What could my GF be up to while she is on holiday?!
Q. Hi, My girlfriend is on holiday in Magaluf with her best 'girl' friend and I can't stop thinking about what she might be up to. We have been together about 3 months and the holiday was booked about 6 months ago. I bit my tongue about her holida...
A. 10 July 2006: To be honest, even if she's a nice person who would never cheat on you normally, who knows what would happen with some alcohol... But still, you dont have anything strong to go on and she has been calling and stuff every day so dont get too worr... (read in full...)
What was my BF doing in the bathroom with his phone?
Q. Am I reading into things too much with my b/f of a year? We were laying down and going to be getting ready for the day--and he goes to take his shower and has his cell in his hand and said 'are you done in here for a little while?'--i guess me...
A. 10 July 2006: Without knowing any of the history, I'd say you're reading into it too much. You did say he did this kind of thing in the past, just not often.
Relax about it unless you have stronger evidence like some of the things on that list!... (read in full...)
No sex from my husband. I'm only 33 and I can't stand it!
Q. I've been married for 5 years. My husband is using heart medication - it was a very mild heart attack over a year ago which he has completely recovered from - yet is stuck on these heart meds for life now. But he uses this as his reason for not ...
A. 10 July 2006: I hear medication can really screw things up in the bedroom. But if the problem was staring to show before the medication, then it could be just your husband. At 44, I'm pretty sure his parts are still working (couldn't think of a better way of ... (read in full...)
Why does she need this tattoo? I really dont want her to!
Q. My wife of five years has announced she wants to get a tattoo. However, she knows I hate them and don't want her to have it done. She says it will be discrete and only I'd be able to see it, but why do so when I don't like them? I love her as she is ...
A. 10 July 2006: I know what you mean. I've tried convincing my girlfriend not to get one but she's got her mind set on the idea and I dont wanna risk being too controlling.
I think there may be no convincing your wife neither. If I were you, I'd just go along... (read in full...)
He thinks the CCTV is a fake, but why did he bring this up, is he up to no good ?
Q. Is he cheating again? I recently got back together with my boyfriend after having been split up for over a year because I found out he slept with another woman in our bed. He has recently been staying with me but I have warned him that I will find ...
A. 10 July 2006: He's obviously up to something. Not very good at what he does neither if he's stupid enough to actually ask you about it! The only time someone wouldn't wanna be caught on CCTV is when they're upto something dodgy (or some other crappy reason). ... (read in full...)
I think I might have lied on my application for Uni...
Q. I have a problem at school (not bullying) but I don't think this site can help me. Can anyone give me a site which I can speak to like Dear Cupid but for school. Its just that I have sent in an application to go to uni and I think I might have lied ...
A. 10 July 2006: Lying on your personal statement is no big deal so long as you can back it up. I remember my university interviews two years back, nothing I said on my personal statement other than the parts relevant to the course I was gonna study were even ... (read in full...)
Nipple size... does it matter?
Q. Just a quick question... do guys prefer girls with big nipples or small nipples?...
A. 8 July 2006: hmmm never thought about that... guess i dont want it to remind me of my own nipples! anything larger than a guy's nipples is fine for me... (read in full...)
My partner won't cover for me and I will lose my licence!
Q. i have a total of 6 penalty points on driving license with another 3 pending.Without my license i will lose my job and my familys only source of income.so i suggested to my partner who is not in employment has a clean licence and is a named driver ...
A. 27 June 2006: Busted! Boy you must suck at reading the speedometer or something.
I can understand your wife not wanting to take the fall for you. Best not to force her.
20 years is a heck of a long time. I'm surprised your questioning her love for you thi... (read in full...)
We're officially broken up, but we're meeting for sex and both have other partners!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had been going out a year and a half. Things were great, then he told me that he wanted to join the Army. I knew he wanted to do this before we met but nothing was ever said until this far in the relationship. It broke my heart. ...
A. 27 June 2006: Well a military lifestyle is gonna be pretty tough. But if you really love each other and not just seeing each other for the sex then give it a shot, a lot of people have partners in the armed forces and they're doing good.
Maybe your ex is also ... (read in full...)
What was the man in the bank thinking!
Q. i like this man who works in my bank i go in about twice a week, i thought there was a connection between us, i felt like i could be myself when i spoke to him and i make him laugh. Anyway he asked me about 6 weeks ago if i lived on my own or if i ...
A. 23 June 2006: A month ago? Think it might be a little late to bring it up. I'm sure the subject will come up again some other time and you can take the chance then and ask.
If you really want to know, pick a time when you're getting along well and bring it... (read in full...)
Fiancee is interested in another person...
Q. My fiancee of 7 1/2 years dropped a bomb shell on me 3 months ago and told me she loved me but was not in love with me. I had just asked her whether she still wanted to marry me. At first she said yes then suddenly the tears came, and the love you ...
A. 23 June 2006: Sorry buddy, but it definitely is over. Even if you get her back, things will never be the same. Lostandalone seems to have said it just right. Best to move on and find someone who will treat you right and stuff. I'm sure you'll find her! Good ... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone and pretend they never existed?
