She hooks up with guys in front of me! I love her and this annoys me! What can I do?
Q. I have this problem with an ex-girlfriend of mine. We were dating for six months and I fell deeply in love with her. Then one day in May 2006 she just decided to break up with me because I was "chocking" her (not giving her time with her friends, ...
A. 21 January 2007: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me"
Dude where's your self respect??? She's made it clear its over with you! You'll never move on if you're stuck on her. Stay away from her and stop contacting her. You seem to have a good... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and married! But My mind tells me I'me too young and missing out! What should I do?
Q. Hi. I am 21, and have been married nearly a year now to the first love of my life, whom I met when I was 15! I have always had eyes for her and only her - until three months ago my mind told me that I was too young and missing out! I have me...
A. 21 January 2007: Stick with your wife. Here's a worrying thought though, is your wife having the same thoughts?:-O ... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any tips for stopping comfort eating?
Q. Has anyone got any tips for stopping comfort eating? It's ruining my diet. I eat really healthy at mealtimes but then something will happen and make me reach for the chocolate bars. I've tried counselling and it didn't work for me but I'd be glad of ...
A. 21 January 2007: I know drinking water when you get the urge to eat will fill your stomach and so you wont want to eat no more. Do u think that might work? You could always get rid off the chocolate bars... (read in full...)
Is it normal to touch yourself when having an orgasm?
Q. IS IT NORMAL TO TOUCH YOURSELF WHEN HAVING AN ORGASM?...
A. 21 January 2007: Well its more normal than using all capitals to post the question!:-P... (read in full...)
He's an internet junkie - how can they be cured?
Q. my husband is an internet junkie and its going to split us up helllp please...
A. 21 January 2007: Get a router, set it up so that it only allows connection to the interweb on certain times. Pretty simple. Then you can tell him to spend his now free time on other stuff like playing on a brand new PS3 :-P just kidding. You can decide the hobby ... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant on her period?
Q. Well me and my girl have been together for 18 months and last week on friday 3 days before her period was over i had decided to have unprotected sex with her and wanted to know if you can get preganant while on your period?...
A. 21 January 2007: Willywombat, what if one of you is sterile:-P?... (read in full...)
I told her I didn't want to go out and she hung up on me! This gets to me..should I confront her?
Q. One of my friends asked me to go out the other day, and i said i didnt want to. And she put the phone down on me. I have seen her do this to a few of her other mates and then she starts talking behind their backs. Should i confront her. I think sh...
A. 20 January 2007: Your friend sounds like an ass... and pretty spoilt too, throwing a kinda tantrum when she doesn't get what she wants (sorry if I'm a little harsh, just having problems of my own...) dont blame yourself, she's at fault. Talk to a few of your other ... (read in full...)
He has an obssession with "shemale" porn! What can I do?
Q. I NEED HELP IVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR TWO YEARS NOW AND I THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG LATELY IVE BEEN SUSPECTING ABOUT HIM DOING SOMETHING ON THE COMPUTER HE HAS BEEN LOOKING AT SHEMALE PORN WE HAVE TWO COMPUTERS ONE IN OUR BEDROOM AND THE OTHER IN THE ...
A. 20 January 2007: de-caps lock that thing...
well if you're using two computers, you can get a router and block certain websites you dont want viewed or even disconnect the other computer. But if your bf is gay, you should know sooner rather than later. he may just... (read in full...)
Walked in on my girl bonking a guy I know... what should I do now?
Q. Hullos ,it is quite sad that i got my girlfreind cheating on me with another guy whom i happen to know .i found them having sex together so what i did i told the guy to simply dress up an leave the place .There after i was my girl who immediately ...
A. 20 January 2007: My man, the way you handled that was totally ace!! Gotta respect you on that! Too bad about the girlfriend thing. You really need to ask yourself, what in the hell made her want to screw someone else? Next, find the answer to whether this ... (read in full...)
My bf cussed out the guy I have a crush on! What should I do?
Q. I have a problem with my boy-friend being to overprotective. He just cussed out the guy i have a crush on, in front of me!!..and he knows that i don't like that, but what can i do because now he's asking me to set the up to fight..and the only thing ...
A. 20 January 2007: This is some seriously crazy whacked out crappadoodle doo. Whack everybody. That might change the situation to something more manageable... (read in full...)
She wants an "open' marriage...should I be worried that she has those thoughts of other men?
Q. My wife of ten years just told me that she wouldn't mind an open relationship but doesn't have one because she knows I wouldn't be able to handle it. Should I be worried that she has those thoughts of other men? She also states sex is not love for ...
