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| | * might be a girl but i can help's profile:hi my name is nicole i might only be 17 but i love givin people advice my friends come me 4 advice and im happy 2 help. im also using this to see whats its like im hoping to become a counsellor or a pschologist.
im in a relationship at the moment and enjoying the fun we are having..
but i will love to help people as best as possible even if i am young and maybe need to have more experience but i feel i have had some experiences in my life and i feel very connected to those i help.
I live with my mum, brother, and my step-dad my real dad lives up north. My real dad kind of slept with my nan and than run off with the baby sitter and i now have a half brother oooooo joy. i have been in the church but left because the people made me feel traped and i wanted to experiences things, and as im not that rich most of the members loved to rub it in that they were.
i have a job and go to school try and have a social life and on dear cupid wen i can.
i love music, i love reading, helping people, being with my friends and family is the best time for me. when i come home from school and work and my dog comes and says hello and makes a big fuss over me makes me know i have somethin to come to. I love just sitting there with either my friends or my family especially with my mum and just sit there watchin chick flicks or a scary flim with some of my friends is just somethin i enjoy doing. drinkin alchole is not somethin i like doing that much i have had bad things happen to me and its put me off.
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16 July 2007: love what is love? No matter what life throws at you stand strong and fight back you are better than anyone else. don't worry about what over people think they are just jelious and just bullies. BEAT BULLYING follow the campagin. I have ...
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27 June 2007: ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
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Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it...
Q. Hey everyone, thanks for reading. Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it. I went to my home state to visit my family for two weeks, but it went by so fast and just made me miss both my family and my ...
A. 24 August 2007: have you tried going counselling just talking to someone who doesn't know you or your family eally helps, talk about how you feel and maybe go and see your doctor bout why you can't sleep. and go out with your friends, join a club to get your mind ... (read in full...)
If I double up with 2 methods of protection is it safe to stop worrying about pregnancy?
Q. I am almost 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, not to mention 2 years when we were younger. I love him and am ready to have sex with him however the only thing holding me back is the possibility of pregnancy even using contraception. ...
A. 24 August 2007: the thing is its up to you whether you want to worry or not. using both comdoms and the pill is good but if you don't take the pills at the right time or the comdom you use is out of date ot not the right size and than you have to worry if it will ... (read in full...)
I can't decide if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious?
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A. 24 August 2007: ok first of all if your bi you like to have sex with both men and women which as far as you have gone is just kissing. so i think you are just curious about things and as people are tensing you and your friend seemed to like it your beginning to ... (read in full...)
He wants me to tell him my fantasies but I have no idea where to start or what to say!
Q. Hi. My boyfriend and I have a slightly skewed kind of relationship; in that we can talk and share our secrets quite easily with each other and we both enjoy sex with each other, but that's kind of the only intimacy existing here. I'm 21 and this is ...
A. 22 August 2007: guys are just like us girls, even they have low self-esteem, and sometimes just like us they need a comment to boost there esteem. so for example when he says something like he hates his body, just say something nice about and it can be dirty, just ... (read in full...)
For all young women
Q. This is a true story of love and lost. When I was 12 years old I met this 15 year guy he was very handsome he had the whole package, my parents loved him, his parents loved me, we spent every minute together, we dated for 4 years before we ever had ...
A. 20 August 2007: thank you, you know the funny thing, my mum tells me the same thing, im 17 and because i have my head screwed on all the guys i have been out with have left me beause i didn't want sex, its so funny, because i know every trick in the book. ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose, the current boyfriend or the ex?
Q. I started seeing my current boyfriend right after my last relationship ended (within a few weeks). The prior BF and I had been together for 5 years. Our relationship ended due to distance. However, I now live and completely have a life with my ...
A. 20 August 2007: ok there was a reason why you lift your ex boyfriend. i think you should stay with your current boyfriend because he seems like a nice guy. but if you feel that there is still something there talk to both your ex and your boyfriend tell them you ... (read in full...)
Will eating only 2 apples a day make me lose weight quickly?6
Q. Hey.. ok well i'm planning to lose weight..So i'm going to eat two apples a day and that's it..iv done this now for 1 day..and I no that i'm going keep on doing it..how long will it take like before the weight all drops off?? i'm 9 stone and I hate ...
A. 20 August 2007: you are at an healthy weight if you hate you body you may need to go counselling to be able to accept yourself. if you want to maintain your body weight you can exercise at least 30 mintues a day. eat healthy foods and at least three meals. but ... (read in full...)
I love her, but I keep pushing her away!
Q. I have loved this girl for 2 years now an i know for sure she feels the same for me as she told me last year how she has feelings for me. I very stupidly said i liked her but wasn't interested in a relationship along with other excuses why i ...
