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Why don't girls have sex as much as guys?

Q.   I would like to ask a question at a general/stereotypical level - Why don't girls have sex as much as guys? Eg. a single guy goes to a party/club/bar and hopes something will happen. A single girl goes to the same place and doesn't let anyt...

A.   31 August 2010: I would have to disagree with both previous answers. I can't speak for all girls,but as a girl myself,if I see an attractive looking man I don't think of him naked or how well he would perform in bed if we hooked up.Most times I don't even imagine ... (read in full...)

How do I get him back? he is with someone else now!

Q.   Well I was going out with this boy and then I dumped him, and he said to me thats alright I likee someone else and then I was going to say I madee I big mistakee then I found out that he was already going out with the girl he likeed; how do I geet ...

A.   29 August 2010: Already going out with "a girl he likes..." I'm not so sure you can do anything to get him back sweetie.Plus, you deserve to date someone you "likes you" only.... (read in full...)

Is it bad for a woman to date someone 3 years younger?

Q.   I am 20 years old, fixing to be 21 in a few weeks.. and I really like this guy who is 17 years old. He can act pretty mature for his age but i'm not sure what others would think? Is it bad for a girl to date someone who is 3 years younger? ...

A.   24 August 2010: I am 2 and a half years older than my boyfriend,and we are very happy together!Infact,he doesn't EVER mention my age nor treats me like I am older.If there is love and mutual understanding age is never an issue. go for it I say! I had my doubts at ... (read in full...)

She wants to do her own thing but still have a relationship with me

Q.   So I've dated this girl for seven months and we broke up about two or three months ago. At first things were supposed to be a break, but i found out she's making out with a large number of guys. That caused me to get angry and basically explode on ...

A.   15 August 2010: Then give it some time so you won't regret later since it's clear you really love her.You shouldn't be asking other guys if your girlfriend is kissing them or not,does it sound logical to you?She is naking herself available that is why this guy ... (read in full...)

She wants to do her own thing but still have a relationship with me

Q.   So I've dated this girl for seven months and we broke up about two or three months ago. At first things were supposed to be a break, but i found out she's making out with a large number of guys. That caused me to get angry and basically explode on ...

A.   14 August 2010: As a girl I would say this chick is selfish and does not love you at all. When a girl (or atleast me) loves a guy leading him on this way and changing her mind constantly isnt something she does. The only way I see it is that she thinks she can do ... (read in full...)

Is my teacher interested in me? And will he still be thinking of me even though its been a few months?

Q.   im 16 years old and ive always been into older men. i hope that i dont sound crazy. i was in acting class and my acting teacher stared at me and gave me this sexy smile like he wanted me. when he told us told do an certain exercise he put his arms ...

A.   10 August 2010: Honey,isnt that illegal? You're still underaged.If he is interested in you,it's probably just for sex. Do you want that?... (read in full...)

Should I believe him and try to work things out?

Q.   I just broke up with my boyfriend. It hurts a lot and I miss him too. He thinks I cheated on him and after that he completely changed with me. I tried to tell him I'd never cheat on him and even tried to prove it. He always said he believed me but ...

A.   10 August 2010: Your boyfriend actually sounds a lot like....me :/ before I found this site and started talking to an agony aunt,I was so consumed by jealousy and my insecurities. I fught with my bf everytime he added a girl on fb even though he is a very soci... (read in full...)

We moved too fast and now he just wants to be friends, will anything come of this relationship now?

Q.   I was dating a guy and we hit it off and we really emotionally connected but defianetly moved too fast. The end result was that he freaked himself out by moving so fast and said that he wants to be friends and doesn't want to lose me as a friend. ...

A.   10 August 2010: Is hurting you to be just his friend? If it is,then you should let go and move on.Start dating,too. If he still has feelings for you then he'll come back when he feels you have really let go...if not,then so be it. You deserve to be happy.... (read in full...)

Did he just pretend for 3 years that he loved me?

Q.   id been with my bf for 3 yrs and he showed me affection.love and cares,, also to my family...can you tell me if a man can just pretend for 3 yrs that he really love me? his breaking up with me on the phone because i add some of his realativ...

A.   10 August 2010: I don't think he faked it. I assume he has trust issues and that when you added other males,even if they were relatives of his that gave him a sense that you were not trustworthy.That ofcourse is NOT justified at all. If he has issues he should work ... (read in full...)

How am I supposed to find a girl in a male dominated industry?

Q.   I know they say don't look for a girlfriend but how am I suppose to find a girlfriend when I'm in a male dominated industry like engineering. I'm 22 and have one year left at uni so I'm still young and I recognise the problem (and also I'm not ...

A.   10 August 2010:  I understand where you're coming from,because I am from your neighbouring country.I assume Jordan is more open minded regarding this issue.I wouldn't advise you to go to a hooker/nightclub or even interact with such women because in our society it ... (read in full...)

