the first year he kept puttin it off by blaming drink tiredness or not in the mood. truth was he's so nervous, he's afraid he won't be able to keep it up. after i found th...
A. 15 July 2010: Has something happened to this guy to make him think he can't do it? Has he been abused or something? Because if so he definately needs therapy to deal with this. 4 years in a relationship with no sex makes this a friendship. You are not in a ... (read in full...)
I don't know how our relationship can succeed?
Q. I'm with a guy that i known for a year and some months. When ever we aren't talking through webcamming (because he lives in another state, 10 years older than me, and we neva met physically except through the internet and webcam)I feel like our ...
A. 15 July 2010: Yep very tricky situation and I agree with Karen. I think once you meet him in person you will know whether or not to continue. So get yourself a plane or bus ticket and bite the bullet.
Good luck to you.... (read in full...)
Am I suffering from depression?
Q. lately i have been feeling so down and rubish my self confidense has plumited and i am so upset and gumpy all the time which is hurting my friends to see me like this and i am really worried it may have somthing to do with my nan is dying that i am ...
A. 15 July 2010: Oh sweetheart you are bound to be feeling down and grumpy with your nan dying. Do your friends know Nan is dying? Maybe you could talk to them all and ask them to bear with you while you work through all this. You are going to go through days ... (read in full...)
I had an emotional affair and the woman is still on my mind
Q. Hey, everyone. I am in a relationship of several years. It's rocky. We have trouble communicating. She often won't tell me what she's thinking and a lot of the time I keep things to myself because I think she'll get sad, defensive, or ju...
A. 15 July 2010: I do feel for you because I can see that the reason you had an emotional affair is because your needs are not being met in your current relationship. I think you need to really carefully analyse why you are staying in your relationship. Are you ... (read in full...)
B/f a complete stranger now! Is he cheating on me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a few days. Before we went out I had just gotten out of a nasty relationship about 1 1/2 months before, maybe a bit longer. He used to text me every night 'I love you sweet dreams!" and cute ...
A. 15 July 2010: First of all I wouldn't worry about the sex dream. The fact that he told you about it means it's straight up. If something was really going on that would have been hidden from you.
It's hard to say that he's cheating on you, from the info you'... (read in full...)
I miss having sex but he isn't working on the problem!
Q. okay so my boyfriend of a year has lost his sex drive. This isnt a recent problem, it's been going on since about November last year. I could count the times we've had sex this year on one hand... it's gettting me down. Now we've talked about this ...
A. 15 July 2010: Why on earth is he taking pot when he has a mental health issue? Sorry to sound harsh but that is crazy! I'm not a doctor but I would imagine that his erection problems are due to bipolar medication being mixed with pot. He needs a bit of a wake ... (read in full...)
We haven't had any physical intimacy since he told me he cheated on my while I was pregnant
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me towards the end of april while on a night out with his mates. It was just a one night stand, and he told me a few days after it happened. He even went and got a STD/STI test the same week. He seemed really guilty about it, ...
A. 15 July 2010: Yep he messed up big time!! It's actually up to him now to fix this. He needs to be on his very best behaviour now to win you back again. He needs to be at your beck and call. He has to expect that you don't trust him, expect thousands of ... (read in full...)
Why does my hubby want me to lick, finger, and penetrate his arse. Does this mean he is gay or bi?
Q. "OP Own Title" Why does my husband want me to play with his butt so much? He always wants me to touch it, finger it, even lick it. He is often putting it in my face during 69. I don't particularly like it, but do it sometimes when I am drunk or ...
A. 14 July 2010: The G spot on a guy is in their anus so I guess that's why he likes it I don't think it means he's gay. You could ask him why he likes it so much and tell him you're not so keen on it for yourself. Honesty is the best policy with sex.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 14 July 2010: You're welcome go forth and be happy. May the force be with you :-)... (read in full...)
Is he taking me for being a fool?
Q. hey! this may be a long question since the story itself is quite long winded so please bear with me as advice would be greatly appreciated! my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. i have 2 children from a previous relationship, 15...
A. 11 July 2010: Hey I'd have to say I'd be pretty suspicious here too. He sounds like he's having his cake and eating it too. Wouldn't it be interesting to be a fly on the wall when he stays at his ex's place and see what he's telling her about you?? You can ... (read in full...)
I only like to watch lesbian porn, does this mean I'm gay?
Q. Dont judge me but i started watching porn a few weeks ago but only like female solo or lesbians... so does this mean i am a lesbian? thanks :)...
