Will he ever forgive me and take me back?
Q. On May 5th my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me. I feel like my wold has fallen apart, can't eat or sleep and the doctor has me on 3 types of tranqulisers.. Another couple that we had associated closely with split up 4 weeks ago - he just wasn't in l...
A. 13 May 2009: Hello,
Oh how heart breaking. i am sorry.
I'm suspicious of this female friend and Uncle Phil beat me to it. Is there anything not adding up there at all???
Why would she have said what she said? Coincidence?
I'm being suspicious. Please, ... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken, confused and don't know what to think or do
Q. My boyfriend who is in the middle of his divorce decided to go away for one week to Europe after finding out I had gone on a date several months after we started dating. At that time, December 08/January 09, he had been acting standoffish, distant ...
A. 11 May 2009: Hello,
Just add....If I understand correctly, he contacted on the plane and day one also. But now it's only day 2 so that doesn't seem a long time? Am I right? He may be finding his feet at the moment? Please, i'm not making light of your sit... (read in full...)
Getting back deleted history on the computer?
Q. Dont know if any of you out there can help but i have been wondering how can you get back things that have been deleted on the history on my computer?...
A. 6 May 2009: hello,
I think you can because I've seen the police on the news take people's computers for investigations. I think the harddrive would have a memory of every movement ever on the life of the PC. The problem is finding someone that is able to unlo... (read in full...)
Am I too short, as a male?
Q. I went on two really great dates recently with a girl I met at my college through a friend. It seemed as those we connected in every way. After the second date things seemed to fizzle out. I wonder why until a friend on mine told me that he had ran ...
A. 16 April 2009: Hey,
Her opinion doesn't speak for every woman!! Just because she likes taller men, it doesn't mean every girl likes taller men. She has a shallow attitude. Remember, it is the person, the nature, the whole package!
Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...
A. 9 April 2009: Hello, I'm so pleased! I bet he was upset and was messaging another dearcupid site too! I hope we all helped. Hannah xx... (read in full...)
Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...
A. 8 April 2009: Hello, Ooh I do sympathize. A week is a long while to not be in contact seeing as you had just made promises together. You have every right to feel disappointed with him. Firstly, Is he OK? Is there a way you could scramble your number and call ... (read in full...)
Can I lose my virginity through masturbation?
Q. i am frmo a very closed mined cluture and i am geeting married in a couple of months i used to masturbate when i was young and sometimes till now too...we are not allowed to have sexual intercourse i ned to know if masturnation can cause me to ...
A. 8 April 2009: Hello,
No, masturbation may tear your hymen. You lose your virginity when a penis enters your vagina. Plain and simple. xxxx... (read in full...)
Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...
A. 8 April 2009: Hello,
Let me re-cap on this as there sounds as if there is confusion....you were seeing a guy for a few months. He asked, if possible to become bf and gf. He wanted this, you agreed. Both wanted this.
Now he hasn't been in contact for a week.
... (read in full...)
Would he notice if I am a virgin?
Q. Ok every guy i kno thinks im not a virgin but i am. They think im not because the way i act. I hang out with alot of people who arent virgins.They asked me if i was and i said no.I was scared what they would think of me. so i went along with it but ...
A. 8 April 2009: Hello,
I'm gonna guess that yes, a guy will know if you are virgin. It could depend if he is sexually experienced though? You may bleed a little, be nervous and not relaxed enough. Try to do it with someone you care for and trust though. You will... (read in full...)
14 yo and wants to know how to masturbate
Q. I'm 14 and I want to no how to mastervat! please help ...
A. 6 April 2009: hi,
Hold your penis with your thumb and forefinger, rub it up and down. You may need to put some baby oil on your penis and make sure you have some paper tissues handy to collect the little droplets of sperm. xx... (read in full...)
He's too nice and its annoying me!!
