I want kids now but he says another 3 years! What should I do?
Q. Two years before my husband and I got married we discused trying to have children after being married a year. Now that we have been married a year he keeps saying that he's not ready and pushes it back further...now he tells me in three more years. ...
A. 10 August 2006: Umm 'forget' to take any birth control pills?:-P
Guess you'll have to talk to him and see what his reasons for holding back are. He may just not feel ready to be a dad or perhaps he's worried about how he could afford taking care of a child.
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Worried about my girlfriend's past rape... Is she still a virgin? Should it be forgotten?
Q. My girlfriend was raped when she was younger, disturbingly by her own brother, does that mean that she lost her virginity to him. I can't stop thinking about it, it fills me up with hatred and it don't make me feel very good, it really bothers me. ...
A. 9 August 2006: Something should be done I think. I doubt she wants to drag this in front of the courts and everything. Just go over there and give him a good ass kicking, I doubt he'd tell anyone if he knows you know. (careful not to kill him, you wont believe ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my hubby
Q. How do I avoid having sex with my husband for some time?...
A. 6 August 2006: Well since what I've been thinkin has already been said, I'll go with trying to help...
How about say you got an infection and you cant have sex for two weeks? I think thats an average length for how long you can have them.
I got the info of ... (read in full...)
I came inside my girlfriend...
Q. Me and my girlfriend of 1 1/2 months, had unprotected sex. I came inside of her and she went straight to the bathroom to pee. Does she still have a chance of getting pregnant?...
A. 6 August 2006: You need to be careful with this, peeing after sex would have no effect on the chances of pregnancy. Get a test kit towards when her period is due. Hope you'll learn your lesson! the worrying really sucks...... (read in full...)
I don't want to be near her, help!
Q. There is this 17 year-old girl in my karate class, who I absolutely don't want to be friends with. She is way more girly and acts much more grown-up than me, and I feel uncomfortable talking to and being around her. I understand that she is trying ...
A. 5 August 2006: If you really cant stand her, just challenge her to a full contact sparring match. Turn the would-be friend into a rival. That's been proven to work!... (read in full...)
He offered to get my winning lottery ticket paid... and the win ended up paying his loan!
Q. My boyfriend offered to help me by taking my winning lottery ticket to the claim center for me. It was a good idea because I cannot leave the house as I take care of my mother on life support. The claim center took the funds and applied it to his ...
A. 5 August 2006: I'm guessing we're talking about a large amount of money and not something like £10 here... Guy's a thief! You can bust him on grand larceny (new word, let me know if I spelt it right:-P). To hell with his feelings, get a payment plan sor... (read in full...)
Text speak etiquette
Q. Whenever me and my girlfriend text each other or speak online we have always put ' i love you ' after a tiny little text such as 'on my way up in 5 minutes. I love you xxxx' we do this. I think its her idea mianly to do this and was from the start ...
A. 5 August 2006: You could just shorten it to 'Love you' or even 'Love u' if you're running out of message space (personally I never use 'luv u' cos that's painful on the eyes:-P). And with the predictive type on, you could do that in last than a second! It really ... (read in full...)
Can you forgive cheating behaviour?
Q. I am just curious as to whether or not people in general think that a cheating partner can be forgiven. If so, do you think that they are most likely going to do it again? Just wondering about what people thought of this kind of stuff. Thanks!...
A. 5 August 2006: I've always thought cheating is a bit like killing... its easier the more you do it:-P (I'm on zero for both :-D) Seems to make a lot of sense there. Someone who cheats once might be forgiven but more than that, then probably not a trustworthy ... (read in full...)
Does it Matter that My 15-Year-Old Friend Won't Have Sex with Me?
Q. I'm really good friends with this girl in my neighborhood. She's 15 and I'm 19. we both want to get more into an intimate relationship and bring our friendship to the next level, sort of like friends with benefits. The thought of sex has come up, ...
A. 4 August 2006: Yeah go for it pal, everyone's behind you on this:-) Thats probably what you wanted to hear since you know that everyone would actually be against you. First, she's 15 so not even at the legal age! Anyway, would it kill you to find someon... (read in full...)
He keeps asking how good the sex was so should I tell him? "AWFUL!"
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of three months a few weeks ago, which I was glad of. He now keeps asking me if he was any good at doing sexual things with me (it was his first time). Should I lie and say he was good or should I tell him the truth ...
A. 4 August 2006: The last reply was pretty good, dont tell it like that:-P unless you wanna destroy his self esteem in which case it would be a good way to go! Point out the parts that sucked and maybe tell him how might have improved. Telling him he was great... (read in full...)
Why are women such idiots!
