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Why is she acting like this? Should I just move on?

Q.   just had a serious argument with my ldr gf. little bit of history - im 18 m uk, shes 23 f usa. recently we split up on some very harsh terms on her behalf. she did it without telling me. i wwnt travelling for 6 weeks in america and while that period ...

A.   10 April 2012: Hi, Thanks for follow up. Well done.I truly believe you did the right think. Stick to what you did and well done. Yes you are happier, yes you have the experience. Best wishes and good luck xx... (read in full...)

MY LDR of 9 months has just cut contact and won't answer my calls... Help me please??

Q.   My LDR boyfriend of 9 months has just suddenly stopped taking my calls and answering my texts. I know hes ok and still alive because there is recent activity on his facebook page. We last spoke on the phone last week and everything was fine. Now he ...

A.   18 December 2011: Hello, I think you will find he was checking out and finally did it. Very rude and impolite to just go without saying. I doubt he will ever be in touch now because it seems he had made his mind up a while back. I doubt you will get any real reas... (read in full...)

Let's just be friends....

Q.   Hello lovely people :) I am having a little rant here, because I truely do not understand the thinking behind this statement "Let's just be friends". Say you have been on a number of dates over a month or longer, you feel things are goin...

A.   16 December 2011: I think you will find it is purely a polite way of saying "I'm not into you." I wouldn't bother trying to persue things or ask him for reasons, he just didn't want to further things. He may have tried a few dates to see how things would go, or he ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend arrived for a 2 week stay with me without any money! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend has just arrived for a 2 week stay (we're long distance) without any money! He says he's taking a month long break unpaid and has just enough to meet child maintenance payments during this time so I'm going to have to cover for him. He ...

A.   14 December 2011: hello, I just read the link to your previous request. He doesn't seem to be paying for anything. This is costing you a lot of money. I would end this now. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend arrived for a 2 week stay with me without any money! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend has just arrived for a 2 week stay (we're long distance) without any money! He says he's taking a month long break unpaid and has just enough to meet child maintenance payments during this time so I'm going to have to cover for him. He ...

A.   13 December 2011: It seems very bad for him to arrive with no money especially at Christmas. This is the time when people need money. I would talk to him, let him stay one week only and then send him back on account of financial grounds. ... (read in full...)

Too young for sex but cant stop my urges, help!

Q.   I am a 13 year old boy and normally have the urge to have sex, but i dont want to as you can see my age, any advice??...

A.   13 December 2011: If you have your foreskin then I don't believe you would need the lube. But if you have been circumcised then you could buy vaseline jelly or ky jelly from the pharmacy. I think! Best of luck!... (read in full...)

Too young for sex but cant stop my urges, help!

Q.   I am a 13 year old boy and normally have the urge to have sex, but i dont want to as you can see my age, any advice??...

A.   13 December 2011: Well I think it's best for you to masturbate in private. That will relieve your urges. Check on teenage health websites for help, advice and information on how to enjoy things. Have fun! ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

Q.   My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...

A.   13 December 2011: Hello, If you have some feelings for your ex then whatever you do, don't go ahead with any marriage with your boyfriend. It's not fair on him. ... (read in full...)

He has cut me out of his life but he was the liar!

Q.   im sure theres something wrong with me because this keeps playing on my mind and i cant shake it off. i was very good friends with a guy until i discovered he had been lying to me since day 1 -found out through various means and i was very hurt as i ...

A.   8 December 2011: There is not a lot you can do. I believe he used you to get help with money and a shoulder to cry on. When you see him next, ask him what the problem is? But, I think he used you. Not a nice person and one to forget. ... (read in full...)

I am pregnant but don't want to tell date I've met online

Q.   ive been speaking to this guy who i meet on plent of fish for over a year now and never meet untill 2 weeks ago and have met twice now we get on really well over txt phone and in person, but the thing is he told me he wants to be with me and ...

A.   8 December 2011: It would be wrong and dishonest to keep quiet. He would find out eventually anyway. When he finds out, he would probably not continue with you because he would do the maths. The best way forward is to be honest and tell him what happened before you ... (read in full...)

She has my number, promised to contact me but hasn't. Should I give it to her again?

Q.   hi just a quick one i asked the girl i like out at the local shop she said yes gave her my number on friday so she felt more cofertable as i dont know her, was very nervous lol saw her in the shop again on sunday she said she definatly wants ...

A.   7 December 2011: You have done all you can. Let things go now and wait to see if she contacts you. If she has lost your number she will ask you for it again. If not, she just changed her mind. ... (read in full...)

