Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !
Q. Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...
A. 9 February 2007: Lol thanks stina!... (read in full...)
He can't get over the fact I've given myself away so cheaply in the past, we have different morals and I see sleeping with someone as just sex.
Q. Hi I've got a problem. I really love my boyfriend who i've been dating for around 5 months. I made the mistake of telling him about my sexual past, including a series of one nite stands which he finds repulsive because he has high morals. He w...
A. 9 February 2007: You see sex as just sex and your guy doesn't. In that case, maybe he feels that its the same with him. In the end, if two people have such different outlooks, it will definitely lead to unsolvable problems if one cant forgive the other. Try ... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend refuse to kiss me in front of the receptionist?
Q. Quick question. My boyfriend had started new job and had taken the receptionist mobile number and was texting her when i wasn't about. I told him i knew and he was to put a stop to it cos there was no need for it. Today we got dropped off outs...
A. 9 February 2007: Hmmm he actually refused to kiss you when you asked? I mean if he forgot, that would be one thing but actively refusing? Does seem like he's presenting himself as single to her. Do you know whether he has really stopped texting her or if he's ... (read in full...)
Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !
Q. Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...
A. 9 February 2007: Hi andrew, you're doing a great job! Just wondering if you could change the font? Something like arial would be easier on the eyes:-P... (read in full...)
How can my husband be so cruel to me?
Q. Help!, Me and my husband been seperated for over 20 years and are still married!. I am young lady! he owns an estate and i am homeless.(HE SAID TO ME HAS IS GONE ON WITH LIFE)!telling to me leave him alone! I need a lot of HELP and answers! how can ...
A. 9 February 2007: I'm with ponun, get your share out of him. If he wants you to move on, then he should defnitely end the marriage atleast, not just stay separated. I dont know whether you want to get him out of your life but it seems he doesn't feel anything for ... (read in full...)
Do YOU believe in love at first sight?
Q. Do you believe in love at first sight? What do you think of a 15 year old dating a 23 year old? Is it wrong? Let me know! Thanks...
A. 9 February 2007: My thoughts: no to love at first sight and yes its wrong... (read in full...)
Worries about my weiner, my wife's lack of sex drive!
Q. hi i am wondering is a 6in penis a good size or is it to small? what is a good size that women prefer? i also have a very high sex drive and my wife dont. i have been thinking about going else where to help my needs/ i have tried talking to her a...
A. 9 February 2007: 6 inch is micro dude. Women prefer 24 inches and thats minimum. They gotta feel like they're giving birth each time you have sex!
Seriously, you obviously know how to use the interweb. Try googling first next time... (read in full...)
Found my girlfriend on a porn site.. but don't want her to know I've been looking at porno!
Q. I found photos of my girlfriend on a porn site but I don't know what to do. If i tell her i found them she'll know I look at porn......
A. 9 February 2007: So she'll know you look at porn. Big freaking deal. What's she doing on that site is the bigger question. "If we whack Iran, they'll know we've been spying on their nuclear programme" I dont see a problem with a confrontation. Just do it already... (read in full...)
I can't trust my husband any more, now I've had enough!
Q. I have been married for 15 years in April. We have 2 children. In Nov 2001 my husband went on holiday with a friend of his behind my back, he said he was going on a business trip. I found out before his flight had even landed, he returned a couple ...
A. 9 February 2007: The lies are definitely not good. I dont understand why he would lie to you before taking off on a plane. (To the second poster: have you heard of homo or bisexuals?) not that I'm saying your husband's cheating on you with this guy. But who ... (read in full...)
How do I tactfully raise her perfume use with her... and what do you recommend?
Q. Two questions really. How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend that I really don't like the perfume she likes (it smells kinda strong and bitter)? She got some new stuff over Xmas that I adored and kept telling her how nice she smelt but she d...
A. 8 February 2007: Well maybe once you get her the perfume, she'll wear that one more. And about the perfume smell, just talk to the people there at the shop. They're seriously helpful when it comes to buying perfume!... (read in full...)
Is it fair to spend the weekend out of town without her?
Q. Dear Cupid My girlfriend and I live in Colorado. I have good friends in north, central and south Florida, and California. I want to go visit them soon and would like to take my girlfriend with me to see most of them. But taking her with me to se...
A. 8 February 2007: Sure dude, like cd said, you can spend some time apart! So going deer hunting? I did that in Maine once. Hell of a weekend that was:-P have fun!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hits me but I still love him, what should I do?
Q. i am in love but its all wrong its not like when i was little and love was easy and...... he hits me and then after he is really sorry and he is not a wife beater its just i do things wrong somtimes. I know its all my fault and i know that i ...