Q. Last Wednesday I had a teeney tiny argument with my girlfriend, I later on apologised (even though it wasn't my fault). On Friday I asked her did she want to do something or go somewhere and got no reply.....fine. On Sunday still no word so I rang ...
A. 4 August 2006: All women are idiots? You only got that one woman's actions and stuff to back that up which isn't much. I'm surprised all the women here aren't on this guy's case! Guess what you said to your girlfriend was good since it hits the point easily... (read in full...)
Do women prefer a hairy chest or shaved chest?
Q. what do women prefer, a hairy chest or a shaved chest?...
A. 3 August 2006: I dont think hairy bodies are nice... I dont shave or nothing but thankfully, I never got hairy:-) not even on the face:-D but just out of curiosity, why do some women like hairy chests?
And martini, I've seen some japanese guys with hairy ch... (read in full...)
Can he get in trouble for getting me pregnant?
Q. I am a 17 year old who is dating a 20 year old, and I want to know if he can get in trouble if he got me pregnant, if my mom knew we were having sex?...
A. 3 August 2006: Well you're both over the legal age in the civilised world (UK, maybe USA too:-P) so there's nothing he can get in trouble with... Except maybe with your mum...... (read in full...)
What's "chin pie"? My BF jokes he's going to give it to me!
Q. Can anyone tell me what 'chin pie' is?? My b/f keeps joking about giving me one - (a chin pie, that is, not 'giving me one'!)...
A. 3 August 2006: Either way, doesn't sound very nice:-P... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems disgusted with me, I am so unhappy
Q. I've been with my boyfriend since February. We live together in our own house (the bills are crazy) so I can see where things may be a little stressful on him. I mean he comes home to a clean house and dinner made everynight. Here is my problem. ...
A. 3 August 2006: Maybe he's seriously stressed out with the money problem? Money problems really suck... They say money isn't everything which is true but it makes everything a whole lot easier! Maybe you should get a job? That might ease the burden... (read in full...)
I am just depressed all the time about my marriage
Q. hi i need to talk to someone, i hate being married all i've done for the past four years is look after my father in law no one likes me. It like i'm just part of the furniture in the house. I've cried and cried to my husband but he wo'nt do ...
A. 3 August 2006: Sounds like you got a real problem... doesn't look like you got many options...
Thats what a quitter would say! How old are you? I doubt you'd wanna go the rest of your life feeling miserable. Sure you dont have the strength to leave or are y... (read in full...)
Not sure how to interpret his text, does he mean we are over ?
Q. Have been going out with a lad on/off for the last three months. For the last week I've really busy and have been unable to return his msgs. Then yesterday he sent me this text here it is word for word "Deep heartfelt msg take1, sorry4annoying y...
A. 2 August 2006: He's broken up with you over text. That really sucks. Dont feel too bad, anyone who texts like that cant be more than a total asshole, I mean T9 does good grammar and spelling for crying out loud!!!... (read in full...)
She comes home from work drunk, and she's cheated on me numerous times! Should I stay or go?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. Last summer she got a new job at a bar, hoping to make some extra money. The problems in our relationship started there. She would come home drunk almost every night of the week. At ...
A. 30 July 2006: since you cant forgive her after a year, I think the answer should be pretty obvious. Do both of yous (bad grammar there, dont follow :-P) a favour and leave... (read in full...)
I want to keep my fiance from knowing that I've had sex before!
Q. I'm in a very weird situation. My wedding is coming up in about a year with the guy that I haven't told that I've had sex many times before, due to some family and personal reasons. And I kind of do want to keep it a secret from him because I'm ...
A. 30 July 2006: How's he gonna find out if you dont tell him?
But this is probably one of those things that'll come up and bite you in the ass sometime in the future so it'll be better to tell him now than explain it later.
If he's not ok with it, then dont wo... (read in full...)
I'm having periods but I'm worried that I'm pregnant
Q. iv just turned 14 but wen i was 13 i went out with this boy and i had unprotected sex with him at least 4 times and he came inside me cos he assumed i was on the pill but i wasnt i cant remember this was about 3/4 months ago i am getting periods ...
A. 26 July 2006: For 3/4 months you've had your periods? I'm totally sure you're not pregnant. I guess there might be those few who do have periods all the way through their pregnancy (sorry I dont believe you, i no how u feel, but for something like that I'm sure ... (read in full...)
I fall in love with rats!
Q. Hello All, I was wondering if I could get some advice from any men out there? I'm a single woman in early 30s, and I constantly seem to attract men who are lovely in the beginning, but then turn out to be complete rats. What's more, I fi...
