Worried about my sons odd diet!!
Q. Hi there Apologies if this seems weird or odd, but it's a problem which I can't seem to find much advice for. My 14-year-old son is having an odd diet; he ate spaghetti, ice-cream and mashed potato in one meal washed down with Coca-Cola. Then...
A. 6 September 2006: Dont worry about the combination of food he's eating, thats not gonna cause much problem. But that sounds like a hell of a lotta food for one meal! Eating a lot irregularly can lead to diabetes:-O... (read in full...)
Strippers, porn...what's wrong with women saying that we will not accept this rubbish in our relationships?
Q. I just read a post about a woman who was upset her partner is going to a strip show...I was appalled to see the advice that'''oh you should trust him' 'all men do it etc' To me this womens feelings are completely justified and she is demonstr...
A. 1 September 2006: I totally agree with the anonymous poster(s). Well put there!... (read in full...)
What nicknames do guys like to be called?
Q. What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...
A. 1 September 2006: Pinkenberry... (read in full...)
my 74 year old college professor is flirting and trying to have sex with me. I am disgusted by his behaviours..what should I do?
Q. I have a 74 -year-old college professor who tries to flirt and have sex with me and other female students. Plus he is always in my face. I try to ignore him and tell him that he is making me feel very uncomfortable, but that doesn't seem to work. I ...
A. 1 September 2006: If its a UK based uni, just report him to the student union (or council... I cant remember now...). Get some of your students to also put in a complaint so you'll have a stronger case. After that, either he'll fix his ways or you can laugh at his ... (read in full...)
He has no respect for me and has threatened me with a gun but I still want a relationship with him!!!
Q. I feel that he has no respect for me whatsoever. One day when we were discussing he mentioned his sexual activities with his ex-girlfriend. Even the day after, I tried to make him understand that he should apologize for what he said and he kept ...
A. 1 September 2006: Hmmm you've stared down the barrel of a gun three times? You must have some serious nerves! Ever considered joining the infantry?
Anyway, I think you gotta be crazy to want to continue a relationship with this guy. In my opinion, I think yo... (read in full...)
Ive turned into some who doesnt care about anything since she left me...
Q. i have just broken up with my girlfriend and i realy loved her. she messed with my mind and now i have turned into a person that dosent care anymore about life or anything. how am i supose to get over her? ...
A. 1 September 2006: Just take it one day at a time. Try keep your mind open to all the beauty of the world outside. Stare up at the sky on a nice, sunny day, its sure to get you upbeat. I cant ever stop myself wondering about the prettiness(spelling? word even ... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with ginger?!!
Q. Hi, I dont understand, my boy mate has ginger hair and he finds it really dificult to get girlfriends. but I dont understand it, I have been out with ginger boys, I love ginger hair :D so why wont other girls go out with ginger haired boys???...
A. 30 August 2006: Hmmm you love red heads, and he's a red head without a girlfriend... I see a pretty simple solution there:-P (unless boy mate means boyfriend then forget I said anything!)... (read in full...)
I got a hair cut and it turned off my gf! She ignored me and wouldn't even kiss me...what's up with her?
Q. Right this is going too sound strange but i had my hair cut the other day and i had too much off so my hair is shorter than my usual medium length etc... My girlfriend loves my hair longer and swept over but yesterday she was acting as if i was a ...
A. 28 August 2006: I hate it when the hair cutting folk screw up like that, it takes weeks to grow back!:-P
She's probably just not used to seeing you like that. She'll get over it, I'm sure of that. I've never heard of a break up cos of a hair cut! Dont worry ab... (read in full...)
Met my perfect guy... 52 and he's been a bachelor all his life
Q. I work in a bar (though I'm a bit shy) and yet I started to talk to one guy who had been in for a week. However I found out he was 52 and had been a bachelor all his life. I wouldn't be agitated by this normally but the guy is almost identical to me ...
A. 27 August 2006: Dont worry, this guy is not you! I'm sure you'll turn out differently from him. You could take this as a wake up call I guess and start trying to be a little more outgoing.
Go out with friends to the usual places, you should find a girl who you ... (read in full...)
I have a big crush on my Teacher... should I tell her ?
Q. i am in love with my english teacher i even dream about her she is so nice to me in class. should i tell i tell her that i love her or not....
A. 27 August 2006: Most likely, you'll embarass her if you tell her. She'd never treat you the same again after that. Plus, it wont do any good so long as she's your teacher... (read in full...)
My bf has been edgy with me lately. So do I: a) dump him b) make it work or c) cheat on him??
