He inserted into me briefly for a minute or two...no condoms! Could I get pregnant?
Q. i slept at my boyfriends the other night. i have slept with him before and we have always been careful using condoms but the other night we got carried away and he ended up inserting into me. it was only for a minutw or 2 but is it possible for me ...
A. 22 February 2007: Well relax for now (unless its not too late to get the morning after pill, in which case, do so quick!) didn't u say you was also on your period in another post? If its past three days then there's nothing you can do for now except wait till your ... (read in full...)
My hubby worships his ex and I feel threatened! Should I contact her?
Q. My husband has an ex that he worshipped. Even though we've been married for years, I still feel threatened by her. I found her profile on myspace. Why would I want to contact her and should I?...
A. 22 February 2007: Could you give a little more info like is he still all drugged up on his ex?... (read in full...)
Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?
Q. At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...
A. 22 February 2007: Hmm my inequality symbols didn't come up... oh well. Chances are less than when your not on your period, but still its not impossible for it to happen... (read in full...)
Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?
Q. At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...
A. 22 February 2007: Here's a mathematical inequality to help you with the probablities: P(pregnant while menstruating)P(pregnant while not menstruating), P(pregnanct while menstruating)0
ok?... (read in full...)
My grandparents can't understand that I'm gay and keep asking me when I'm going to get a girlfriend! How can I get them off my case?
Q. I am a 17 year old guy and I have been with my boyfriend for three months. I recently came out to my parents and they were cool about it. However, my granparents are very traditional and they often make jokes about gay people. The thing is they keep ...
A. 22 February 2007: Well you could get them off your case by going straight? :-P just kidding! Make sure you're definitely sure about being gay and not just confused. Once you've decided, the next step will be to come out. They'll eventually find out and stuff. ... (read in full...)
I think he loves his DOG more than he loves me!
Q. My boyfriends dog was diagnosed with cancer, and it tore him up. So much now that he spends more time with his dog than me. Im worried about him and jealous of his dog, wierd as it may sound its true. He sleeps on the sofa to be closer to his dog, ...
A. 22 February 2007: If he's gonna be like that for the next few years, leave his ass already! Can you really picture yourself waiting for the next few years so his dog would finally take a hike and he could then give you attention? Dont think its mean, its totally ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 dating a 19 year old guy. Is anything wrong with that?
Q. i am 15 dating a 19 year old guy is somthing wrong with that?...
A. 22 February 2007: There's always something wrong with everything so long as you look hard enough. My advice: dont look!:-P really, if it feels like he's decent, dont think too much about it... (read in full...)
I think he loves his DOG more than he loves me!
Q. My boyfriends dog was diagnosed with cancer, and it tore him up. So much now that he spends more time with his dog than me. Im worried about him and jealous of his dog, wierd as it may sound its true. He sleeps on the sofa to be closer to his dog, ...
A. 22 February 2007: Folks, come on, its a dog. They die all the time! Mine died a few months ago (age 14 I think), cool dog he was too. Though I knew he was going to die soon, I didn't go out of the way and neglect everyone else around me! What bugs me most is that ... (read in full...)
I dialled a number I found on my boyfriend's phone and a woman answered... should I let this go?
Q. I saw a number in my b/f's phone that was dialed or received but was not in his contacts of the phone(he doesnt keep many--he knows numbers). I look up who it is..and its a woman. I called the number from restricted and a guy answered but he sounded ...
A. 21 February 2007: So long as he hasn't done anything else to get you worried, this shouldn't be a problem. Just let it go... (read in full...)
While out with some friends, the girls said they liked a "good sized penis," mines is 6", is this regarded as a good sized penis???
Q. I was out with a bunch of friends this past weekend and a discussion about a man's penis size started up. The girls all basically agreed that a really big penis isn't good, and a really small one is the worst. They said they just want a "good-sized ...
A. 21 February 2007: Dont know what that last poster was yacking about but gotta tell you that what you got is average so it shouldn't be a problem.
Anyone else think this penis size statistics questions should get an FAQ page?... (read in full...)
What do men prefer? Bushy, normal or shaven?
Q. I just wanted to know what guys prefer on womens private part, Bushy, normal or shaven? Girls answer 2 if ya like, thanks!...
A. 21 February 2007: Normal. Try cuddling after its been shaven. Prickly!!!... (read in full...)
Am I falling for this guy??
