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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 My advice is to love and care for him sure but to also love and care for yourself by not hanging around waiting for him. Carry on and have a life that includes socialising with other people male and female. I gotta say the fact that he has "accidentally" deleted your address twice doesn't fill me with confidence that he's very committed to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm17 almost 18 and I never said I was going to marry him. I just love and care about him. And I hvent heard from him in almost three weeks so idk if he is just busy or what idk whatkind of time people in the military have and I gave him my adress and asked if he had it before he left and he said he deleted it and to send it again and then I did and then I asked again to make sure and he said he deleted it again so I wrote it down and he said he lost it at the airport so idk what that means.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot really I never knew someone in the army
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (15 July 2010):
Unfortunately trust is something that has to be earned. The only thing you can do is just take it day by day and see how you feel. I'm sure it'll all be fine but as I say only time will tell. Can you talk to someone else who has a BF away and see how they deal with it?
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reader, 1989BABY  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 I think your too young to be doting on a relationship that is long distance. Girls your age get caught up too quickly on what love is and i think you should do some growing up before you settle to quickly
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