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I wouldn't sleep with him and now--he won't speak to me! Are all guys like this?

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Question - (12 January 2007) 12 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2007)
A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i didnt slept with him! now he doesnt really talk to me! is he a Dic* or are most lads like this? i did really like him but im a virgin! but he didnt no that! is it my fault iv pushed him away (im nearly 18 in case u wanted 2 know)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007):

Oh gees, girl! You can do so much better! Don't you know you're stronger than him? Ditch him! A true man will respect you and care for you- and don't you let him make you do anything you don't want to. Go kick ass! Not all men are like that- and i know that personally. One day that special guy will come along- until then- Good Luck!

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A female reader, NenaUnique Puerto Rico +, writes (15 January 2007):

NenaUnique agony auntso he doesnt want to talk to you now? either he just hanged around you alot and made believe he liked you just to see how far he got and if he didnt get far he leaves or maybe he likes you alot and you turned him on and he wanted to do it..but you rejected and that just turned him off and he really got mad..soo i think if he really does like you then he will talk to you again or call you and say sorry even though he didnt do anything (i think)orrr if he just was playing you out the whole time then he wont talk to you anymore.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007):

He's an idiot if he left just because you wouldn't sleep with him...i can tell u for a fact he's not worth your time and you shouldn't even consider a relationship with him!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007):

If you showed a true interest in him and he really liked you, he would wait. The only time, I, personally haven't waited is when I know a girl is just playing with me just so she can show off to friends that she's got me and can ' have me anytime she wants'.

Really forget him...if you don't he will probably talk you round, you'll lose your virginity cheaply like probably more girls to him and probably be talked about as a slut around the school yard. I'm sure you don't want that.

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2007):

maxsteel86 agony auntDick. Not all guys are like that

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (12 January 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntWhat a scum bag. Not all guys are like this, I swear. Wait for a nice guy to come along who doesn't treat you like trash to give your affection to.

You just got unlucky with this guy. Ugh.

Sorry, sweetness.

xxIndia

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007):

All guys are not like this at all. You have just been in the presence of a complete and utter pig. You are well rid. Get right away from this idiot. There are plenty more lovely guys out there. Sleeping with someone isn't what life is all about and never do it until you are good and ready despite what fellas say. You will meet a proper one in the future. Don't put up with rubbish from them. You deserve better.

Take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007):

This guy is an immature lout. And no..not all guys are like that. And be glad you are rid of him. Interesting how some (not all) men compare sex to a sporting event and nothing else. You are using your head and you know that no matter how much sex women give a men, some of them don't have the capacity to love a girl back.. You are better off with out him, because it's plainly obvious he just wants sex..nothing else. Lot of girls get caught up in the notion that if I give him sex, he's stick around. Not so. I am glad you are smart enough to discern what he's up...keep being a smart girl and making wise choices.I respect that.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntNo, absolutely not! There are plenty of guys like him around, especially at your age when loads of guys are immature but hang in there. There is someone out there who is worth waiting for. Just be glad you didn't sleep with him if that's the way he believes in treating women! Hope this helps.

CD

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A female reader, lena +, writes (12 January 2007):

lena agony auntfirst off you haven't pushed him away! all he was thinking about was sex. don't do anything your not comfortable with just to please a man. he obviously didn't care how you felt and when you said no to sex he was off looking for another girl to please his obsesions. don't let him get to you, you will find a man that loves you and cares for you and you will loose your virginity through love and it will be the best day/night of your life!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007):

No, all guys aren't like this, but that is why it is a good practice NOT to sleep with a guy to soon or at all if you are wanting the relationship to grow, you just weeded out a guy who was after one thing, but probably tried to make you think he was really into you and not just your body, now you know, ditch him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007):

He is a dick. Good guys aren't like this. Cross him off your list.

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