Need advice on the best type of condom to use...
Q. What is the best kind of condom to use in sex....
A. 21 November 2006: Dont know about brands but the extra sensitive ones feel less rubbery and give more sensation for both partners... (read in full...)
I trust her but I don't trust her ex bf! He sends her texts so what can I do about him?
Q. My Girlfriend 11 month's ago told me her ex boyfriend txted her saying " y don't u come to my house " she txted back " y would i? " he txt her saying " so i can f**k you " (she let me read the txt's) now i got mad at this and he was lucky i didn't ...
A. 21 November 2006: Have a chat with the guy. Tell him not to be texting your girlfriend anymore unless he's willing to accept the 'trouble' that'll come with it (kick his ass!)
If your not the violent type or something, then tell your girlfriend that you're u... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing...making him burn a note... from someone long before I came along.
Q. Ok, I was sleeping over at my boyfriends house, and everything was going great, until I found this little dusty note above his computer. It was from 5 years ago and he warned me not to look at it, but I did anyways...I got really upset about it, and ...
A. 20 November 2006: I guess you did push it by pretty much forcing him to burn it. But its too late to undo it. Talk it out and make sure you get it out of both your systems cos this is the kinda stuff that could lead to resentment in the future. Expect it to take ... (read in full...)
Domestic abuse is something I endured and it needs to be addressed!
Q. I am so sorry to post this but I think this matter needs to be addressed. A couple of night ago I suffered domestic abuse at the hands of my partner and not for the first time either.This time i was told by the police to go to my gp and document...
A. 20 November 2006: Hmm sorry to hear about your situation but why dont you just take a baseball bat to your partner's head? If he gets away with it, so should you be able to. I mean just one quick whack. You might actually enjoy it! Or is that what you're afraid ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and get embarrassed when I don't orgasm!
Q. please help im 13 and dont orgasm and i worry when boys/men go to do things with me i wont orgasm and i feel embarrased. ...
A. 17 November 2006: Anyone notice how many 13 year old females seem to be posting about their vaginal issues recently? If you really are a kid, go talk to your mother.
I suspect its another sicko getting off on their fantasies... (read in full...)
can a tampn break your hymen?
Q. hi surly a tampon can break your hymen as it must go bup about 5 inchs! and arnt most mens penis only abit bigger???...
A. 16 November 2006: Hmmm i dont know... there's a lot of girls in london but I doubt many of them do horse riding!:-P... (read in full...)
He fingered me with sperm on his hand - now my period is late and I feel bloated!
Q. my boyfriend fingered me about two months ago and he may have had sperm on his finger whilst doing it. i havent had my period since and its never usually late and my tummy is bloated. could i be pregnant?...
A. 15 November 2006: Totally disagree with that anon post, sorry if this worries you but yeah its possible. Sperm can easily survive a day in the open (so long as its not too cold) so it could've been on his finger, though the chances of getting pregnant from it is ... (read in full...)
He texted Natalie...and I'm not Natalie!!!
Q. Short 1 here. Am i being too over paranoid? Or is it a stupid question ! My bf just sent me a message sayin - not 2night natalie, speak later my names not natalie!!!!!!!!...
A. 14 November 2006: Maybe he's used to texting to your number. So when he wanted to txt Natalie, he hit your number from his contacts list by mistake? Happens to me all the time:-P... (read in full...)
She's coming onto me in front of her bf...and he is encouraging it!!! What's going on?!
Q. I go to my local pub with my mum and dad once a week for the karaoke. A couple of months ago, this girl came in with her boyfriend and another guy, but was totally flirting with me. My mum and dad have known this girl as her and her boyfrien...
A. 13 November 2006: From what I got from your message, it seems they're probably in an open relationship. Its up to you if you wanna go ahead with it or not... (read in full...)
I need a full explanantion of what 'snogging' is? Any advice?
Q. Hi Im 13 Years Old And I Have Never Snogged A Boy All My Friends Have And im Going Out With This Boy And he keeps Goin In To Snog me But I Dont No What To Do People Say Just Slip Your Tong In There Mouth But Then What Do You Do With It ?? I Dnt ...
A. 13 November 2006: Ummm watch the movie cruel intentions. The scene where buffy (sorry I forgot the actress's name!) kisses the other girl might teach you something! Not sure about its age rating though...... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this shaving disaster??
Q. Ok, this is kind of a wierd post, but I've kept things shaved 'down there' for about a year because my bf prefered it that way (now I do too). But, being clumsy, I've shaved a little too close to the actual opening of my vagina, and as a result hair ...
