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| | * might be a girl but i can help's profile:hi my name is nicole i might only be 17 but i love givin people advice my friends come me 4 advice and im happy 2 help. im also using this to see whats its like im hoping to become a counsellor or a pschologist.
im in a relationship at the moment and enjoying the fun we are having..
but i will love to help people as best as possible even if i am young and maybe need to have more experience but i feel i have had some experiences in my life and i feel very connected to those i help.
I live with my mum, brother, and my step-dad my real dad lives up north. My real dad kind of slept with my nan and than run off with the baby sitter and i now have a half brother oooooo joy. i have been in the church but left because the people made me feel traped and i wanted to experiences things, and as im not that rich most of the members loved to rub it in that they were.
i have a job and go to school try and have a social life and on dear cupid wen i can.
i love music, i love reading, helping people, being with my friends and family is the best time for me. when i come home from school and work and my dog comes and says hello and makes a big fuss over me makes me know i have somethin to come to. I love just sitting there with either my friends or my family especially with my mum and just sit there watchin chick flicks or a scary flim with some of my friends is just somethin i enjoy doing. drinkin alchole is not somethin i like doing that much i have had bad things happen to me and its put me off.
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16 July 2007: love what is love? No matter what life throws at you stand strong and fight back you are better than anyone else. don't worry about what over people think they are just jelious and just bullies. BEAT BULLYING follow the campagin. I have ...
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27 June 2007: ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
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Not sure if flirty guy really likes me or not
Q. So for the past 6 weeks, I have had class with this guy and there has been flirting between us. Last week, we decided to go out after an exam...and his friends were supposed to go as well. When I showed up to his apartment, he informed me that his ...
A. 20 June 2007: well i love the way he got u round and u ended up alone. maybe he does like u but don't rush into things get to know him first there could be things u don't like bout him but well done for sayin no to him that was a shock to him. good luck xxx
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Any tips on how to get over a 2 year relationship?
Q. whats the best way to get over a guy that youve dated for a couple of years (3)? advice please!!!...
A. 20 June 2007: there are no special ways just try not to think about him e.g all the good times don't hate him or tell ur friends how bad he was just remember u broke up for a reason. have a tub of ice cream and watch a chink flick with some girls and take ur time ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back but I'm not sure he wants me
Q. dear cupid, ive fallen for my ex again, and i don't know what to do.. we always tend to go back to eachother but its always at the wrong times. i've stayed single since we broke up, but ive fooled around wiht a couple guys, and now i realize ...
A. 20 June 2007: well if u really do want to get back with him and u r ready to try again than just get to know eachother as friends first don't rush into things as its not fair on both of u, coz u might think u r ready but when u get into the relationshp again u ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't handle my wealthy background or my success
Q. Hi all, I met my boyfriend in college we are both studying the same course and in the same class. He is the sweetest guy ever and we were planning to get married until things started falling apart, when he came home to meet my parents during c...
A. 20 June 2007: it isn't fair him puttin u down. but like he said to u he feels threated by u the fact that u have come from a lot of money which to him makes him think u can just go to daddy and ask for money or help i think he wants to be the one to bring in the ... (read in full...)
Should I date him, even though I dont like him as much as someone else ?
Q. There is this boy in my class that i really really like, i mean alot. We are close and that but i dont know if he likes me like that way and have never had the courage to ask him. Anyway there is this other boy in my class that wants to go out with...
A. 20 June 2007: you are right it would be unfair to go out with the boy who likes u and know that they may not be a chance that u will like him in that way but there is nothin stoppin u being his friend meeting up as friends. Now this boy u like tell him u like him ... (read in full...)
I am only 11, but I am two months pregant!
Q. (ok my original profile thing iz batman but i did something and made a new profile) alright well i am 11 and now 2 monthes pregnant! im really scared cuz me and my boyfriend r both ganna need to take care of this child 2gether and im still liv...
A. 18 June 2007: oh hunny. well its ur choice bout losing it but ur pregent well im glad that u didn't want to give up up but u can have some1 adopt the baby maybe not in ur family as u said u hate them nd they h8 u but do u no how had its going to be u have u bf ... (read in full...)