Q. i no you probably get this alot but im seriously dont know what to do. my boyfriend is a gem he treats me like a princess but lately things havent been the same between us and work puts him in a bad mood and often snaps and starts arguments over the ...
A. 27 August 2006: Talk to him about it when he's in a good mood. He should be more able to listen then. Before you begin, tell him to let you finish what you want to say so you can get through the whole thing without interruptions. (or you could write it down and ... (read in full...)
Went to see my bf, 50 miles away. And he treated me, horridly! What's going on?
Q. Hi I have just been to my long distance(50 miles return trip by car) boy friend of 2 months house for the first time and how he treated me was very strange 1)there was no hot water or heating and it got cold at night in the highlands 2)there ...
A. 27 August 2006: Ummm I wouldn't recommend the interweb, most people exaggerate like hell. But I do think your boyfriend was a real dumbass for the way he treated you. And after you made the effort to travel so far for him. Even if its true that he thinks you ... (read in full...)
Help me find some marriage counselling, please!
Q. Hi, could you please suggests where is a good place or organization to go for marriage Counselling? we live in south east UK/Reading me and my wife are having a problem, and it can't continue like that, I really had enough and every one even h...
A. 25 August 2006: I hear about Relate quite a lot. Dont know too much about them personally but a lot of people get recommended to go to them. Look them up on google. Hope you patch things up with the missus good and fast... (read in full...)
Go to the party that my ex will be at and annoy my current GF?
Q. OKay, so I got invited to this party by a good friend of mine, which i know some okay friends will be going to. But the problem is is that my ex-girlfriend is going to be there, and i have no desire to see her until i am forced to by school (seeing ...
A. 25 August 2006: Try getting your girlfriend to understand that there's not a hope in hell of you getting back with your ex (that's what I figure from the post anyway). Once she really believes that, she should have no problem at all.
If you do go to the party, h... (read in full...)
150 girls or less!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and, except for my problems with his past and the number of one night stands he's had, everything has been fine. Today, we were talking about it and he said I'm being silly and I'll never find someone ...
A. 24 August 2006: Wow this guy seems like a real jerk. I agree that he's controlling you. Like a puppet. On some seriously unholy strings perhaps...
I'm sure there are guys much nicer than him out there. From how he makes you feel, it shouldn't be hard to come ... (read in full...)
I orgasm when I got the loo!! Seriously how can I can stop this ?
Q. Ok I need some serious help. About two years ago I started doing kegel exercises every day. Needless to say it really helped. I experience way, way better orgasms, and I can grab a hold of things a alot better. If you know what I mean. Now sometimes ...
A. 23 August 2006: Ummm think of a seriously unsexy thought when you're using the bathroom?... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex with my bf! He wants it and I am scared he will hurt me if I turn him down! Please help me!
Q. hi, im 16 and im going out with a boy, but he wants sex and i dont want to i want to wait until im 20 or even marriage but he keeps pushing me into it and im suppose to see him tommorow and night and do it but i don't want to, i can't tell him beca...
A. 23 August 2006: He hit you? Even hell is too good for him... Leave him fast! Things can only get worse. You're still young, you can move out before you get trapped with no where to go.
Find someone you can trust to stay over with until you can get your own... (read in full...)
Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?
Q. OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...
A. 23 August 2006: Anonymous guy, what you yacking about? Which part of London you in exactly? Half baked accent my butt! The trash you see on tv isn't how people really speak like here in London. Go back to hell you jerk!
Anyway I couldn't tell the differen... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test said negative but is it accurate?
Q. Ok i havent had my period for 3 weeks now and i took a pregnancy test but it said I'm not pregnant. But i feel like i am. Do the tests mess up sometimes or is it accurate?...
A. 23 August 2006: Those things aren't 100% accurate and do give false readings sometimes. I used one once and it came back positive!!! Crazy test...
Anyway, like the last poster said, stress is a real problem for the cycle so to put your mind to rest, just get... (read in full...)
Men... Need your views on a third nipple!
Q. Dear cupid, i no this may seem like a very stupid question but i was wonderign if i could get the opinions of some guys. I have a 3rd nipple and i was wondering whether it would put you (a guy)off having sex with me? i would like an ones opinion but ...
A. 21 August 2006: Third nipple? I doubt it would put anyone off, they're more likely to take an interest in checking it out! Now I'm wondering what it looks like:-P google here I come!... (read in full...)
Is being with my third cousin incest?
Q. Me and a girl are real close and now I find out that shes my 3rd cousin. Does 3rd cousins matter or is that still gross???...
A. 21 August 2006: Whats a 3rd cousin? I still dont get 2nd cousin... someone explain it to me with an example please?... (read in full...)