A. 13 November 2006: have you tried electrolysis? Those things are pretty cheap (pick one up from argos if they exist where you're from) and you seriously wont feel a thing (I never felt anything when I used them!:-P) after using it for a while, the hair definitely ... (read in full...)
Am I normal or has my past made me "screwed up?"
Q. I was forced to 'touch up' my babysitter when I was about 10, and in a competely unrelated incident my Dad was sent to prison for sexual harrasment towards girls as young as 11 when I was younger (he never touched me in that way, but I had a lot of ...
A. 13 November 2006: What Juls said is so true... The only way you'll know if these experiences has affected you is with a professional... (read in full...)
My bf does not look at other women sexually. Is this unusual?
Q. my boyfriend said that he does not look at women sexually, for example he does not care to look at a woman's body ie; breast and bums, like many men do. He says that I insult him when I say he must do and that it is in a man's make-up to do that. ...
A. 12 November 2006: Its normal but rare... (read in full...)
Brotherly love
Q. I have been involved in a sexual relationship with my younger brother for nearly twenty years now. We first had sex when he was twelve and I sixteen. I became pregnant with his child and gave birth to a healthy baby boy. Unsure as to what I should ...
A. 29 October 2006: Who is this sick wiener? This is like the third or fourth incest post about screwing siblings in like 3 days! Obviously by the same sicko. Here's a tip for you: Type up all the crap that's in your mind and post it on the website Literotica. ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother and having sex with him
Q. I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...
A. 23 October 2006: This is a fake question isn't it? I think someone has been reading too many books by Virginia Andrews!!!... (read in full...)
I've resenting found out he has registered on a site to meet a shemale!!!
Q. I have been married for 3 years and have two young children. We have a very happy marriage and I know that my husband loves me however i have recently discovered that he has been registering on certain websites in order to meet a 'shemale'. Having ...
A. 22 October 2006: To hell with him thinking its your fault for snooping! If the world had snooped earlier, North Korea wouldn't have nukes! You wanna let this problem get out of hand? Confront your husband about it. If he asks too many questions as to how you ... (read in full...)
My fiancee or my ex bf?? Whom do I choose?
Q. My fiancee and me are great together 95% of the time and I love him. Recently however, I've been talking a lot more to my bestfriend who happens to be my ex-boyfriend and he told me he still has feelings for me... the is problem is that I still have ...
A. 20 October 2006: Well I guess you could look at it this way: staying with your fiance wouldn't hurt either of them:-)
Or if you really cant decide, guess you can always flip a coin!... (read in full...)
He wants me to strip on cam for him or he will keep pasting my email addy to everyone!!
Q. well this lad added me annd i ended up arguing with him cos he was really racist ((a didnt no him)) and i blocked him, thn all i get is LOADS of ppl adding me, lyk 50 every minute or summit stupid, he's basically put my addy up on a syt, en loads of ...
A. 13 October 2006: Dont reply to the email or nothing. Just get a new address preferably from a different server thingy like if you're on hotmail, switch to gmail or yahoo. They still work on the new windows live messenger... (read in full...)
My bf thinks I love my pet dog more than him and he's threatening to leave! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend is threataning to dump me just becuse i love my dog more than him. That dog has been with me for so long, Has shared all my best memories with me and always been there for me when i needed him most. Some people will think i'm pathetic ...
A. 12 October 2006: No one likes being second best. My girlfriend would dump me if I ever told her I love my dog more than her even though I've had my dog way longer than her. I totally agree that the vet thing was a must and your boyfriend should understand that.
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8 days late and stomach seems to be getting bigger. Can somebody please explain?
Q. I am now about 8 days late with my monthlys (me im usually on time or only 2-3 days late if anything), and have had constantly on my mind that i could be pregnant,after having unprotected sex with my bf. And another thing i've also noticed is that ...
A. 8 October 2006: Stress can delay your period quite a bit. Why not just get a test kit?
And katylouise is right. You cant be getting fatter from pregnancy in just 8 days! Stress can also slow down your metabolism and make you gain weight... (read in full...)
if he wants me to be a better in the bedroom, shouldn't he use not just the bedroom
Q. my partner says im no good in the bedroom but my reasons are as follows:-my partner stays in the bedroom all the time, yeh he goes to work when he feels and also to the toilet and the fridge to get a beer. apart from that hes in the bedroom....my ...
A. 8 October 2006: Write what you just said down and send it to him. That'll definitely explain things and possibly open his eyes... (read in full...)
