He NEVER calls/texts me but treats me like a princess when we are together?!
Q. My boyfriend is confusing me, and I'm begining to wonder if he's really just not that into me. We've been together for a little over a month, and when we're together he treats me like a princess. He's very affectionate and sweet. But then as soon...
A. 22 July 2008: Just to agree with the sisters.....also, let him contact now and let him arrange a next meeting. Let him do all the running but it seems he has someone else I'm afraid.(or just plain rude) Hannah x ... (read in full...)
I have a bad feeling about my long distance love. How can I make it go away?
Q. hi, i have a question i wondered if some girls or even guys could give me a little advice as ive never been through this before and would really like some advice... ive been with my bf for a while he is amazing i really do love him and i feel t...
A. 21 July 2008: Hi,
The poster guillaume may have a point about past hurts. I remember coming out of a divorce and met a guy afterwards. I was punching myself black and blue that i found a guy like him and then spoilt everything! All down to not feeling I was wort... (read in full...)
He used to be completely obsessive, but now he could care less! What gives?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in our long-distance relationship for eight agonizing months now. We were actually together for four months and then he had to move away. He plans to come back in another year, but the wait is killing me. On top of...
A. 11 July 2008: He doesn't seem too interested honey! Sorry. It will really help you to move on. Hannah x ... (read in full...)
He texted me 80 messages, but still, my confidence level is low, does he really like me or what?
Q. And please dnt tell me its in his kiss lol! im having this problem with a guy in work that i really really like we have had many converstaions about the whole situation and he totally knows how much i like him! he has told me that he is totally fl...
A. 11 July 2008: Although we take it he has a thing for you, beware he is not an obsessive Crank!!!! Hannah x ... (read in full...)
Was this guy just being friendly or do his actions mean he feels something?
Q. hi everyone just like a few opionions to my question. If you were out in a group and a guy was holding your hand(and not doing it with anyone else) do you think it means he has feelings for you. Also he kept hugging and giving me kisses on the ...
A. 21 June 2008: All sounds very good to me. Sometimes I talk about various things to a guy and just notice his interest level. If he has high focus on your words and agrees or tends to allow for errors, then it usually gives me the impression he likes me. Try ... (read in full...)
Our divorce is nasty and he won't talk to me..how can I get him to communicate?
Q. I am in the process of getting divorced and my husband sees his son alternate weekends. When he comes he will ring on his phone to tell my son to be ready and if I come to the door to answer he will not look at my face. On drop off he will drop at ...
A. 21 June 2008: Hello, This is a long shot but it may be worth making appointment with your solicitor and explaining all of this to them. Tell them you are worried about extra costs, access, your child etc. If he only communicates through his solicitor then as ... (read in full...)
I want to loose my virginity! Any advice?
Q. k i really want to loose my viginity and i kiss my arm and pretend a boy is actually dare but how do i get a boy that is right they all call me ugly but i dont think i am and im hated off all the girls giv me sum advise plzz im 14 x...
A. 20 June 2008: Hello,
Please don't rush things. The legal age in UK is 16 and even then you shouldn't rush into it. You have your virginity so don't lose it cheaply. Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that he has so many different fetishes?
Q. I have an ex boyfriend who I see every now and again. He and I are very comfortable with each other, especially in a sexual sense, and have discussed the possibility getting back together in the future. Recently he's confessed that he wants to try ...
A. 20 June 2008: I think it is all to do with what you are comfortable with. The only thing I would say was that I was with a guy that had a thing about my knickers and shoes. After a while, I knew they were going missing and he seemed more interested in the objects ... (read in full...)
Should I shave my dick??
Q. I am 14 and wondering if i should shave my dick what do you girls pefer most?...
A. 19 June 2008: It will probably itch like mad!! Just leave it to hang as it is. It's better to leave it in it's natural state! Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he isn't in love with me any more. Should I keep trying?
Q. Ive been with my partner for 5years. The last 6months ive had depression and i didnt no, but in that time i said nasty stuff to him that i didnt mean. Last weekend we broke up over the phone as we live with his parents in their garage and it was ...
A. 18 June 2008: Yes, Daneilepew has got it. It seems like a lost cause now. By the way....You break up and he is in bed with a girl that night!!
Phewww! That would upset me.
Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
Two periods in a month, the second after losing my virginity. Is this normal?
Q. i had my periods on 1may08 after 7 days i lost my verginity.then on 12may again i had periods.its been over a week that i am getting no periods??is this a normal issue?...
