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We had our first kiss, but I think I messed up

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Question - (18 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 14 years old and my girlfriend is 13..Well my girlfriend and I been going out for about 2 and 9 days. She very smart and basicly living life. But like I dont really see her as much because she goes to a private school and I only just in a public school.

Her parents are really strict and when i went to her house she was very caution about her parents getting home. Anyways when i came over to her house it was just a BIG hugg for a greeting and just hanging out like couples do. when she said that i needed to go back home of her parents coming back from work. So i just hugged her for a long period. And Grasp. I looked into her eyes, and smiled. She looked like an angel and very gorgeous..so I try to make my first move, but then she hug me again.putin her head to my chest. I gentle touch her chin and damp it to closen to my lips. Then I kiss her. And she seemed depress after i kissed her. she wasnt surpised to have her first kiss. and i thought to myself that I did something wrong or maybe it wasnt the right timing. And she told me shes wasnt ready. So i ride back to my house and just thinking what i have done. And she called back like i said so when i come back to my house. So The first thing i said ... "Im sorry" and she said for what and just said its okay.

So I been thinking about what is going to happened and curious about me and her. I really care about her and i dont want to lose her competely.I dont know what to do. what should i do to know that i Really care about her.But I can tell you dis.... I LOVE HER! and hopefully she does too. TEEN LOVE.

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony aunti think from where she has stricted parents it was bit surpising that you kissed her.

as for the kiss well there is noting wrong with it. if you feel it went wrong, it doesn't matter you can keep practicing and improving till you feel it is perfect.

good luck x

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2007):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntokay give her time, that was her first kiss and probarbly wasnt expecting it to come that day... it will have gone through her mind like it has yours and if there was [which i highly doubt] a problem with your kissing then she will tell you.

theres no wrong way of kissing really, you just need to find out what she likes..

good luck

x

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2007):

flower girl agony auntI think you just took her by surprise and she was shocked, she obviously has not got a problem with it or I'm sure she would have let you know.

Take things slow and just see what happens.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, RebeccaT  United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2007):

Maybe you should sugest to meet her parents because although she seems to act like her parents are strict if you meet then and they like you than she would feel more comfortable being with you and wont feel so guilty.

After all its better for you to interduce yourself to then than let them fiond out because they mighy start to think why she kept something like that from them.

If your her first boyfriemd im sure shes feel a little bit awkward of what to do and would feel better if you went out together so that she knows her paremts wont walk i on you while your together.

Hope my advice helps.

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