I had sex with a chav, now people want to beat me up.
Q. the other week i was at a party and got really drunk. i ended up having sex with this chav, which was a really big mistake. i went back to school and all these other chavs now want to beat me up because he has a girlfriend (which i didnt know ...
A. 8 October 2006: Chavs eh? They seem to have spread everywhere like a plague! Dont worry, I doubt they'd beat up a girl (unless by chavs you mean chavettes?). Best bet is trying to avoid them for now and hoping the situation passes; they're bound to move on ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to break up with her without causing too much pain?
Q. I have been going out with this girl for a little over a year. She's great, I love her, would hate to hurt her. The relationship has been great, we very rarely even argue and have never raised our voices when arguing. In most of our first year it ...
A. 5 October 2006: I dont agree with Lynnsie in the take her to a concert thing. You dont wanna give her one heck of a nice time just before ripping her heart out!! Thats the worst way to break up (from experience!).
Just tell her that things have changed,... (read in full...)
Horrible thoughts about something I did as a kid. Any advice on how to cope?
Q. Ever since my ex boyfriend i have been getting unwanted sexual thoughts about anyone. I would never ever act on it but i even get them for a kid i babysit who is 1. I think i only get them for him though because when i was 5-7 i got on top of ...
A. 5 October 2006: I think that being able to ask help for something like this is pretty brave of you. But I do agree with Jadzia in that you should stay away from the baby sitting thing and other situations where you'll be unsupervised with kids. It'll be better ... (read in full...)
Update on the AdultfriendFinder fake account I set up to catch my cheatin' gf!
Q. I've written on here before about setting up a fake AdultFriendFinder account to set up my girlfriend, and it worked, as sad as it is to say. She planned her whole day around meeting my alter ego, skipping class, getting something to wea...
A. 3 October 2006: Nicely done pal! Atleast you got the info that you needed to know. Unlucky it wasn't good news but now you can move on. Good luck!... (read in full...)
He wants me to get an apartment so his ex can continue to live in our house!
Q. Ok folks...awhile ago I wrote about a problem with an ex-g-friends pawning her child on my boyfriend and interrupting in our relationship and everyone was mad because I didn't want any of it anymore...So, update...As he continued to treat her needs ...
A. 1 October 2006: They all got mad at you for not wanting her in your house? Its your house, why the heck should you have to settle for less control than your dumbass's ex? Dont listen to any of his BS excuses, bust in there and kick her and her kid out!!!!!
... (read in full...)
Dirty text messages found on mobile
Q. 6 monthes ago my wife had a mobile phone which i didnt know of, when i found it ,it was full of dirty texts she had sent to 2 guys. one of the guys was her friends hubby, her friend was also in on the dirty texts. now i have found she has another ...
A. 28 September 2006: I think the software by MobileAction can display texts from the phone on to a PC so long as the phone is switched on. I think thats the one, I'm about 80% certain of that.
Obviously you would feel uncomfortable with this considering her past. I... (read in full...)
How can I make my insecure boyfriend trust me? I am so sick of his bull!!
Q. Okay. I'm 21 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. My past relationships I've been cheated on. Finally I found someone who doesn't cheat and I trust completely. One problem. He is very insecure. He makes stupid comments and asks ...
A. 24 September 2006: Your pregnant so maybe the hormones are making you even more irritable to his yackedy shmackedy. Calm down and dont do anything to crazy just yet! Talk to him and tell him that he definitely needs to get over his insecurity now more than ever ... (read in full...)
Forced to move to Australia, people are nice, but I really really miss home and Im really depressed!!
Q. hiya! i wrote asking for help about six months ago. i wrote because i was being made to move to australia! everyones advice made me more confident about moving. but now ive moved iv reilised how much i miss home, and how much i hate it here! the ...
A. 22 September 2006: You'll get used to the place I'm sure. When I moved to Demver, I settled in real fast, the place was just amazing! You'll eventually start thinking of Australia as your home. Six months isn't that much of a long time to get used to a place, you ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to not want my boyfriend to go to the Navy?
Q. Is it wrong for me to not want my boyfriend to go to the Navy? He already went and took a test to see what he was qualified for. He was telling all the wonderful things they can do, like pay for a house and things such as that. I personally, do not ...
A. 22 September 2006: I almost joined the RAF as an engineering officer. I thought it would have been one hell of an experience which is true. But then I decided I couldn't go so long without seeing my girlfriend so gave up on that. I dont regret the decision one bit. ... (read in full...)
