He bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, this confuses me!!
Q. Hi, I browsed on my bf's emails today. I found out that when he came back to Australia from his visit here, he bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, clothes, etc. I read it through his reply to his daughter's email... His wife cheated on him so ...
A. 13 March 2008: One more thing, I think I can't be with him just yet... coz I also found out that his ex-wife still uses his family name... What do I need to ask him? I'm really so troubled... :-( Pls direct me...
If it makes you feel any better, my parents went... (read in full...)
He bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, this confuses me!!
Q. Hi, I browsed on my bf's emails today. I found out that when he came back to Australia from his visit here, he bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, clothes, etc. I read it through his reply to his daughter's email... His wife cheated on him so ...
A. 13 March 2008: no problem girlie, contact me any time.
-Jmo
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He bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, this confuses me!!
Q. Hi, I browsed on my bf's emails today. I found out that when he came back to Australia from his visit here, he bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, clothes, etc. I read it through his reply to his daughter's email... His wife cheated on him so ...
A. 13 March 2008: Maybe you don't have to tell him you read his e-mail. Maybe you can use your feminine wile (we all have it) to slyly get information from him concerning his relationship with his ex. Or maybe you could have a frank and earnest conversation regarding ... (read in full...)
He bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, this confuses me!!
Q. Hi, I browsed on my bf's emails today. I found out that when he came back to Australia from his visit here, he bought his ex-wife a pair of shoes, clothes, etc. I read it through his reply to his daughter's email... His wife cheated on him so ...
A. 13 March 2008: You should talk to your bf about this. Admit that you read his e-mail and tell him that this makes you feel uneasy. Get him to open up about why he felt it was alright to buy his ex shoes n' stuff and if he felt it was alright, why he wouldn't tell ... (read in full...)
I don't wish to have a relationship with him but feel somewhat obliged by the attention and support he's given me as a friend!
Q. I met this man who helps me to get through my divorce. I was very unhappy at that time. He is very supportive and attentive. My life is back on track now. Then I realise I am not in love with him. But he said he has fallen in love with me and ...
A. 13 March 2008: You should let him know how much you appreciate how much he has done for you in your time of need. If he's a true friend, you won't lose his companionship and hopefully he respects you more than arm candy and won't be offended or put off. If you ... (read in full...)
Does our ages and age difference count?
Q. hello everyone, i really need help. i'm 15 and there's a friend who lives on my street, i have knew him since i was about 6. (he is 13 now by the way so i'm 2 years older). we both fancy eachother. do you think it would be right for us to have sex ...
A. 13 March 2008: I'm not one to judge people's decisions on whether or not to have sex based on age (even though there is a lot to be said about it) but I agree completely with eyeswideopen. If you felt the need to ask this question, you already know your answer.
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How to meet a new girl and ask her out?
Q. It's one thing ive never had the guts to do...go up to a girl ive never met before in my life and ask her out or for her number...My biggest fear is being rejected and/or here saying she has a boyfriend cause then I have to walk away knowing she is ...
A. 8 March 2008: You should just get into a casual conversation with her, and towards the end if all feels right, nonchalantly ask if it'd be cool if you could call her sometime. It's all about projecting confidence and if you're nervous, "fake it 'till you make ... (read in full...)
I think I picked the wrong subject!
Q. I'm 16 and I've been at college 7 weeks doing 4 AS levels and I've really messed up. When I was applying and so on I had no idea what I wanted to do as a career so I picked to do maths because it was my best subject at the time. Now I'm really ...
A. 8 March 2008: I'm not exactly sure how your school works but maybe you should consider lightening your load as far as courses so you can concentrate on the ones you're doing well in as well as giving yourself some time to figure out what you REALLY want to ... (read in full...)
He lied, cheated, stole, and is an alcholic. Why do I want him back?
Q. I was in a realtionship with an alcholic for nine months. we lived together right from the start. I knew what he was like, but yet i thought like everyone else i could change him. He cheated, lied, stole money from me, and treated me like crap. He ...