Worried about sexual advances from my boyfriend. Help!
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and my boyfriend has started to hint he wants to finger me. We've been together 2 months now and I want him to, but am a little nervous about it because I've never had it done before. I've tried masterbating myself but I've never actually ...
A. 18 June 2007: well a little tip fake it make noises while he is doin it but not as soon as he has done after a while make noises and u will no if u r having an orgasm because u will feel all hot and it feels like u have jusy relased something that been caged in ... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with this man when I go back over in July? He's 16 years older than me.
Q. I have a problem, I'll start from the beginning, when i was 13 i met this man who was 29 and we hit it off, he didn't know i was 13 since he never asked and i looked older for my age. He lives in the Phillipines and i live in england, and go over ...
A. 18 June 2007: please don't do it whatever u do please don't. he is a older man and u r under age and it will be so wrong. he is probably you first love they r always the harderest to get over if u jump into bed with him than he got what he wanted he just wants u ... (read in full...)
Should I go up and speak to her or what???
Q. a girl at college keeps givin me looks but quickly turning when i catch her eye! is she trying to tell me something or would i be wasting my time making a move on her?...
A. 18 June 2007: well if she is staring at u maybe she does like u there is no harm in asking her out for a drink as friends and see what happens next. good luck xxx ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend there's a possibility I might be pregnant?
Q. Hi. A few days ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I know i haven't caught any STI's off him...but i think im pregnant. Im not stupid and on normal circumstances i would never have had unprotected sex but i was drunk and as a result had ...
A. 18 June 2007: well first of all don't worry. u should have the test to make sure that u r and it can be normal to bleed after sex but have the test and im sorry i don't think there is noover way of telling ur boyfriend that u might be pregent u could just tell ... (read in full...)
I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?
Q. hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...
A. 17 June 2007: well i wouldn't consider breakin up until you really are getting fed up with it. just be really firm with him and tell him no, push him way and if he does continue maybe you should break up goood luck xxx ... (read in full...)
When I get fingered, I bleed. Does anyone know why?
Q. i have been fingered a few times by boyfriend but everytime i bleed, does anyone know why?? Thanks!!!...
A. 17 June 2007: its normal he might of just fingered to far in and broke ur hyman but don't worry just tell him to be more gentle with u. take care... (read in full...)
How can I get my crush to like me?
Q. Hey I really i really like this guy im 14 and he's a year older and im not to sure he likes me Alot of his friends think i'm a joke well some of them I am quite good looking and boys say that i am. I had a bit of a reputation a few months ...
A. 17 June 2007: well u can't make someone like u. be urself so if he does full for u than u o its because u r urself. and don't worry bout his m8s u could try and ask him i no so embrassin but thats the only way u will no and remember u r only young so there plenty ... (read in full...)
My man is jealous of me spending time with my children. He left me a week ago and now he wants me back. What should I do?
Q. I am in my 40s and have been divorced now for 7 years, I have been seeing a younger man for 6 years now ( he is 10 years younger ). My question is that we get along really good for about 6 months and then everything bothers me about him, he is very ...
A. 17 June 2007: don't bother with him to be honest my mum was in your shoes once this guy she was seein got all jeloious when me or my younger brother hugged my mum or just wanted somethin from her he wouldn't let us near her he would grap hold of her and tell us ... (read in full...)
I felt like shit because mum and dad were going through rough times so I dumped my girlfriend, I was so depressed, now I want her back as I made a big mistake.
Q. Hi i really really really really need some help well basicly what the story is is that me and my ex girlfriend were going out and everything was fine we both loved each other so much Then my mum and dad started to go through rough times and i fe...
A. 17 June 2007: i no she is probably ur one but maybe now u should let her chose or u should now get over her she may of told u she likes u but from it now she goin to a guys house that she likes and he might like her i think its for the best its breaking ur heart ... (read in full...)
Should I let my daughter get to know this man better?
Q. My daughter is a very mature 17 year old who has been homeschooled, just finished her first year at college. She is becoming good friends with a 26 year old man at church who is interested in her and would like to date her. They are both devoted ...