Should you stay with someone that is totally selfish and doesnt respect your needs or wants ?
Q. My boyfriend was a very spoilt boy so got everything he wanted in life. In turn i found him to be very selfish and even in bed was only interested in himself. No matter what was said his selfish streak domineered and he got his own way - a bit of ...
A. 19 August 2006: Just leave him. It'll be a lot easier than getting him to change! Why'd you get with such a selfish guy in the first place? Either way, he's doing nothing for you so forget him and find someone nice... (read in full...)
How can I get past these feelings?
Q. hi, i wrote in on the 11th about how my boyfriend wouldnt give me oral sex because he said i smelt different from his ex girlfriend. im still with him amd i do want to work it out but i still cant let it go. i feel sick when he comes near me and i ...
A. 18 August 2006: Doesn't sound like you're with holding sex (spellcheck?), just not in the mood thanks to his crap. He shouldn't have compared you and the fact that he hasn't taken steps to try make up for it just makes me wonder, is he a decent guy? Or have you ... (read in full...)
She I be upset because he said I was "funny"???
Q. My husband came home from work and told me that he was at work and his friend was telling my husband how nice his wifes body was, and I asked my husband what he said to his friend about me, and my husband responded by saying, he didnt want to talk ...
A. 18 August 2006: I totally understand your husband's point of view. You shouldn't be bothered about that at all.... (read in full...)
I thought "what happens at camp stays at camp"... but now I think I did the wrong thing :-(
Q. well, i cheated on my bf while i was at camp. it was for the last week, and i deffently dont have feelings for this guy anymore. me and my bf almost never get to see each other durring the summer, and its hard on me because i love him soo much. so ...
A. 18 August 2006: Better yet, write it down. Pretty much everything you said now. That way he'll be able to get the whole thing without the chance that he'll freak out and not let you finish properly.... (read in full...)
We have been together 5 years, she tells me her heart is with her ex husband and stays with me for security!
Q. Her heart is with her ex husband,she says she is with me for security ,we have been together for 5 years and nothing has changed. She apparently stays on his couch once in a while when I am out of town. should I run or stay ?...
A. 17 August 2006: Your kiddin yourself if you think she's just over there sleeping on his couch. She's made an ass out of you totally. Leave her right now!... (read in full...)
We have been together 2 years, hes just found his "lettesr box" but wont let me see.. I feel put out!!
Q. Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He had four previous relationships, each only lasting 10 months, but pretty intense I think. The first of these, in particular, was very full on, although they were both young at the time ( it...
A. 17 August 2006: DrPete seems to have forgotten his coffee today:-P good advice from him though. Reading that stuff will probably make you feel insecure and cant do anything good for your relationship. Just forget about it... (read in full...)
Why do men want threesomes?
Q. first question: why do men want threesomes? second question: why would they want a threesome while they r already in a relationship with someone they love?...
A. 17 August 2006: I could never understand the threesome thing... A few friends and I had a little discussion about it some time ago. We wouldn't go for it cos of moral reasons but one thing we never understood was whats so fun about the thing? I mean, we only ... (read in full...)
My BF wasn't answering his phone - was he with someone else?
Q. I probably sound paranoid but just need reassurance of that. A few days ago it was my b-day and my b/f calls me at a time when he knows i will be getting out of the train. He never calls me at that time. His cell isnt in perfect condition but he...
A. 17 August 2006: Did the phone ring? Cos if it didn't, maybe he just forgot to switch it on. That happens to me sometime! Someone not picking up their phone is hardly any evidence so I think you shouldn't worry about it. Atleast you know what to get him for his ... (read in full...)
I swallowed. How long does it stay in my body?
Q. Hi im 18 years old in a good relationship. I was just wondering how long does semen (cum) stay in my body/ bloodstream after i swallow my bfs? Any replies gr8ly apreciated!!!!!! thanx...
A. 17 August 2006: Cant say for sure but since it goes in your stomach and is a liquid sorta thing, probably a few hours? Think of it like... a protein drink maybe:-P it probably lasts the same length of time in your body... (read in full...)
We are nopt well off..so what can I give my bf without spending a lot of money!
Q. its my bf b day this saturday. ive been goin gout with him for 2 months and one day. he is really nice to me and so far he has got me a necklace some ear rings a winnie the pooh teddy and these mermaid crystals balls things. my mom doesnt work and ...
A. 15 August 2006: Well really its the thought that counts and since you did get him something when you couldn't really afford it easily, he should be pleased.
Instead of just giving him the present, think around the thing. How could you give him the present ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 yrs old and smoke , how much harm is this doing to me?