A. 18 August 2007: well i think first before you even try a relationship you need to sort out your problems why you have commitment issues, why you let someone you like get a way.
in many girls eyes hun, you are playing games, that may not be the case but thats wh... (read in full...)
I am 17 my partners 21. Is the age difference too much?
Q. if your 17 and hes 21 is that a bad gap? we have been together for 2 years now ill be 18 in sept. and he'll be 22 in oct. is this such an age gap? ...
A. 18 August 2007: there i nothing wrong with it as long as you guys don't think anythink is wrong with it. i have had boyfriends who are a bit order than me but age was never a problem.
good luck to you both.... (read in full...)
How can I be more confident around guys?
Q. dear cupid....well everytime im talkin to a boy i can neva seem to start a conversation wit them....nd it aggravates me wen boys say im quiet,shy and not very outgoing.....how can i change dat and stop being so shy?...
A. 18 August 2007: well think of them as an equal. they is know particular way to be more confinident round boys, just be yourself, get to know what they like, talk to them, do't be nevious. meet up with boys and enjoy yourself.
oh and don't worry
good luck ... (read in full...)
Do women find men masterbating a turn off?
Q. I was wonderin if women find a guy masterbating a turn-off and how much times a day is too much? any help is appreciated...
A. 18 August 2007: well we do it for as well and girls know that turns you on, i havent watched a guy musturbate yet. how many times a day you do it is up to you. what ever turns you on.... (read in full...)
We had our first kiss, but I think I messed up
Q. I am 14 years old and my girlfriend is 13..Well my girlfriend and I been going out for about 2 and 9 days. She very smart and basicly living life. But like I dont really see her as much because she goes to a private school and I only just in a ...
A. 18 August 2007: i think from where she has stricted parents it was bit surpising that you kissed her.
as for the kiss well there is noting wrong with it. if you feel it went wrong, it doesn't matter you can keep practicing and improving till you feel it is perfe... (read in full...)
His best friend is female.
Q. MY BOYFRIEND HAVE A FEMALE BESTFRIEND, WHAT ADVICE CAN YOU GIVE ME?...
A. 9 August 2007: well its normal for boys to have mates who are female. if you are worried that there might be cheating going on, talk to them both or just him. ... (read in full...)
Advisory: Getting suspicious messages in my dearcupid mailbox!
Q. Hi all, I just lately i have been retrieving some messages in my mail box which have been quite lenthy to say the least. In a nut shell the person is talking about vast sums of money being transfered to different accounts, and having to part w...
A. 6 August 2007: i have gotten two its scary, i didn't know that she wanted to help till we started talking from by email address i have told her no, and just left it at that, now someone else has sent me another one, its spokey. they both have said that they like ... (read in full...)
He stares at my chest.
Q. My mom's freind has a son. He's 3 years older then me. Whenever I see him, he makes me feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. One time I asked him if he could please keep his stares to himself. He said sure, but he still does it. What ...
A. 6 August 2007: ok so you have told him to keep his stares to himself and still hasn't embrasses him, by saying my face is up here don't down there, make sure you point at your face when you say up here and point at your chest when you say not down here. talk to ... (read in full...)
Am i curvy or fat?
Q. I am a 12 year old girl and i am unsure about my weight . i am 7stone and 8 pounds and i am 4 feet 11 inches. i know i am healthy but i not sure if i look good. Am i just curvy or am i almost fat? Also i know that when u you lose weight ur breasts ...
A. 6 August 2007: first of all you are not fat in fact you are doing fine for your weight. just as long as you are eating well and doing exercise than you are fine. i would say you are curvy but as i don't know you i can not say. but i do know you are not fat, and ... (read in full...)
should i listen to everyone else or do what i want to do?
Q. i like his lad but i was seeing his mate about 2 months ago and he was seeing mine. i went out with him and he was nice but everyone thinks he is a player. should i listen to everyone else or do what i want to do? i just dont know who to believe. h...
A. 6 August 2007: you can ask people for advice and listen, and follow it. but you have to know what you want, just because people are telling stuff about this guy, doesn't always mean it is true. talk to him, you like him and maybe he might like you. take a chance ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: We had over quarter of a million people visit the site over the past month!
Q. Just checking the site stats. We had another milestone... for the first time, in the past 30 days, we had over quarter of a million people visit the site... not 250,000 "hits" or "visits" but actual unique visitors! As counted by Google Anal...
A. 6 August 2007: thats cool. lets keep up the good work agony aunts and uncles. xxxx... (read in full...)
Can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?
Q. can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?...
A. 2 August 2007: yes you can, it won't be the same but you can still snog i have had braces for four years and i still kiss with them on. my parents keep saying i will enjoy it more when they are off but i don't have an problems just keep cleaning your teeth after ... (read in full...)
