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Hi I'm Martyn from Birmingham, UK currently doing a Psychology degree at University with the aim of becoming a counsellor one day or having my own private practice. I enjoy helping people because I know that one day I'll need help and those I've helped will be able to help me, plus it gives me a good sense of satisfaction to know that I've potentially made a difference to someone's life.

I've always got time to reply to anyone who messages so I'd like to get in touch with anyone and everyone!

What can I do to get girls interested in me? And when do I go in for the kiss?

Q.   So this may sound like a familiar topic but I am a male who struggles with women. I have struggled my whole life but it seems like women just have absaloute zero interest in me. I can talk to them, I joke with them usually in a sarcastic form (not ...

A.   29 October 2009: I am just like you. I find that if you be yourself (I know this sounds cliché but it's the truth) there is someone out there who will see you for who you are. I used to use this website and others all the time. If it makes your feel any better, ... (read in full...)

I'm terrified we will drift apart. What should I do to keep us together?

Q.   I have a boyfriend and have for the past 5months or something about 4 hours away. He's starting a new school now.. a really really hard working one. and hel be in year 9.he said he can hardly come on msn or phone me at all because he has really high ...

A.   3 September 2007: Trust me on this one, year 9 is really not that big a deal - it might seem like it now, but in a couple of weeks your boyfriend will realise that *shock* year 9 is just the same as year 7 & 8, only with some "proper" exams at the end. He will still ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and in love with a 25 year old footballer... is this age gap too big?

Q.   Hi, Im 15 years old and have recently fallen for a 25 yr old footballer. He appears to have feelings for me as well, i would like to get involved with this guy if he feels the same way about me, is the age gap to big? I turn 16 in 5 months and ...

A.   17 August 2007: I agree with the others, this age gap is too big, I'm 19 and have reservations about even getting with a 16/17 year old because of the age gap. You're much better off being with someone your own age - after all this 25 year old will be able to do ... (read in full...)

Lately I have been having a lot fantasies and dreams of having a holiday romance...

Q.   Lately I have been having a lot fantasies and dreams of having a holiday romance, I have got my hopes up so much, but I know it won't happen. Why is this? Please tell me. I really want it. thnks X...

A.   2 August 2007: You may be fantasising of a holiday romance because it is literally an escape from your day to day life, as holidays generally are - throw some romance in there and it seems like the perfect escape. But you have to ask yourself what happens if you ... (read in full...)

Do not want to risk our friendship.

Q.   Hi I don't really know how to go about asking things like this. My best friend has just finished with her boyfriend of 3 years and I really like her more than a best friend. We're both at university and have helped each other through rough patches ...

A.   2 August 2007: just wanted to say thanks for the help it's made the situation a lot easier, I had a feeling I knew what the right thing to do was, and you guys have helped clarify it - Thanks!... (read in full...)

I started losing weight fast and now my sex drive has gone.

Q.   So this is super weird right my sex drive was close to it's peak and me and my other were having this awesome amazing sex then all of a sudden i started losing alot of weight like i dropped 5 pounds in 3 days and my sex drive started lowering and i ...

A.   1 August 2007: OK this is my first ever answer so bear with me - I'd recommend going to see your doctor especially about the weight loss. It is possible that a lower sex drive can be a result of sudden weight loss which is what happens a lot in bulimics and ... (read in full...)

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