My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?
Q. On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...
A. 31 December 2008: When I lost my virginity I lied and said I wasn't a virgin. The guy didn't mean a lot to me and was notorious for sleeping with a lot of girls and I didn't want him to feel like he had "collected another virgin." He never knew.
On the other hand... (read in full...)
My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual.
Q. My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual. Here are the reasons: 1. He confessed to me that when he was in middle school he gaved a kiss to a guy because he was curious, confused etc but nothing else happened and he ...
A. 31 December 2008: With regards to each point:
1. this is not uncommon. A lot of guys have had some sort of homosexual fairly innocent experiences at a young age. Not many of them really want to talk about it. Be glad that he's honest with you.
2. Beware of the fact... (read in full...)
Candy cane fun and worries.
Q. Ok I have this friend. She wanted to play a harmless joke on some of the teachers at my school. So before christmas break she left different male teachers candy canes in their lockers asking were they naughty or nice? It was funny at first but now ...
A. 31 December 2008: I personally don't think it's a big deal, but I don't know how strict your school is. Chances are, if anything does happen, she'll probably just be scolded and have to apologize. However, her chances of not being reprimanded would have been a lot ... (read in full...)
Are we ready to lose our virginity?
Q. Well me and my b/f are always conversing. Right...we've had so much together and were thinking about losing both of our virginty together. I really think i love him to go all the way with him. He always tells me he's not going to rush me into doing ...
A. 25 April 2008: i Know a lot of people are going to tell you that you're too young (and you probably are). But if you're truly ready to have sex, you wouldn't have these reservations about going through with the act. Go with your gut.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
Should I try to revive my relation with the ex, in spite of my friends and family that may disagree?
Q. I have become close again with my ex-girlfriend. I love her to bits and always have and i think she wants to start something up again as we kissed the other day. She broke up with me 6 months ago because we kept arguing. We now have different frie...
A. 24 April 2008: Go for it man, if anybody gives you shit, tell 'em to piss off.... (read in full...)
I have reoccurring dreams about a girl I haven't seen in 8 years and never bothered about, why?
Q. In the last year I have had about 3/4 dreams about a girl I haven't even seen in 8 years. Most recently I had one last night that she was at this party I went to recently and we ended up kissing, and I felt bad when I woke up because I have a ...
A. 24 April 2008: I agree with what everyone has said so far. Your dreams probably have very little to do with this girl. Alot of times when changes have occurred in my life (and I'm not implying that there have been in yours) my dreams seem to include people that I ... (read in full...)
I have an alpecia patch that seems to be getting bigger!
Q. Hi all, I currently have an alopecia patch, part of it has stubble but the patch seems to be getting bigger. I have been to the doctors but he said there is nothing that can be done and no treatment - it is just a matter of waiting and seei...
A. 22 April 2008: I'm not sure of where the patch is or what the cause of your specific problem is, but I have heard that topical steroids such as Diprolene or Temovate can help. Other than that here's a site I found:
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Possible side effects of watching porn regularly?
Q. What are the possible effects of regular watching of hardcore porn?...
A. 22 April 2008: You may find yourself unsatisfied with your present sex life and if you don't currently have one, deal with the fact that you'll be doing a lot of "finding yourself" so to speak.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an abortion in the case of ectopic pregnancies?
Q. I discovered over the weekend I am pregnant.. This is *not* good news for me personally - but the reasons are my own. So I went to the doctor today to ask about abortions, after a little chat she's refered me to a hopspital + I'm feeling okay about ...
A. 22 April 2008: Yes it is still possible to terminate an ectopic pregnancy. Actually it's probably in your best interest.
http://kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_newborn/pregnancy/ectopic.html... (read in full...)
Why does she feel the need to contact guys she use to have sex with?
Q. Hello all, I have a bit of a silly question, really I probably should not be worried, but something in the back of my head is telling me not to ignore it. A quick history lesson: Me and my gf have been together for about 8 months now, about 2 ...
A. 22 April 2008: Coming from a girl who pretty much only has guy friends but is also in a long term relationship, I have to deal with this often. A couple of my friends I've had relationships with and several I've slept with. My boyfriend gets upset with me for ... (read in full...)
We have dissention amongst our friends due to a newcomer's strange comment - should we ignore the incident or ban the newcomer?
