I love my mom but she's so controlling of my life
Q. my life is so confusing......im currently seeing my ex boyfreind and we are so in love but im seeing him behind my mams back because she has it in to her head that he is gay....he is the most sweetest lad you could ever ask to be with and i dont ...
A. 13 January 2009: First, why do you refer to him as your ex if you're seeing him and the two of you are in love? Why can't you tell her you're seeing him? Why does she think he's gay?
Second you said "i dont know any other mother that has soo much control over thei... (read in full...)
I'm moving out but I don't want us to drift apart
Q. I have recently made the decision to move out my home i share with my partner and shall be moving out in the next 4 weeks. We are not splitting im just moving out, When i told my partner this he did not seem bothered but over the past week he has ...
A. 13 January 2009: I don't think your moving out will will cause you to drift apart. I actually think it's a good idea considering what you've stated regarding him being "unbearable to live with". And if he's become more attentive towards you after telling him your ... (read in full...)
He bit my tits and now I have red specks all over my nipples. Is this dangerous?
Q. I don't care if this may be stupid, but I really want an answer to calm my nerves. My boyfriend and I had some fun today and he bit my tits, that was about 6 hours ago and I checked and there are red specks like all over my nipples, should I worry? ...
A. 10 January 2009: Just a guess but it could be a hickey. That might cause some spotting in a place where there is already a lot of bloodflow. If it was only 6 hours ago, I wouldn't be concerned about infection or trauma or anything. In the meantime, make sure he ... (read in full...)
Can having anal sex get me pregnant?
Q. Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since ...
A. 10 January 2009: If he never came and he wasn't in your vagina (in case of pre cum) I don't think you have to worry. Additionally, late periods are not uncommon at your age (and you're only a couple days late. Hell, I'm 25 and my periods can be all over the place ... (read in full...)
Help finding a non traditional engagement ring
Q. Hi, and thanks in advance for any help. I recently have been discussing marriage with my girlfriend of a year. After talking about it with her and finding out that she has been thinking about it also and has the same feelings about it that I ...
A. 10 January 2009: Congrats, and I think it's really cool that you're marrying someone who isn't caught up in the "where's my rock?' sort of thing. You could do a few things. You could (and I don't know where you live but there's a lot of places where you can do this) ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that I can't promise her forever!
Q. I'm in love with my GF. she has never told me this outright, but i know she wants to marry me and has envisioned a future of forever with me. how i know doesn't matter but this is the truth. my problem is this: i cannot promise her forever, mai...
A. 10 January 2009: If she hasn't told you outright that she wants to marry you but you "know", don't bring it it up as there really isn't a good way of saying "hey, I don't want to marry you" completely out of the blue if she hasn't told you that it was on her mind in ... (read in full...)
She's not what she seems but can't shake it!
Q. Not too long ago I took an interest in a young woman attending my college, at first she appeared to be ideal; funny, athletic, attractive, terribly intelligent, and best of all modest. I admit I beat around the bush for a while, I tried to be a ...
A. 10 January 2009: You don't have a fake impression of her. You have already stated that you"have no interest in someone who "just wants to have fun". You can't really change that. You might be attracted to her because you're shy and she is not. She could embody ... (read in full...)
Do guys make passes at girls who wear glasses?
Q. Do guys makes passes at girls who wear glasses and have plaits in their hair? needy type girls...
A. 10 January 2009: Hell, yea. I don't wear glasses but I can't see a damn thing (used to have contacts, now have no money). Every once in a while I'll grab a friend's glasses to see something and you'd be surprised at how many times guys will tell me that I look hot ... (read in full...)
Why is my b/f acting like this?Gay?
Q. Before my boyfriend and I went out, we were friends, not good friends though. I noticed that he had a lot of friends, most of whom were girls. Then we started small talk and he was always "chasing" me, texting me, writing on my myspace and I noticed ...
A. 10 January 2009: He could be gay, but from the information you've given, I'm leaning towards no. He took some of your clothes off and when you tried to give him a condom but he tossed it. You tried to give him a hand-job but even though he refused that, he still ... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid for feeling angry about this?
Q. Im really fuming here and i need someones opinion and advice. Here goes... My manager is on maternity leave and we have another temporary manger in to cover. She is ok-we all just put our head down and get on. Now on 1 day in december i was w...