A. 18 June 2008: Yes, go see your doctor and tell her what is happening. I take it you had unprotected sex. Try not to dwell on that for now. See doctor first. Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
First time sex, any tips?
Q. Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and we both love each other more than anything. We do everything for each other. We're both virgins, and recently, we decided to have sex. But when we tried, he didn't really know what to do / whe...
A. 17 June 2008: Hello,
Wait until you are 16 and then just simply lay nude together in bed with him on top. Things have a habit of slipping into place. Don't let it be "the night", just be natural and enjoy eachother naked. Make sure he wears a CONDOM! You may ... (read in full...)
He wants to take my virginty during our outing with his parents!
Q. ok, so me and my boyfriend are going to a monster truck show and he wants to have sex during our outing (6:00 PM- about 1:00 AM) He says that he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I just feel like losing my virginity ...
A. 13 June 2008: Yes, TasteofIndia and sofiamorgan have got it! It's the wrong time for you. And all this love stuff and spending whole life together concerns me as well. Just make sure he is not just after your virginity. I fell for that line a number of years ago ... (read in full...)
I'm not very good at dealing with rejection and don't really know what to think at the moment...
Q. Hi, I just split up with my girlfriend and could do with some perspective. She told me she only loves me as a friend and that her feelings for me have changed [over the course of our 2 month relationship]. For a while now she hasn't wanted to...
A. 13 June 2008: Hello,
Best way is to go cold turkey. Just don't contact anymore. If you see her, just be formal polite. Time is the healer here! Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
She didn't want a relationship and now she says she does.. my head hurts from trying to figure her out!!
Q. I've been seeing a woman as a friend for 3 months. She is a divorcee. I mentioned i was interested in a relationship with her, but she said it was too soon after the break up of her marriage, 6 months ago. Anyway she went on holiday and had a one ni...
A. 12 June 2008: Hello,
Leave this as she is coming into a relationship with too much baggage and needs to heal. The one night stand was just no-strings fun!
Remember, you asked her for a relationship and now she has the power, unfortunately, to simply pick up ... (read in full...)
How do I get a guy to know I like him, but subtly? I don't want to be too obvious.
Q. hi, i know everyone has herd the story about boys but i really do need to help! so yeah i really really really like this guy in my class how do you get him to notice you? I want him to kind of know that i fancy him but not in a obvoious way if you ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hello,
Well just be friendly and natural with him. But hey! He does have a girlfriend and she talks to you as well! You could end up with losing both of them! Leave it please! It's best that way! Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt to have sex the first time?
Q. I know you must get many of these questions, however, did it hurt the first time you had sex? How long will this go on for?...
A. 12 June 2008: Well it hurt me a bit. A sort of sharp pain but try to make him go gentle and ask to stop or slow down if things are becoming painful. Also, remember that you may bleed after the first few times and be sore for a while but this is perfectly normal. ... (read in full...)
I'm not very good at dealing with rejection and don't really know what to think at the moment...
Q. Hi, I just split up with my girlfriend and could do with some perspective. She told me she only loves me as a friend and that her feelings for me have changed [over the course of our 2 month relationship]. For a while now she hasn't wanted to...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi,
Forget about your penis, that is nothing to do with things. Penis size etc is all perfect.
She is just not into you any more and that's that. There may be a lot of reasons for her leaving the relationship, but please don't ponder about orgasms ... (read in full...)
My BF is a very abusive person, swears at me and even tried to strangle me. Is he iterating his father's violent behaviour?
Q. My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship but recently he's started to sort of bully me..ie pushing me pull my hair etc, nothing to serious. However, the violence seemed to escalate further just last week as we had been out at a pa...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi,
I'm not concerned with how his childhood was in relation to how he is treating you. You are slowly being abused and the longer this goes on, the more frequent and violent this will become. I ask other aunts to confirm this!!
He is hurting ... (read in full...)
She accepted my invitation to dinner but mentioned it will not be a date, as she's already committed. How can I win her over?
Q. My problem is that I am completely in love with this girl who I've known from the beginning of this semester. I asked her out to dinner a couple of days ago and she said she can't as a date but as maybe as mates, because she already has a boyfriend ...
A. 11 June 2008: I think you are going down a dangerous path here and you may get disappointed and embarrassed. How about do the dinner, "don't" flirt or step over any boundary. She says she has a guy so listen to what she says. If she has feelings for you, then ... (read in full...)