Q. I have a question for all you guys/girls out there. I have a close male friend who owns a vacation property (cabin) on a lake with his wife. A few times a year he has an all guy weekend, There's a lake, a boat, a shooting range, etc. Lots of ...
A. 21 April 2008: I honestly think that Mike thought nothing of it. It was probably nothing more than drunk guy stuff. Believe me I've seen worse with my guy friends who are straight and we all have a good laugh about the next morning. Don't make too much of it.
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On BC. Can you still take the pills at your usual time even though, the clocks has changed?
Q. Hello, dear members. When the clock automactically sets 1 hour more because, of the the seasonal change do I keep taking my pills at the original time? For instance. My pill time should be always 6:05pm. Since, the clock changed it's 7:05pm. D...
A. 18 April 2008: Keep taking it at the same time. 1 hour difference isn't going to change the effectiveness. Hope I helped.
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Ok to use something like certain dry even if you are not diagnosed with a condition such as axillary hyperhidrosis?
Q. hey i DONT have mega sweating problems and dont sweat an awful lot, however no deodorants seem to work on me. I asked about this a cou[ple of months ago and was advised by several to get certain dri anti-perspirant. i am only just getting round ...
A. 18 April 2008: Certain Dry is an over the counter product and is completely safe to use.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
How do I know what colours suit me?
Q. i am the ty[e of girl who only wears black, grey, white clothes.. im not a goth or nything.. i just dint think colour suites me.. i really want to wear colour tho.. how do i know what colours suit me?...
A. 18 April 2008: I pretty much stick to blacks and neutral colors too, but that's because my hair is neon yellow and everything pretty much clashes with it. Therefore, Most of the color in my wardrobe lies in belts and bags and accessories. Assuming you don't have ... (read in full...)
What is the term used for cousins in real love?
Q. What is the term used for cousins in real love?...
A. 18 April 2008: incest... (read in full...)
Should I be at boyfriends all-male surprise birthday party I've arranged?
Q. I want to throw a surprise birthday weekend for my boyfriend, but the problem is that all of his friends are male. Some of his friends are married, but the wives will not be able to come because of small children they have to look after (his ...
A. 17 April 2008: If you don't mind, and can arrange other plans for yourself, you could stick around a bit and then go. I think it would be a nice gesture to your boyfriend giving him some "guy time" especially seeing as how his friends are coming from out of town ... (read in full...)
After I ejaculate all I want to do is sleep. Is this a normal reaction?
Q. Kudos to whoever had smth to say abt my previous problem. Though sm people really gave me the hair drier, it turned out to be the perfect advice from a true friend. But i do have this other problem. Is it normal that i should feel so exhausted ever...
A. 16 April 2008: This is common, in fact a few of my guy friends openly admit to watching porn and masturbating in order to go to sleep at night. Don't worry about it.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about watching a sex video of an ex boyfriend, is that considered cheating and should I tell my current partner?
Q. I have been in a great relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, but I got into it right after I broke up with my ex of 8 months. My ex and I made a sex video that I had on my computer, and during the first few months of my new ...
A. 16 April 2008: Don't tell him. Telling him would be like telling him you feel guilty about still having feelings for your ex. It would only hurt his feelings and cause problems in your relationship.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
How can you tell is a guy is not a virgin?
Q. how would you know if the guys are already not virgin?...
A. 11 April 2008: I agree with Hannah76, while there's no way to tell for sure, sometimes a woman just kinda knows.... (read in full...)
Is the withdrawing method safe?
Q. me and my husband just had sex since last week but he never discharge inside he always dischare outside but i am confussed will i get pregnant......or not this time we never use proctection cause since long time we were using that so this time we ...
A. 4 April 2008: While the withdraw method does decrease the likelihood of you becoming pregnant, it it still not safe. Pre-ejaculatory fluids contain sperm and even if he pulls out before ejaculation, there is still a chance of being inseminated by the "pre cum".
-... (read in full...)
How do I give a blow job without gagging?
Q. i turned 16 in december and my boyfriend turns 16 in june. we would have been have sex for a year June 15 this year. for his birth day we will be at band camp together and he has been asking if we could do something for his birthday and when i asked ...
A. 3 April 2008: You don't have to ram the thing down your throat, just suck on as much as feels comfortable and use your hands on the rest. Puking is unattractive:)... (read in full...)
Is there "non-prescription" birth control I can buy at a store?