A. 8 February 2007: You're totally whacked lady... if you dont wanna leave him then I have only one piece of advice for you. Get grissle on your bones so they get stronger and hurt less. You can take ten times as many hits that way. Oh and definitely get used to ... (read in full...)
He wants me to choose between drinking and him!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of over 2 years just recently broke up. We are still very much in love, but he doesn't want to be together unless I change. The main thing is that he wants me to stop drinking alcohol because he doesn't want to be with anyone ...
A. 7 February 2007: Cant you come to some kind of compromise?... (read in full...)
I confessed that I screened his calls, he know says hes going to beat me because of it!!!
Q. hi i confessed to my bf that i was able to screen his calls and that i noticed a particular number he kept ringing he got mad but told me he would tell me. But he came home and ignored me today, hes told me hes going to beat me because of it.... i...
A. 6 February 2007: Get out of there fast! He probably would beat you! Unless you're a badass martial artist which I dont think you are. Seriously, get away from him and on to somewhere safe.... (read in full...)
My turkish man wants to be with me! Should I marry him or not?
Q. I went on holiday last year to turkey for 8 weeks. While i was there i met a wonderful man. We became really good friends and soon found myself falling for him big time. He told me he felt the same and we soon became an item. We stayed in contact ...
A. 6 February 2007: You must not have seen many turkish people around the UK have you? Here's the thing: they seriously prefer to be with their own kind! There's so many of them in north London, all the ones in my 6th form they just stuck together speaking turkish. ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified beyond belief. My career is just taking off and I find out..I'm pregnant! Advice is needed!
Q. Hey folks. Thanks so much to everyone who's been so helpful whenever i've needed advice. I really do take on board what you say. I am 22 this coming May, i've been seeing someone for nearly 5 months who i love and is like my best friend but who i...
A. 6 February 2007: Eventually everyone regrets something big time. Dont let that be a reason to hold you back. ... (read in full...)
Is Valentine's Day important to girls?
Q. is valentines day important to girls? ...
A. 6 February 2007: Some girls really like valentine's day and its a big deal to them. From what I've come across, MOST girls take Valentine's day as a big thing so I'd recommend you do something that day... (read in full...)
How far could we go???
Q. Me and my boyfriend are only teenagers and would like to know how far we could go, we have agreed not to have sex until 14 which is a couple of months?...
A. 5 February 2007: I dont know... you could go around the world if you had the money. Far enough?... (read in full...)
Guy at work admits he likes me but won't me as he doesn't date co-workers. What can I do?
Q. I have been going out with some guys from work once a week for a month or two now, a big group of us go, but I have two particular friends who I always thought were gay, who I'm closer to than the rest. The first is most definitely gay, however ...
A. 4 February 2007: He doesn't date co-workers... that sucks for you I guess but I dont see how you can change him. Most people have trouble changing aspects of someone they're in a relationship with, it'll be super hard trying to do the same to someone you're NOT in ... (read in full...)
I want to leave my husband but I'm financially strapped. Any suggestions?
Q. I have been married for over 3 years, but don't know if I love my husband anymore. I keep catching him in lies, and then he promises not to lie to me anymore. This has been a pattern for over 2 years. I have lost all trust in him. The most ...
A. 4 February 2007: Divorce his ass, that should put some money in your pocket:-) you dont wanna stick with someone you cant trust. Plus its now a habit for him. Guess you could always try get him to go counselling but its up to him if he goes...... (read in full...)
Feel disgusted that I have kissed two guys when drunk and have hurt my bf! What canI do?
Q. I have been very stupid twice.. I have been with boyfriend for 5years, xmas 2004 i was too drunk and kissed a friend, because i was drunk and we'd always been flirty i thought i loved him! we thought we had something special- when really we didnt at ...
A. 4 February 2007: You dont do anything. Ball's in his court now. Wait for his response. Guess the obvious thing for the future is not to drink but we both know that's not gonna happen is it?... (read in full...)
Finally got the courage to dump my boyfriend and now hes emotionally blackmailing me. What should I do?
Q. I finally got the courage to dump my boyfriend and now hes emotionally blackmailing me. I dont love him anymore and I have feelings for someone else so i told him i didnt want to be with him. Its the only solution i can come to. He has now said to ...
A. 4 February 2007: Wow he's turned that lame huh? Forget about it, if he kills himself its his own problem. Dont let him guilt you into crap. Look at the other option: if you stay with him, your life is screwed. Next time he tells you he's gonna kill himself, tell ... (read in full...)
What is the 'average' size??
