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| | * might be a girl but i can help's profile:hi my name is nicole i might only be 17 but i love givin people advice my friends come me 4 advice and im happy 2 help. im also using this to see whats its like im hoping to become a counsellor or a pschologist.
im in a relationship at the moment and enjoying the fun we are having..
but i will love to help people as best as possible even if i am young and maybe need to have more experience but i feel i have had some experiences in my life and i feel very connected to those i help.
I live with my mum, brother, and my step-dad my real dad lives up north. My real dad kind of slept with my nan and than run off with the baby sitter and i now have a half brother oooooo joy. i have been in the church but left because the people made me feel traped and i wanted to experiences things, and as im not that rich most of the members loved to rub it in that they were.
i have a job and go to school try and have a social life and on dear cupid wen i can.
i love music, i love reading, helping people, being with my friends and family is the best time for me. when i come home from school and work and my dog comes and says hello and makes a big fuss over me makes me know i have somethin to come to. I love just sitting there with either my friends or my family especially with my mum and just sit there watchin chick flicks or a scary flim with some of my friends is just somethin i enjoy doing. drinkin alchole is not somethin i like doing that much i have had bad things happen to me and its put me off.
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16 July 2007: love what is love? No matter what life throws at you stand strong and fight back you are better than anyone else. don't worry about what over people think they are just jelious and just bullies. BEAT BULLYING follow the campagin. I have ...
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27 June 2007: ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
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I'm in an awful situation - can anyone offer some sensible advice?
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A. 12 October 2007: i think you should (thats if you are) keep the baby and get rid of the guy, if he is offering crank to you leave him its going to hurt but get rid of him, even though you could be carrying his baby, be a single parent and help your friend out as ... (read in full...)
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A. 8 October 2007: im sorry but to many people you could be classed as a prev and if you touch her it bang locked up. you could wait till she is 18 but by than she would find a boyfriend and hopefully you would have moved on. ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my first kiss?
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A. 8 October 2007: sweetie that was your first kiss you always remember your first kiss where it was and how it felt and how good looking the guy was who you kissed. and like everyone else says you may never see him again but you will always remember him. i remember ... (read in full...)
Why do guys flirt and not follow it up?
Q. Okay here is my situation. There is a great guy at work that I have always liked, and he's always been really nice and friendly to me too. We occasionally work on projects together. We get along and have fun bantering back and forth. However, over ...
A. 8 October 2007: why don't you ust talk to him about thats the only way youare going to know, only he knows. sometimes you never know with a guy if he is ust playful flirting or if he means it but talk to him about it and see what happens.
good luck... (read in full...)
Do rebound relationships work at all?
Q. Do rebound relationships work at all? If not then why not?...
A. 8 October 2007: well they can but it depends on the reasons why you are on a rebound and your reasons are ok to make the rebound relationship work if uou really like that person if you happy in that relationship stay with it
good luck xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
How do I convince her that I love her more tham He does?
Q. i was with my girlfriend for a year and a half and we drifted apart and broke up. however now that she is gone i relized that i love her more than anyone else and i now we are supposed to be together. i have told her this and i know she still loves ...
A. 8 October 2007: you know the saying you don't know what you can't till you lost it. thats what you are experiencing. if you guys dirfted apart there is no oint trying again.
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you can let her have a chance with this guy and if he doesn't have a chance than ... (read in full...)
How do I let the guy I kissed last week know that I want him?
Q. I kissed a guy last weekend that ive known for about two years, after he made all the moves. i was pleasantly surprised at this because ive always known him to be shy and timid when it comes to girls. however, the communication between us during the ...
A. 7 October 2007: well if drink was invloved drink give you confidence to just do stuff you wouldn't normally do. i would talk to him a bout it. ask him if he would like to go to the next step and if he is a true friend he wouldn't let that ruin your friend ship.
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Her ex is using his money to tempt my girl back to him. What can I do?
Q. my girlfriend is a divorced mother of three children. her youngest child is a 2 year old girl she had with an ex-fiancee. we have been dating for 3 months and now her ex is trying to weasel his way back into her life saying he wants to be a family ...
A. 7 October 2007: the thing is when you have children and you have financal problems you will do anything to make sure they have a roof over there heads so when someone comes along even if it is the horrible ex you will be tempeted to get back with them. talk to her ... (read in full...)
Is sex REALLY like this?
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A. 7 October 2007: no it not. porn is really extreme sex well the postions anyway have no worries you may want to do that when you are older but don't worry about that ust worry about school and wait till you are ready to do it
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I've lost him - what can I do?
Q. Ive lost him! last night i met a really gr8 guy and we hit it of pretty much straight away in the club we wer in. things like that just dont normally happen to me i was totally flattered as in my oppinion he was drop ded gorgeous! Al...
A. 7 October 2007: i agree with tommy7 just let it be a memory of a guy that you really made you feel special. let it be a memory that boasts your confidence not put you down. i love things like that when you enjoy an evening but you know you will never see them ... (read in full...)
Why do men seek attention from other women?
