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writes:hey i just wanted to see if any 1 cud help me?well the thing is there is these 2 lads i av likd 1 for 17 months and the other for bout 10 months. well i went out with the 1 i have 4 17 months for about 5 weeks then i finished with him and now i am with the 1 i have liked for bout 10 mnoths. But the thing is i still realy like the lad i have liked for 17 months and i just cant get over him and he still likes me. But i dont want 2 dump my bf i am with. But my mate told me 2 kiss the lad i have liked 4 17months 2 see how i realy feel about him. But i dont no wether 2 or not. What do you think i should do? Plz help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, lrw9294 +, writes (26 June 2008):
lrw9294 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey thankz those who helped. but ino i am not going 2 do the kiss cuz am not a cheater. but am still not sure yet which lad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): I'm somewhat speechless....How fair is it to the two gentlemen? Not at all. They deserve better. It's not about a kiss, it's about what is in your heart. Your heart isn't the only one who's heart is at stake, so are the gentlemen. So please be gentle, and make a decision soon, so both you and the 2 fellas can as well.
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Personally, I would try to not be so selfish. They don't deserve to be strung along and thats what you are doing. They both seem like great guys, so why not let some great girl have one of them. It's not only unfair for the lads, but unfair to all the great ladies out there! Why did you break it off with the first? Try to remember why you are no longer with him, and the possibility that it might happen again. Then you would not have either of them, and that would realy suck! Good luck.
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