Q. I'm worried that my penis is too small and just wanted some advice on the average size???...
A. 4 February 2007: Here's some advice someone once said when I first started visiting this site. Dont know who it was that said it but it was pretty funny!:-P
What does it matter? Can you change yours?:-P... (read in full...)
How long does it take for a partner to 'find themselves'??
Q. Hello, When in a relationship the one half says they need to find themselves, how long does it take , and how do you find yourself? Do you ever find yourself, then from there find or reconnect with the person that you loved, and the person that ...
A. 4 February 2007: Find yourself... its just metaphoric crap for 'need some time alone'... (read in full...)
What's this guy up to... he said he left town because the cops were after him then he went quiet
Q. I've been talking to this guy who i like and he says that he likes me also.He calls me daily,which makes me feel special because I know that he is thinking of me.Well 2 days ago he left me a message telling me that he might not call me because ...
A. 4 February 2007: Maybe the cops got him? These are American cops, not British crap so I wouldn't be surprised if they did. If he's into crime at your age (which I assume he is) then imagine what he'll be up to in 10 years time, probably stealing stadiums and ... (read in full...)
Worried now that my 8 year old child might be by another man to who I've thought all along! Should I tell all now?
Q. I was with S for 4 years when we spilt up. I met someone new, T, and after a few months I slept with him. I was taking the contraceptive pill. I slept with him once, I felt really bad after because I still loved my ex and I didn't see him again. ...
A. 4 February 2007: Concrete evidence first. No need to wreck things if there's not a real problem. Hope it comes out the way you want!... (read in full...)
She asked for a break so she could get her grades up... but now she's skipping school with a new guy!
Q. ok well my gf and i have benn going out for a year but after x-mas and new years [we had a great time] she asked to go on a break because she wants to find herself and wants to get her grades up but now she is skipping school to go and hang out with ...
A. 4 February 2007: Well since you are on a break, technically she's not cheating on you but I can totally understand why you'd feel like she is. I dont know if she'll come back but it does seem like she put you on a permanent break. Sorry buddy, but I think you'd be ... (read in full...)
Some other guy is with the girl I like. I want to put on a mask and beat him up! What should I do?
Q. Hi i really really really like this girl and she said she liked me but now shes goin out wif this other guy and i actually hate him. i want to beat him up and im on the verge of putting on a mask and absolutly kicking his face in. but i know i s...
A. 2 February 2007: Put on a mask and beat they guy up??? Atleast have the decency to give him a fair fight if you have to. Its not like he 'stole' your girlfriend. She just him over you, live with it... (read in full...)
He's married and I love him. But I don't want to be a homewrecker! What should I do?
Q. I'm in love with a married man, he has a one year old son. He loves me too and he told me so. I don't want to break another woman's home, but, i really love him, what should I do?...
A. 1 February 2007: The answer is so obvious, I wont insult your intelligence by telling you what that is!:-P
Its the right thing to do... (read in full...)
He told me he cheated on me rather than have me think he beat up a woman! What should I think here?
Q. My boyfriend told me he had cheated on me. But now ive found out that, apparently he did push her off. Its just that he pushed her off so hard she fell awkwardly on her back and looked like she was really hurt. He said he told her to get off, and ...
A. 30 January 2007: Well good on your boyfriend for sticking up for you about the drugged up s.o.b and I dont think he has a temper problem, any guy would've done that (or should've) especially at 16-17 (the hellraiser years!:-P) and about the girl, I guess its ... (read in full...)
I'm 25, male and I've fallen for a 15 year old female online! Do I go for it?
Q. Hey there i'm not regular to this site but hope someone might like to give me advice. . . . . . I'm a 25 year old man, i do not have a job as I quit a few months back and I'm a writer. . . I drink most nights a week and live with my parents....
A. 30 January 2007: ok, first you're confused. Are you a male or female? Pick the right gender. Second you're a bum. Third, you're a closet peado, fourth, leave her alone and finally, I dont think this was a serious post... (read in full...)
He is bone lazy and doesn't help me with anything! What should I do?
Q. I dont know what to do with my boyfriend. I love him very much, but at times (quiet alot of the time) he drives me INSANE. He is just soo lazy. He never cleans up after himself and just expects me to wash, cook and clean for him. I am 24yrs old. ...
A. 28 January 2007: Counselling? For this? Thats kinda extreme... besides, she cant get him to listen to him about simple stuff like cleaning up after himself, I doubt she'll be able to convince him to go counselling.
The best way to deal with this is probably... (read in full...)
He wants to meet me but I told him such outrageous, huge lies about myself...how do I deal with this?