A. 17 June 2007: i think u should let ur daughter do what she wants im a christen and im glad that now my mum and dad r finally letting me dowhat i want im just like ur daughter very mature and lways careful who i go out with. oh and don'talways live by the double ... (read in full...)
Was he using me all the way through our relationship?? I have so many questions to ask him but I'm too scared! Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago after being together for 6 months, but I can't stop thinking about him. I'm 17 and he is 20. I lost my virignity to him after being together for 2 months, it felt right at the time and I don't regret it ...
A. 17 June 2007: the thing is u will never forget ur first love or the guy u lost it to so no matter what u do if u meet him again in 20 years time u will still have that connection. u r asking for closure which means u have all these questions and no matter what u ... (read in full...)
What is he all about? Was he just trying it on with me for the sex or did he really care?
Q. hi! am a bit confused about an issue...am trying 2 find a job in my field of study which is broadcasting and leave my current job, and 2 months ago some work colleague introduced me to a guy let's call him "T" who works in the media and has his own ...
A. 17 June 2007: well the thing is u wil never know till u ask him coz i can say to u from wot u have said he is usin u which it does look like to me but he might like u and might just be scared coz u have excuses like he does for not havin this relationship. just ... (read in full...)
It's really love... I'm 15 and he's 30
Q. I'm in love, I just know and feel it, the only problem is the guy is 15 years older than I am. (I'm 15 he's 30) I know its crazy for me to say I am in love but I am. We don't have a "real" relationship,I didn't want him to get in trouble from bei...
A. 15 June 2007: im sorry hun but this is completly wrong i normal say age doesn't matter but if u guys are havin sex he can get in to alot of trouble and its just wrong. and im guessin his u first love and trust me its going to take ages for u to get over him but i ... (read in full...)
All my friends are absolutely stunning, I feel so hideous and insignificant around them. Help me!
Q. im so depressed with the way i look. i keep crying because i feel so hideous. i cant look in mirrors and wont stand next to windows incase i see my reflextion, even seeing my shadow makes me feel sick. i hate my weight and am trying to loose ...
A. 15 June 2007: i no u have heard this before but i can relate to u. but u no the reason why ur not attracting guys its because they can sense a confident person and by the way u have talked about urself. i used to feel the way u did my best friend so far has ... (read in full...)
My best guy friend is always holding and touching me, do you think he likes me MORE than a friend?
Q. my best guy friend *john* is always holding me, touching me, and ALWAYS around me. all of our friends say that he likes me, but he denies it. and so do i. but then he goes and does something so romantic and sweet. like this one time at a carnival, i ...
A. 12 June 2007: well the thing is u will never no till u ask him how he feels don't do it in front of everyone ask to talk to him maybe meet up with out friends and ask him. it does seem like it but some boys are always touchin and huggin girls just don't get ur ... (read in full...)
I'm madly in love with a man who is 23 and I'm almost 17.
Q. I'm madly in love with a man who is 23 and I'm almost 17. We've never had sex, but we plan to on my 18th birthday. I just need to know if he's doing something illegal, and if so what are the consequences. I would hate to get him into trouble, ...
A. 12 June 2007: well as u live in America and im in the UK im not sure wot the is the age your allowed to have sex but as im in that sort of situration its good that u guys haven't had sex and his being really good into not forcing u to have sex but don't plan it, ... (read in full...)
Feel scared of loving... any help?
Q. Can anyone tell me why do I feel so scared of loving another person? Is it because I have been hurt before? How should I go about solving this problem?...
A. 11 June 2007: it is possible that u have been hurt before or the fact u friends have been hurt through love and its put u off i think everyone once in there life will always be scared of bein hurt or to love someone its normal and u just have to think what makes ... (read in full...)
Is he acting like a man who really wants out of this relationship?
Q. Me again... Tortured, and very confused... Thanks for reading once more... I am trying to figure out a typical MAN behaviour when he wants OUT and has dumped the woman. He told me : 1) I had screwed him up big time 2) It took him a lot of...