Q. i was wondering if there are any non-prescription birth control besides condoms that i could buy at a store. please, my boyfriend finds condoms uncomfortable and I don't want my mom to know im having sex(so the pill is a no)....
A. 3 April 2008: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/... (read in full...)
Is there "non-prescription" birth control I can buy at a store?
Q. i was wondering if there are any non-prescription birth control besides condoms that i could buy at a store. please, my boyfriend finds condoms uncomfortable and I don't want my mom to know im having sex(so the pill is a no)....
A. 3 April 2008: I see that you live in America, and while I'm not sure where, I'm assuming there is probably a Planned Parenthood somewhere near you. You can different forms of birth-control there without the knowledge of your parents. Don't quote me on this but I ... (read in full...)
Things have changed so...should we give it another try?
Q. My ex and I are very close friends and love eachother more than anything. We are in a very confusing situation for both of us. We are not officialy together, but we do everything that a couple does. Things like we talk or see eachother everyday, ...
A. 3 April 2008: It sounds like you're in a pretty ideal situation already. Why ruin it by trying to put a label on it?... (read in full...)
Is it possible for my fiance to be drunk enough to not remember having sex?
Q. My fiancee, who admits to dating and making out with a boy,(often), while wearing only her panties, and in his bed, while 300 miles away in college already engaged with the ring, says they had no sex, and she's still a virgin. My question is.....is ...
A. 3 April 2008: YES, but usually there are enough clues and pieces you can put together to lead you to the conclusion "Oh shit! I think I had sex with him last night!" I know that probably sounds bad, but then again I'm a drunk. However if there is no doubt in her ... (read in full...)
He has problems with condoms and I have problems with the pill, are there any alternatives?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we've been having sex for about 5 months. At first we used condoms eveytime but a lot of the time he would go soft just after he put one on. We stupidly did it a few times with him pulli...
A. 3 April 2008: Maybe you could try the new low-dose pill. I've heard the side effects are minimal to non existent. ... (read in full...)
I'm going out of my mind, my girlfriend just disappeared!
Q. I am going crazy..recently my girlfriend just dissapeared to get with a close friend of hers and idk wut 2 do! I think about her all the time and it hurts me to know that shes with sumone else and all that I thought we had was just nothin we were ...
A. 2 April 2008: Did she really disappear? Like, GONE? I've "disappeared" before (several years ago) and to this day, not many people know where I disappeared to (including my boyfriend at that time. Actually several people thought I was dead, but anyways...) I'm ... (read in full...)
Do all men stay bitter?
Q. Do men ever get over their past relationships ?..I am in my early forties. Divorced and have 3 kids. Was married for 14 yrs. My marriage was awful, I got out and moved on. Have been divorced now for 4 yrs. Why does it seem like men in my age group ...
A. 2 April 2008: I don't think all men stay bitter. Even though it may seem that way to you now, it's not just men who have hang-ups regarding their past. And even though I may seem too young (25) to be saying this, I know that within your age demographic there are ... (read in full...)
We are both poor communicators, I'm afraid this could ruin our marriage, any advice?
Q. My new husband and I have both been married before and both situations were not pleasant. When we went to our pre-marriage counseling one of the biggest issues was "communication" and it still is an issue. Neither of us knows how to communicate! He ...
A. 2 April 2008: Stop bringing up issues that are on your mind via text-messaging. I know you've said that when you try and have a conversation regarding these things, you become emotional but maybe that's necessary. Maybe you need to get emotional as opposed to ... (read in full...)
My BF has been visiting sex chat rooms... should I be alarmed?
Q. Hi every one. Today i was on my boyfriend of two years computer. When i wen to type a website in the address box a list of previous websites came up. There was a single chat room one and one like face party but you meet people on there for sex. I ...
A. 2 April 2008: I completely agree with what everyone has said so far. However it does seem like after you busted him out (even if he gave you a piss-poor lying excuse afterwards) he's trying to make amends by giving you his computer. That's not to say he won't ... (read in full...)
I feel my BF should be with a "normal" girl...
Q. hi, i feel really abnormal i have really small boobs and I'm 16 my boyfriend says he likes them but when i see other girls on tv and things i always feel like he should be with a normal girl, am i abnormal help me i hate looking at myself i have ...
A. 1 April 2008: First of all, you're not abnormal. Secondly, you mentioned comparing yourself to other girls in the media (which is one of the meanest things a girl can do to herself). Anyways, there are a lot of actresses these days with small breasts, actresses ... (read in full...)
