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We are getting close to our first kiss! Please help-I need tips on what to do?

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Question - (4 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ebeccaT writes:

Its come to the time when me and my boyfriend have our first kiss.The only problem is that ive never kissed before and im worried it will be awful.

But the one thing im scarred about is that i dont know where to put my hands on him when we kiss.

Its getting on my nerves bacause everytime i go in to kiss i drag myself out again because i dont know what to do.

PLEASE HELP ME!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

My First kiss was back in may and i was as nerveous as you. but all i can say is u have nothing to worry about its something that just happens i had my arms round his neck and he had his arms around my waist, its just a completely natural thing that just comes to you like youv been doing it your whole life :) so dont worry about it :) Im sure it will be a perfect moment and 1 you will never forget because its your first x (I know i wont forget mine)

xx Jodie

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A male reader, flawedbynature United States +, writes (5 August 2007):

It came naturally to me, but personally, when a girl kisses me I actually like it best when her arms are around my neck, though it's sometimes hard to do when standing up and if the size difference is vast.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

Aww! I understand totally how you will be feeling. I haven't had my first kiss yet either, but my friend has an he was actually a boy! But he said that it just comes naturally and you don't think about it when your doing it! Try putting your hands on his neck, or on his shoulders, or around his waist. I'm sure it'll be an amazing moment and appriciate every minute of it, because it's your first kiss, girl! Good luck! xx

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

lovehate agony auntSweetie, well firstly i was nervous before my first kiss! It is usual whatever you do, don't panic. The most useful advice to give you is it comes COMPLETELY naturally. You yourself don't know what you are doing. It's amazing. So just relax.

As you are his girlfriend and it is'nt some random girl, it will be more affectionate.

You could put your hands around his neck, on his shoulders, his leg, there are many places. See where he puts his.

Good luck :) xx

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