A. 11 July 2010: I think the best thing to do is not to worry about this. Just enjoy the porn and see where life takes you. If you do turn out to prefer females as your sexual partners then that's cool if on the other hand you discover that you like males then you ... (read in full...)
How can I lose the weight I put on during pregnancy?
Q. Hi ppl I am a 22 yrs cute MOMMY AND WIFE:-))))) but I got a problem after I had my baby which is like 5 yrs ago I just cant loss my fatty belly!!! I have try mostly everything I love my husband and he's a very young guy to only 25 and I know he ...
A. 11 July 2010: I know how you feel because I can't lose mine either! I have managed to get mine to the point where it is flat when I'm standing but the minute I even look like bending over it jelly's out over itself. I got it to flat on standing by cutting out ... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual, she likes someone else, I like her, what do I do??
Q. im bisexual and i fancy my best friend im only 13 and i dont know what to say or do when she talks about a guy she likes and i like her alott x i no im supposed to be to younge to no what i am xx but im pretty sure x shes always on my mind and i ...
A. 11 July 2010: Treasure your friendship with this girl and make a conscious decision to shut the attraction part down. Every time you think about being attracted to her replace that thought with something else. If you try to pursue a relationship with her you ... (read in full...)
Hot, heavy, and HPV!
Q. I'm concerned! I met a man and we hit it off great. Lots of sexual energy. He has Genital warts on his penis but no where else. We've made out very intensely including oral on me. My question is, Can I catch the HPV virus by him putting his mouth on ...
A. 10 July 2010: Hey I think you will be ok. If he had sores on his mouth I would be worried. Condoms will be very very important for you guys when you do full on sex. Has he had this checked out by a doctor?... (read in full...)
Is he going to marry me or am I fooling myself?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He enticed me to move to another country with him in our second year together and within weeks of living together I knew I wanted to marry him. He moved to further his career and is now 35. Unfortunately, I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Oh boy I so know how you are feeling. I was in your boots 10 years ago! My then partner (now husband) waited for 7 years before he decided to ask me to marry him. I had the exact same arguements with him that you did and like you that was the ... (read in full...)
Now the family has come along our sex life is almost non existent!
Q. Hi everyone. This is my first question as it is really the first time in a long time that I've had a problem like this. I've been with my wife for 5 years and the sex has been increadible for both of us since day one. Now my wife is usually very ...
A. 7 July 2010: was thinking about you last night and remembered another thing that makes me feel more like sex. I feel really close to my husband when he does stuff for me like clean the toilet or cook a meal or take the kids away for the morning and give me some ... (read in full...)
Is it worth trying and holding on to her?
Q. I'm 20 and i'v been out of school for about a year and 1/2 and i dont really feel like going back yet, but i have a girlfriend that i really care for that is going to collage soon and i dont see her much as is but once she starts school im afrade ...
A. 6 July 2010: I agree with Odds let this one go. Trying to hold on will only cause you more heartache and pain. I understand what you mean when you say you are afraid of being alone because I remember feeling like that when I was trying to get up the courage to ... (read in full...)
How do you stay best friends with someone who you lose respect for??
Q. I know that, really, it is none of my business, but I can't help looking out for my best friend. She is 33 and been single for a few years (some dates, one short-term relationship). We both regard each other as the sibling we never had (we are ...
A. 5 July 2010: It sounds really weird and out of character for her to be behaving like that. Could you have a chat to her? It sounds like something has happened e.g. some kind of hormone deficiency or substance abuse maybe. Tell her how you are feeling (gently) ... (read in full...)
Partner getting divorced and I'm not sure how to help him through it.
Q. Approximately 10 weeks ago I starting seeing someone, he asked me out - we clicked immediately and both felt we had something special. Everything was pretty great up until 3 weeks ago. His wife had left him early this year and he had only been ap...
A. 4 July 2010: Mmmm tricky! I guess the best thing to do would be to tell him you love him and you are there for him 100% but you have been feeling maybe he needs some space to work his divorce out. Ask him to talk to you about it and be honest about his ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has low self esteem.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now. In the beginning of our relationship he was very sweet, loving, and very dependable. For the past few months he's been having self-esteem problems. They gradually get worse and worse and on ...
A. 4 July 2010: Oh doll this is hard for you! Honestly I think he needs a wakeup call because he's wallowing in this misery and at the end of the day he's the only one who can sort it out. No one else can do it for him. I would say to him "Sweetheart I love you, ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How can I control my panic attacks?
Q. I need help. I suffer from panic attacks, and i don't know how to control them. I worry a lot about death, i have a big fear of it. I get really scared when i think about what happens to your body when you die, and i feel like i can't breathe. I ...
