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Hey,I'm a 16 year girl that's been through alot over this past year. I want to help people so that they don't have to go through the things I did. I'm really a nice and happy-go-lucky person.So you don't have to worry about me getn all in your face. You can ask me whatever you want no matter your:age,race,sex,or whatever. I'll try to help as best as I can.

I want to make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared!!

Q.   I want to make out with my boyfriend but i'am really scared to bc i have never done it before and the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!! what do i do????...

A.   3 April 2008: Hey don't be scared. When it happenes you'll know what to do. It's really hard to explain. Don't just make out with him because all your friends are though. Do it if you REALLY want to. Make sure it's special... so it should be your choice.... (read in full...)

What should I do about liking my friend as I feel really shy.

Q.   Hi, I'm 13 years old and there's a girl i'm really in love with but i don't know if she feels the same way about me and i've tried getting advice and its all stuff like just ask her out and see if she says yes and all that but i am a really shy guy ...

A.   2 December 2007: Hummmm....well.Since your shy. Why don't you ask one of your CLOSE friends to see what she thinks about you. That way you don't have to walk up to her and ask and also you can't really do anything wierd around her to make her think your'e wierd. I... (read in full...)

Should I revert it, instead of telling him I like him, say I heard he likes me and ask if it's true? Boys, which strategy would you prefer?

Q.   ummm okay i have a party this weekend and im planning to tell the guy i like that i like him. should i reverse it? say that ppl have been saying that he likes me and i want to know? or should i just blurt i like u do u like me? boys? which one would ...

A.   5 October 2007: Humm,personaly I would put it in some random convo. You know like" Hey I heard that you liked me..is that true?" Something like that. But it's really your decion. IF he's honest he'll answer truthfully.... (read in full...)

I don't know if I am bi or just curious...?

Q.   Am I Bisexual? I constantly stare at girls.. at their boobs and asses you know and of course I think of them sexually but I cannot see myself with a girl that I would really love. I can only see myself loving a guy although I am CONSTANTLY wonde...

A.   10 September 2007: Why don't you try to get a girlfriend and see how it goes. If you'd rather be with a guy and stop having those feeling then maybe your curious....... (read in full...)

Should risk the friendship to I tell my friend how I feel?

Q.   I'm bisexual and my best friend knows this. She is a very nice friend and treats me the same and I trust her. I think I fancy her but I'm not sure if I should tell her because I don"t want our friendship to be ruined. Should I tell her I have ...

A.   6 September 2007: Well,why don't you try asking her how she would feel if a girl liked her? If she says she won't care then you should tell her. YOu even know what she could say. I hope I helped. Need anything elese just message me :) ... (read in full...)

I've got the girl of my dreams now, how do i keep the relationship exciting!!??

Q.   I have just started dating the girl of my dreams......shes 1 year younger than me and i don't wnat to lose her.....how do i keep the relationship fresh and exciting?...

A.   27 August 2007: I agree with the person below me. If she really likes you then just stay the same. If you need anything elese just message me. :)... (read in full...)

I'm meeting a guy i met on the net and am taking my friend with me. I'm positive he will prefer her!!

Q.   I really like this guy, and we have been talking for about a month now over MSN and on the phone. We're supposed to be meeting on friday but theres something thats really troubling me. My best friend is coming with me, and I'm positive that he...

A.   27 August 2007: You should just think positive.To you you might be ugly but to him you might be beauitful. I hope I helped.... (read in full...)

How do I keep my online acquaintance interested in me as a friend, as I would eventually like to meet?

Q.   Hi, I've recently met this boy, through a friend online. (Hes a close friend's, best friend so i know that he is genuinely who he says he is.) My Friend referred me to him when i needed help with my maths homework. (im 17, hes 18.) We've been cha...

A.   27 August 2007: HUmm why don't yoy just see him with your other friend before he goes so you to can have more to talk about?? I hope I helped.... (read in full...)

Should i report my violent teacher?

Q.   Should I report my violent teacher? He throws stuff at kids,slams desks,gets angry very easily and shouts alot.But he has never actually hit anyone.He has a reputation for being violent,swearing in school and even drinking(although that could be...

A.   27 August 2007: You should really report him because sooner or later he might hit some one.PLus he shouldn't be doing that to his students anyways. Need anything elese just message me. :) I hope I helped.... (read in full...)

This guy at school is flirting with me, am I reading the signals right?

Q.   okay im going to feel and sound very stupid for asking this question, lets just say im not the most advanced at dating but yea. well theres this guy who i really, really like hes 16 (im 14) an we've reasonably good friends, havent known each other...

