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| | * might be a girl but i can help's profile:hi my name is nicole i might only be 17 but i love givin people advice my friends come me 4 advice and im happy 2 help. im also using this to see whats its like im hoping to become a counsellor or a pschologist.
im in a relationship at the moment and enjoying the fun we are having..
but i will love to help people as best as possible even if i am young and maybe need to have more experience but i feel i have had some experiences in my life and i feel very connected to those i help.
I live with my mum, brother, and my step-dad my real dad lives up north. My real dad kind of slept with my nan and than run off with the baby sitter and i now have a half brother oooooo joy. i have been in the church but left because the people made me feel traped and i wanted to experiences things, and as im not that rich most of the members loved to rub it in that they were.
i have a job and go to school try and have a social life and on dear cupid wen i can.
i love music, i love reading, helping people, being with my friends and family is the best time for me. when i come home from school and work and my dog comes and says hello and makes a big fuss over me makes me know i have somethin to come to. I love just sitting there with either my friends or my family especially with my mum and just sit there watchin chick flicks or a scary flim with some of my friends is just somethin i enjoy doing. drinkin alchole is not somethin i like doing that much i have had bad things happen to me and its put me off.
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16 July 2007: love what is love? No matter what life throws at you stand strong and fight back you are better than anyone else. don't worry about what over people think they are just jelious and just bullies. BEAT BULLYING follow the campagin. I have ...
the day he left.
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27 June 2007: ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
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Is it possible she is jealous I got a housemate?
Q. Female vs Female relationship. I am in love with my best friend. We are seperated by about 1300 miles. She knows how I feel as I have told her. She is unhappily married (no lectures please) anyway I am convinced she feels the same way about me even ...
A. 16 July 2007: well i think she is just trying to make you feel bad and it seems to be working. just please be careful and don't get with someone who is married how about finding some one else. good luck xxx... (read in full...)
I kissed my boyfriends coworker
Q. I kissed my boyfriends work friend. The girl he was out with was upset he offered to walk me to the car although i dont know if she actually saw the kiss. me and my partner go out with these people regularly and i cant guarantee he wont be told...
A. 16 July 2007: well if your boyfriend kissed someone else would you rather hear it from a horrible co-worker, or from him. in my opinion i would pick him. now i would tell him and see what happens yes he is going to be hurt but wouldn't you. just try and work it ... (read in full...)
I am 15 and dating a 27 year old
Q. i am turning 15 and i am dating a 27 yr old i dont know how to tell my parents i really love him...
A. 16 July 2007: well its good you know you have to tell your parents. but how you tell them and when you have to pick that one. but i will warn you they are going to be mad, i will put it in a different situration, your best friend told you she was going out with a ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my ex and expected him to try to win me back. He didnt, but I miss him now.
Q. I broke up with my Ex a few months ago when i ended it. He ended it first but then changed his mind after a few weeks of absence and no phone calls. He said at the time that he was ready to give the relationship another try but the thing is it ...
A. 16 July 2007: you the funny thing is, i think we all us girls wish that our ex will see what he is missing when they finish with us or when we are finally fed up of not getting our resurrance. The fact is the relatiobship broke up for a good reason, and you have ... (read in full...)
What turns females on?
Q. This is a question that would probobly be best answered by females but if u men have something to add please go right ahead. Now i know all you woman are all different but surely u must have things in common when it comes to having a boyfriend. What ...
A. 12 July 2007: for me i love my boyfriend kissin my neck, his hand on my thigh sliding it up a down. but different things turn girls on i love to experiment if it doesn't work than we know not to try it again its also best to make sure ur relax to enjoy it more. ... (read in full...)
Its funny they always say guys are the ones that abuse feelings, but girls are just as bad.
Q. Right I thought I would give this a try since I am at my wits end. Okay so basicly I met this girl over the internet, I know, classic fling right? well I thought so too. I wasn't looking for anything special, mostly just someone to flirt with. I'm ...
A. 12 July 2007: wow hun i am sorry to hear that. and yes its true guys are more known to break girls hearts more than girls to boys but u hav proven we girls do hurt you. There is no way u will be able to fully get over her as im guessin she was ur first real love ... (read in full...)
I'm not in to S and M but when having sex, I have really sick thoughts.
Q. This is really sick and I have never ever told anyone of this as I feel too ashamed. I hope no one would judge me here. I am totally in love with my husband and we have been together for a long time-100% happy! However when I am having sex at ...