A. 26 July 2006: This was way too long to read, so I'll just say what my initial reaction was to the title.
EWWW rats!!!! Come on, u can do better :-P... (read in full...)
Boys/guys: What do you think about?
Q. What do guys think about? can anyone give me a true breakdown of their minds cos at the moment i dont have a clue. Help please! This seems very random but i have my reasons...so any boys wana share their thoughts?...
A. 26 July 2006: Personally, I think about loads of stuff...
My girlfriend obviously, after that, probably work, study, money, aircraft?...
More importantly, dying and going blind. Those are big on my list for some reason :-P
I haven't actually thought abo... (read in full...)
He says nothing's happening, but his actions say otherwise!
Q. My husband works in a pub. He came home and told me a girl that goes in there is always chatting him up. When I asked him if he was seeing her he told me it was nothing to do with me. Now I'm getting phone calls at set times twice a week, on nigh...
A. 25 July 2006: Why are you sticking with a guy who tells you that sort of crap? If she chases long enough, he'll leave you? Leave the dumbass first... (read in full...)
Im pregnant, but I dont want this baby, how can I go about getting a termination ?
Q. I'm 17 and I'm pregnant. I don't want a baby but i don't know how to get rid of it. I can't go to a hospital coz someone might find out. What should i do? I need an abortion....
A. 24 July 2006: She's 17, of course she doesn't want a child now!
Hi, first time is free if you're under 18. Just make an appointment with your doctor or just go to the hospital, they're both good choices. I doubt anyone would find out at the hospital, doctors ... (read in full...)
We were going to get married, but then while on holiday he was getting messages from another woman! We talked it through but hes now not sure about me!!
Q. I had been with my man for 3 and a half years. A year ago he asked me to marry him, it was the happiest day of my life. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how beautiful I was. The last year we have had to live apart because of our ...
A. 24 July 2006: Its over. Stop calling else you'll just feel even worse. Sounds like his mind's made up and not gonna change it.
Just think like this: screw him, he's a lying cheating s.o.b! You can find someone else :-)
Hope that works!... (read in full...)
I joined summer school thinking they would be the same age but they are not, how can get through this week!
Q. I recently went to a summer school for acting, singing and dancing. Three things which I really love. I was promised that there would be people there that were about my age, and I had hoped that I would find someone to flirt with! However, now I'm ...
A. 24 July 2006: Hope you learnt a lesson... Hopes can be dashed very easily. Never have them...:-( is what homer simpson would say :-P
Well since you like what the school's about, just focus on that. Its only a week right? I'm sure there are people who have... (read in full...)
He didnt give me the change from the car parts he got, then said he forget I think its stealing he says not!
Q. I have been dating a guy and he has been staying at my house off and on. The situation is that I gave $100 to get some parts for my car(they ended up costing $40). He claims he "forgot to give me my change and was holding on to it, but yet he spent ...
A. 24 July 2006: You're not being petty, that is stealing plain and simple! I've heard of wives beating the living hell out of husbands for taking £20 without asking around my area (true story, rough neighborhood :-P)
I think he's being an ass there, its not the ... (read in full...)
This guy says hes intriqued about me.. what does that mean ?
Q. what does a guy mean when he says he finds you intriguing and wants to learn everything about you, and says he thinks about you too much, when we're supposed to just be friends having sex? these were his rules and not to mention i dont see him in a ...
A. 24 July 2006: Intriguing huh? I think what it means is he's a nerd :-P... (read in full...)
Do straight me like to watch gay porn ?
Q. Do straight men watch gay porn?. What if it was more than curiosity and he was aroused by it. I've put it down to him exploring his sexuality. Am I being naive? ...
A. 24 July 2006: You're not gay till you recieve anal sex (plus you gotta be a guy of course:-P) is what I learnt from some web site.
He's just curious, like everybody these days. Dont worry about it... (read in full...)
Why do women stay with utter jerks?
Q. I need advice. What is it that women want with men? I always see girls who are generally nice in personality with guys who are complete jerks not just to other people but to them as well. Yet these girls still stay with them. It's the same ...
A. 24 July 2006: Yeah the jerks... gosh dont get me started on jerks! They're everywhere these days! London really should be renamed to jerkville or something. These jerks always causing trouble then you kick their ass and they wonder what they did wrong... ... (read in full...)
Need some advice on the Yasmin pill, can I use it to delay my period ?
Q. hi there, I have the Yasmin birth control but have not starting taking it yet. I am going away and unfourtunately I am going to get my period at the beginning of myholiday. A few female friends have told me that if i start taking the pill about 4 ...
A. 23 July 2006: Isn't there already a pill out there that is meant to delay your period? My girlfriend has to take them when she goes in for her swimming competitions sometimes so I know they exist. Cant remember the name though but I'm sure you can pick them up ... (read in full...)