Q. Hi there, I recently read some of your response and would like to ask you the following. I have a wonderful man. Treats me with respect, love, loving words, very complimentary, we wake in the morning and he holds me and tells me I'm beautifu...
A. 7 October 2007: i agree with flower girl, when your out any where look at other men see how he likes it. they way guys minds work is its ok i can look but when the wife/girlfriend looks at someone its realy hard for them.
Its good that you wouldn't get too jeli... (read in full...)
Is it embarrasing catching the bus in front of the boy you have a crush on?
Q. Every night after school I walk up out of school to catch the bus home and the guy I have a crush on walks with me to the bus stop. But then I have to get on the bus and he continues walking home with his friends. I find it really embarassibng ...
A. 3 October 2007: i hate catching the bus its annoying every annoying persons gets on my bus. why don't you walk with your crush instead of taking the bus. aww crushes don't you just love them they come and go.... (read in full...)
If she keeps gaining weight, after childbirth she could be twice as worst? Should I look beyond the weight and be with her because she makes me happy?
Q. I have being going out with my girlfriend for three and half years and she has really made me very happy we get on so well. Only thing is when I met her she was 12stone. Since we got together she has given up on staying fit and she eats way too much ...
A. 3 October 2007: you are right to worry. it does seem dastic that she has put on all the that weight. like surgarbuns says it could be gentic when you first meet her she was 12stone which is fine. but it is hard to keep the weight off dieting and going to the gym ... (read in full...)
I'm friends with my ex and want her to find a great bf, but get upset when she's talking to a new guy! Why?
Q. I just got out of a relationship a few months ago with an amazing girl and we have actually managed to keep a very close friendship. We still love each other very much but not in the romantic way. Anyways, a guy from her work has started talking to ...
A. 3 October 2007: you are jealous its ok, it will pass. you want her to find someone so she can be happy but its your way of trying to make your feelings go away trying to confince yourself that you want her to be happy when infact you want it to be you she finds. to ... (read in full...)
We started dating, then I had to leave the country. I stopped calling in hopes that she would move on! What else can I do?
Q. Well, I got to know this girl through dating another girl - and she helped me through this huge breakup and became a huge friend of mine - and she fell for me i dont know since when but she gave me her hand to hold and even told me she was in love ...
A. 3 October 2007: tell her the truth, it was so sweet even though you know you care about her you let her go incase she had moved on. call her tell the truth, if she likes you as much as she said she did, felings like that don't go away it takes time call her.
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I like him, but I'm fridged! Any advice?
Q. I Really really really like this guy who is 2 years older than me. no1 noes about how much i love him nobody noes that i even like him!! we talk all the time, go out nearly every weekend But recently we have been gettin really really close. W...
A. 30 September 2007: well you havent ruined your chances because as you said he held your hand even after that little set back. to be honest your not fridgid it just so happens that night you were really neverous and it got to you. if he is getting all touchy feeling ... (read in full...)
I have no success with women. Any advice please?
Q. Hey everyone, I have to resort to these matters, because it has long surpassed what my best friends can do and I don't really think I can hold my mentality for much longer. My problem is, as it's probably common in here, I have no success with ...
A. 24 September 2007: you are so picky and you put yourself down and when a girl comes up to you, you have come to belive that no girl wants you, so when a girl is interseted you push them away or show no signs even if the girl isn't your type be happy a girl does like ... (read in full...)
I'm really insecure about his ex. What can I do?
Q. I feel silly for posting this... but, a few months back, my boyfriend was in touch with a girl. I got quite jealous and an instinct told me this girl was something else... well, my boyfriend told me she was just a friend, and I was ok with it, ...
A. 24 September 2007: i know what its like sweety, you always think the ex is so much more prettier then you, and you get jelious when your boyfriend is around her, you feel horrible when she is around as he draws all his attendation to her not you. in a way you will ... (read in full...)
What is a best friend and what is expected of them?
Q. What is a best friend? What is expected of them? Whats the median between best friends love and passionate love ? How can i befriend someone that I'm in love with when they don't feel the same? How to tell your friend that they are taking adva...
A. 24 September 2007: best friends are the ones you trust with anything, being girl or boy. you hang out with them you love them to bits (as friends). love is based on trust but there are over things to it.
As for being with friends with the person you love but does... (read in full...)
There's a new girl I'm interested in, but she takes ages to reply to my messages. What can I do?
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A. 24 September 2007: shes playing hard to get but she doing it in a way that she may end up losing your interset im i right. i used to be the girl that texted all the time in the end it wasn't working out so i would let him text me than i would wait a while than text ... (read in full...)
I kissed my ex and she has a boyfriend. I have a girlfriend too and I feel really guilty!!
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A. 24 September 2007: well you are just going to have to tell your girlfriend what you did. don't hide it as it will become worse as your ex could use this against you in the future to keep her quite. and your ex is wrong as she has a bf too. you may lose your girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Do I follow my head or my heart?
Q. Hi Do I follow my head or my heart? I am with a girl, and do like her, things have been slow since weve been away from uni for the summer hols. I think we get on ok and will have some good times to come, but I don't see if going too far to be...