Q. i have smoked 6 or 7 cigerettes 3 in 1 go kinda 1 after another n then the n 3 or 4 after it seperate ..im only 13 and i wanna know how much harm i have caused to myself please be persific ...
A. 14 August 2006: Smoking is so gross... It stinks worse than a Rhino's butt (or so I hear:-P) but really its the worst habit to pick up. Whats so fun about it anyway?
Well the risks I guess are the cancer thing. Thats pretty bad. Gross looking gums and teeth! E... (read in full...)
Should I deceive my partner and get pregnant?
Q. If you were to get yourself pregnant on purpose without your partner knowing your intentions, and you had their baby and loved it with all your heart because it reminded you of him, is it still a wrong thing to do? Considering that this kid will...
A. 14 August 2006: Sounds to me like you're trying to convince yourself that its ok. Did you by any chance post on this site before about this kind of problem? Cos if you did, I wasn't serious about 'forgetting' birth control!
Anyway, it would be good for the kid ... (read in full...)
Should my abuser get away with it?
Q. Hey guys I would like to bring the man who raped and abused me 11 years ago to justice. This is the problem I found out through counselling that I was abused as a child after careful thought I have decided to bring my rapist to justice is that ...
A. 12 August 2006: I think you should report him even if there is not enough evidence for a conviction. Like Dr Psych said (excellent words from here as usual!) atleast the cops will know another possible sex offender in case he does anything again.... (read in full...)
Was I used by her ? and are all girls like this ?
Q. My first girlfriend broke up with me, as she was getting back together with her ex. Was I used and are all girls like that? I know that sounds harsh but I don't actually believe a women would love me for who I am....
A. 11 August 2006: Maybe it was a rebound thing... they tend to not last.
Dont let one bad experience get you down!... (read in full...)
I dont like the idea of him going to a bachelor party, am I just being too insecure ?
Q. Is it naive to trust a b/f at a bachelor party? I am jealous and insecure about this and my b/f thinks i am being childish and immature. He says the strippers are not there to have sex with everyone in the place. I feel like what goes on at these ...
A. 11 August 2006: Hmmm looks like all the guys who've posted so far are all for this stag party thing...
A lot of women I know wont be happy to know their partners are going to get a lap dance. I dont think your prudish or nothing for feeling the way you do. If ... (read in full...)
I've got this crush on a guy I'm never going to see again... what should I do ?
Q. I have a crush on this really cute guy and we started to get closer and closer, but he moved away and now I'll never see him again. The worst part is that he was with someone else. He told me that before he left and now i'm mad plz help... What s...
A. 10 August 2006: Forget about him somehow. You'll never see him again which must really suck to know.
Dont try and give yourself amnesia, it hurts:-P... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant if I come on my period?
Q. I think I might be pregnant but if I come on my period after doing things does this mean for certain I am not pregnant or do I still need to take a pregnancy test?...
A. 10 August 2006: You definitely probably could be:-P
Then again you definitely probably might not be!
Not helpful at all huh?
Get a pregnancy test kit. But here's a question for people, preferably doctors. The kit detects the pregnancy hormone right? Is the h... (read in full...)
I'm 16, said yes to the boy's proposal, so what was I thinking?
Q. ello, i'm 16 and i had this friend that wouldnt stop asking me out and after 6 months of him asking me to date him he took me to a hockey game and acted completly different then he did in school so i finaly gave in and desided to give him a chanc...
A. 10 August 2006: Well it has to be done (breaking up)... unless you're willing to live a miserable life for quite a while!
Just tell him how you feel. It might not be nice to break his heart but you can feel secure in the knowledge that soon u can look back on ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a thing for ethnic girls, but I am not, and he's trying to change me into one
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. I love him and know that he loves me. The issue I face is that he is really into ethnic/exotic looking girls. I am the complete opposite. I'm fair skinned with light hair and light eyes. ...
A. 10 August 2006: a lotta harsh words there from wild thaing! Forget your coffee this morning?:P
true though, dont let this jerk try change u into something you're not and probably dont want to be. Tell him to find someone else to treat as his modelling clay! Y... (read in full...)
I want kids now but he says another 3 years! What should I do?
Q. Two years before my husband and I got married we discused trying to have children after being married a year. Now that we have been married a year he keeps saying that he's not ready and pushes it back further...now he tells me in three more years. ...
A. 10 August 2006: Umm 'forget' to take any birth control pills?:-P
Guess you'll have to talk to him and see what his reasons for holding back are. He may just not feel ready to be a dad or perhaps he's worried about how he could afford taking care of a child.
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