A. 3 January 2009: You have a right to be upset, but don't take it too far. Stay calm and express your concerns in a rational matter. And if it comes to it, tell her you do a damn great job and you should get treated the same way or you should get a raise.
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Will my girlfriend forgive me for accidentally standing up her parents?
Q. My girlfriend got really pissed off at me because I stood up her at her parents (I suppose met them) and I made her look stupid (that what she says). For some reason I thought it was next week. Shes also mad because she call me like 20 times that ...
A. 3 January 2009: Probably, but why did you stand up her parents in the first place?
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Why is he choosing drinking over me?
Q. I recently brokeup with my ex husband because of his drinking and now he doesn't answer my text or calls when I try to contact him. We were married, divorced, and then got back together. Finally, I choose to end it again because he ultimately chose ...
A. 3 January 2009: Do you want to be back with him?
Give me a message if you want, I have a lot to say about this.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
I'm a 32A and could never give a titwank... what can I do?
Q. My boyfriends sometimes jokes around about titwanks to his friends - Im only a 32A and theres no way I can give a sexy titwank. I feel sad that I cant do this....
A. 3 January 2009: Hell, most of the time they don't notice the sides of the boobs during this. it's the friction, and in his mind, as long as it looks like you're squeezing your tits together, he'll be turned on.... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis get bigger and longer without pills?
Q. i am about 6in right now. how do i make my penis bigger and longer without taking pills? ...
A. 3 January 2009: Damn, Uncle Phil you beat me to it with the workbench thing!
Seriously, why are you concerned about 6 inches? That's normal. In fact (and I'm not going to give you the motion in the ocean thing) most girls don't notice that sort of thing. In fact... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me all the time and now I can't trust my new girl.
Q. Basically since my ex-girlfriend cheated on me repeatedly its hard for me to trust my girlfriend Im with now. My girlfriend now of five months is having an old friend of hers who she had sex with before come up to our job to see her. This is ...
A. 3 January 2009: Would you still be defensive if she was not talking to someone else? I'm not saying you have no right to be concerned, but if she has not done anything wrong you owe it to yourself and her to give her the benefit of the doubt. If you keep holding on ... (read in full...)
How can we control our obsessed neice so she doesn't get her feelings hurt?
Q. my niece is 15 she told my dad she was obsessed with a girl that she was friends with for a long time.. so she wants to be with her that bad.. she lives with her mom.. so how do we control her with out getting her feelings hurt by this person? ...
A. 3 January 2009: First of all, you used the words "control her". Secondly, are you more personally opposed to her feelings than concerned about her well-being? She's 15 she's experiencing a lot of changes in emotion, hormones, personal identity, etc. She is old ... (read in full...)
Help! I am totally addicted to sex!
Q. I am totally addicted to sex and am trying to figure out how to stop but I just can't get a way to go about it, somebody please help!...
A. 2 January 2009: Your question is fairly vague but I guess I'll just have to ask how you go about dealing with it. Do you have a significant other? If you do, do you cheat on them? Do you seek the services of prostitutes? Do you sleep with a lot of people? Are you ... (read in full...)
Background and getting on better in life.
Q. Do the people form the housing estates get on better than people who are from a better background? Most I like are from housing estates or trailer trash(underclass) and they are a lot better than me in life, they have everything and I have ...
A. 2 January 2009: For a lack of a better way to put it..... FUCK 'EM! Seriously, I have no idea where the idea that a person's socio-economic status reflects their worth as a human being came from, but I'll be damned if I'll accept it. Money (sometimes not even ... (read in full...)
Should I give things more time, if so how long?
Q. Hi I'm a gay guy in my mid thirties I dated a guy in Aug (also in his mid thirties) the relationship lasted about 2 months after which he said it's not working for him. I was not particularly happy with the relationship as I felt there was very ...
A. 2 January 2009: I'd give him time. I dated a guy for quite some time and when things didn't work out, we were still amiable and talked. Eventually he stopped talking to each other altogether and I left it at that. A few years later, we reconnected and while we are ... (read in full...)
What can I do or take to lessen my chance of getting pregnant?
Q. yesterday me and my bf ended up having unprotected sex. i know it was really stupid so in not looking for thoses comments saying "well u shouldnt have had sex in the first place u stupid girl" caz i know it was stupid. ok i was stying the night at ...