Q. What is the best and quickest way to get over someone and move on as if that person never existed, and block them out? How do you get over an ex that you loved more than they loved you?...
A. 14 June 2006: Well if you really want to get this person out of your head, guess you could get rid off all the stuff that reminds you of them.
Then just fill in your day with interesting things when you're not working. Be sure to hang out with friends,... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt...??
Q. hi. i'm a girl and i have something to worry about. my bf inserts his finger into uhm. but I feel pain. and weird. why do I feel pain?...
A. 14 June 2006: You may not be lubricated enough for penetration of any kind. Try some foreplay first. If you've already tried enough of that and it still hurts, then you might want to talk to a doctor about it.... (read in full...)
Left hubby for another man but not so sure it was the right thing to do...
Q. How do I choose? I recently left my husband of 5 years, after being unhappy for a good part of it. To our family and friends this was a big shock as everyone thought we were happy. I probably would have just kept on plodding along, but had ...
A. 14 June 2006: You might regret it. But then again, you might regret on missing out on the life with your new guy. Think about it for a while and decide whether you can believe your husband will live up to his promises permanently or whether he'll slip back to ... (read in full...)
Haven't had a period since March but had 4 negative pregnancy tests - please help!
Q. Im 14 and I have had sex with this lad that I don't even like anymore and he doesn't care about me, neither do I about him. But I did it in April and I haven't had a period from March up until June. I have taken 4 pregnancy tests and they say ...
A. 14 June 2006: Its been three months since your last period? I can see why you're worried! You're young so it could be just a very late period. Best idea is to go to your GP or a family planning clinic. They'll do one of their tests and give you the results ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity now or wait until marriage?
Q. Hi. I'm in a 3 month relationship with my boyfriend. I'm a virgin, and he's not. We've talked about his past and he's had a few sexual encounters. It made me feel really uneasy after learning this, but i've come to understand and respect his past ...
A. 12 June 2006: Lol! Reminds me of my own relationship! My girlfriend's 21 too, I'm 20, we're both virgins and gonna wait for another year or so. We've been together 1 and a half years. It does get tough to hold back from sex.
I'm sure if your guy loves yo... (read in full...)
I need information about pregancy!
Q. How do you know if you are pregnant? Can you give me a list of signs, please. Oh, and if you are pregnant then do your periods continue? Is your first one since becoming pregnant early or late? Please help. Any information will be grateful...
A. 12 June 2006: morning sickness usually doesn't start till around the week 8. Tender breasts are also a sign of an immpending period but if they're swollen too, then it might be a sign you're pregnant. Usually the first sign is a missed period. Get a pregnancy ... (read in full...)
Caught sending sexy texts to my 14-year-old girlfriend! Can the police really stop our love?
Q. Hi, I really really really need help. I've been kinda stupid. I'm 18 and I'm going (or was) going out with a girl who's 14. see my previous question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/broke-up-with-my-gf-of-3-yearsnow.html) Since that (well ab...
A. 12 June 2006: If you really love her, then you'll wait till she's 16. Even if your girlfriend consents, you'll still be charged with statutory rape (in the worst case)... (read in full...)
My step-sister is blackmailing me for money and sex
Q. I am a 12 year old boy from the uk and my problem is that my 14 year old stepsister caught me smoking cannabis 3 months ago and ever since then she has been blackmailing me by threating to tell my mum at first she was only demanding money but since ...
A. 8 June 2006: In the UK, its not illegal to have sex with your step siblings. But the underage part is illegal for both of you. And dont think this counts as rape since its not physically forced(law's all technical and dont expect any law guy to help you with ... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity? Could I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were missing around and were going to have sex without a comdom, but my bf couldn't get it all the way up and he wasn't there for long. Does this make me not a virgin and could I have got pregnant from what we did?...
A. 8 June 2006: you're probably not pregnant... depending on the timing and everything. If it was during the fertile period of your cycle (anywhere between day 10-18 for someone on a 28 day cycle) there's a 40% chance you'll get pregnant (probably less if he ... (read in full...)
BF says I only look good wearing make-up & mini-skirts!
Q. I would really like if someone could help me because I'm hurting really bad. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He is 4 years younger than me and when we first started going out he was doing all the running. Lately he is always ...
A. 8 June 2006: staying with this guy will destroy your self esteem. he must think he's doing you a favour by being with you or something.
doesn't seem like he's putting much effort into your relationship so whats the point in putting up with him?
Find someone ... (read in full...)
I felt like she did trust me by what she told me....what's going on?
Q. Please can people help me because im kind of confused. I was talking to this girl online and she was telling me about how she got depressed and that she was once in love and told me about it and how it ended in heartbreak. The next week i asked her ...
A. 8 June 2006: the thing about online conversations is that people can tell a lot of stuff about themselves cos they know they'll probably never meet the person. So she could've just told anyone. Doesn't mean that she trusts you. ... (read in full...)
What kind of penis would women rather have?
Q. What is it that women prefer when having sex with a man? A long penis is or a thick one (in diameter)?...
A. 8 June 2006: lol :P that made me laugh, anon... (read in full...)
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