A. 20 January 2007: This is such a crappy thing to bring up 10 years into the marriage, she should've brought this up like before she got married! Oh well... atleast you can be grateful that she's not gone ahead and started seeing other people (has she?:-O?) but you ... (read in full...)
My gf kissed another guy right infront of me! I don't know what to think or do!
Q. I am 17 and my girlfriend is 16, the other nite we went to my m8s party. It was all goin gud until i sat down and saw my girlfriend kiss another guy right in front of me!! even though im not the type to start fights, i went over and started one. ...
A. 18 January 2007: Well firstly I'd like to say well done on not taking crap from some other guy. Secondly, your age says 16-17 so I'd say you're pretty young to be thinking of anything so long term right now. You always told her you'd break up if she cheated on ... (read in full...)
Why are they scared?
Q. why do most women fear good looking men, and refuse to go on a date with them....
A. 18 January 2007: Hmmm this is new... Its pretty obvious good looking guys hardly have any trouble getting dates... (read in full...)
Should I choose Sociology or Religious studies as a GCSE subject? plz help me choose.
Q. i'm 14 from England, London and i'm in year 9 and its time for my GCSE options. i already know which ones i'm going to take as i really really really would love to become a lawyer, i have my career planned out already. but the thing is i hate my ...
A. 18 January 2007: Here's the thing about GCSEs. If you want a high flying career, then your employers would first want you to have a good degree (LLB in this case I think). They may be interested in your A-levels but they sure as hell wont ask for your GCSE grades. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and when I orgasm a lot of semen (too much) comes out.This never used to happen before. What's going on?
Q. hey, well me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months (im 15 shes 14). We lost our virginities to each other a couple of weeks ago. The problem was that i came really quickly, i had this problem at the beginning of the relationship when she ...
A. 18 January 2007: Dont worry about it. There really isn't a set amount of semen thats 'normal'. So long as its not as much as pee!!:-P Since you're producing a lot of semen though (and sperm I assume) be more careful and definitely use protection.... (read in full...)
Would this stop you from marrying her?
Q. Open question would you date a young lady who does oral sex once in her past,would you make her be your wife or girlfrend. Would you date her...
A. 17 January 2007: Be nice to the guy, he's asking a genuine question! At my age, I'm not thinking about marriage. But would it stop me from dating her? If she's hot and nice and the rest of the good stuff, then sure I'd date her... (read in full...)
What's a stellar smooch?
Q. What is a Stellar Smooch?, and how to you give/do one?...
A. 17 January 2007: Stellar smooch? Never heard of it... maybe its a NASA thing where two astronauts kiss...... (read in full...)
Bought my boyfriend an xbox for his b-day, now he never comes off it! Should I leave him?
Q. Should I stay with my boyfriend or should i leave? I bought my bf the xbox 360 for his birthday and now he is never off the thing. We have been together now for 3 years and live together. it may sound stupid but we never go out any more and whe...
A. 16 January 2007: *sigh* i wish my girlfriend would buy me a PS3:-P really though, it's pretty easy to get hooked on online gaming. Why dont you join him while he plays? The 360 has more than one controller port (i think its wireless but either way, you can join in ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Two new features - country flags and similar questions!
Q. Hi everyone Two updates: 1. COUNTRY FLAGS! You can now set where you are writing from and get a flag appear next to your answers and your column! Click on the your account link when logged in and select "set your country". All new users ...
A. 15 January 2007: Country flag idea is great! London forever!!! Oh wait, we're not a country... yet:-P but really, nice move andrew. should help things... (read in full...)
Mom Caught me with sisters hubby!
Q. my mom saw me with my sisters hubby this happened by surprising me 4 brunch. she saw me with a mouthful. she said she wouldn't tell but expects he and i to do the right thing. he wants 2 tell her but we only did it once and only head. so?...
A. 14 January 2007: Its bound to come out. Tell her yourself and take the punishment instead of hoping against hope that everyone stays quiet... (read in full...)
How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend... "please don't dress like such a slut"
Q. This is driving me nuts! My girlfriend dresses like a complete slut! I like a girl dressing confidently and showing some skin but this is over the top. Even her own friends make comments! I find it totally unattractive and its making me doubt ...
A. 14 January 2007: Hey Ben, I can understand what you're saying. Personally I wouldn't have used the tone you were using but I guess you're pretty pissed off. Have you talked to her about a possible future? Cos if you haven't then you may have the impression things ... (read in full...)
She's a bit wilder than me-I have traditional relationship values. Is it wrong of me to expect more from her?
