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Been through enough to give people help on some of their problems. I love helping people.
I do post a lot of my problems myself as i hate keeping things bottled up, this is my way of release and this brings me closer to other peoples' problems.
I try to help as many people as possible but only help when i feel like i am needed and understand about the situation completely.
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is it safe to have anal sex during pregnancy
Q. is it safe to have anal sex during pregnancy?...
A. 4 August 2007: Yessssssss it is :)... (read in full...)
do you think that the sex has something 2 do with me not getting my period because i had sex before my first period?
Q. I had sex when i was 13 and i didnt get my period. i am nearly 15 now and i still didnt get my period. do you think that the sex has something 2 do with me not getting my period because i had sex before my first period? ...
A. 4 August 2007: Honey it could be that you are just a late developer! Do not worry about this. It is obvious you are not pregnant so there is no reason to think that if that is at the back of your mind. I have never heard of sex stopping you from having your peri... (read in full...)
We are getting close to our first kiss! Please help-I need tips on what to do?
Q. Its come to the time when me and my boyfriend have our first kiss.The only problem is that ive never kissed before and im worried it will be awful. But the one thing im scarred about is that i dont know where to put my hands on him when we kiss...
A. 4 August 2007: Sweetie, well firstly i was nervous before my first kiss! It is usual whatever you do, don't panic. The most useful advice to give you is it comes COMPLETELY naturally. You yourself don't know what you are doing. It's amazing. So just relax. As y... (read in full...)
Psychic readings advice please.
Q. Has anyone received helpful advice from online psycic readings? if so which ones are good?...
A. 4 August 2007: Too be honest. Online is not trustworthy. If you want to get psychic help go for a telephone service. Some people do not believe in Psychics and are very scepticle so beware. However i do, my mother and grandmother were psychic and needing help ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 3 August 2007: No way! That's cheating. What if you were away?! To be honest if you REALLY love your girlfriend you would keep it in your pants while she was away. Also to not tell her is just wrong, if you discussed it with her and she said ok, then yea sure. ... (read in full...)
How long will it take my eyebrows to grow back?
Q. KO! I'm a male and shaved my eyebrows, just wondering how long it would take to grow them back....
A. 3 August 2007: Not long,a week or so, maybe two. Eyebrows grow back pretty fast.
Why did you shave them anyway? :P
xx... (read in full...)
I lied about my age, what do I do?
Q. Hey !!!! I am confused. I met this guy on myspace. i like him, he sounds like geniuine guy. hes a virgin and everything so im not scared of him being a pedophile. I have lied to him about my age. I said I was 16 when Im 14. hes an up and coming f...
A. 3 August 2007: Honey, i have myspace and without being rude to this man/boy, he could lie and be someone totally different to what he has told you. Don't feel stupid even adults do this hehe. Do not go past speaking to him, phone or internet but do not meet up ... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 2 August 2007: Do not stop eating. This will not make you thinner and will just make you become unhealthy. If you want to loose weight. Eat healthier things in moderation. Allow yourself a bar of chocolate a week or something. Don't eat inbetween meals. That is ... (read in full...)
I've been talking to a guy for 2 weeks but all he wants is sex
Q. i have been talkin this boy for a bout 2 weeks all he want from me is sex. he say that he likes me but i really don't know if hes telling me the truth to me i think he just tell me what i wanna hear for i can give it up to him. what should i say to ...
A. 2 August 2007: It depends what you are looking for. Are you wanting just sex? If you are then go for it but i feel you want more than physical contact. If you want a PROPER relationship get out now before you become smitten.
It is your decision :)
Good Lu... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stays an hour away and I miss him so much that I want to start crying.
Q. My boyfriend stays an hour away and I miss him so much that I want to start crying. He is away for work and can see him in two days. He phoned me tonight and I almost started crying, but did not cause he will maybe think I'm just being stupid. ...