She said she had self control, what bull****!!
Q. I just recently got back with my girlfriend who I had been with for three and a half years. I had broken up with her the last time becuase I was unsure that I was ready for marraige. We are back together now and are moving in together soon. I...
A. 21 July 2006: She made you feel bad for asking that question?:-O thats pretty rough... Ask yourself if you think it may be possible for you to ever forgive her and trust her again. What if there's another problem later on, will she do something simila... (read in full...)
Found a list of massage parlours... How do I approach him?
Q. I have been going out with my bf now for 2 years. Just the other day I found some porno mags under the bed while having a spring clean in my flat. He often stys over but I've never seen or known that he reads or looks at porn. I didn't find it a ...
A. 20 July 2006: Firstly about the porn thing, a lot of women aren't happy about their guys watching porn so if you dont like it dont think you're alone on it (thats if you dont like it).
Secondly, numbers to massage parlours? What are they, massage parlours... (read in full...)
He says hes too tired for sex, but is he!?
Q. ever since my boyfriend got this 3rd shift job, he says he's to tired for sex and he's never to tired for sex. what is going on with him?...
A. 20 July 2006: I think he's too tired for sex... (read in full...)
My period stopped the day after sex! Normal or bad sign?
Q. I had sex whilst on my period and the following day it stopped completely. Is this a bad sign or normal?...
A. 19 July 2006: Its possible to get pregnant even on your period apparently though i never understood how... I mean no one ovulates on their period right? And even if they did, wouldn't the egg just come out with the rest of the stuff since there's nothing for it ... (read in full...)
Feeling low, help me out guys!
Q. hello guys at the moment Iam feeling low I have failed two units on my college course can't find a job and iam skint most of all I have bad habits I can't shrug off help me here guys thanks...
A. 19 July 2006: Well you dont tell us if you mean college as in a-levels or degree or even if its in the UK!
But two units are never the end of a course, not in July anyway. If its university (in the UK!) they should offer resits in august so dont worry, y... (read in full...)
I'm confused because I think my girlfriend is lying about where she's going!
Q. Me and my gf have been together for 8 months now. We connected and have the potential to have a brilliant and fun future. A month ago she lied to me. She met a guy and was planning to go to a barbeque with him. She told me she was at a girlie f...
A. 18 July 2006: lets think back dr pete! Remember the tv show House? Well that doctor said the longest lasting relationships are built on lies. To quote "You're off to a great start!"
Realistically though, your relationship is going down. Eject!!!... (read in full...)
He'll never travel to visit me and I have to be the one who makes the long trip to see him. Every time!
Q. I have a question and I hope I do not bother with this, but I can't really talk to my friends about it. I have been dating a guy for almost 2 years, the first year he was in L.A. we were seeing each other on and off, then he moved to oceanside. ...
A. 16 July 2006: He sounds pretty lazy. Either lazy or not too bothered. Try telling him that maybe american are more aggressive but then you're not american! He's expecting too much and isn't really putting in enough effort.
How much longer can you take thi... (read in full...)
I've been snooping on my wife's phone and found she's still in touch with her highschool sweetheart... Do I have the right to ask her to stop?
Q. I'm having trust issues with my wife. We have been together for six years and have been married for less than a year.I found out by checking her cell phone that she still communicates with a former lover who was also her high school sweetheart. When ...
A. 16 July 2006: She's obviously not being truthful and thats not good. If she was angry at you snooping and stuff, that'd be understandable but when she's lying about it and going all sneaky, then I think you definitely have a right to ask whats going on.
Unles... (read in full...)
I still play with barbies. Am I to old?
Q. Hi. I have a problem. I still play with Barbie dolls, and I'm almost 16!!! Me and one of my friends play with them, but we like playing with them. Am i too old? should i stop playing with them? Please help me!...
A. 10 July 2006: If its not illegal and isn't hurting anyone, then its all fine:) go for it, let your imagination run wild! Its nice that you can still do the stuff u did when u was a kid. Gosh how I miss waking up at 5am to watch Max Steel!!:P... (read in full...)
What could my GF be up to while she is on holiday?!
Q. Hi, My girlfriend is on holiday in Magaluf with her best 'girl' friend and I can't stop thinking about what she might be up to. We have been together about 3 months and the holiday was booked about 6 months ago. I bit my tongue about her holida...
A. 10 July 2006: To be honest, even if she's a nice person who would never cheat on you normally, who knows what would happen with some alcohol... But still, you dont have anything strong to go on and she has been calling and stuff every day so dont get too worr... (read in full...)
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