Q. Hi, this sounds sooo stupid but its been really bugging me for so long. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 yrs and he really is the nicest person...i swear he is a saint! Nothing is never any trouble for him and he never has anything ba...
A. 12 March 2009: Hello,
There isn't a day goes by when I don't think of my "nice guy" that I dumped nearly 15 years ago :(
He was everything i'd never had before so I got scared and kept trying to push him away. I'd never realised guys could be like this before a... (read in full...)
Should I worry about being circumcized?
Q. im an 18 year old guy from Australia, i was wondering if i could have some uplifting advice on being circumcised....as i am. i worry about what a girl will think if i am..should i worry if i am circumcised or not?? ..and my mates always crack jokes ...
A. 9 February 2009: Hello,
Well to be honest, it is fine being circumcised or having a foreskin. It really will not make a difference to girls...well, I am not bothered either way.
Possibly, in the UK the majority of boys are not circumcised so that is probably... (read in full...)
Were on a break, am I being played for a Fool?
Q. Let me know what you guys think. I've been going out with a girl for 9 months yesterday. When we had been together for 3 months we feel pregnant, we decided to abort it due to certain issues one of them being money. She then started to becom...
A. 23 January 2009: Hello,
You sound a really great guy! Is there any way you could force yourself to go into a "no contact" mode. This will fish her out and hopefully she will miss you and start questioning what she is doing. She asked for a break so give her what... (read in full...)
How do women feel about a foot fetish man?
Q. Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wonder...
A. 16 January 2009: Hello,
I think it's cool! My bf touches and smells my shoes, socks and slippers. I find it very loving when he makes a fuss of my feet and toes. Cool!! xxx... (read in full...)
Can she get pregnant from this?
Q. okay well i fingered a girl on new years and i think i might've gotten sperm/cum on my fingers and i am scared for her she is freakin out and does not know what to do ...
A. 9 January 2009: Hello,
It is all about temperature. If your sperm was placed inside her vagina and kept it's temperature then there is the very very slight chance. I doubt it very much though.
Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
Going to Ireland--can anyone give me advice?
Q. can some one tell something about ireland becasue i hope to go there for short hoilday...
A. 7 January 2009: Hello,
Northern or Republic? x... (read in full...)
How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date?
Q. Honestly, I want a guy's opinion on this one! How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date? And how fancy of a place or settle for a quick bite to eat and not let her super size?!? LOL. Say you both met online (dating site) an...
A. 6 January 2009: My starting price is 50 dollars...;)
Seriously, if she likes you, she won't be too worried.....coffee is fine. xxx ... (read in full...)
He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!
Q. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that kee...
A. 6 January 2009: Hello,
Yes, it does sound normal to me. I sometimes get woken up by his rubbing the thing and he really is asleep doing it. I've come to accept it and just giggle or help him out!
I probably do things that wake him up as well that I don't kn... (read in full...)
Advice from experienced taller, big foot skiiers wanted please!
Q. My husband and I are going skiing for the first time. We have a package that includes rental hire which includes boots. My husband is 6ft 7 and wears size 14 UK shoes. I am very concerned that we may get there and there could be a chance they are ...
A. 6 January 2009: Hello,
Yes, you need to do this well in advance before you travel. My bf is a 13(48 euro) and we always arrange a pair through our travel agent or we phone the actual hotel/resort. Any sizes from 12 to 14 are considered outsizes. And i know that... (read in full...)
She never told me that she had a boyfriend!
Q. This is going to be a little long. I met this girl in one of my college classes. The flirting started when every time she would walk pass, she would turn around make eye contact and smile at me. Most of the time she would end up sitting near me ...
A. 19 December 2008: Hello,
Yes, you got her number from friends...that was a bit creepy. Really, her friends shouldn't have given you that. When you text her, it may have worried her so she didn't reply. that was the time to leave it. Then a few months later when you ... (read in full...)
What do you think he's trying to tell me?