A. 2 August 2007: Exactly what the post below says hang in there! It is amazing how close you are to cry if he is away for that period of time. Try to get your mind of him, keep yourself busy until he comes back, and when he does suprise him with something :P
Best ... (read in full...)
Should I keep shaving myself like this?
Q. Dear cupid hi im 15 and I have a big problem because it effects my looks alot i love the felling of the razor on my skin ans have bein shaving my vagina since pubity i always shave my legs armpits and that but one day when having a bath i fel...
A. 2 August 2007: All you can do is STOP and keep going to the doctor. Good luck ;)... (read in full...)
I ended it by text.
Q. I was seeing someone but finished with him because he had another girlfriend, he siad he didn't love her but would not leave his children. He admitted he was scared of getting hurt but he did love me but he had to hold back. I finished it because it ...
A. 2 August 2007: You have done the right thing. I know it won't feel like it now and you will miss him but he has been playing games with you. Get out while you are still strong. I hope this helped. xx... (read in full...)
I can't find any guys, who are interested in me and I like them! Help!
Q. Hi. I am really stuck. I can't find any guys. Every guy that likes me im not interested in. I don't know many guys as i go to an all girls school which is awful. I am quite shy but i've been told i shouldnt be as i get a lot of male attention but i ...
A. 2 August 2007: Thanks so much. Your opening a new door for me. I am going to try to put every bit of your advice into my actions. It will be hard for me but i will try. Thanks :) ... (read in full...)
We always have to do what they want! What can we do?
Q. I am in a group of 4 friends. There is 1 particular person who always gets her own way, along with her "coff coff" best friend. We always do what they want and I am fed up with it. I feel as if I am the bottom of the group, like a reserved friend or ...
A. 2 August 2007: Sweetie do not worry. This is my situation and a lot of others. There is always a leader and his/her follower. I know lots of groups like this where the other 2 or whatever number have exploded and said "excuse me..can we do something else i ... (read in full...)
Can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?
Q. can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?...
A. 2 August 2007: Ofcourse :) Go for it! 80% of my friends do have them, and that sure is'nt stopping them. Good Luck x... (read in full...)
I constantly hear voices and see spirits..am I gifted (psychic) or just schizophrenic?
Q. I think that i am schizophrenic. Either that or i'm actually medically insane. I'm so scared of myself I see and feel what i can only define as spirits all the time, and constantly hear voices and noises that other people cannot hear. I'm scared to ...
A. 1 August 2007: This is not schizoprhenia! My mother and my grandmother are psychic. Don't be afraid, it is a gift. I understand, and you will soon too. Speak to a spiritualist. Some people do not believe in psychics and mediums and believe it's crazy, it is'nt. ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and dating my 25 year old teacher
Q. Hi. my names lindsay and im going out with a 25 year old. im only 14... but i love him and he loves me...what do u think? but if anyone finds out like in my school he could like lose everything cause hes a teacher...what do u think?...
A. 1 August 2007: Sweetie what a young teenage girl and a 25 yr old man wants is COMPLETELY different. Too be honest it is hard to love someone that much older at such a young age. I hope NOTHING sexual is going on between you because that is against the law and is ... (read in full...)
Anyone who doesn't grovel at my feet is not worth my time. How do I get over my ego??
Q. I find it joyful to see someone beg down to me and ask for mercy so that I can then decide as to what I should do with that person. Basically I can only relate with someone who can surrender to my ego. If they don't, I just ignore them or can't ...
A. 1 August 2007: To be honest who would gravel at your feet if you have that much of an ego. With what you have said i am suprised people have talked to you. Lower the ego and life will be kinder to you! If you can't do it yourself, get help :)... (read in full...)
He broke my heart once, should I take him back now?
Q. This Boy who i realy like broke up with me a year ago and now to go out with me again. He broke my heart so bad but shall i get back together with him or not. I asked him if he would again but he answed no i've changed. ...
A. 1 August 2007: If you are sure you will not fall into the deep end and make yourself not too available, then yes sure if you really want to. But think about what your doing, will it actually be different? Has he really changed or does he just want to use you? ... (read in full...)