Why do guys ask for a number and then never call?

Q.   Why would a guy make it a point to get a girl's number and not call? I have been told if a man is interested he will call within a day of asking, but I really don't want to buy into the idea of rules and games when it comes to relationships and ...

A.   4 August 2010: most of the times they think its polite because it is not a direct rejection.however,when they dont call back its ok for them. thats how they think,they really dont blv it hurts. ... (read in full...)

Is there still hope for us? How can I get him back?

Q.   Hi, well a week ago my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (16) because I hurt him really badly. I didnt cheat on him but I did have a few drinks and ended up all over another guy. We had a big fight then and he told me that I broke his heart and that ...

A.   3 August 2010: I can relate to your boyfriend completely. I know this because my boyfriend got drunk a while ago and allowed some girl to kiss him.He admitted that he didnt mind it. Even though him and i were officially off at that time, it still broke my heart. ... (read in full...)

Is he getting too close for comfort... just for a viza???

Q.   I'm 13 years old and i went on holiday to turkey and met a nice man over there.He liked my family and my family liked him. On the last day of the holiday he wanted to take me to the beach but parents wouldnt let me for obvious reasons such as we had ...

A.   3 August 2010: I agree with both previous answers.Unfortunetly this has become a very common case,faking love to get a visa.In his mind he will keep you there hanging for 4 years maybe,and trust me he will be haunting other western women. I say let go of it ... (read in full...)

Why are men always rejecting me?

Q.   I always tell men am in luv with them and they reject me, why is this?...

A.   29 July 2010: Men like to do the chasing. I know these days we hear and read a lot about women taking control of what they want and making the first move,but thats against nature in my opinion. I dont know a case where a girl actually walks up to a guy and says I ... (read in full...)

I'm hurt my ex is moving on so fast!

Q.   So when my ex broke up with me (only a month ago), he said he wasn't breaking up with me for any girls or anything, and he wasn't going to start dating any time soon. I just found out theres one girl he's been texting all the time and talking to ...

A.   29 July 2010: I read something a while ago like "Staying friends after a break up is like saying ,yeah the dog is dead but we can keep him". I tried staying friends with ex to get him back and that didnt work at all.All i got was heart break and rejection. ... (read in full...)

How can I get my husband to want to have sex with me more often?

Q.   how to make my husband do sex with me more and how to make him keep an eye on me and want to do sex more often? as he dont even talk about sex. as i remember he is so sexy and always will keep watching sex movies in his mobile but he dont have my ...

A.   29 July 2010: I know how ur feeling because I come from the same part of the world you do.This whole media crazed thing is so negative on our sex lives.Our men are obsessed with Haifa and nancy and they ignore us. First of all you need to feel confident and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't go down on my unless I'm shaved

Q.   My boyfriend and I were talking about "what ifs". and it came up, "what if i was nine months pregnant and couldnt shave "down there"?" his response, "i wouldnt go down on you". my thought was arent you suppose to love someone even in there natural ...

A.   28 July 2010: I dont think this dilema is a deal breaker....sorry... (read in full...)

Is it right for me to tell everyone?

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm extremely confused right now about where I stand! I joined Facebook two years ago, and I know almost 900 people; in other words I've seen them, talked to them or I'm their friend. But, this one girl recently joined. I know her from ...

A.   28 July 2010: I would say confront her first if you feel its wrong. Send her a PM or talk to her school.No need to publically embarress her.... (read in full...)

24 (almost 25) and has never had a boyfriend!

Q.   ok,I'm a 24 year old female almost 25. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never had sex. Lately I've been depressed because I feel I have a good personality, and should have found some one by now. I have always been a tom boy. I am obese, but ...

A.   26 July 2010: I would suggest working on yourself first. You are 25 and say you're obese,aside from relationships, you are putting your health and life at great risk.try hitting the gym, doing active things to take off some of the weight. This will enhance your ... (read in full...)

I can't sit and watch him kiss drunk girls while I'm working hard to change!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been on hiatus for about 2 weeks. I have posted my problem here before, and I do admit that my insecurities did end our relationship. The past week has been good. We are talking as friends and he keeps emphasizing that ...

A.   26 July 2010: he says now it was very wrong and stupid,and he if he could take it back he would. I dont know why he is saying this. I wish he would just make it clear that he doesnt want me back instead of playing games with me.I dont understand how 2 ppl who ... (read in full...)

My wife possibly had sex with two of my co-workers, should I consider divorcing her?

Q.   hai, well il go straight to the point..i am a christian man raised with morals and i waited to have sex till i married, now 10yrs down the line my wife tells me i was not her first, she had slept with 6 men 2 of which i work in the same company.i ...

A.   21 July 2010: I am of muslim faith,and in my religion and community virginity is the basic matter of all relationships so I fully understand your agony and shame.The true quetion is not about what happened 10 years ago,what about today? Is she faithful to you? ... (read in full...)

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