A. 11 June 2007: in my opinion he doesn't seem to know what he wants talk to him its the only way. tell him the only way u r goin 2 help me stop being so confussed is by tellin what u want from me tell him how u feel. i hope this kinda helps good luck... (read in full...)
Should i keep trying for him? Or should i just move on to another boy?
Q. Ok well me and this one guy went out for a few months, but broke up because i was an emotional wreck at the time and because of this and what other people were saying to him, we split. after i came back after 6 weeks of therepy stuff he started...
A. 11 June 2007: he does seem quite unsure of himself like normal boys at ur age. i think u should work out why u r pushin him away is it because u r scared or is it because its him. atm be friends see what u both want as u both don't seem to know what u want and ... (read in full...)
Does he really like me or not? Any views?
Q. ok so..i cant figure out if this guy really likes me or not..he is 2 years older than me and he is a marine..he told me he likes me..and he is always hugging me and telling me how cute i am..and just kidding around with me..but how do i know hes not ...
A. 11 June 2007: maybe you should call him see how he is maybe meet up and talk than u can get ur feelings out, form the sounds of it he does like you he probably isn't textin u coz he is scared that u don't like him, maybe he is giving you a door and uu have to ... (read in full...)
Am I stuck in that cycle of only 'wanting females that I can't have'...help?
Q. This is a little complicated so I'll give a bit of background information before I get into the problem. Since the time when I was 18 I've had about about 4 relationships lasting anywhere from 1 month to 1 year. Three out of those 4 ended after I ...
A. 11 June 2007: i think its far of getting close and when you are close it gets boring for u coz ur not hiding anymore secerts and u don't have all the other times to get to no eachother. i think u could go see a counsellor and have u thought bout tellin ur ... (read in full...)
How would I ever know if he is lying to me? I really want to trust him, but with everything that has happened to me, I'm just not sure how to trust guys anymore.
Q. Hi. I really need to talk to someone, but I can't see a counselor or a psychologist right now, so please help me. I'll give you my story, sorry it's so long. It all started last summer, when I was seventeen. I met this great guy and went out with ...
A. 8 June 2007: i am so sorry to hear wot has happen to u. i totally understand that u have trust issues and u say that u don't have time to go and see a counsellor but when u do think u should especiallly for what u have been though its good to talk 2 a complete ... (read in full...)
We didn't have actual intercourse but I'm terrified because my period is late.
Q. I know this might sound ridiculous, but its worrying me and that's why I'm asking for help. I have never had intercourse sex and just once my fiance and I just kinda made out...He rubbed his penis outside my vagina instead of having intercour...
A. 8 June 2007: u probably making it worse by worring if u that worrie have a prengency test to see if u r or go and see ur doctor. u r not being silly by the way its good u worry bout these things. or u could be stressed that could be why u r late or u have ... (read in full...)
I am constantly upset and in tears and feel like my self esteem is shot and very insecure.
Q. I am constantly upset and in tears and feel like my self esteem is shot and very insecure. First of all let me explain that I never used to be like this before, that is until in the last few months I have just started to feel like my boyfriend ...
A. 8 June 2007: you are probably stressed as u might work or in college and u have work to hand in that might explain why u r quite tearful. the relationship part i no u have tried but really talk to him u r feeling really down and ur self-esteem is low. u could go ... (read in full...)
I think I am pretty, clever and funny...so why can't I attract bf's like all my friends?
Q. im a 16 year old girl, and although i've done stuff with guys i've never actually been in a relationship! it hurts because nearly all of my friends now have serious boyfriends. they all say that im pretty, funny and clever... so why can't i attract ...
A. 7 June 2007: there is nothing wrong with you. in my opinion its a gd thing you are not attracting all the boys, so u can concertrate for school. dw they will come after you soon they just want someone easily to get what they want and than piss off (not sayin all ... (read in full...)
It's been 7 days since I have talked, seen him, or any contact. Could he really lead me on this way, and leave me in the dark...and those last two days? (long)
Q. I dated a guy for almost two years. It was perfect! Yes we all have our flaws, but thats why I was attracted to him. From the very get go, he knew how I was. I wear my emotions on my sleeve. You can just tell what kind of mood I am in, by...