Q. dear cupid, I am a 28 yr old female,married and have a 5 yr old son. One of my coworkers who is an extremly good looking guy started emailing me and i started emailing him back as a joke but didn't realize when things got serious and we actually ...
A. 19 February 2007: Hope you dont take too much offence when I say you're being an ass. Firstly, the reason he doesn't mind that you have a husband is cos to him, you're nothing more than some action on the side. He's getting one hell of an ego boost, having the ... (read in full...)
We aren't actually together but he lied to me! Should I confront him?
Q. Hi, Well im "seeing" this boy from school. Well, I'm not actually seeing him but i meet up with him sometimes and we have a cuddle and that but he has a gf! I feel really bad and a total fool. I met him today and he told me he had 2 go home earl...
A. 18 February 2007: Well you said he has a girlfriend and you're not it. So unfortunately, he doesn't have to tell you who he's seeing even if he does cuddle with you... (read in full...)
He puts his friends before me and doesnt appreciate me!!
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 year and I have noticed that he doesn't appreciate me in anyway, he places his friends before me always, the worst thing is that he puts me down in public, but he always maintains that he is jokin...
A. 18 February 2007: He's seriously bad for your self esteem and once that's destroyed, its a long road to fix it again. Sit him down and tell him seriously that you wont tolerate that kinda crap whether its a joke or not. If he still thinks you're being over ... (read in full...)
What are my honourable options??
Q. OK, here is my problem. I need help. I was married at 18 to my high school sweetheart. She has had many serious emotional problems. She had an affair on me (with a 53 year old, and they lived in OUR house while I was gone) when we were first ...
A. 13 February 2007: Your wife is screwed up and I say screw her (sounds like a lotta people already did!:-P) but seriously, spousal rape? Have you never watched CSI before? Innocent until proven guilty and she'll have one hell of a time proving you guilty of spousal ... (read in full...)
This is a bit unusual I know, tomorrow is V's day. (I'm the female) but I want to stay in and watch the FA cup replay!!! How do I tell my boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, I am in a bit of a pickle here! My partner and I have arranged to go out tomorrow night (we try and go out for a meal at least once or twice a week) - now, unless you live in a cave, you will realise that tomorrow is Valenti...
A. 13 February 2007: One word: sky+
brilliant device that:-) managed to keep up to date with all the stargates and prison breaks even though I'm not home!! And finally, soccer? *sigh* what a waste of a HDTV :-P ... (read in full...)
A question for the male aunts: What do you think about women who give BJ's and swallow on their first date?
Q. Question for guys (but all replies welcome)... What do you think of girls that give BJs and swallow on a first nite? Would you have less respect for them? Do you think they are just liberated? Would it be the kind of girl you w...
A. 13 February 2007: BJ on the first date? Dont know about everyone else but I think its pretty gross. Dont get me wrong, its a nice feeling, being a guy but imagine how gross it must be for the lady to be giving one. And then swallowing that stuff? Ewwwww!!!! ... (read in full...)
Is my curved penis a result of masturbation?
Q. As any normal teenager will do, i masterbate at least once a day sometimes more. within the last 12 months i have noticed that my penis has begun to curve towards me. should this happen or is it an effect from masterbating? ...
A. 13 February 2007: So long as it wasn't after it got hit by something. That could lead to scar tissue that doesn't stretch making one part grow less than the rest making it curve. But if its not like some super crazy angle, it shouldn't be a problem and is usually ... (read in full...)
I am a male, 22 dating a female, 32. Some family and friends approve..some don't. What are your thoughts?
Q. hey, im a male 22yrs old dating some a female who 32 yrs old. some of my friends and family approves of this and some dont...wat ya people think...?...
A. 13 February 2007: Dude, we're all strangers here and we'll never meet you so it doesn't matter what people here think. The more important question you should be asking is: what do you think?? Are you ok with it? If so, to hell with everyone else's objections, ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and the guy I like is about to turn 19 - will people think this is wrong if we date?
Q. i'm 20 and like this guy who will be 19 nxt month! do you think friends and family would look at me wrongly if i dated him... as he is younger! he is a little immature but we get on so well, and flirt all the time!...
A. 12 February 2007: Its just a year's gap, its not like you're 12 and he's 11!:-P lol really, shouldn't be a problem. Go for it... (read in full...)
I got my cousin pregnant - we're both 17 and don't know what to do! Help!
Q. My cousin and i recently were both at a party. After the party she came back to my house to sleepover as both our parents were away for the night. As you can already guess one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together, the only problem ...