Q. hi ..l just met someone online and we r gettin along so good so far then when l told him l will be leavin myspace then he replied back to me sayin tht ( u cant leave me and l need you ) !!! now what is he tryin to tell me ??? does he like me or mo...
A. 19 December 2008: Hello,
Yes, as per deejuliet, he is teasing and having fun and saying......"don't go...please don't leave" It's friendly fun at the moment with teasing!!! xxxx... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 17 December 2008: This reminds me of 15 odd years ago when I was dating a nice guy as you put it. I put him in the friend's category after a few months but still took his gifts, cards, xmas presents that followed. Still knew he would call, care, take me out etc.
O... (read in full...)
Are doctors used to silly questions like this? Should I ask?
Q. I am looking for some female advice, I am thinking about going to the doctors just to ask if everything is ok "down below", I have always felt a little unsure if I am "normal" and I was just wondering if doctors are used to "silly" questions like ...
A. 28 November 2008: Hello,
All OK. This is all confidential...talk about all concerns with regards to your health. Please never be afraid to ask your GP what you feel are silly questions....you can ask your GP about all concerns...down below, poo, sweating, eyes, ears... (read in full...)
He's a virgin????
Q. I love my bf and everything he does. Yeah the band teach! I got over the thing with him and Starla. He asked me if I ever wanted to have kids with him. I'm 21 and he is 38. I really want to but I am in college and he has band and all his other ...
A. 23 November 2008: I don't believe a word of it. Total rubbish. It will cost YOU your virginity. xxx... (read in full...)
When is too soon to be committed to someone after a divorce..
Q. Ok I've been separated from my husband that I was with for 10 years and have 2 children with for 6 months. It was my choice and I have never felt better since. I've been over it, since the day he walked out the door. I have dated 2 rebound guys ...
A. 23 November 2008: Hello, If you feel you are ready then tell him you wish to take things slow. He may want more too fast, but that is the chance you take. See how things go slowly. xxx ... (read in full...)
Is my penis length natural?
Q. Hii. I am wondering if my erection is normal. First of all I guess I should tell you my age, its very embarrasing. I am only 13 years old but my erection is 6-7 inches. Is that normal? I've looked at multiple length charts and all of them said ...
A. 17 November 2008: hello, Yes, within 4 to 7 would all be what you call normal. xxx... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid I need help badly..
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help. I have meet this man whom I thought I could have a relationship with, how very wrong I was... after 3 weeks into the relationship he told me he was married with 3 children, he told me he plans to leave his wife after xmas,...
A. 16 November 2008: Hello,
Big red flag from me I'm afraid! Think that it took him 3 weeks to tell you he is married. Certain things you bring up in conversation as the relationship moves along but being married needs to be said from day one. He didn't say.
If yo... (read in full...)
Do you think he will be able to tell I am a virgin at 25? He has a bad reputation too...
Q. I need some advice, any gratefully welcome. I am a 25 year old virgin (yes 25), I have never ever had a boyfriend (never), I don't really know why it just never happended, anyway, a guy who works with me has started to show an interest and we ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello,
By all means accept if you like him.
As he is leaving in January, this may be a fling or something and it will cost you your virginity. You say he has a bad boy rep, so he will probably "guess" you are either sexually inexperi... (read in full...)
My first time was great...is there something wrong with me?
Q. hey. urm, well here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together now for 7 months, im 16 and he is 19, we decided today to have sex for the first time, my parents are out until sunday so we had a free house, and it went pretty well, exept ive ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello, Sounds perfect to me! A super guy to treasure and a beautiful way to lose your virginity. xxx ... (read in full...)
I feel like I should just move on, but I can't!
Q. Hello everyone. We are back together for few weeks after a major fight. Since then, we don't meet each other much. She always missed my calls and not calling back. She said she is busy with her work. She works at night but recently, she sa...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello, From what you describe she isn't interested. Don't play into this game of missed calls, invisible online, busy, working and all that rubbish. Just don't contact anymore and delete her. The anon below was very accurate with their post. al... (read in full...)