A. 8 March 2008: I don't think I could put it better than Ask oldersister did. You are in a co-dependent relationship and in a way you've been sucked in to an addiction of your own...HIM.
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After the gym...everything is hurting and I am worried I have damaged something.
Q. I was in the gym yesterday and everything was okay...some weights, some treadmill etc etc- the norm. Today however my shoulder muscles are hurting terribly and i am worried i might have done damage or something. please help. thanks....
A. 7 March 2008: Don't engage in any strenuous activity (and definitely don't go back to the gym) for a few days and see if the soreness subsides. Maybe you overdid it yesterday. Rub some Aspercreme or similar substance on it or use a compress. If you don't slowly ... (read in full...)
I keep breaking up with my boyfriend, getting back together, breaking up. It is a merry go round!
Q. i keep getting back with my ex and after a few days i either get bored,or find something in his behaviour that annoys me,and i tell him to break up..and later,i regret it and do the same!how can i stop this???...
A. 7 March 2008: First of all, I pretty much agree with what everyone has said thus far. Personally, however, I think that maybe (and this could just be a long shot) you get frustrated and don't know what to do from time to time. It may have nothing t do with your ... (read in full...)
I snooped and found out he cheated. How do I confront him on this?
Q. I am at a loss! I am in agony right now! I did something very bad and I know it. But he did something worse. My boyfriend accidentally left his email up on the computer and I know I should have just logged it out and ignored it. But I didnt. I ...
A. 7 March 2008: You put it best when you said "I did something very bad and I know it. But he did something worse". (in your defense it's his own damn fault for leaving his e-mail open. After all if your going to do something wrong, at least have the foresight to ... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend troubles
Q. hi!! i am going out with thhis girl z for about 1 month and we both like each other but when ether we are are youth club and we go of to be alone and have a walk and talk hug and snog. this lad who z has been out with before folows us and it is ...
A. 7 March 2008: This guy sounds like he might be potentially dangerous. If this keeps up I'd consider telling an adult or someone who runs your youth club that this is going on. This is borderline harassment that could turn into something worse. Has she confronted ... (read in full...)
My son saw me kiss another man while I was separated from my husband (due to his abuses.) I'm worried my temperamental husband will find out!
Q. My husband was acting like he was ragging yesterday because his boss laid into his ass about something. So we were arguing about little stupid crap all night because of his attitude. Well, whenever he starts to lose the argument he always tries to ...
A. 7 March 2008: First of all, my sympathy goes out to you. You must have this sinking feeling every moment of every damn day and I'm sorry. Unfortunately, this is kind of a lose-lose situation. I don't know how old your son is, but if he says "when you thought I ... (read in full...)
She hates the ejaculating inside of her, but only after 4 years she tells me this!! I feel hurt and disoriented.
Q. I have been seeing a woman for over four years and have had what I thought was a great relationship. We have recently been talking about marriage. However, last week after sex she told me that she absolutely hates the fact that I ejaculate inside ...
A. 7 March 2008: Damn that kinda sucks. It sounds like you're both in the wrong to a certain extent. She should not have waited four years to tell you that it bothers her. That's a red flag right there. You have every right to wonder what else she's been holding her ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to contract HIV by getting a tattoo?
Q. my boy friend wants to get a tattoo. is it possible for him to get infected with HIV? ...
A. 7 March 2008: Oh, I forgot to add, GO TO A PROFESSIONAL or the chances of contracting something can be pretty high. -Jmo... (read in full...)
Is it possible to contract HIV by getting a tattoo?
Q. my boy friend wants to get a tattoo. is it possible for him to get infected with HIV? ...
A. 7 March 2008: As long as he goes to a reputable establishment. I see no need for concern. I'm not sure what the regulations are in your country, but just make sure you research the the shop, artist, sanitation requirements, any licensing regulations, etc. before ... (read in full...)
Application for Permission to Date My Daughter
Q. Your Name: Date of Birth: Social Security Number: Height: Weight: IQ: GPA: Home Address: Phone Number: Blood Type: Medical Plan: True or False Questions: Do you have Parents? Is one male and the other female? If no, exp...