A.   27 August 2007: WOW!! I so think he likes you.My firends joke around with me but when they do all the stuff you just told me he did that means he likes you. I hope I helped. If you need anything else just message me! :)... (read in full...)

He has no idea of her past experiences, should I tell him?

Q.   When she was 14 i went to the other side of the country to surf. she went with three male friends. one was a guy sh had been seeing for a good while. he had cheated on her. he was 17. thought it was a good idea to go do the whole rebound thing an...

A.   24 August 2007: Why dont' you just ask your friend if she feels like she needs to tell him so he can understand?... (read in full...)

We talk all the time, but I don't know if I should ask her to the school dance or not

Q.   I got a problem I like this one girl at my school and sometimes we talk to each other in class and I can't tell if she is just being nice or not. At our school we usually hang out with our other friends all day unless we have a class togeather if we ...

A.   24 August 2007: Well,you should frist find out what kind of dance it is. If it is a bring someone to a dance dance then just ask her.If she says no then just try to dance with her and her friends at the dance and talk to her so you can still be close.I hope that ... (read in full...)

What now? This girl, she rocks... but what do I do next?

Q.   What now? This girl, she rocks! I can tell she is really really really popular and I really really like her but what am I supposed to do now? I mean I spent 4 months trying to find her and now I have, I dunno what to do, I know she's single but I ...

A.   9 August 2007: Why don't you just talk to her more and also get to knw her friends as well.Then you can ask her friends if she likes you and get close to her with her friends.That worked for me.... (read in full...)

I met a boy on the internet that I like but I'm currently in a relationship

Q.   hi im very confused i'm in a relationship, i love the person im with but i don't in some ways. the only trouble is i have children involved but i have had alot of hurt throughout all the relationships i have been in i have always been physical...

A.   7 August 2007: Well,if you're already in love with this guy and have kids in it you must love him moe then this 15 year old if you haven't already of done something.Also you have kids!! Just think about how your kids will be if they keep seeing other guys in thier ... (read in full...)

Am I immature or is he being dumb?

Q.   Help me here guys. OF course I'm 13 and so is my boyfrined. He thinks I'm inmature just beacseI don't want to have sex and becasue I watch cartoon network and disney channel everyday.Am I really inmature or is he just being dumb?...

A.   7 August 2007: Hey thanks guys I'm gonna have a little talk with him now!! :D... (read in full...)

Can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?

Q.   can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?...

A.   5 August 2007: Hey I have braces myself and yeah you can!! It's not really different.... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him but now he doesn't care if he's with me, what does this mean?

Q.   Okay I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him but now he doesn't care if he's with me, what does this mean?...

A.   5 August 2007: I hate to say this but this happened to my friend before.Maybe that's all he ever wanted.Guys can do anything and everything just to get what they want out of girls untill we get it.Sorry to tell you.... (read in full...)

he is still going out with my best friend and she is in love with him. But he has been talking to me about breaking up with her. What should I do?

Q.   I have liked this one guy forever and a few months ago he started going out with my best friend even though he liked and still likes me. He has been calling me a lot lately and we are talking about an hour everyday. It has become very obvious that ...

A.   4 August 2007: Well,if he likes you more than his girlfrined and really wants to break up let him.It's his chioce.At least help do it in a nice way.IF he does don;t go out with him for a long time since you friend is in love.Let her you like him and let her tell ... (read in full...)

Am I still in love with my ex? Do I love my classmate?

Q.   Ermm.. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4months a few weeks ago. Now, he's with one of my close friends. I really support them, and wish them the best. I thought I could get over him and I thought I did. I guess I was wrong. Whenever he talks to me ...

A.   3 August 2007: That's normal.I broke up with a guy and liked him 2years later.Just try your best tell yourself know that your not together anymore.Why don't you try to get another boyfriend?... (read in full...)

I'm 12. Is kissing and feelings that I've fallen in love with a boy a bad thing?

Q.   dear cubid! please help me iv bin going out wiv this boy weve only bin going out for a day now and already weve kissed 3 times on the lips! im only 12...is that rong? i actually once in my life feel like i love this boy but im scared if he wil...

A.   3 August 2007: Calm down it's fine!! YOu can kiss a guy if you really like there's nothing wrong with that.... (read in full...)

Sex at 14.

Q.   Am i too young to have sex at 14 ?...

A.   3 August 2007: Hey,its' your choice.Personal I think if your a teen and wise about your choices you'll be fine.If you really love the guy and he knows to use a condom and your both cool with it go ahead.Make sure he doesn't have any STD's.MAKE SURE YOUR REALLY ... (read in full...)

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