How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating?
Q. how do you know if your boyfriend is cheating? or even if your man is meeting other girls? i was at college and decided 2 ring my boyfriend, he was on the bus and asked me if i could ring him back in a couple of hours he was with his mate and then i ...
A. 22 September 2006: Dont worry about the bus thing, thats not really a sign at all. A lot of people I know just sit on the bus and go from one station to another and back to kill time!:-P
Only you know your boyfriend well enough to figure out if he's seeing someone ... (read in full...)
If I lose weight, will my penis become larger?
Q. Hello, I am in my early 20s and I am about 6'1" and weight about 310 pounds. When erect, my penis is 5.5 inches long. I know that's a good size, but my question is, if I lose weight, will my penis become larger when erect or be the same size? I know ...
A. 21 September 2006: Lol!!! Dude you've gotta be the funniest guy on this site!!!:-P
As for the penis thing, it wont change size but its a good idea to lose weight anyway (unless its 310 pounds of pure muscle in which case I say keep it!:-P)... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 19 September 2006: The rating idea from Stina is good. But chatrooms are usually one good way of screwing things up real fast. Before you know it, everyone will have forgotten what this site is actually about!
Doing a great job pal!
From London, UK... (read in full...)
I can only orgasm when I touch myself during sex. Is this normal?
Q. I have a new boyfriend and I am hopelessly attracted to him sexually. He makes me weak at the knees and turns me on like no one else ever has. The problem is that we recently started having sex. He does everthing right and it feels great, b...
A. 16 September 2006: I'm pretty sure he wont mind. Anything thats giving you pleasure, he's sure to like!... (read in full...)
We are meeting up for sex and we have phone, sex too. Now he wants me to urinate on him...is this normal?
Q. Im seeing this guy who we meet up every couple of weeks to have sex and we call each other during the week to have phone sex, but he asked me to urinate on him, im fine with this i think its fun but is this normal??? x ...
A. 16 September 2006: People get turned on by things that would be considered weird by others. Normal by who's standards? Everyone has a different opinion on whats normal. In mine, no its not normal but thats just my own.
But who cares if its normal right? You said... (read in full...)
Is my wife's friendship crossing the line???
Q. Is my wife's friendship crossing the line? My wife and I have been married for 7 years. She has a male friend and they have been friends since childhood. When he was in high school he had several girlfriends and was heterosexual then. During co...
A. 14 September 2006: Why should you have to put up with some guy groping your wife? Personally I say go teach this s.o.b a lesson! Just cos he's gay doesn't make him any less of a man. And they're always campaigning for equal rights. If it was a straight guy, I'm ... (read in full...)
Why are guys afraid to date virgins???
Q. Why are guys afraid to date virgins? What's your view on this?...
A. 13 September 2006: Cos they suck :-P (sorry, everyone's already said the good stuff!)... (read in full...)
I was prepared to up and leave and live in the Middle East with him, but now hes gone cold ??
Q. So confused, ive been seeing my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months he moved abroad in jan 2006 and ive been out there twice to see him and he has met me once in a country nearby. We have been under pressure as he wanted me to move abroad to be with ...
A. 10 September 2006: Maybe he's come to his senses and decided it sucks to live in the middle east? Why would you want to start a life in that place anyway?
If your boyfriend's contract expires and he returns to where you live (hopefully the west or even the far east... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!
Q. My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...
A. 9 September 2006: DrPsych that was the best piece of advice that could've been offered!... (read in full...)
I have a sexual problem that my doctor says doesnt exist please.. Please help!!
Q. I have a sexual problem and my doctor wouldn't help me. I almost feel like I'm imagining this as my doctor wouldn't help me and he basically said it was in my head. It's so personal that it's difficult to explain or see anyone about it. one of my ...
A. 9 September 2006: My GP is worthless S.O.B too thats why I never go to him. Just go straight to your local hospital's A&E department complaining of some pain in your testicles. They'll give you a scan and will be able to spot the problem real fast and help you out ... (read in full...)
Worried about my sons odd diet!!
Q. Hi there Apologies if this seems weird or odd, but it's a problem which I can't seem to find much advice for. My 14-year-old son is having an odd diet; he ate spaghetti, ice-cream and mashed potato in one meal washed down with Coca-Cola. Then...
A. 6 September 2006: Dont worry about the combination of food he's eating, thats not gonna cause much problem. But that sounds like a hell of a lotta food for one meal! Eating a lot irregularly can lead to diabetes:-O... (read in full...)
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