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| | * might be a girl but i can help's profile:hi my name is nicole i might only be 17 but i love givin people advice my friends come me 4 advice and im happy 2 help. im also using this to see whats its like im hoping to become a counsellor or a pschologist.
im in a relationship at the moment and enjoying the fun we are having..
but i will love to help people as best as possible even if i am young and maybe need to have more experience but i feel i have had some experiences in my life and i feel very connected to those i help.
I live with my mum, brother, and my step-dad my real dad lives up north. My real dad kind of slept with my nan and than run off with the baby sitter and i now have a half brother oooooo joy. i have been in the church but left because the people made me feel traped and i wanted to experiences things, and as im not that rich most of the members loved to rub it in that they were.
i have a job and go to school try and have a social life and on dear cupid wen i can.
i love music, i love reading, helping people, being with my friends and family is the best time for me. when i come home from school and work and my dog comes and says hello and makes a big fuss over me makes me know i have somethin to come to. I love just sitting there with either my friends or my family especially with my mum and just sit there watchin chick flicks or a scary flim with some of my friends is just somethin i enjoy doing. drinkin alchole is not somethin i like doing that much i have had bad things happen to me and its put me off.
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16 July 2007: love what is love? No matter what life throws at you stand strong and fight back you are better than anyone else. don't worry about what over people think they are just jelious and just bullies. BEAT BULLYING follow the campagin. I have ...
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27 June 2007: ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
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I felt like shit because mum and dad were going through rough times so I dumped my girlfriend, I was so depressed, now I want her back as I made a big mistake.
Q. Hi i really really really really need some help well basicly what the story is is that me and my ex girlfriend were going out and everything was fine we both loved each other so much Then my mum and dad started to go through rough times and i fe...
A. 17 June 2007: i no she is probably ur one but maybe now u should let her chose or u should now get over her she may of told u she likes u but from it now she goin to a guys house that she likes and he might like her i think its for the best its breaking ur heart ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality?
Q. How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality? i know its a big part of me but i hate being always referred to as a loser. Oh and I'm 20 and not some teenager in high school....
A. 4 June 2007: why would u want 2 give up something about u if its u than people u hung out with who r ur so called friends are not. i love guys who are smart and have something to say. if u are that depressed about it please go counselling but never change who u ... (read in full...)
He wants a sexual relationship but I don't think I feel the same...
Q. I'm an 18 year old female, and have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 8 months. I'm starting to feel like I don't like him in that special way anymore. He wants a sexual relationship, but I don't think I feel the same. I don't get that tingly ...
A. 4 June 2007: well sometimes u can get bored if he keeps goin on at u 4 sex u can feel quite stressed and like him less and less because he keeps going on talk 2 him ask him what he likes about u maybe try full play see if that turns u on if nothin works maybe u ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, but my feelings confuse me. What should I do about this?
Q. well, were to start. im basically a normal secondary school lass, but i seem to have special feelings for another girl in my class. I dont know why but i feel nervous around her but still want to be near her. I dont understand it and its confusing ...
A. 4 June 2007: what u r feeling is normal ur mum is right it could be a phase u r goin through ur body is changing and ur felings change u could be a leisbean but u will never know till later in life as its ilegal to have sex at ur age. u r not weird its normal ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but my ex has told me that he still likes me and that dumping me was a big mistake.
Q. me and my ex have been apart for about a year and i have still got feelings for him even though i have a boyfriend, problem is is that now my ex has told me that he still really likes me and that dumping me was a big mistake what should i do? ...
A. 4 June 2007: honestly ur ex is so jealous that u are with some1 else and u r happy he isn't. i say tell him there was a good reason we broke up i don't want u anymore i am so happy with my new boyfriend can we be friends thou. i no its harsh but its unfair on u ... (read in full...)
I felt like shit because mum and dad were going through rough times so I dumped my girlfriend, I was so depressed, now I want her back as I made a big mistake.
Q. Hi i really really really really need some help well basicly what the story is is that me and my ex girlfriend were going out and everything was fine we both loved each other so much Then my mum and dad started to go through rough times and i fe...
A. 4 June 2007: honestly is always best. i know how u feel i happned to me as well i got stressed with family life and school work i was trying to control too much and than one day i just burst i toke it out on everyone and my relationship ended i told him the ... (read in full...)
Help! I think I'm addicted to SEX!
Q. I know this seems weird but i think I'm a sex addict i get turned on at weird times by weird things like i look at cornflakes and get wet, i sometimes cum just by thinking of the word sex and i come within a few minutes, if that, of sex. How can i ...
A. 4 June 2007: hey hun its normal if u were havin sex everyday than i would say sex addict but ur not ur body is changing and what u are experiencing is normal all boys go through it u don't need help. even funny enough girls go through it as well we get wet it ... (read in full...)
I am 30 years old and I see women my age who are totally in love or happily married. I just don’t see myself that way.
Q. Hello, I am not sure how to ask you what I need to know; I’ve had boyfriends and I’ve gone in many dates. When I start going out with someone I always get to like them very much and care deeply and sometimes even love, as a friend, but it was ...
A. 4 June 2007: theres something holding u back u may not want to admit it but there is. every1 can fall in love but sometimes there is somethin holding them back. u could go counsellin if u want to find out want could be wrong somethin could of happen in ur past ... (read in full...)
We're having an affair - he only talks about my physical aspects! Am I being used?
Q. i have been having an affair for 1 year with a man who has a partner he tells me he loves her but, what does the but mean. also he says one thing but his actions show me something else, he has told me he is smitten with me he also cannot keep his ...