My partner couldn't be bothered that I miscarried our baby, and he's been busy texting his ex while I'm going through hell!

Q.   Hi I've been with my partner for 3 half years. I was due to move on with him next month. In October I found out I was pregnant and was so happy. I'm 41 and my son has left home. My bf wasn't too keen at first but eventually began to get excited....

A.   7 December 2011: It's the end of the road now and I would urge you to cut your losses now. Get rid of this loser. Sorry about your sad news.... (read in full...)

He says he loves me but he hasn't let go of his wife!

Q.   I have been with a man over a year now..he hasnt stopped with communicating with his ex wife..he hasnt stopped hacking into her email He has told me several times that he wishes she would move on but when she has a caller he turns into this ...

A.   4 December 2011: If he really wanted to be with you he could. He would acknowledge you as his partner, get out of his wife's life and move to you. But he doesn't. There must be some things he isn't telling you. ... (read in full...)

Do you know anyone who has many college degrees, but is working in a job far below his potential???

Q.   Hello all, This is a question on career options. I know...I know...this site is mainly dedicated to relationships/love/sex questions. But I am posting a career question here as my experience with this site has been good so far and I get the most s...

A.   4 December 2011: Yes the economy is bad at the moment. Many people I know work below potential. Also, many are simply unable to find any work whatsoever and it is not through lack of trying. Sometimes you just have to grab whatever is out there and hope you get it. ... (read in full...)

Why does my ex post a photo of his ex from 2 years ago on facebook?

Q.   I split up with my LDR boyfriend because he wouldn't commit to me and he was messing me around. I told him he had to let me move on if he wasnt prepared to commit, but we could remain friends. He was horrible back to me so I deleted his number and ...

A.   4 December 2011: He is probably playing games with you to upset you. So, best thing to do is Block him on Facebook so he cant see you. Then carry on with your life and dont check him anymore. It's only upsetting to keep checking and looking and wondering and getting ... (read in full...)

I feel heavy because of my height and want to be an model

Q.   I have serious body image issues. I'm 5'11, and I think I'm attractive. Because of my height I constantly feel heavy - I'm 64kgs. Im very uncomfortable round boys because of it and don't act confidently- sometimes I just feel like crying and othe...

A.   3 December 2011: Hello, Find out what your BMI should be for your height. This will be an indication if you are over weight. Girls of 5.11 would have a higher BMI weight than a girl of 5.3. That is natural as well as longer legs and possibly larger shoe sizes. Also... (read in full...)

Does he want me to move on?

Q.   i don't know how to take this. recently the man i've been involved with for a better part of 5 yrs responded to an email i sent him wishing him and his family a Happy Thanksgiving. Mind you this was the first time i attempted to write to him...

A.   3 December 2011: Hello, Have you been having an affair with him for 5 years? If so, he will be in and out of your life. Affairs "work" like that. ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to urinate in the bath and shower?

Q.   How many people urinate in their bath or shower? My boyfriend says everyone does and expects me to trust him if we bathe together. What shall I do?...

A.   30 November 2011: Not me so not "everyone" does it. I wouldn't want anyone peeing in a bath with me either. Just not my scene. ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

Q.   My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...

A.   30 November 2011: Hello, Your present boyfriend is by far the best choice. However....having doubts about things like this is no basis to plan a marriage. So, you need to be clear in your mind what you want and love before going into a marriage. ... (read in full...)

Is ejaculating in a woman's mouth more degrading than on her face?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and really want to ejaculate in her mouth, she can't stand the taste. She wants me to ejaculate on her face, but I feel that's degrading....what do you guys suggest....?...

A.   28 November 2011: Some girls do, some girls don't. If she doesn't like it then you must respect that. I don't either. I prefer just below my knees on my shins. If she prefers face then that's her choice. ... (read in full...)

The man who I thought of as a father figure has started hitting on me and I think its disgusting!

Q.   Hi all, I am feeling so pathetic right now. So I recently got to know this particular someone through my work. He was like a father figure as he was very helpful and I felt like he treated me like a daughter-ish or you know, like h...

A.   28 November 2011: Hello, I think from what you say he behaved acceptable. He didn't try anything while at work and now that work has finished he is possibly looking at you as a potential partner. He would not have any notion that you saw him as a father figure. In a... (read in full...)

She used to text me all the time but she has stopped and is now talking to a guy on Facebook...should I be worried?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for a little over a month now, and from what I thought we are both madly in love,, we used to text eachother all the time(hundreds of messages a day), but about four days ago she almost stopped texting all together and ...