My ex says he will marry me now but only if I let him have anal sex!
Q. my ex bf wants me back now that I have a new bf, he is a good guy and while we lived together I had everything, except marriage and kids, he wants to give that now, but wants me to have anal sex with him, he says if I do not do it he won`t be able ...
A. 10 June 2008: Hello,
This is not a deal! For me, that part of my body is personal and simply private. I wouldn't want any guy exploring around there. I doubt if either of these guys are really suitable for you. H xx ... (read in full...)
How do I get back at him for using me?
Q. ok so there is this guy who i lost my virginity to. im 18 and hes 23 and it turns out that he only used me for sex. now i really want to end it completely with him. i know this sounds bad but i want to hurt him just as bad as he hurt me. so how ...
A. 9 June 2008: Hello,
just leave it now and just be clear to him that he hurt you. Similar happened to me many moons ago. Treat this as a learning curve. Never go for revenge or violence as you would be stooping to his level. You are worth more than that. H xx ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends penis looks a bit wierd!
Q. ok, ive got a really wierd question: my boyfriends penis looks a bit wierd, if were facing each other, and he pulls his foreskin back, the side of his penis thats facing me has this peice of skin that comes from near his pee hole down and just ble...
A. 9 June 2008: Sounds normal to me! I think it's called the frenulum! Very sensitive in that area! H xx... (read in full...)
Why am I still bleeding? I've had sex three times...
Q. why am i still bleeding when i've had sex three times as the sayin goes the first time u have sex your sposed to get your cherry popped but im still bleeding. why?...
A. 9 June 2008: If the bleeding is during sex then this sounds perfectly normal for the first few times. However, if you are bleeding during the day and while asleep, then go see GP.
H xx ... (read in full...)
Why is it that guys I met never ever wanted to wear condoms?
Q. Why is it that guys never ever want to use condoms? I mean when you first meet someone, everyone goes on about how you should have safe sex, but when it comes down to it guys do not want to wear them? Don't guys who get them stop unwanted pregnan...
A. 7 June 2008: Hello,
Yes, it has been said. I have a rule..........No rubber, No sex. H xx ... (read in full...)
I have troubles coming to terms with that my boyfriend will always love his child more than me. I don't understand the concept of he loves his child in a very different way - to all parents out there - how different does it feel?
Q. I'm really struggling with something at the moment which i am reluctant to admit to anyone. My boyfriend has a child and i am struggling to come to terms with "The child must come first". Obviously i understand that a man/woman should love their ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hello,
It's all been said really well! Just to add....your profile says you are 18-21. At this time in your life, I believe you are too young to want to take a partner with a child. As you are feeling the way you have said, it would probably be a lo... (read in full...)
How do I get enough money for the wedding?
Q. hi,i have a girl that i have propose to.and we love each other very much.but my challeges are getting money to conclude our wedding plans.though a graduate but still looking for a job.want you to advice me on how to go about it....
A. 4 June 2008: Hello,
Sometimes in life, we can't do certain things due to not having enough money. It's not an excuse, it's reality. Think about putting things on hold a bit if you can't raise the amount needed. It may be better to wait to have a great wedd... (read in full...)
He isn't paying attention to me. Should I do it to him?
Q. My crush and I talk on the phone daily.Every time that I call him he sounds busy so I ask him "are you busy?" and he replies "no" but then in less than a minute he says "I'll call you back in a minute" which turns out to be hours later.Every time ...
A. 2 June 2008: Sounds like a load of games to me! don't put up with this rubbish. Don't call him anymore and see if he calls you and wants to talk. You respect him so why is he not respecting you. Let this go, you are worth more than putting up with his behaviour! ... (read in full...)
Did he pop my cherry?....or was it because I was on my period!?
Q. okay so im on my period and me and my boy friend have already had sex before and i guess there was nothing wrong with having sex on your period...so we decided to have sex. And after words i had seen that i had a blood stain on my bed and so i fig...
A. 2 June 2008: I bled the first few times I started sex so I would guess it is your period. Unless you have started having sex recently, was there any pain this time? H xx ... (read in full...)
I have an erection every time I approach my girlfriend, is this embarassing?
Q. ive gt the problem whereby everytime i try to get close with my girlfriend (im 17 nd she is 16) i feel i can't because little johnny pops up. what should i do this is realy annoying for me and embarassing ?????????????...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi,
It's your age and sounds normal to me. When I was dating at around your age I remember guys being aroused like this. It's natural, and I was flattered when I realised what was happening!! H xx ... (read in full...)