I was embarassed by a specific comment, that I now regard as a compliment, do I bring it up in conversation?
Q. When I was in Year 9 a teacher I know very well told the whole class that he wished I was his daughter..At the time I was embarassed and scared to say at the least but now when I look at it I think it off as a compliment. Should I ask him if he ...
A. 1 April 2008: Don't ask him about it, it'll probably turn in to an awkward conversation and you'll feel embarrassed all over again. He meant it as a compliment, take it and leave it at that.
-Jmo... (read in full...)
What would my sexuality be considered as?
Q. I am male and married. However when I was 15 years old I had a "relationship" with another 15 year old boy for about 6 months. We did mutual masturbation, oral and some anal sex. As far as I know, no one knows about our "relationship". I enjoyed it, ...
A. 1 April 2008: I don't think your sexuality necessarily needs to be "considered" anything. You feel what you feel and no label can change that. Instead, you have to ask yourself why you're still thinking about this relationship. Do you have a desire to sleep with ... (read in full...)
She's a violent "slob" ! But....am I a bully?
Q. As unbiased and truthful as it happened. Im in a relationship, 90% of the time its fine, we have our normal ups and downs as every one does. But everynow and again things get blown out of proportion. She's not the tidiest of people and Im wil...
A. 1 April 2008: I think I can relate to your situation. I'm a slob. At least that's how my boyfriend views it and he's kind of a neat freak. I have sort of an "I'll get to it when I feel like it" attitude and can only find things if they're where I left them and he ... (read in full...)
Could you be mates with an ex that still owes you money?
Q. Hi If you offered to lend someone 5 grand because they said their remortgage was definately coming through in 2 weeks(their broker assured them) Then they got refused the remortgage :o? would you be a bit brassed off about it? I mean, if you spli...
A. 1 April 2008: I agree with your mom. If you were to even consider getting back with him, you should wait until he's paid you back. First of all you said that the arguments that caused you to split revolved around this issue. Secondly, if you're back together he ... (read in full...)
When a guy says you're the package?
Q. me and this lad were texting each other the other day (weve been texting each other for a while) n he asked me what i liked most about him. i told him i liked his personality n asked him what he liked most about me, he said "personality" aswell. ...
A. 1 April 2008: I could be wrong but when he said he liked your personality "but it's a package" maybe he meant "it's a package deal" like in addition to liking your personality he also thinks your hot or something else. I don't know, anyways whatever he meant, it ... (read in full...)
A statement we should all abide by.
Q. TELL THE TRUTH ITS THE BEST...
A. 1 April 2008: Sometimes the truth isn't the best.... (read in full...)
He texts her and says it's to make me mad. Do you think this is cheating?
Q. My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because ...
A. 31 March 2008: I personally think this could be considered cheating, especially if he says that it was to upset you. That proves that he knows what he's doing is wrong and that he shouldn't be doing it. I can't say whether or not their relationship has become ... (read in full...)
Had my period twice in 2 weeks...
Q. I had my period on Sunday and ended on Wednesday which is normal for me the the following week i started my period on Sunday and it still going on and its Monday now but this means i am having my period twice in two weeks what does that mean? the ...
A. 31 March 2008: I'm not sure what it means either, but if it's any consolation, it's happened to me a few times. I don't think it's anything to worry about, your hormones are probably just a bit off. If you're really worried or this continues to happen, you should ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to marry me?
Q. I really love my boyfriend so much, we've been together for 4 months and i want to marry him, i dont know what to do about it, shall i ask him to marry me or shall i wait for him to ask me, or has it not been long enough for me to ask him yet?...
A. 31 March 2008: Before you bring it up to him (and I suggest you don't) you need to ask YOURSELF why you're in such a hurry to get married. Four months is not a very long period of time.
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Is she just scared to leave her boyfriend because they live together?
Q. I have really liked this girl since she started a year ago but problem is she has a boyfriend of 5 years! Everyone knows that she is not happy and recently at a work function we somehow got together, this was great and she said that she felt the ...
A. 31 March 2008: Coming from someone who is in a similar situation to hers, I'm sorry to say that the chances of her leaving him anytime soon are slim to none. Even if she loves you to death and you would be perfect together, the fact that she's living with him ... (read in full...)
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