A. 7 June 2007: maybe he could be using you, coz he knows he can get won't he wants from you as he knows you still like him. or there is still a physical attraction between you both that you can't control. but leave it let him come to you if he promised to see you ... (read in full...)
She doesn't smile or say hi to me anymore because of her new bf? Should I still consider getting her back?
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A. 7 June 2007: im mu opinion maybe you should leave it and you are only young plenty of girls out there if she is ignoring you mabe its because she is angry with you for leaving her. but over all yu know what you want do what you have to do. good luck xxx... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant or is this all down to stress... ?
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A. 7 June 2007: its stress but if you are worried ask for another test so that you know for certain mostly doctors test are hardly wrong when it comes to pregency's but so that you can calm down and focus on ur study's why not go and have another. and good luck im ... (read in full...)
What does it mean that she gave me her number and asked for mine??
Q. This probably sounds rediculous, but what exactly does it mean when a girl gives you her phone number and asks for your's ... completely out of the blue? And, if she was perhaps interested in me, will she forget it because I was unable to give ...
A. 7 June 2007: aww hun its ok. it means she liked you by the way or maybe sh wants to meet up to get to know you better rather than in class as people will will want to know whether you guys are going out(nosey lot ant they) but don't worry if another girl comes ... (read in full...)
I care so much for her! How do I ask her to choose either him or I?
Q. i would like to explain this from the begining if i may. i was in, and still am in the military. i meet a lady a few years back. we started out just talking to one and other pretty often. and to be honest i have no idea when it went to us being ...
A. 7 June 2007: you are a very kind man to stick by her untill things blow over stay friends with her that way you haven't lost her in a way just not with her in the way you want. look after her during this time as its quite tough for her at the moment. once things ... (read in full...)
Would it be wise to get a pregnancy test as I was told that the morning after pill is only 86% effective!
Q. i guess this is a question for the ladies really although any advice would be good. two weeks ago i had unprotected sex, and 2 weeks before that, im not on the pill or any form of contraception so after the last time i went to the doctors and got ...
A. 4 June 2007: i think it would be best to have a test 4 just in case and than go to ur doctor i hope it goes well 4 u xx... (read in full...)
Do you think she is interested in me?
Q. I keep asking this girl i like out, she never says no but instead is always busy or something. We text each other almost daily and often. Do you think she is interested in me?...
A. 4 June 2007: im not sure hunny maybe u should really try and get a honest answer from her it seems like she is stringin u along sorry 2 say that. maybe she does like u and she just scared just talk to her and i hope it goes way x ... (read in full...)
How do I come to terms with something that happened to me in a past relationship?
Q. How do I come to terms with something that happened to me in a past relationship( last year)? I cry often because I now realize I was mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually abused during this relationship. Everyday I think about how he ...
A. 4 June 2007: to be able to get over something u have to believe what happen was not ur thought and maybe u might need to go counselling to able to trust men again u have to believe that not all men are like that there are some sick men out there but u have to ... (read in full...)
Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?
Q. Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...
A. 4 June 2007: hunny please leave this relationship before he ends up putting u in hosptial no man has the right to hit a women the same as a woman has no right to hit a man. hope u end up with a guy who wil treat u right xx ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality?
Q. How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality? i know its a big part of me but i hate being always referred to as a loser. Oh and I'm 20 and not some teenager in high school....
A. 4 June 2007: why would u want 2 give up something about u if its u than people u hung out with who r ur so called friends are not. i love guys who are smart and have something to say. if u are that depressed about it please go counselling but never change who u ... (read in full...)
I felt like shit because mum and dad were going through rough times so I dumped my girlfriend, I was so depressed, now I want her back as I made a big mistake.
Q. Hi i really really really really need some help well basicly what the story is is that me and my ex girlfriend were going out and everything was fine we both loved each other so much Then my mum and dad started to go through rough times and i fe...
A. 4 June 2007: honestly is always best. i know how u feel i happned to me as well i got stressed with family life and school work i was trying to control too much and than one day i just burst i toke it out on everyone and my relationship ended i told him the ... (read in full...)
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