A. 12 February 2007: With your first cousin? Thats some unholy shit... get a pregnancy test done and if it comes back positive, get an abortion. Even though its legal, I doubt its something that your family would be too happy about and I'm pretty sure you dont wanna ... (read in full...)
Ready to have sex but is there a time in-between periods when pregancy is impossible??
Q. OK. So here's the thing. Me and my boyfriend are totally into each other and have been going out a while now. Anyway long story short, we're both ready to have sex and understand the consequences and stuff, and we're both virgins. We are both of ...
A. 12 February 2007: Maybe not impossible but pretty unlikely. Type in rhythm method on google and you'll get some stuff. Though I gotta tell you that method is out of date and considered unreliable
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Followup: "Are there guys out there, that don't look at other pretty women when they are with me?" What about when they AREN"T with me?"
Q. I asked this question here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-there-guys-out-there--that-dont.html my question is are there guys who don't look when i'm not with them, not when there with me. Could you please change that? thank you...
A. 12 February 2007: There is a difference between looking and ogling. Which one did you mean?... (read in full...)
Followup: "Are there guys out there, that don't look at other pretty women when they are with me?" What about when they AREN"T with me?"
Q. I asked this question here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-there-guys-out-there--that-dont.html my question is are there guys who don't look when i'm not with them, not when there with me. Could you please change that? thank you...
A. 12 February 2007: To answer your question, no there's not a guy alive in the world who wouldn't look at an attractive person when they're all by themselves. Go to a place where there's a lotta cool looking things around (like an airshow if you're into planes) and ... (read in full...)
Are there guys out there, that don't look at other pretty women when they are with me?
Q. my ex really did not care to look at other females- I know this because every time we were together and even when females in bikinis passed by he really only concentrated on me and didn't care to look.... he wasnt interested at all... my new ...
A. 12 February 2007: Well since you did say you've seen it plenty of times, they obviously do exist. Must be rare though. But I know myself they exist too so you're not so special in being the only one who's seen them:-P I can tell you that it is very rare though... (read in full...)
I'm going out with a boy but he keeps hitting me and I can't explain the bruises to my parents.
Q. i am goin out with this boy, but he keeps hitting me and treating me like a pig. wat shall i do? i dunno how to explain 2 my parents with the bruises are HELP wb xxx...
A. 11 February 2007: Hit him right back already! Why are you going out with him exactly? Next time he offers to take you out, tell him to go to hell. If you act like a doormat, people will just tread all over you (most not as badly as your boyfriend) take a stand and ... (read in full...)
Society bothers me. Will I be put down because of social barriers?
Q. Hi, I don't really know why I am writing this, I never do this stuff (like asking for help!!). Ok, well the thing is, I go to this dance thing called 5 rhythms. You may have heard of it? Anyway, there is a guy there, he is married and has 3 c...
A. 11 February 2007: I dont think you will be too much but the guy definitely will... (read in full...)
Bf has herpes and I am resenting all the restrictions we undertake, to prevent me catching it. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend has genital herpes and now the fun beginning part of our relationship is over, I'm starting to think I'm missing out. I enjoy sex without a condom, obviously we can't do this, and I also love the intimacy of just making love whenever ...
A. 11 February 2007: To go your own way I meant... (read in full...)
Bf has herpes and I am resenting all the restrictions we undertake, to prevent me catching it. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend has genital herpes and now the fun beginning part of our relationship is over, I'm starting to think I'm missing out. I enjoy sex without a condom, obviously we can't do this, and I also love the intimacy of just making love whenever ...
A. 11 February 2007: Do you want a future with him? Can you see one with him? If not, then you already know how this relationship will end. And lets not forget, technically he did make this herpes thing your problem (condoms have been around for 100s of years. I'm ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend jealous of my son?
Q. Dear cupid~ I am sooooooo confused -I Have 3 kids 15, 12, 4 all from my marriage of 15 years. Had a live in boyfriend for about 4 years. To make a long story short - the boyfriend seems to think my son (15) wants to sleep with me-OMG. He has ...
A. 11 February 2007: The thing about boys is they tend to grow up to be men and no man would tolerate being treated so badly by another. In a few years time, your partner and your son will most likely get into a serious physical fight over stuff like this and then ... (read in full...)
Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?
Q. Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...
A. 11 February 2007: Maybe a real straight man wouldn't but I know some homosexual guys who are pretty...submissive. I think you need to relax those rules a little. Gay guys aren't into women (unless they're bi) so having a few female friends shouldn't be too much of ... (read in full...)