A.   28 November 2011: Hello, It really depends about what sort of relationship you had over the last month? Did you meet up? Spend time together? Have sex? Go to a few places? If it was purely online and texts then I would suggest she has just moved on. If it was more... (read in full...)

I don't feel the spark for my boyfriend whom I am in a long distance relationship with, and I have cheated on him three times now!

Q.   Dear cupid, I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year now. its a long distance relationship. Of late my boyfriend does call me as usual and all but lately I feel like he's kinda changed he is too busy for me, he doesn't give me ...

A.   27 November 2011: Hello, It's time to end this now. You need the closeness of a relationship and this ~LDR can't give you it. Also, it seems he is getting tired of things as well. Time to end things now I'm afraid. ... (read in full...)

I thought we were dating but he's still remaining active on his online dating account!

Q.   Three weeks ago, I started dating a guy through on-line dating . I think we are a really good match for each other. He is exactly what I am looking for in a guy and seems really keen on me. He treats me really well and we have the same values, ...

A.   27 November 2011: Three weeks is not a lot. However, it depends what has happened in the three weeks. If you have been having sex etc then I would say this is a basis for feeling things were exclusive. I know I would. However, if you were meeting up and enjoying time ... (read in full...)

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me two months ago and he's already seeing someone else

Q.   My ex dumped me barely two months ago. I am still in love with him, but have just found out that he is going to ask another girl out, and that he has found someone else. It felt like my heart just got broken again. How do I move past this? ...

A.   27 November 2011: Hello, I'm sorry to say that life can be like that and people and and ex's can do all this. When people say, "that's life." I'm afraid that's what it is. Sadly, for you, I'm afraid he has now moved on. So.....you have to as well. Give yourself time... (read in full...)

Technique of sex with elder lady

Q.   I am going to have sex with a lady elder to me by three years..she is 44. I want to know how should i go about it all the way from beginning (kissing) to end (till she is complete). And what should i do if i come early, then what should i do ?...so ...

A.   26 November 2011: Hi, It is the same! She is not elderly! No way near elderly. Things will be exactly the same as a any other girl.You make love as you normally do. Elderly is a term that would possibly be applied to people that are in their 80's and even then that... (read in full...)

Three year LDR. It's not working. Should I tell him how I am feeling now, or wait until I get back?

Q.   Ive been with my long distance partner for 3 years. I am travelling overseas and planning to live with him when I get back. But I don't believe in our relationship anymore. I care for him and want him to be happy. I do love him, but we have bare...

A.   26 November 2011: Hello, One thing that strikes me is that when you tell him about what you are doing he hardly responds. Barely keeps in touch and you seem happy to be travelling and you are ok to be alone. So, I would simply say that this is no basis to be movin... (read in full...)

He gets too nervous to have sex. What can I do to help?

Q.   I recently got together with this guy. He's older than me by 3 and a bit years and lives away so whenever he comes to visit we get physical. Our first time was amazing. He did go soft twice but he got it back and later he confessed it was...

A.   25 November 2011: Hello, It seems to be the condom which is causing him the problems. As it was his first time, it seems he just isn't used to wearing condoms. That sounds normal to me.From personal experience.. Time and practise seems to come to mind at the mome... (read in full...)

His text left me confused! What do you think he meant by this?

Q.   hi - it is official i hate texting !!! This guy and i went out a couple of times and we slept together. Always initiated by him. I texted him asking to go out for drinks and he replied something VERY confusing: "i have to go out with some colleg...

A.   24 November 2011: Hello, From what I can read here, he means..."Yes, i'll do drinks but nothing more." In other words he is not keen on furthering the sexual side/staying overnight/intimate side anymore. Only my opinion though! ... (read in full...)

Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?

Q.   I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...

A.   24 November 2011: A lot of people said don't send him a picture until you are sure of him. Yet you send him a picture? I don't understand that. You do not know who he is or anything for sure. People will tell you anything. I would delete all contact now. Be safe. ... (read in full...)

Was sex with my new boyfriend awkward because I just got out of such a long relationship? Or do we just not have that kind of connection?

Q.   I just got out of a 2 year relationship to a guy that I was actually engaged to. I was very unhappy with the relationship and he was more concerned about his happiness than mine. I couldn't take it anymore so I left. I'm in a new relationship and ...

A.   22 November 2011: Hello, I think you need to get to know him better. You are just out of a long term relationship and all of a sudden a new guy, personality, body, etc is around you. It really will be different and strange. I think give things time and get to know ... (read in full...)

Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?

Q.   I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...

A.   20 November 2011: Hello, Just put your standard picture on your profile. Do not send him any pictures of yourself in underwear or swimming costumes. Just a standard picture on your public profile. That's all for the moment. Wait until you have a trust with him.... (read in full...)