Q. Im a 20 yr old guy and im in a relationships.i give my GF(also 20) a lot of advice/"maybe nagging" about things that i don't like...This sounds a weird Q to ask but am i acting like a 'nagging old loser'? for example when my GF went out for her...
A. 13 January 2007: Well they are your values and its up to you if you want to stick with them or not (no right or wrong on this one really). She has her own views on things and the two views are as far apart as they can get. You can either accept her as she is or ... (read in full...)
He was falsely accused of rape! Will he be able to find good jobs after having this happen to him?
Q. My friend was falsely accused of rape. He was cleared as the women had lied about it. However since then he still hasn't been himself as he's worried that his name has been stained and can't get another job (he was a chemical engineer before he got ...
A. 13 January 2007: I dont see why he wouldn't be able to. Tell him to talk to his former boss. Make sure the former boss knows that he was cleared and didn't commit any crime. That way, he may still be able to get a reference from them. Other than that, there ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for motherhood! Should I have an abortion or keep this baby?
Q. Hey there! I am about less than 2 months pregnant. I am devastated. I'm only 17 and this was obviously very unplanned. I wish I could turn back time and change the fact that I had unprotected sex. I'm stuck in the middle wondering if I should have ...
A. 13 January 2007: To the anonymous poster: a heart beat at 6 weeks? What sorta BS is that? At 6 weeks, its still nothing more than a collection of cells. To feel pain, you need two things: a brain and nerves. At 6 weeks, the thing has neither.
Opened its mout... (read in full...)
She has a bf and I really like her...what should I do?
Q. I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend she has been texting me for ages and i think she likes me but has never said anything i have said i like her and she has told me that is really sweet and cute. I really want this girl and i know its ...
A. 13 January 2007: She hasn't broken up with her current boyfriend even though she knows you like her. Obviously, she doesn't feel the same way about you. Think about the other guy for a minute. How would you feel if some guy was trying to come in between you and ... (read in full...)
Broke my porno habit... but should I tell my fiancee about my secret past?
Q. In regards to pornography and masturbation, my question is opposite of most others on this sight: I began this habit at the age of 13 and did not feel there was any problem with it. My opinion began to change at the age of 18 due to religious bel...
A. 13 January 2007: If she's that strict on it, then telling her wouldn't actually be helpful. You've broken out of that habit for her (and for your own reasons). Well done. But now, just let it stay in the past... (read in full...)
Troubled by my inverted nipples!
Q. Hiya, I have inverted nipples and it courses me so much embarrassment that i have never taken my top off, even in front of my long term boyfriend. hes very understanding but i havent even told him why. i really think its time to face this problem, ...
A. 13 January 2007: I doubt your guy would mind about that, he'd probably too happy that you finally took your top off that he wouldn't even care! When you've lived with something you think is really ugly for so long, you get used to that image and start thinking ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't sleep with him and now--he won't speak to me! Are all guys like this?
Q. i didnt slept with him! now he doesnt really talk to me! is he a Dic* or are most lads like this? i did really like him but im a virgin! but he didnt no that! is it my fault iv pushed him away (im nearly 18 in case u wanted 2 know)...
A. 12 January 2007: Dick. Not all guys are like that... (read in full...)
Do I tell my wife I kissed the girl from work?
Q. I have got myself into a dilemma that is eating me up inside. I have been married for nearly 2 years and we are very happy together. we have been through a lot lately with house moves and both had problems at work, so we have been stressed but have ...
A. 12 January 2007: I guess people make mistakes (still not a reason to accept that its a mistake). But since you seem committed to your wife and stuff, I think this is one secret you should take to the grave with you. Your wife will just be totally devastated and ... (read in full...)
He keeps touching my vagina.... why!?
Q. My problem is this, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he has this habit of constantly touching my private parts (vagina), he says that it is his to touch, this is really starting to irritate me, I have spoken to him about it before ...
A. 12 January 2007: To hell with crotch grabbing, dont you think the problem is he sees you as his property and not as a proper person? Tell him firmly that you're getting irritated at it and if he doesn't stop still, knee him in the groin and tell him its yours to ... (read in full...)
Words of wisdom required... how do I get over the need for male approval to feel good about myself?
Q. Hi, im having a really low day and I could do with someone out there to pick me up. I split from my husband almost 6 months ago, and am starting slowly to come out of the 'I feel like a zombie' mode and am trying to rebuild my life. My house is up ...
A. 12 January 2007: Feeling beautiful really does start with yourself. Believe it yourself first! I'm sure you are good looking (you wouldn't have been able to get a husband if you weren't attractive right?:-P) After you have that under your belt, just be yourself ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for motherhood! Should I have an abortion or keep this baby?
