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writes:22/7/07I'm 16, my boyfriend says he loves me, wants it to last forever, wnats to marry me, this is all in texts! When i talk to him or see him, he never says it unless we're physical he'll say i love you.. but not in the way i want to hear it.Doesn't want anyone to know about our relationship! if they do findout he lies! Try's to meet me when it's just alone and secret..or if we're with mates he'll take me some where then do stuff.Is it because he just generally doesn't want any one to know or is it that he's ashamed of me, has someone else, or is playing games...23/7/07this was before but last night...he mess's with my head making me beliv this is real..by asking me out to dinner next week..i dont get it..is he keeping me sweet or genually want no one to know..i told his mates yesterday.. he dint seem fussed at the time.. confused.. girl
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (23 July 2007):
 i agree with everyone else cut off the physical side i did that with one of my exs and it seems thats all he wanted he never said the three words again and than everything went down hill. not saying it will with you but just don't be too upset if he does. it does seem stupid to hide a relationship if he really likes you. just talk to him sometimes you can tell if they are lieing. just be careful i don't want to tell you to end it if he does like you and just wants to keep things low key. do what you think is right. good luck xxx
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reader, RUSTUPID  +, writes (23 July 2007):
The question is...DOES HE LOVE YOU -OR- LOVE HAVING SEX WITH U?either he really likes you and is ashamed of what his friends think of you or he just likes having sex with you...and will do what ever it takes to continue having sex with you.. what ever the case this is not a healty relationship. you are tooo young and life is too short to allow someone to use you or treat you like a secret.THINK ABOUT THIS- If he loved you then you would not be a secret. A man in love will shout it through the roof tops.. (Tom Cruz jumped up and down on Oprah's couch and told the world that he was in love.)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 July 2007):
 I fully agree with eyeswideopen. Why would he hide the fact that he's with you?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 July 2007):
 Is it possible that he only wants you for sex? Cut off the physical stuff and see if he's still interested.
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