A. 7 March 2008: Someone should write on from a mother's perspective for permission to date their son. THAT would be hilarious!... (read in full...)
We agreed to have space but now he is so distant. What should I do?
Q. I was with my BF for 2 and half years. I met him when I was 19, he was my very first true love and his. For the past 6 + months we were drifting apart, hardly ever making love even kissing or cuddling like we used to. For the past 2 months we argued ...
A. 7 March 2008: Maybe it's time to move on and explore the possibility that you could get a great thing going with this friend. And if you do, be completely honest with him (I mean he was your friend, right, he should understand) regarding your vulnerable state and ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so bad? I gave him a blowjob!!!!
Q. I am feeling a bit down coz I did something I don't think I should have but I don't regret it! I went out with my boyfriend (16 + I am 16 too) a day ago and we decided to drink.. I am a lightweight, I don't even have to drink much to get pissed!! ...
A. 7 March 2008: I agree with LJ001. And hey, at least it was your boyfriend and not someone else, don't beat yourself up.... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity on Sunday... could I be pregnant?
Q. After having sex for the first time, I've noticed I'm very damp below and also since yesterday having diarrhoea my mate said I could possibly be pregnant? I'm not sure but we did not use protection and he didn't cum inside me he pulled out before, ...
A. 7 March 2008: While you COULD be pregnant (I mean there's always a chance) it's too soon to tell. Maybe you're sick.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
I want to ask her to go out for a meal, or a drink, or something. Do you think that's wise or should I just move on and forget it?
Q. Ok so heres the story, my girlfriend broke up with me about 10 days ago, because our relationship just faded and we started arguing and becoming short with eachother. The spark was long gone by the end. We tried to get through it for a month, but ...
A. 5 March 2008: I think asking her out for a drink or something would be perfectly fine as long as you can assure her (and yourself) that it's not a desperate attempt to rekindle the relationship or scam a booty call. If she accepts, try your best to avoid any talk ... (read in full...)
Is 'camel toe' looked down on?
Q. Is having 'camel toe' looked down on, or worse than being completely tight? Is it an insult?...
A. 5 March 2008: I think that most people would agree that wearing ill fitting clothes that show of the detailed contours of one's genitalia is socially undesirable. -Jmo... (read in full...)
Can I be pregnant?
Q. Hello, Right, about a month ago during Sex with my Boyfriend the condom came off. I was quite worried that I might have got pregnant but two days later I started my period so I though everything was fine. Since that little scare we have been ver...
A. 5 March 2008: Yes it is possible to get your period a couple days after you may have gotten pregnant, but don't get yourself worked up just yet. You stated "I am not on the Pill but was a few months ago". Starting and stopping the pill can throw your hormones off ... (read in full...)
I like giving men blow jobs - am I gay?
Q. I have always wanted to know what it was like to give another man a BJ. I answered an ad and got to know this guy. I went over to his house and gave him a BJ. I did enjoy it! Now my problem is, I want to do it again. I like giving the BJ pa...
A. 5 March 2008: I don't think this necessarily means you're gay. it could be a multitude of things. Maybe you're turned on by giving men blowjobs because it seems taboo to you. Maybe it's just penises that turn you on. Maybe you get off on playing a submissive role ... (read in full...)
Am I gay or is it just my hormones?
Q. Ok, I'm sorry for the length of my question... I'm really confused and don't know what to do, I sometimes think I'm gay/bi but I just don't know! I've previously liked girls from school and at the moment I like one girl an awful lot! I also know ...
A. 5 March 2008: You could be gay, you could be straight you could be bi. It really doesn't matter as long as you can accept yourself at the end of the day and stay true to your feelings. What I do know, is that you are at the age where you're just coming in to your ... (read in full...)
He cheated, I got upset but he forgave me, how do we start over?
Q. The man I have been sleeping with recently forgave me for all the hateful things i said after I found out he was sleeping with another women besides me. Even though i am grateful for the fact that he forgives me and wants to continue seeing me I am ...