Q. Hey there! I am about less than 2 months pregnant. I am devastated. I'm only 17 and this was obviously very unplanned. I wish I could turn back time and change the fact that I had unprotected sex. I'm stuck in the middle wondering if I should have ...
A. 12 January 2007: As a 17 year old, here's some things that might influence your decision to go ahead with it:
Giving birth hurts like hell
You cant support yourself or your baby if you have it, unless you're rich or something (going on child support and crap is ... (read in full...)
My older friend just got engaged to his gf - now I'm distraught and don't know how to act around him!
Q. hi i am 17 years old i am in love with a older guy he is 30 and a really good friend of mine.We get on really well and he is always there for me and ready to make me laugh when i am down.i know we would be perfect together but there is one problem i ...
A. 10 January 2007: He doesn't see you the same way you see him. Since he's your friend, just act like a friend around him and accept he's unavailable... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and my bf's 31. I've never made a move on a guy, so what do I do?
Q. well i am 17 and my man is 31. we have only been together for a few days but im just wondering when it is time for me to make a move (nothing drastic just kissing, im not ready for anything else). I have also never made a move on a guy before a...
A. 10 January 2007: He's a lot older than you, let him make the first move. The huge age gap is kinda worrying though, especially since you're only 17... (read in full...)
I'm 16 - I'm so curious to know if I'm pregnant. When's it okay to take a test?
Q. im 16 and im in the most wonderful relationship that i have been in!!..but here's the thing..i've lost my virginity to my bf..and i dont think i regret it..but im still scared of getting pregnant..when should i take the pregnancy test after i have ...
A. 10 January 2007: You THINK you dont regret it? Hope not cos when your virginity's gone, it is gone like an ARG hitting a replicator in Stargate:-P
Well the pregnancy test kit wont work unless you take it around the time of your period. And you wont develop any ... (read in full...)
He stopped having sex with me and I found out why..he started an affair! Any advice?
Q. This is so typical that it almost hurts to write it, but pain propels my fingers. He starts an affair behind my back, but then believing he should only have sex with one person at a time, still hangs out with me, but stops the sex (with me), b...
A. 8 January 2007: Obviously, he's just taking the best of both worlds here. He's not willing to commit to you but doesn't want to give up screwing someone else. No matter how 'complicated' things get in a relationship, there's ALWAYS a way out though it may involve ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my bf that I cheated on him...again?
Q. Before the new year came in I succumbed to kissing a guy I found attractive. It was not intention at all. Since then I told my boyfriend of two years he was obviously upset because at parties when he is there I am always giving this guy attentio...
A. 8 January 2007: Give the poor guy a break. He deserves someone who wont cheat on him. You've done it twice already in the space of a few weeks, most likely will end up doing it again especially if you ever got drunk. If you really cared for him, wouldn't you ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and never had sex! I want it so what do I have to do?
Q. Ok here's the deal I'm nearly 19 and I've still never had sex with a guy or even had oral. I know loads of you are gonna give me rubbish bout not popping my cherry with anyone and how special it is and how normal I am but no offence I really don't ...
A. 7 January 2007: Ok, that clears things up a little. Looks like you need to first decide which is more important to you right now, to just have sex or to have sex with someone who cares about you.
If you decide its the first one, then just make it clear your ava... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and never had sex! I want it so what do I have to do?
Q. Ok here's the deal I'm nearly 19 and I've still never had sex with a guy or even had oral. I know loads of you are gonna give me rubbish bout not popping my cherry with anyone and how special it is and how normal I am but no offence I really don't ...
A. 7 January 2007: You're having so much trouble? For a pretty lady, just getting a guy in your bed has gotta be one of the most easiest things to do, especially when you dont give a rats ass what the guy is like, so long as he's equipped for the job! Seriously, ... (read in full...)
Can a woman fancy you without you knowing?
Q. Can a woman fancy you without you knowing or not telling you? thanks for your help folks!...
A. 7 January 2007: Sure she can. You never known a woman to keep a secret?:-P... (read in full...)
Once i'm triggered, i'm really aggressive! How do I stop doing this?
Q. Hi there, i have just failed in another relationship after 6 months, my problem is i become very jealous, insecure, etc when my partner and i are in a social environment, i try to drink before hand to help me relax, but then once something triggers ...
A. 7 January 2007: Maybe you'll be in more control of yourself if you didn't drink beforehand? Alcohol tends to lower your inhibitions so in your case, maybe its the thing that stops you from holding back.... (read in full...)
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