I put my hand down his pants. What should I do next?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for about two months now or so and i realize this is probably moving super fast but he and i were making out long before we were dating, something you should probably know we are both underage and not super i...
A. 2 June 2008: You say you are under age so I am rather concerned to give you advice as to what to do. However, your profile says 16-17. Let us know your age first perhaps?
take care, H xx ... (read in full...)
Can I forgive after he cheated and got a girl pregnant?
Q. How do you forgive your husband after he has cheated. And made a baby with another women during your marriage....
A. 30 May 2008: Sorry I couldn't have a future with this guy either. All the posters are right and I'm with them all on this. Think about STDs as well. I wonder how many times he shagged her to make her pregnant. Don't put up with this. Read Waterloo Sunset's post, ... (read in full...)
Is she rejecting me? She said our friendship was more valuable than a relationship!
Q. My dreams are finally coming true, I finally got the girl I like to talk to me! We are so close, to each other, but she said this "Our friendship is more valuable then a relationship, I like u but id rather be ur friend" is she rejecting me? What ...
A. 29 May 2008: It does sound like she is rejecting a relationship. (if I was into a guy, I wouldn't risk saying that!) So, you want more and she wants friends. In my experience, I've wasted time waiting and hoping for someone to change their mind. (they never ... (read in full...)
She's only 15 and I'm 18, would dating be a problem?
Q. I have liked his girl for a long time and we became best friends. We even had some feelings for each other. The thing is she's only 15 and im 18. I just wanted to know if that age gap is too much to date her. and if it is, does anyone have a good ...
A. 28 May 2008: Yes, all ok but as previously mentioned, be careful of the sex side to things. When she is 16 it doesn't mean you have to jump into bed! Be responsible and she will respect you. H. ... (read in full...)
How fast is too fast?
Q. HI , i met someone we get along great, he lives an hour away. We have been together a months. We are both finalizing our divorces but have been separeated for over a year. He said he wants to move to my town to be close to me and probably with me, ...
A. 28 May 2008: Seems a bit fast to me. You will have to slow it down to the pace that you feel comfortable with. However, slowing it down may push him away. That's a risk for you but it's no good just rushing in. The divorces can make people lonely and scared of ... (read in full...)
She accepted my lunch invite, does that mean she wants more than friends?
Q. Hello, First i'd like to start off by explaining background. I've liked this one girl (lets call her Annie) for about a year now, and just recently i've been really really into her. A couple days ago i worked up the courage to ask her to a friendl...
A. 25 May 2008: Best thing to do is to arrange the lunch and see if there is any spark between you. It may be friendly polite or she may want more.....Remember though, make sure you arrange where to go,(have back up plan if this falls through) know the time, place ... (read in full...)
Do I get pregnant if I finger myself?
Q. do i get pregnat when i finger myself....
A. 24 May 2008: Of course you don't! A penis does that job! (trust me!!!) H. ... (read in full...)
How can I make my boyfriend fall in love with me?
Q. i have a bf but dont understand how to make him like me even more i dont see him often except for everyother weekend maybe you could tell me how to make him fall in LOVE with me. any spells or potions? lol jk p.s he already likes me bunches...
A. 24 May 2008: We don't have control over that I'm afraid. Romeo and Juliette fell in love, Tristan and Isolde used a potion and Liz Taylor and Richard Burton never fell out of love really. Let the god's decide...it's not for us to call. Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
He said he liked me, then broke it off... please help!
Q. Hi its me again i know i go on about this i forgot to say an extra detail the bloke said to me on the first night, that he really liked me that i was his girl now and he didnt want me going out with any other men. THEN 2 DAYS LATER...
A. 24 May 2008: Sounds like a control freak to me....or at least the beginnings of one. Stay away...I've got a few T-shirts of those kind of guys....stay away! Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
I broke up and now I want him back!
Q. I need help ! I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago.. he was such a great person but things between me and his mom went wrong and i couldnt take it anymore.. He kept begging for me back but I just couldn't stand his mom and I kept refusing.. ...
A. 24 May 2008: He tried but you kept rejecting him. He was probably very hurt so he gave up and has now moved on. That's closure. Now he has this new girlfriend, you have lost your control over him. That could be the root of your problem.
Hannah. ... (read in full...)
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