A. 4 March 2008: In response to the issue of being manipulative, I completely neglected to think about that. Now that i have, I can completely agree because in the past, I've done the same thing your man has. It's a pretty good defense tactic when you know you are ... (read in full...)
My right testicle has been hurting... anyone know what might be wrong?
Q. Hey recently my right testicle has been hurting like a pain of windness (punched in the chest) or achy pain. I've checked and found no lumps although it seems theres more room on the left side of my testicle sack than on the right the pain comes a...
A. 4 March 2008: It could be an infection or a hernia if it hasn't been caused by trauma to the area. Either way, it's important that you seek out the opinion of a doctor because, well, that's not one of those areas you want to take chances with. In the meantime, if ... (read in full...)
I'm laying low and just concentrating on college but I'm just really lonely...
Q. I have ruined everything, I had a wonderful boyfriend for over a year and everything was always perfect. I was completely in love with him and we never fought or argued or anything. One day he looked at me at said he didn't love me and that it was ...
A. 4 March 2008: We all do things out of character from time to time, so please don't beat yourself up over it. And unless you're leaving something out, I don't think I read a single thing you've done that could be interpreted as deceptive or even selfish. That ... (read in full...)
He cheated, I got upset but he forgave me, how do we start over?
Q. The man I have been sleeping with recently forgave me for all the hateful things i said after I found out he was sleeping with another women besides me. Even though i am grateful for the fact that he forgives me and wants to continue seeing me I am ...
A. 4 March 2008: Did you and this man have an agreement of exclusivity? Did he lie to you about the other woman? Would you feel comfortable pursuing a relationship with him even if it isn't exclusive? You've stated that he's forgiven you but have you forgiven him? ... (read in full...)
I want to tell her that he is cheating with me...but will he hate me forever??
Q. My ex cheated on his girlfriend with me but I still have feelings for him and it's not something that happened only once but now he wants to stop because he "feels bad". I see the girl all the time because we go to the same track club. Is it wrong ...
A. 4 March 2008: Do you want to tell her with the wishful thinking that she'll be out of the picture? Motives are a big deal. While everyone deserves to know that they're being cheated on, delivering the news is a very difficult situation. Chances are, if you tell ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my mum I have vaginal thrush...please help.
Q. I think i have vaginal thrush, i have all the sumptoms. My friends say the main cause is sex, so i dont know how to tell my mum i have it. I want treatment for it but my mum thinks im a virgin. please help :(...
A. 4 March 2008: You can buy over the counter meds in the meantime for fairly cheap. Your condition most likely has NOTHING to do with sex. However if the symptoms don't go away within a reasonable timeframe, you should see a gynecologist. I'm not sure how things ... (read in full...)
How can I stop this problem??
Q. This is sooo annoying and embarrassing!! I came for the first time last nite and i peeed everywhere and i know people have queried this before and the answers have always been; its not pee its cum. Mine is definatly pee, so i rushed to the loo to e...
A. 4 March 2008: You may have had a G-spot orgasm or maybe you felt so comfortable that when you came, your muscles were so relaxed, you "just let go." I myself have never had a G-spot orgasm but from all I've heard, you release what can sometimes be ALOT of fluid. ... (read in full...)
Am I just missing a relationship with someone or am I past my ex so soon?
Q. I just broke up with my long term girlfriend last week and now i find myself laying down on a couch with a girl that i almost dated before my ex. Is it possible for someone to move on so fast? she wants to date me and i want to date her, ...
A. 4 March 2008: You said " i like being in her company and i like cuddling up with her. am i just missing a relationship with someone or am i past my ex so soon?" and I don't necessarily believe it has to be either. Maybe because your ex was part of a long term ... (read in full...)
We are totally in love but only 14...is it ok to have sex??
Q. Is it ok to have sex when you are 14 and totally in love with your girlfriend and she is totally in love with you? I will definatley use a condom becasue we really do not want her to get pregnant. I know this probably sounds stupid and an obvious ...