Q. hi, i've been speaking to a guy off the internet for almost 2 years, first we text for almost a year then we progressed to talking on the phone, over the past few weeks we've got really close and now this guy wants too meet me, which under normal ...
A. 28 January 2007: Remember the line from X-Files: All lies point to the truth. Dont try lie your way out here. Just tell him you lied to him about pretty much everything and then stop talking to him. You dont have to explain everything, just cut him off and forget ... (read in full...)
I can't go be with him in London and he can't come to me. Will we make this work or not?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 1yr and nearly 6months. weve been very happy and have always spoke about our future. we was planning to move in together within the next year or two and also start a family but ...
A. 28 January 2007: Sorry to be blunt but he's 16. Go figure... (read in full...)
Why do I get so wet down there, when I am just around my bf?
Q. Hi guys I have a bit of a personal problem which I hope you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend now for about four months and I absolutely love him to bits. However for the last month or so I seem to have a bit of a problem. Every ...
A. 28 January 2007: Ummm maybe u should see a doctor or something... I'm no expert on gay relationships or anything but I'm pretty sure guys aren't supposed to get wet 'down there'. Pre-cum maybe but naturally not enough to get so uncomfortable... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I'm thinking of meeting up with this guy online who promises to give me 'wild sex.' Is this a good idea, or not?
Q. Dear Cupid- Here is the problem: I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him very much, but our sex life is a little boring. We usually have sex in the bedroom in the same position. I'm very sexual and I like to try new things in ...
A. 28 January 2007: Why dont you just ask your boyfriend to heat things up? Or why dont you lead instead? He's not psychic (I dont think:-P) so you'll have to tell him what's on your mind. You never know, maybe he's getting bored of the same old routine too but is ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has gained weight, but if I say something she'll hate me! How do I tell her?!
Q. My girlfriend is gaining weight and won’t do anything about it. I need help with my communication. How can I help her? I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I’ve been dating now for the past 13 months. Since the day we met she has slowly been gaining ...
A. 26 January 2007: All this advice was totally crazy, you're all condemning a guy because he wants his girlfriend to be healthy and physically attractive. What's wrong with wanting someone to lose weight if they really have gained an unacceptable amount? If you ... (read in full...)
I want to lose 1 and a half stone by August. Am I getting enough excersise?
Q. I'm going on holiday in August, and I'm starting to excersise a bit more now. I go out for a mile run twice a week, and eat relatively healthily, eating chocolate about twice a week. I'm 5'7'' now, and want to get down to 8 stone by august. I'm curr...
A. 26 January 2007: I dont know much about the diet thing but I do run a lot. I find I can eat whatever I feel like so long as I run about 3 miles a day, 4 days a week:-) if you follow that, you'll grow to enjoy running and be able to eat all the 'junk' foods around ... (read in full...)
I left my wife for another girl, but the other girl now refuses to give up her "lifestyle!"
Q. I recently left my wife, for a girl, I have been having an affair with for two years. she always promised to move to my part of the country, as I have children. Now, she refuses, because she can't bear to give up her life or lifestyle. This...
A. 26 January 2007: Busted!!! She was getting down with a married man, what made you think she had no more on the side? So she's not gonna give up her lifestyle. So what you gonna do? Live with it or get out of this relationship. Since you brought this on ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been "disappearing"... Once a cheater always a cheater?
Q. Dear Cupid I am 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years he has a history of cheating he said that for the past 3 years he has'nt cheated on me anymore things have been good but for the past few weeks he began disappearing for long hours a...
A. 23 January 2007: Go with your instincts. I'm sure you probably know what he's upto already... (read in full...)
My Mother called me a 'waste of space ' and a 'failure'! What can I do?
Q. I am fed up at home. I am 16 so take my GCSE's in the summer and have just done my mocks. The problem is that my mum's expectations for me are huge. apparently I have always been very bright etc. but I am under a lot of pressure with my gcse's. ...
A. 22 January 2007: Kick those exam's ass dude!! I remember GCSEs. My parents put quite a lot of pressure on me too I remember, not like your mum though. Seriously, just ignore what her expectations are from you. You know what you're capable of so just work hard at ... (read in full...)
She hooks up with guys in front of me! I love her and this annoys me! What can I do?
Q. I have this problem with an ex-girlfriend of mine. We were dating for six months and I fell deeply in love with her. Then one day in May 2006 she just decided to break up with me because I was "chocking" her (not giving her time with her friends, ...
A. 21 January 2007: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me"
Dude where's your self respect??? She's made it clear its over with you! You'll never move on if you're stuck on her. Stay away from her and stop contacting her. You seem to have a good... (read in full...)
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