A. 2 January 2009: I just reread my post and in my second paragraph what I meant to say was that I don't condone sex without birth control, not "I don't sex without birth control". Oops!
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What can I do or take to lessen my chance of getting pregnant?
Q. yesterday me and my bf ended up having unprotected sex. i know it was really stupid so in not looking for thoses comments saying "well u shouldnt have had sex in the first place u stupid girl" caz i know it was stupid. ok i was stying the night at ...
A. 2 January 2009: There's not really a lot you can do right now besides taking the morning after pill. The thing is, you have to take it 48-72 hours (don't quote me on that) after sex and it apparently has painful side effects. You can get it at planned parenthood. ... (read in full...)
Should I worry that my period is so early?
Q. erm ok, well... im 'on' and its come on really early normally it starts towards the end of each month and ive had my periods for like nearly a year now and im unsure about this. i know that at the start its all iffy and stuff but for the past few...
A. 2 January 2009: I'm 25 and I go through periods (so to speak) of time where I'm completely regular like clockwork. And then there's been months where it shows up randomly. I've had months where it didn't show up at all (or was so minimal I didn't use more than one ... (read in full...)
My 9 y/o son is taking pictures of his privates, should I be concerned?
Q. My son who is 9 received a digital camera for christmas. when i looked at it to day he has taken pictures of his privates on it. should i be concerned or is he just curious etc? please help!...
A. 2 January 2009: I don't think you really need to be concerned. I think you just need to have a talk with him regarding what is inappropriate. ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? Please help me!
Q. i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he was only inside me for about 5 mins, but before he went inside me i noticed the tip of his penis was very wet and i think i might have ovaleted the day before. could i be pregnant? and what are the ...
A. 2 January 2009: Pre-cum has semen in it too. While the chances are smaller, there's still a possibility.... (read in full...)
Should I just stay out of my neighbors drama?
Q. I have neighbors that live in the same duplex building. They were divorced when I met them. I started out as friends with the man because he has a son a couple years older then my daughter. Then when his ex moved in we became friends and I don't ...
A. 2 January 2009: Stay out of it. She already knows he's cheating. It won't help anything for her to think that you could possibly be part of the equation. That will just make things awkward for you. If she asks you, however, tell her. Don't make their drama yours.
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My parents refuse to accept my boyfriend!
Q. Please help i dont know what to do.. come from a strict greek family who dont accept my boyfriend - even though he is greek too. i have known him for years and are perfect together but my parents wont accept it, they wont even let me see him. i ...
A. 2 January 2009: The fact that they won't even try to give him a chance, knowing how much he means to you, shows that they don't trust your judgment. The fact that he's even made attempts to talk to them himself (and that takes balls) and they won't listen is just ... (read in full...)
Need real advice, we are on a break from our relationship!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We also have lived together for 8 months currently in a one bedroom apartment. Whenever we get into a small argument, he never wants to talk about. He gets up goes to the bedroom and gets ...
A. 2 January 2009: First of all, it seems as though the two of you were not ready to live together. The way that he gets so upset by little things and runs to mommy and daddy, and the fact that you have to hold on to his arms and block the doorway, shows that your ... (read in full...)
First date gone wrong - forget him or give him a second chance?
Q. Ok, so I met this guy for the first time..yeah our first date! I noticed a few things about him that I thought were rude, weird, hmmm I dunno you tell me. I go out of my way to cook a nice dinner since everything is closed late NYE. I figured it was ...
A. 2 January 2009: This guy seriously lacks even the most basic social skills. I'm surprised you managed to remain so polite through it all. Definitely, not second date material.... (read in full...)
I'm a younger girl who is constantly attracted to older men.
Q. So, I've always found older guys more interesting than the ones my own age. I'm 16, and I always seem to find myself looking and thinking about 20-40 year olds. I find myself being, well, more myself around older guys than the ones my age. I was ...
A. 2 January 2009: Check his records to see if he's on file as a pedophile. If he is, he's probably in to you:)... (read in full...)
His "thing is thickly fearsome" - how can first time sex be easier?
Q. I am still unmarried and have a month long relation with a neighborhood boy much younger. he is around 17. he becomes intimate with me almost everyday. first I tried to resist him but nowadays I feel lots of pleasure from the activities. he now ...
