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I only like to watch lesbian porn, does this mean I'm gay?

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Question - (10 July 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dont judge me but i started watching porn a few weeks ago but only like female solo or lesbians... so does this mean i am a lesbian? thanks :)

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A female reader, natalieejanex United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2011):

natalieejanex agony auntA female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010) - please don't listen to this person, they haven't a clue what they are talking about. watching porn is normal and if it helps get you off then good for you. like i've said on many questions like this, straight people can watch gay/lesbian porn and still become arroused, its fine, its normal. if you're having doubts about your sexual orientation, question it. can you and would you date the same gender? but until you start dating and keeping your sexuality open, there isn't a way to determine what sexuality you are. if you aren't emotionally and physically attracted to the same gender then chances are that your pretty much straight.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2010):

Miamine agony auntWow female anon, bad hair day.. must be nice in your world, to hide and be bitter and insult everyone.

If you had parents, they must be ashamed about how you talk to young people asking for help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2010):

Yet another young person confused about their sexuality due to the internet and the availability of free porn clips. STOP WATCHING IT. It's a nasty habit, it will warp your mind, desensitize you to sex and allow you to normalize behaviors that are not in your best interests.

If you have no self control, tell your parents and have them put a lock on your computer, that is if you even have parents.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2010):

Miamine agony auntNope.. pornography is fantasy, just like a movie.. If I watch James Bond do I want to be a spy? If I watch Vampire movies will I go and try to drink blood?

Nope.. these are things we like and turn us on.. They are fantasy, fairy tales, things we can enjoy that are not real.

You know your a lesbian when in real life you are not sexually attracted bt men, but want to kiss or have sex with women. That's the only real test, your fairy tales don't count.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010):

no im a straight female who enjoys watching lesbian porn, its completely normal you dont have to be a lesbian to watch lesbian porn and vice versa x

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (11 July 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntI think the best thing to do is not to worry about this. Just enjoy the porn and see where life takes you. If you do turn out to prefer females as your sexual partners then that's cool if on the other hand you discover that you like males then you are just a normal person who finds different things erotic. The important thing is to be who you are destined to be and don't force anything by jumping to conclusions.

Good luck doll it'll all be cool.

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