A. 4 June 2007: im sorry but u are both cheated on people u love. u r being used men talk crap when they want sex and he probably isn't get enough at home so he is gettin it somewhere else if there wasn't a problem with ur relationship than why would u cheat on ur ... (read in full...)
How can I tell her that there are *goals* to have perfect relationships, but no relationship is actually perfect?
Q. Ok. I got a girl and I'm having a big problem. She thinks there are perfect relationships and i told her if so then I want ours to be perfect. And I want to try my best, but I know there is no perfect relationship out there. But i want to show her ...
A. 4 June 2007: no relationship is perfect u will lways have ur ups and downs a good relationship for me is if u trust that person u can talk to them be yourself no lies and u no u either love or really like and care for that person. if u have that then u are on ur ... (read in full...)
He seems to only like me when he's drunk! Is he worth it or should I let him go?
Q. Hey hey, The guy that I have been seeing for 7 months only lets himself go when he's drinking. When he's sober, he doesn't speak to me as often. And it's almost like he only likes me when he's drunk. He said from the beginning that he's not a bi...
A. 4 June 2007: obvious i know but talk to him sometimes just talking can let him go and he may let hisfeelings out but if ur really annoyed and by the sounds of it he is a typical guy who just doesn't know how to be loving than u can end it if that what u really ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if this girl really wants to go out with me? I don't want her to accept a date w/ me just to spare my feelings!
Q. i have been told to meet this girl i asked to meet after the exams. i really like her. shall i ask first after the exams? any hints or tips to catch if she dont wanna go. i dont want to push her but i realize girls have a hard time sayin no as they ...
A. 4 June 2007: even if its not a date go out anyway. go out as friends talk get to know eachother than see what happens. if ur scared that they are stringing u along do it that way. i hope it goes well for u x... (read in full...)
My bf cheated on me with my best friend a few weeks ago - I just now found out! I love him, but don't want to have this happen again! Help!
Q. Okay just the other day I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend while I was on my cruise for Spring Break with my family. Like I said, it was spring break and now it is June 2 and i just now found out about it. They have be...
A. 4 June 2007: way i see it talk to him first see if there is enough love there to carry on and if u willing to go counselling if u feel that, that is what u need. it not fair on u to be cheated on but see if there is still something there but u can love him but ... (read in full...)
I know we're going to break up b/c the distance is too much to handle! Should I not go see him next month?
Q. Hi, I don't know if anyone can really help me with this but i'm not sure where else to turn. My problem is that my boyfriend lives half a world away. We've been together for a year, through what I've found to be a very hard long distance ...
A. 4 June 2007: why don't u go and see him and talk things through if u still feel its worth the wait anymore than finish it with him its going to be hard but if u are feeling all this pain than u shouldn't have to go through that. talk to him he may feel the same ... (read in full...)
He drinks too much and I hate it!
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend about 6 months now and i stay at his every weekend. every weekend he drinks too much (like lads do) but he always tends to upset me. i don't think he does it intentionally and he says he loves me but i dont ...
A. 2 June 2007: hey hun yer i no what you mean boys/men always drink too much my ex finished with me coz i cared too much he drunk too much all time. they only advice i can give u is let him get on with it tell him it upsets u if he comes up with 'this is me' u may ... (read in full...)
I love him so much but he works far too much!
Q. This is how my life goes, I am deeply inlove with someone and he feels the same. we have a long distance relationship. We meet from time to time and both of us are okay with that. I love this guy so much that even words cannot explain how i really ...
A. 1 June 2007: i no that u are hurting so much and u have tried talkin 2 him and u have long distance but if it is killing u inside and ur not happy. but with love sometimes u r willing to give up ur life to be with them but its up 2 u think if it this way r u ... (read in full...)
Please help, I've never kissed a boy before...
Q. Plz help!!! I've never kissed a boy before and he's my 1st boyfriend, how do i know if he wants 2 kiss me or not, plz help!!...
A. 1 June 2007: oh its normal to be scared. just don't plan it let the moment take u. the first kiss is always special and u will always remember it. just don't get worried u will be surpised as how nutual kissin will become after a little bit of practice or if u ... (read in full...)
He seems quite keen yet backs off it I get too close.
Q. I had a relationship with someone I used to work with 3 years ago. He is 18 yrs younger than me. Neither one of us has seen anyone since.I left 1 month ago but we have always remained friend since we broke up. We have got very close in the last 18 ...
A. 31 May 2007: i no its obvious but talk 2 him about she if u want 2 get back with him as well. talk bout what people think is going on between u and go on further from that. what u have 2 think about is do u want 2 get back with him and try again or do u want 2 ... (read in full...)
There's this guy friend I've had feelings for, for a very long time now.
Q. There's this guy friend I've had feelings for, for a very long time now. I told him about this quite a while ago, but he didn't feel the same way, so we just stayed friends. Since then, I've pretended I've gone off him, but I really haven't. It's b...
A. 31 May 2007: it doesn't mattter about his sexulity loads of boys and girls go through a time in there lives where they think they might be bisexual but it will go away.
it seems like you should talk to him i no u are worried about what the answer is goin 2 b... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and going out with a 22-year old. He thinks I'm 16, what should I do?
Q. hiya im 14 but im going out with a 22 year old and he thinks im 16 what can i do and i reali like him hes diffrent i no everyone says it but ? help please...
A. 31 May 2007: i think u should tell him ur age yes it might ruin everythin u have, but its right to tell ur age. we can only give uadvic wot u do is up u.... (read in full...)
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