A. 2 January 2009: Have him insert himself slowly and use lubrication. As long as you're relaxed you should be fine.
He DEMANDED your first time be with him?... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? Please help me!
Q. i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he was only inside me for about 5 mins, but before he went inside me i noticed the tip of his penis was very wet and i think i might have ovaleted the day before. could i be pregnant? and what are the ...
A. 2 January 2009: Pregnant with the boss' kid.... way to go job security! I'm sorry. Bad joke.
Of course there is a chance you could be pregnant. There is always a chance you could get pregnant when you have unprotected sex. Take a pregnancy test. And if your boss... (read in full...)
I like the younger brother, but the older one is into me. Help?
Q. I am 14 years old and i don't have the best past with older boys. The situation that Im in right now is difficult for me to figure out what to do. First off the guy that likes me is a senior and I am a freshman. I like this boy who is a freshma...
A. 2 January 2009: I've been through pretty much the exact situation you are when I was a freshman! I tried to alleviate my problem by cutting off ties with the both of them (which was hard because we all had mutual friends). I dated another guy for 3 years and when ... (read in full...)
Too much hair!
Q. well here goes this is inbarassing but oh well im 14 and have alot of hair down below every time i shave it , it grows back evan more i hate it i cant evan go swimming i havnt been in ages and i just want to get rid of it all completely please h...
A. 2 January 2009: You could use a cream like Nair or something (I don't know if they have Nair where you live but I'm sure there is some sort of equivalent if they don't). It's pretty quick, it's cheap and painless and you can do your legs and bikini area at the same ... (read in full...)
Wife cheated while wearing her wedding dress
Q. My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not ...
A. 2 January 2009: If you truly love your wife enough to try and work through your marriage, I think it's important that the two of you seek the help of a marriage counselor. That way, you both can get to the root of how you feel, why she cheated and how you can move ... (read in full...)
Why will women not date me?
Q. why will women not date a leg amputee like me im 49 average looking and financially stable and treat them like a princess? thanks...
A. 31 December 2008: Forgive me if this sounds insensitive, but the fact that you refer to yourself as "a leg amputee like me" seems as though you may have some insecurities about how women perceive you. I could be wrong, but if I'm right, remember that there is nothing ... (read in full...)
Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?
Q. Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...
A. 31 December 2008: I don't believe in a god because, well, I just can't. It all seems very unrealistic to me. However, my boyfriend of several years is incredibly religious, and while I know more about his christian faith than he does, some people just need something ... (read in full...)
Could she be lying to me?
Q. hey well im a guy and im just here cause im concerned my gf is lying to me and i need help.. theres this guy that was her friend she denies it saying she hated him! and couldnt stand him..i saw her photobucket and she has pictures of him and her ...
A. 31 December 2008: Yes she is lying to you.
Having six partners does not make her a ho.
If you don't want to catch anything, use a condom.
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I want to date my best friend but she has a boyfriend
Q. I don't know if this is just a phase because of my raging hormones but I think I want to date my best friend (Who is a girl just like me) She has a boyfriend, and they have been dating for about a month basically. I've been fighting this fe...
A. 31 December 2008: SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND. Regardless of her going back and forth about loving him, she's obviously not ready to get rid of him. In the meanwhile, I think she's giving you mixed signals. If there is ever going to be a real relationship between the two of ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in love with her ex
Q. Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...
A. 31 December 2008: Damn that's cold. I think she's trying to keep you around while keeping you at a distance so you don't get as upset as you should and she doesn't have to feel as bad as she should. I agree with ask oldersister in that if she really wants you, she'll ... (read in full...)
Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out?
Q. Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out? Like there are certain bras and tops I can wear that make my boobs look much bigger than they actually are. My bf knows my size of course but I'm just ...
A. 31 December 2008: As long as he knows you're size already and you're not deceiving him, I'm sure he wouldn't be opposed to you looking hot as hell when going out.
-Jmo
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My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?
Q. On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...
A. 31 December 2008: When I lost my virginity I lied and said I wasn't a virgin. The guy didn't mean a lot to me and was notorious for sleeping with a lot of girls and I didn't want him to feel like he had "collected another virgin." He never knew.
On the other hand... (read in full...)
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