A. 21 September 2007: i think you should go with your heart if you are not happy in your relationship its not right to carry on as the futher you go into the relationship the harder it is to get out of. why don't you talk to this other girl about how you feel and than ... (read in full...)
A man at a bar poured a drink on me, my boyfriend beat him up, and now I'm torn
Q. i got a question and its kinda confussion abit i guess! today is my birthday and last night my bf and i went out to the club and he had gotten real jealious over a guy buying me a drink and asking me for my number, but you see i didnt acce...
A. 18 September 2007: that guy deserves everything he got none of my guy friends would let him do that i would be thankful but like you a little upset what if he got hurt as well. over all forgive him he was looking out for like any normal bf should do and good luck ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend overheard me saying I still loved my ex!
Q. my girlfriend over heard me telling someone i still love an ex tho i know this must have hurt her feelings i dont know how to tell her i love her in a sisterly way and im not in love with her. i love my girlfriend more than anything and im ...
A. 18 September 2007: tell her the same well you have just said it though. tell her the truth, tell her you don't want to lose her and it was a silly misunderstanding.
good luck xxxx... (read in full...)
I want the man I can't have and don't want the man I married!
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A. 18 September 2007: the way i see it do what you think is best. But consider this does your friend feel the same way. and the only reason why your feelings have grown stronger now is because your husband is in iraq. When he does get back tell him i know you have had it ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you're in love or if you're just attached to avoid being alone?
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A. 18 September 2007: well its true love is no fairytale there is the norml set back where you feel like giving up but if you truley want it to work than you will work it out.
As long as you are enjoying your time together than just stay with him, its ok to be a bit co... (read in full...)
How can I show others that we're a couple?
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A. 17 September 2007: well you know there is a way you can show that you are ging out without spending money. when you are out together hold hands when you are walking hand in hand kiss her (i mean peck some people don't want to see tossil tennis in public). Go to the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with two men! Help me!
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A. 17 September 2007: well the reason why you like your daughters father again is because you can probably remember the way you guys used to be and being around him brings it all back. i will make a go at being with the guy your with now you have two children with him ... (read in full...)
Does she like me?
Q. ok im so confused please answer dis girl in class always looks at me i can I her staring for a long time with the corner of my eye when she is near me i move a little to give space but she gets closer and what confuses me is that she had a boyfriend ...
A. 17 September 2007: well you wo't know till you talk to her, but you know what romours are like if she has a boyfriend don't bother if she doesn't well go in for the kill ask her out for coffee get talking and just find out stuff about her and she is there could be ... (read in full...)
How do you love someone that doesn't love you back?
Q. Here' s a question that has no answer. How do u love someone that don't love u back?:-(...
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Is sex really a part of a relationship?
Q. sex?is that part of relationship?...
A. 17 September 2007: well it can be sex can be the good part of relationships. But if you are not ready yet than you should wait till you are other wise your just doing it because you feel you have to, it won't be as good for anyone of you both. for sex to be good it ... (read in full...)
Do girls like chest hair?
Q. Do girls like chest hair??...
A. 3 September 2007: well i don't mind just a little bit of chest hair it demands really. just be comfortable with yourself if a girl can't deal with you chest hair than she isn't rigt for you.... (read in full...)
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A. 29 August 2007: ihave always had a gut feeling that something wasn't right about a guy but he seems nice and looks after me, but then its over or he cheats, and than i remember my gut and then i should of listened to it. oh im saying is listen to it if it has never ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be in a serious relationship where it is near perfect, but to still wonder/dream/occasionally hope that the "wow/breath taking" love will happen someday?
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A. 29 August 2007: i think every girl wishes for the fairy tale love and night in shinny armour. its sort of our way to get away from reality and just be a princess who needs to be resuced. and its fine to wish even when you are in a pretty good relationship. it sort ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for my first kiss to be with someone special, or should I find a random girl?
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A. 24 August 2007: do not find a romdom girl and kiss her, that would ruin your first kiss. i remember mine it wasn't nice but im still waiting for my real kiss the one where it runs all the way through your body and after you can't stop smiling, i know only in movies ... (read in full...)
I don't have very much pubic hair, will this freak guys out?
Q. Hi. I'm a fifteen year old girl. I was just wondering, I don't have very much pubic hair. Will guys get freaked out when they finger me? Or when they do any sexual activity with me?...
A. 24 August 2007: funny thing is guys get freaked out when they see hair down there, so don't worry you are a late devloper or you have light hair and its not always notice able so no worries.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my family that I'm bisexual
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A. 24 August 2007: if your family love you they should accept the way you are. so what if you are bi its not like you are making it known to the whole world. i know many bi people and they have healthy relationships with different people. and when you finally bring ... (read in full...)
Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it...
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A. 24 August 2007: have you tried going counselling just talking to someone who doesn't know you or your family eally helps, talk about how you feel and maybe go and see your doctor bout why you can't sleep. and go out with your friends, join a club to get your mind ... (read in full...)
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