He's had 6 gfs before me and I need to know the details. Should I ask?

Q.   My bf is the first proper bf I have had and the person I lost my virginity too. However, before me, he had a bout 6 proper gfs and has had sex with them all. This makes me feel a bit uncomfy, but I realise you can't usually get boys without history. ...

A.   20 November 2011: Oh you dont need to know about all these details. They will eat away at you in the future when you least expect it. You dont need to know about what happened here and there and what color pants they wore. Let this go and move on with him. ... (read in full...)

He chose to spend our 1 year 10 month anniversary with his college friends!

Q.   Ok I know this sounds a bit stupid but yesterday was our year and ten months anniversarie but he kept telling me last week that he was gonna surprise me wit breaking Dawn tickets and so I was just thinking it comes out Friday it's our day Friday ...

A.   20 November 2011: 1 year 10 months is not really an anniversary. It isn't really is it? Give him a bit of slack and ease off. Better to have fun on the 2 year anniversary. ;)... (read in full...)

Are there engagement rings for men?

Q.   hello everyone seen as its a leap year next year I am planning on proposing to my bf of 2 years it will also be his birthday a few days later I'm just wondering if there are engagement rings for men. thanks all ...

A.   20 November 2011: Yes there are rings for a man. However, I would prefer to buy a man some cuff links instead to mark an engagement. ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when he says he has his walls up?

Q.   What does it mean when a guy says he has his walls up?...

A.   20 November 2011: He is protecting himself. He puts a barrier up. He may be on a rebound, may have been hurt before. Therefore, he guards himself from future hurt. ... (read in full...)

Is it real or just a rebound?

Q.   So, my boyfriend and I (of about 16 months) broke up recently. About a month and a half-two months ago. About 3 weeks after breaking up with him (yes i did the breaking up) I met this new guy, lets call him Brad. Brad has been super sweet. I told ...

A.   20 November 2011: Hello, It could be either! The thing is, that the new man seems to be the ex you was in love with plus Brad. In other words, he is doing what you wanted with your ex. However, he is not your ex. You are right to take things slowly. Your mum is ... (read in full...)

I didn't bleeed when I lost my virginity this weekend. Did we do something wrong?

Q.   dear cupid, i lost my virginity this weekend. i will admit it hurt a lot for me, we did it for the second time (same night) and it was better the second time. however, i was quite disappointed because i dont think my cherry popped as there was no ...

A.   14 November 2011: Hello, All sounds fine to me. Not all girls do. Sounds you both had fun! ... (read in full...)

Do guys eventually give up if the girl wont have sex with them?

Q.   do players get turned off by girls who don't want to have sex with them straightaway? surely at some point they lose interest and give up on a girl who won't give them what they want?...

A.   3 November 2011: Yes, a player will move on quickly. He wants sex and not 6 months of dates. He will move on and keep moving until he finds sex. Then he will move on regardless again. ... (read in full...)

Do you have any advice on how I can lose weight & begin eating healthy?

Q.   Do you have any advice on how I can lose weight and begin eating healthy? I would like to get a head start on my New Years Resolution and begin to make changes in my life. My health is one of those changes. Any advice? Thanks. ...

A.   3 November 2011: Hello, I used Weighwatchers in the UK and it took me weeks and weeks just to turn up. I psyched myself up because I had the immpression that I was ashamed and felt everyone was going to look at me. I finnally attended and had one of the most frie... (read in full...)

Why is she acting like this? Should I just move on?

Q.   just had a serious argument with my ldr gf. little bit of history - im 18 m uk, shes 23 f usa. recently we split up on some very harsh terms on her behalf. she did it without telling me. i wwnt travelling for 6 weeks in america and while that period ...

A.   18 July 2011: Hello, Thank you for follow up. A 24 hour meet up is NOT enough for you to plan to move in and begin a life with anybody. Regardless of where you travel to. Even if you were talking about the UK, it is not enough. Take care and leave this situ... (read in full...)

Why is she acting like this? Should I just move on?

Q.   just had a serious argument with my ldr gf. little bit of history - im 18 m uk, shes 23 f usa. recently we split up on some very harsh terms on her behalf. she did it without telling me. i wwnt travelling for 6 weeks in america and while that period ...

A.   17 July 2011: Hello, I'm afraid you are both at the wrong stages in life to meet eachother in the relationship sense. You certainly don't want to go off and live and go uni in the US. That's crazy to do it on a maybe. If you split up or don't get on you will be s... (read in full...)

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