I hate women in general... but now I'm considering getting married. Should I discuss this with my girlfriend before we get engaged?
Q. It seems to me that i hate women in general for some reason unless they are exceptionally kind or well mannered and good looking. And at no cost can i trust them. I have been betrayed by a girl in past, though i have gotten over it. But the more i ...
A. 11 February 2007: You cant possibly hate all women in the world, there's like 3 billion of them! Not all of them are jerks. You've been hit hard by betrayal and maybe you're not as over it as you believe. I think you should discuss it with your fiance (to be?) but ... (read in full...)
I am still a virgin at 24 and am a really nice guy who respects women, so why can I not meet someone?
Q. Does it bother you, that you are still a virgin? I’m a guy, who’s a virgin, at 24 years old. I have never been on a single date. I feel like I’m going to grow old and alone, never experiencing what it is like to be in love. The thing is, I know...
A. 11 February 2007: Ok... the 23 year old virgin seems pretty unhappy! Nice guys dont finish last, thats just BS. You left out quite a bit of info. Are you aiming for women around your age? Cos if you are, then I can tell you that most of them are probably not ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and my girlfriend is a bit shy to go any further, what can I do?
Q. hi i am 13 and i think my girlfriend is a bit shy about doing anything physical she is ok with hugging and kissing at school discos but she wont go any further what can i do ??????...
A. 11 February 2007: Respect her wishes. She's totally a kid still... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still friends with his ex and I'm very uncomfortable about this, advice is appreciated.
Q. I've been going out with my b/f for a month. The issue is -- he broke up with his ex, 3 weeks before he met me. He broke up with her because he didn't see a future with her, but is good friends with her. Which I thought he should of made clear ...
A. 11 February 2007: In your situation, I guess you should be worried. He only broke up with her three weeks before you. The thing that really draws attention here is that you didn't give him the ultimatum; he actually brought it up and told you that he'd choose the ... (read in full...)
I really don't like this boy and he won't leave me alone! What can I do?
Q. This boy fancys me and he is really disgusting but he won't leave me alone What should i do?...
A. 9 February 2007: Well since you're so young, just tell him he's a smelly ugly dork:-P you dont have to be so grown up about it, just let it out! That kinda luxury's gonna disappear after a few years...... (read in full...)
How can I teach my husband to be a more skilled lover?
Q. I got married few days ago, it was the first time for both me and my husband. he pushed his penis in my vegina once and i bled. I cried, so he stopped and that was it. Nothing before it and Nothing after it. few days later, i took the doggy position ...
A. 9 February 2007: Ummm well first, guess you should tell him that you're not getting any pleasure out of it and that it hurts like hell. Next tell him you need to get turned on first and finally, since its both your first times (sorta) tell him what you want done ... (read in full...)
I saw her stealing money from his wallet and he plans on marrying her! Should I tell him?
Q. Hello there one of my really good friends who is in his 20s is getting married in the july after less than a year with his girlfriend.One problem though she is dodgy she is always asking for money and gifts from him even though he is just an ...
A. 9 February 2007: Chances are he wont believe you and then things will get pretty crappy between you and him. Times like this, you should just let him find out in his own way. Besides, are you sure she was stealing it? What if he lets her go into his wallet? ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I may be depressed...any ideas to cheer up and be happy all day?
Q. Lately I feel very tired and I always think I can do things better and that everything I do or buy or wear or do at work is never good enough, I try to relax I also have negative thoughts about my social life as I do not quite enjoy it very much I ...
A. 9 February 2007: Three words: world of warcraft... (read in full...)
Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !
Q. Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...
A. 9 February 2007: Lol thanks stina!... (read in full...)
He can't get over the fact I've given myself away so cheaply in the past, we have different morals and I see sleeping with someone as just sex.
Q. Hi I've got a problem. I really love my boyfriend who i've been dating for around 5 months. I made the mistake of telling him about my sexual past, including a series of one nite stands which he finds repulsive because he has high morals. He w...
A. 9 February 2007: You see sex as just sex and your guy doesn't. In that case, maybe he feels that its the same with him. In the end, if two people have such different outlooks, it will definitely lead to unsolvable problems if one cant forgive the other. Try ... (read in full...)
Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !
Q. Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...
A. 9 February 2007: Hi andrew, you're doing a great job! Just wondering if you could change the font? Something like arial would be easier on the eyes:-P... (read in full...)
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