I get jealous when the girl I like flirts with other guys
Q. I get jealous of someone I'm not even going out with. There is this girl that I like, who I've flirted with regularly for a few months, and there was a chance of a relationship one time. Now it's kind've filtered off, but I still like her, and ej...
A. 31 July 2007: that is completely normal, you don't want her but know one else is allowed to have her. you are so used her flirty with you that when she is will someone else you get all jelious and you wish she was flirty with you instead don't worry it will pass ... (read in full...)
Incest
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A. 30 July 2007: i have no problem with this, no you can't help who you full in love with. but people still think its wrong, and i have only said something bad to someone who had an affair and that it.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the person responsible for them breaking up.
Q. Almost a year ago, I met one of the most amazing women I have ever known at an audition. We "clicked" immediately, but the only trouble was, was that we were both in relationships at the time. Fast forward to 3 months ago where we got back in touch ...
A. 29 July 2007: well i know its hard but being friends is the best way. and in my opinion if she liked you as much as she says she does than she would of left her boyfriend for you. just be friends with her, you guys seem to have fun together and just remain like ... (read in full...)
Do you think it would be ok to have a relationship?
Q. hi, i need some honest impartial advice and after reading some of the replys this seems to be the place! Im a 27yrs old nurse,i have 3 children 15yr old boy(from my husbands first marriage) and 5yr old twins (girl and a boy). 2 1/2 yrs ago my husba...
A. 29 July 2007: im sorry to hear about your husband. Your husband is ill and you don't want to hurt him, in my opinion i would just see what happens with this guy, and he seems nice, his great with the kids and they like him and you have asked one of your children ... (read in full...)
I don't know wether i should ask her out again or not.
Q. My ex broke up with me last september after 1 year of dating. we really did love each other, but after i came back from a holiday she said she couldnt trust me and broke up with me. i suspected that she was going out with another guy, which she ...
A. 29 July 2007: well you could ask her if she has a boyfriend first just drop it in to conversation. and its finally up to if she says no she hasn't got a boyfriend. do you want to take the risk and she want happens or do you want to remain friends. in my opinion ... (read in full...)
I think i'm in love with my ict teacher.
Q. im 16, but ever since i was 11 i have been mates with my male ICT teacher. the thing is we see eachother out of school because he is in my combat classes, so we have a good friendship. about a few months ago i have found myself fancing him and i ...
A. 29 July 2007: well he's your teacher as well as your friend. nothing could happen even if he wasn't married. just remain friends, im sure you will be able to find someone your own age to like soon enough and you will get other your teacher. just know nothing can ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart once, should I take him back now?
Q. This Boy who i realy like broke up with me a year ago and now to go out with me again. He broke my heart so bad but shall i get back together with him or not. I asked him if he would again but he answed no i've changed. ...
A. 28 July 2007: ok no matter what a guy says he can't change, yer they might of grown up but thats it. the way i see it is if you want to give it a go but i know that i can't go back to a guy who really hurt me, it will always be at the back of my head what he did ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and dating my 25 year old teacher
Q. Hi. my names lindsay and im going out with a 25 year old. im only 14... but i love him and he loves me...what do u think? but if anyone finds out like in my school he could like lose everything cause hes a teacher...what do u think?...
A. 28 July 2007: as long as nothing sexual has happened you are fine, something like that won't be able to be kept secret. and why can't he wait till when you are sixteen and when you have finished at that school. it just doesn't seem right but if u r happy with him ... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't a virgin but wants to wait til we're married to have sex; I can't wait that long!
Q. my fiance, who i have been with for a year, wants to wait until we are married to make love to me. the problem is that she is not a virgin and i feel like she is being unfair and that she doesnt love me as much as her ex who she did make love to. w...
A. 28 July 2007: i know its going to be hard but maybe she regerts having sex with her ex and maybe she wants to keep it special between u guys by waiting till marriage explain to her how you are feeling, but don't try and force her to have sex... (read in full...)
A Survival Guide for the serial Dumpee!!
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A. 27 July 2007: really great advice thank you.... (read in full...)
Is this normal? Am I still a virgin?
Q. hi! i have a question... today, my boyfriend and I were just watching tv. then, things led to another, and he started fingering me. im a virgin, so it hurt, and felt good at the same time. then, when everything was done i realized i was bleeding. it ...
A. 27 July 2007: ok its ok. its normal to bleed he may have gone in to far and yes you are still a virgin as you have not had sex yet. so don't worry and it normal to be a bit freaked out, by all of this. good luck... (read in full...)
He doesn't want anyone to know about our relationship! If they do find out, he lies! What should I do?