A male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out I fancy him! what can i do?
Q. a male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out i fancy him! what can i do?...
A. 1 August 2007: This is disgusting of him. He is a teacher and could be sacked from his job. Pluck up the courage to tell the school, a favourite teacher for example. Don't reply to his texts at all, ignore him and in september as soon as school starts go to ... (read in full...)
I can't find any guys, who are interested in me and I like them! Help!
Q. Hi. I am really stuck. I can't find any guys. Every guy that likes me im not interested in. I don't know many guys as i go to an all girls school which is awful. I am quite shy but i've been told i shouldnt be as i get a lot of male attention but i ...
A. 1 August 2007: Thank you everyone for your understanding and help. I just can't seem to get my head round things. Why am i so shy? I get along so well with meeting new girls.It's easy, iv been told im easy to get to know. Why do i build a barrier with guys? Why ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, how do I ask my parents if I can go on birth control pills?
Q. how do you ask your parents for control pills when you are my age. wich is fourteen....
A. 1 August 2007: Sweetie i know how you feel. Nowadays people have sex younger and too be honest contraception is the most important thing. Well done not fo rushing into things and thinking it through! If you really want to have sex ask friends if they have done it ... (read in full...)
I need to get my mind off him!!!
Q. hi i am 14 and i recently went to a football match and i really like one of the footballers i saw playing (it was a pre season match) i cant stop thinking about him although i have only seen him twice (i saw him in his car on the way home ) he is 21 ...
A. 1 August 2007: hey hunni. What your feeling is a crush, do not panic everyone gets them at one point in their life. Just try to think that he is nothing special and that he is too old for anything to ever happen. Slowly in time you will get bored, i promise you ... (read in full...)
I wanna get over him, but I don't know how to...
Q. I had my first boyfriend and I dumped him because his ex still liked him and people seemed to care too much about other people's trouble. It just got way too complicated so I ended it. Like a week after I dumped him I was told he wanted to get back...
A. 1 August 2007: Sweetie everyone goes through this sadly a million times in their life. For me, time was the biggest help. Try to think about all the times he hurt you or you were upset and think about the open door ahead. Honestly honey you will get over him. ... (read in full...)
I love him to pieces but how do we get over our awkward shyness with each other?
Q. Hey well the guy i like fancies me too, but we only get to see each other once a week. Also it has got a bit awkward between us ever since we told each other we liked them. But we're trying to sort things out as both of us really want it to work. Th...
A. 1 August 2007: Hey. Im nearly 15 and i feel exactly the same way as you! Do not worry. Take a deep breathe and think im going to be confident, it will only help. I know it sounds stupid but do it! It worked for me. Spend more time together and it will slowly ... (read in full...)
12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?
Q. hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...
A. 1 August 2007: Sweetie it was the cleverist idea to come on here! You need help. This man is disgusting and breaking the law! Tell your parents hunni or anyone you trust who is an adult, they won't be angry with you at all. You also need to go to a sex clinic ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my gf but am having a hard time...I can't get away from her! Any advice?
Q. My girl and i have been going out for 1.5 years and it was awsome but i lost feelings for her and now she is all lovey and all ... i called to break up with her many times but like she will just start crying and it doesnt bother me thta she crys ...
A. 1 August 2007: Hunni i think you just have to bite the bullet with her and be honest. I know it feels impossible to do but if you have no feelings for her it should be easier. Tell her calmy and nicely. She will become even more 'lovey' if you don't tell her ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with wanting a baby at this age?
Q. I'm 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been having sex and i got worried that i was pregnant then i got my period. And now i want to have a baby! Is there something wrong with that? And how would i tell my mum? She would go crazy. I really Luv my bf an...
A. 1 August 2007: Everyone is different but it might not necessarily be the right choice. Babies are hard work and your education will suffer. You must think about everything and some people don't respect young mothers. The fact that your underage will also cause for ... (read in full...)
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