A. 4 July 2010: Sweetheart please go to therapy so you can discuss all this with a professional. This is a lot of stuff floating round in your head to deal with by yourself.
My father has a saying that I always like about death. "You never felt youself come... (read in full...)
Her fooling around... Do I have the right to be angry?
Q. I just found out that my girl fooled around with this guy from work. We had known each other at the time but it was before we started dating. It just repulses me to know about it. He is a truly disgusting guy. She got checked for STDs because of him ...
A. 4 July 2010: No sorry mate you don't have the right to be angry. She did this before you were together so she has not done anything wrong. Every one of us has made odd choices in our lives at times and to be hauled over the coals for those choices is unfair ... (read in full...)
His want for sex is exhausting me!!!
Q. I just moved in with my boyfriend several weeks ago. I had been holding off having sex for a long time and we finally started having it a little while before I moved in. Now that we're living together, he wants to have sex all of the time. It's ...
A. 4 July 2010: I would tell him exactly what you've told us. You love sex with him but not the minute you walk in the door. Also he needs to aquire a bit more finesse. Tell him no sex without some romance. If he wants to jump you the minute you walk in the ... (read in full...)
Now the family has come along our sex life is almost non existent!
Q. Hi everyone. This is my first question as it is really the first time in a long time that I've had a problem like this. I've been with my wife for 5 years and the sex has been increadible for both of us since day one. Now my wife is usually very ...
A. 4 July 2010: No you are not being unreasonable but for god's sake DONT cheat on her. I can totally understand where she is coming from having 3 kids myself. From a woman's point of view sex after children sometimes seems like just one more chore on the to do ... (read in full...)
My flirtation with a 49 year old man!
Q. How much does age have to do in a relationship because lately I have started a flirtation with a 49 year old. He is a very young 49, he dresses young, and he is my mums friends son. We have known each other for three years and really I have on...
A. 4 July 2010: I would say he likes you but feels unsure about it. Ask him straight out if he would like a relationship with you. Age does not matter when love is involved.
Good Luck let us know how you get on.... (read in full...)
Gay, but I cannot be.
Q. Hi everyone, I am a 26 male profisionnal successfu engineer and i still virgin because i think i am Gay and I actully have this feeling when I was 10 or 11, I only attracted sexually to men and I feel making sex with women is uncomfortable and i ha...
A. 4 July 2010: Mate this is a hard situation for you and I really feel for you. I wouldn't get married if I were you. Better off to be alone and seek comfort in privacy than have to try and sneak around and deceive everyone.
As for your parents not acce... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 4 July 2010: Tisha you are so right. I rang my Aunty and we had a phone call of crying, laughing and crying again. It was great to talk to her and realise that I couldn't really say the wrong thing if I was honest about everything I felt. She thanked me for ... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 2 July 2010: Thanks guys. Was just talking to my Mum who has been talking to my aunty and now the news is even worse. He also has bowel cancer. He is not expected to live past Christmas. I think I could relieve a drought with the amount of tears I have ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 31 May 2010: See if I was you're mother I'd be mighty worried about you right now because if your experiencing all that you can not be acting normally. Most mothers will fight tooth and nail to help their kids when there is something wrong with them so I still ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 30 May 2010: I'm starting to wonder if you actually like wallowing in misery since you don't seem keen to follow any of the suggestions put to you by any posters. Your replies are starting to sound pretty whinny and whingey. Come on dude pull your head in and ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 26 May 2010: Exactly my point go to the doctor and ask them to refer you to a therapist. Tell your parents you are depressed and you don't really know why. (there are hundreds of people in this situation) You need to be able to talk to someone who is not ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 26 May 2010: So lie to your parents. Make up something that is wrong with you that they wont want to verfiy like a discharge from your penis or a urinary infection. Then tell the doctor you have had to lie to your parents and he will have to help you. You ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 25 May 2010: Doctors can't discuss their sessions with anyone else even your parents so they need not find out why you are visiting the doctor.... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 6 May 2010: Again I repeat keep away from him. He's confused and it's making him unsure how to react. May I suggest you make friends with some girls. Unlike males (not meaning to male bash here) we like to talk. We like to analyse situations from every ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 20 April 2010: Just back off from him completely and let him come back to you in his own time. Like it or not he feels uncomfortable now and he needs to deal with that in his own time and in his own way. You just need to carry on as per usual and wait ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 20 April 2010: Sorry mate but your thinking is a little off here. You have no right to be angry at him. He said straight out at the beginning that he was not attracted to you and was straight. You need to put yourself in his shoes and realise that whether you ... (read in full...)
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