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*achakaRoni
writes:what is going on, i really like this guy im seeing- we r taking it slowly and all of the sudden a couple of my exs have been in touch wanting to see me. why now? I don't get it.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 What is more worrying is that you give a shit.
They are your ex'es. Let them go to hell, focus on the new guy or is that you still haven't gotten over them?
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reader, justaskxxx +, writes (23 June 2008):
I know where you're coming from as i think it's happened to a few girls. You finally find a decent guy, think nothing can go wrong, when you hear from an ex and emotions are stirred.
Maybe it's just a coincidence or maybe you're exes know you're happy with a new guy and don't like it, as they expect you to be pining for them in a room somewhere.
What i suggest is taking the time to see if you're happy in your current relationship. I can't imagine your guy would be happy to know you're exes have been in touch wanting to see you.
If you are happy stick with this guy, don't meet up with any exes as someone will most probably get hurt.
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (23 June 2008):
 "You never know what you have untill you've lost it". As long as you are no longer available, the ex's will now notice that they miss you, and wish they still had you, and this new guy didnt. Crazy, huh? Not uncommon though.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (23 June 2008):
 This kinda thing happens with me all the time! Lol. As soon as someone comes along that i really like, several others come along as well! I find it as a bit of a curse really,.. It always makes things so awkward! But your ex's, have they just made it out that they want to see you as a friendly kinda thing cos they haven't seen you in a while? Or have they made it out like they wanna get back with you? Cos it could just be a coinsedance that they've both got back in contact with you at the same time as a matey thing? And if things are going good with this guy your currently seeing and you do really like him, just dont let any other interest influence it! That's where iv gone winni a couple of times and totally screwed things up :s x
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