A. 4 March 2008: At least in my personal opinion, the age at which you are comfortable being sexually active, is irrelevant. You could be 13 or 35, it doesn't matter. What does matter is that you (and your partner) are comfortable with it. Just make sure (seeing as ... (read in full...)
My father is an alcoholic. How do I get him to stop?
Q. im 16 years old im pregnant and my dad is an alcoholic. I want him to stop coz he is tearing the family apart and he keaps promising but ends up breaking them. What can i do please help. ...
A. 4 March 2008: I know your question is regarding your father's alcoholism and how you can get him to stop drinking (and the truth is YOU CAN'T...sorry) but I'm kind of concerned about how this may be affecting your pregnancy situation. Has your dad's drinking made ... (read in full...)
If I use tampons will it break my hymen?
Q. i can put tampons in, does this mean my hymen is broken and sex will be easier (the first time)?? ...
A. 31 January 2008: Sorry, nope.... (read in full...)
Turned on secretly seeing wife with another man
Q. i saw my wife having sex with another man. they didn't see me and i watched until they finished. i didn't get angry, i got turned on. i want to tell my wife, but will she be disgusted with me? i really wanted to join in when i was watching, ...
A. 30 January 2008: I think a lot of people are neglecting the fact that you enjoyed seeing your wife with another man. That's fine. But the fact that YOU'RE fine with it probably means you have to do a little self discovery. There may be some underlying issues or ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...
A. 29 January 2008: Either way, this situation is bad news. You're underage and you don't even know whether or not he's interested in you. And even if he is, it will never amount to anything. Hope you get a good grade! good luck anyways! -Jmo ... (read in full...)
We have different ideas on how a long distance relationship should work. Please help
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past year, I'v been with my partner for 2 years and just recently things have gotten very weird ... He seems very distant! Doesn't want to visit due too lack of funds, i have no free time to ...
A. 28 January 2008: Long distance relationships are hard. I know I could never deal with one but I have friends that have tried to make them work (one in particular that kinda makes me sad.) My friend met a guy and knew him for about a week before he was shipped off to ... (read in full...)
Why don't I fancy anyone anymore?
Q. about a year ago I really fancied a guy but he didn't even know i existed in that way. A little while before that I had a huge 6 month long crush on a fit mate and he never liked me or even considered me. Before that I have had crushes on countless ...
A. 28 January 2008: Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Things will resolve themselves eventually if you stop thinking about it. It'll all work out. I promise.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
I cheat on him to get back at him and because I am lonely! Help
Q. God I am so stupid, well I know what everyone is going to think when they see this, "what a whore". Well here it goes... Iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and Im only 21. We love eachother and we have had a lot of problems but we have always ...
A. 28 January 2008: I'm currently in a similar situation only I live with my boyfriend. He works all the time and when he comes home, all he does is sleep until he works again in the morning or get shitty drunk and start a vicious argument with me. So it gets pretty ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend likes her jerk Ex as a friend
Q. Ok, I just want a general opinon from people to see if I'm out of line. My girlfriend of a few years has a platonic relationship with her ex. The ex and I don't like each other because, I feel he harbors resentment for me taking her away and because ...
A. 28 January 2008: Coming from a girl who is basically the girl you're describing (almost exactly), you have every right to feel this way. Unfortunately, the news isn't good. I'm not saying that she's necessarily cheating on you but chances are even if she hasn't, a ... (read in full...)
She does not want me to be a reason of her break up but we have slept together behind her boyfriend's back. What next? I love her...
Q. I have fallen in love with a girl I've known for a year now the problem is she has a boyfriend almost the same amount of time. we have discussed the issue and her excuse is she doesnt want me to be the reason they break up but we have slept ...
A. 25 January 2008: My condolences to you. Seriously. I'm in the same situation only I'm the girl in this kind of story. It's a shitty situation where EVERYONE gets hurt eventually. Thinking from your girl's perspective, she probably really likes you but can't see ... (read in full...)
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