Should I be more open minded and not show him that I'm jealous and interested?
Q. The man I'm dating likes to go out together when he has time and he likes to communicate but he doesn't say to me about a serious relationship. He has told me that he doesn't want a commitment and he just wants to have good time. Although I am ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello, Sorry to say walk away. I read moongoddess and she is correct. This may go on for a long time with this man and you will hope and hope and hope.....but he won't committ. I don't like all this friend sharing and games either. Have fun... (read in full...)
My penis size worries me
Q. I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturba...
A. 13 November 2008: Hello,
The news is all good...you will be able to pleasure a girl, pleasure yourself and also make girls pregnant. Try not to wonder about size and making things bigger, there are other things that girls look for and penis size is not some... (read in full...)
Step by step blow job instructions?
Q. My boyfriend want me to give him a blow-job but i dont know how. Can anyone explain it to me....like step by step please! thanks so much!!...
A. 13 November 2008: Step by step information??? I'm blushing already! xxx... (read in full...)
If I masturbated before, do I still count as a virgin?
Q. if i masturbated before do i still count as a virgin? i don't know if i've had an orgasm. i really like the way it feels to masturbate, but when my boyfriend asks if i'm a virgin do i tell him yes? i do it almost twice a week. ...
A. 13 November 2008: Yes you are virgin. Generally speaking, the definition of being a virgin is someone that hasn't had sex before. Therefore, until a penis has penetrated you, you are still a virgin. xxx ... (read in full...)
Should I call or text him? I want us to be friends.
Q. ive broken up with my boyfriend of over a year for various reasons. mainly the fact that i felt more like we we friends. he also did things that were strange, like calling me from a private number, and lied to me at the start of our relationship...
A. 13 November 2008: Hello,
If he took it very badly I doubt very much he will want to be in touch as friends. Go ahead and text, he may say "yes, that's fine."..........and never contact you again. Happened to me anyway. xxx... (read in full...)
I had sex with her, she is due to give birth soon, don't know if it is my child, what to do?
Q. o, i slept with my brothers girlfriends sister and she is due to have her baby next month, however has not mentioned it could be mine as she now has a boyfriend who has admitted he doesnt think it is his? Do I approach her? What do i say?...
A. 12 November 2008: Hello,
Yes, a DNA test. When the baby is born. Obviously, you worked out the times you had sex with this girl. What is interesting is the current bf reaction that he doesn't think her baby is his. He must have serious doubts to say this and must... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity...
Q. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21, we've been going out for over 4 months and we are both still virgins. Tomorrow we've decided to go all the way but I'm scared it will hurt and that I won't know what to do can anyone help me please. I love him and it ...
A. 11 November 2008: Take it slowly really. It can hurt, well at least mine did, and be prepared for the bleeding. Perhaps use something to protect the sheets or mum and dad will find out!!!!!!!! Good luck, xxx... (read in full...)
Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?
Q. Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?...
A. 11 November 2008: If you manage to press another button in there, he will do something else as well...xxxx... (read in full...)
If I can't get a hooker, how can I stop being horny?
Q. im constantly horny, and im not 18, i cant just go and get a prostitute. what should i do?...
A. 10 November 2008: Hello,
It's best to masturbate lots of times throughout the day. xxx... (read in full...)
I'm really worried! What exactly is making my erection disappear?
Q. ok, im 17 and i have a girlfriend who is 16 and we've been together for a year now, we've had lots of foreplay but whenever we've tried to have sex, whenever i've tried to put on a condom on, my erection disappears. i've definately been putting the ...
A. 7 November 2008: Hello,
Blackroses sums it all up perfectly. It's simply the pause in the moment and you are not alone with this. I've seen lovely strong bananas turn into little tiddlers during this act of putting the condom on. One tip...buy extra condoms and ... (read in full...)
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