Q. 22/7/07 I'm 16, my boyfriend says he loves me, wants it to last forever, wnats to marry me, this is all in texts! When i talk to him or see him, he never says it unless we're physical he'll say i love you.. but not in the way i want to hear i...
A. 23 July 2007: i agree with everyone else cut off the physical side i did that with one of my exs and it seems thats all he wanted he never said the three words again and than everything went down hill. not saying it will with you but just don't be too upset if he ... (read in full...)
I want to give my ex boyfriend my virginity as a birthday present
Q. well heres the thing. i'm 14. iv'e split up with my boyfriend about a month ago now. but i still love him very much. lately he's started speaking to me again like how things used to be. i asked him what he wanted for his birthday and his answer ...
A. 23 July 2007: ok in my opinion like everyone else don't do it. he is using you and the fact that he knows you still like him, he is using that to get you to sleep with him, please don't do. here is a gift i would give him a slap round the face. you deserve ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my protective parents that I'm dating someone?
Q. hi all ok so heres the things i met this guy a month ago and weve been dating ever since , and really happy having fun chattting , and socialising , anyway hes told his parents about me and ive met them and the thing is i havnt told my parents ...
A. 23 July 2007: i have very protective parents too it can be annoying even tho i love them dearly. just tell them there is no particular way just say i have something important to tell you ............ im seeing someone. yes they are going to be really shocked but ... (read in full...)
Why can't i get over her?
Q. It's been 7 months since my first ex and I broke up, why can't I get over her?...
A. 23 July 2007: like Aunty em says it isn't easy to get over your first love. but it might take a while but if you don't talk to her have everything that reminds you of her and stop thinking about her, hung out with your friends and know that the relatonship is ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and think I'm in love; is this possible, or should I wait?
Q. basically am 16 and am already in love is this possible..even though we see each other twice a week..we don't live together..and even though its bin a month and a bit, i fantasies about him, we havn't had sex i won't do it and he respects that i...
A. 23 July 2007: aww thats so cute. it is normal to be so complemently in to someone that no one else matters. but sometimes being so in love can ruin things like being with your friends. you might be in love only you know, i would say you really like this guy as ... (read in full...)
I love her so much and can't forget her even though she was selfish and mean to me
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A. 19 July 2007: sweetie its hard i know to get over someone and even harder when its been a long term relationship. but how about taking a break from all the girls and give yourself time to process this it takes time. im seeing a guy but he isn't over his ex they ... (read in full...)
We went on a break to see how we feel; he doesn't seem to have changed. Should I move on or keep trying?
Q. okay so i am supposed to go out with my ex this weekend, for drinks and dinner, we did it two weeks ago and had an awesome time cause i did not bring up our status. He asked for 3 months time to decide and we are almsot apporaching 2 months, i do ...
A. 19 July 2007: you have some ideas but i think i would go with telling him that when you ask for a break you actually take a break and you don't ring or email them. tell him that. because i think yes he is having a hard time but he may also be stringing you a ... (read in full...)
Am I in love or is this just a crush?
Q. when i am at work i can't stop thinking about one of the team leaders. he dosen't even know i am alive, and i hardley know any thing about him. when i see him i get a funny feeling and i feel so happy. the other thing is that he is married and about ...
A. 19 July 2007: well the good thing is its just a crush and big huge crush. bless. and hopefully you may soon get over it. but i have to admit i love haing that feeling and than you feel stupid because you know you can never have him. but you seem to only happy and ... (read in full...)
How do I choose which guy to go after?
Q. Im a 23 year old gay male living in UK. I have been openly gay for 3 years. Recently I have fell for 2 guys. Both have told me that they are very interested in me. One is 19 and the other 17. At the moment i haven't even kissed either of t...
A. 19 July 2007: spend more time with both of them i have never seen age as an issue but if you do than, see what happens. your right to not to kiss either of them as it will mess you and them. i have never been in this situration but i would spnd time with both of ... (read in full...)
What's the youngest age to fall in love?
Q. What's the youngest age to fall in love? I'm 9 years old and i think that i've fallen in love with my friend's cousin who's 10. I've heard people say things like it's not possible to fall in love until you are an adult so now i'm confused whether ...
A. 16 July 2007: sorry to say but you are too young but the fact is i don't think anyone really knows what the right age tofall in love is. you are just having a big crush and i guess his the first aww you wil always remember your first crush i remember mine his ... (read in full...)
Is it possible she is jealous I got a housemate?
Q. Female vs Female relationship. I am in love with my best friend. We are seperated by about 1300 miles. She knows how I feel as I have told her. She is unhappily married (no lectures please) anyway I am convinced she feels the same way about me even ...
A. 16 July 2007: well i think she is just trying to make you feel bad and it seems to be working. just please be careful and don't get with someone who is married how about finding some one else. good luck xxx... (read in full...)
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