A. 11 July 2007: hey it's completly fine what you are having most of time. it's just something you are fanistising about. but you know it's something you will never do. don't put yourself down as it's normal and sometimes people like to have sex where they might get ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hits me--what can I do?
Q. I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15. I'm starting to worry about my relationship with her. I really love her but sometimes when I don't do what she asks she hits me. It's more of a punch to the arm or a slap. I'm worried in future years she may get ...
A. 11 July 2007: to be honest you don't need that in your relationship. my friend is in the same type of relationship as you. he won't leave her either. but anyway don't stay in this relationship if you are unhappy. it's not fair and you're right, it can get worse ... (read in full...)
How can I make my mum and dad approve of my boyfriend and allow us to marry?
Q. Ok here goes I am 16 years old and my fiance is 20 years old we are now 9 weeks pregnant and we have been together for a while, I was 15 when we got together and I'm about to be 17 in September. I want to marry him but my parents hate him and don't ...
A. 9 July 2007: first of all ur parents have control of u till ur 18 so till than there is no point tryin to make them like ur bf. and i can understand why the don't like him he is a bit older than u, i no my dad doesn't like my bf his 22 and im 17 but i can ... (read in full...)
Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?
Q. Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?...
A. 9 July 2007: well not really just don't do anything with him thats aganist the law. do ur parents no and r they ok with it, and does he no ur 14 as well. always tell the truth and if he does try anythin with u say no he can get into so much trouble if he does ... (read in full...)
I think I like my best friend more than a friend.
Q. Hi i am a fourteen years old boy I have a best friend who is a 13 year old girl but we go to diferent schools and she has a boyfriend there or so she tells me but i think i like her more then a friend what do i do...
A. 9 July 2007: stay friends with her and see what happens don't push her and u may end up finding some1 else for urself just don't try to get with her if she has a bf its not fair ... (read in full...)
I fell in love with my bf because of his personality. Even though I feel guilty afterwards, is it okay to notice and flirt w/ others?
Q. Is it okay to notice other guys when I'm out with my boyfriend or just by myself? I think he's beautiful in his own way but not attractive in the "standard" sense of what you see in the media so I feel guilty when I notice guys that don't look like ...
A. 9 July 2007: i believe even if u r in a great relationship people still look at other people boys do it and girls do it. just try not ot make it in his face so that he won't get too upset. as long as u just look but don't touch. u come home to him if u do that ... (read in full...)
I want to get back together with my ex - should I wait until after summer?
Q. hey i posted a question a while ago.. saying i wanted to get back with my ex, and now it's summer and its hard to get close as friends with him, and also he is leaving for italy with his parents for part of the summer. I dont think he wants a ...
A. 9 July 2007: well u have basically answered ur question just wait be friends with him and see what happens. don't push it if its meant to happen it will happen. good luck ... (read in full...)
I'm so mad at my gf's ex for what he did to her!! How can I control my anger?
Q. hi there .. ive been with my gf for about 4 months now .. and i just realized that a former bf of hers who i know quite well and have never really liked him.. used her and im REALLY mad because she seemed really upset .. and im jus really mad at him ...
A. 9 July 2007: there is nothing u can do. she told u about her ex as she wants to get closer to u it would be unfair to go hit her ex which he probably needs it but it is silly even if u r angry. don't worry bout it just don't be another guy that used her.... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how I can get a boy I like without actually asking him out?
Q. Right. Well i like this boy. have done for 2 years now. we used to text each other and he said i was ok and he would go out with me. but when my friends used to ask him if he liked me he said no. We have not been texting each other for about 2 ...
A. 3 July 2007: ok have u still got his number text him to ask if he wants to meet up, say sorry if my friends have embrassed u when they asked if u liked me. trust me nothing embrasseses a guy more when a girl they like friends asks them its quite scary. so when u ... (read in full...)
I am horrified at his previous relationship, she was only 15!
Q. i am 18 and in a happy, sexually active relationship with my boyfriend who's 19. my b/f has been in two previous sexually active relationships (the most recent with a girl nearly 3 years his junior). it occured to me that during his last ...
A. 3 July 2007: well u can't stop something like that from bothering you. it was in his past and as long as he is treating you right than don't worry, yes what he did was wrong but u don't know for sure if he made the 15yr old sleep with him. just be careful if u r ... (read in full...)
the day he left.
Q. ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
A. 2 July 2007: thank u dan but its my mum who is the greatest she is the one who went through it all and came back the best. Oh and the babysitter Andy left us for is now fat and my mum is now slim its really funny he left my mum for a slim 16yr old who is now a ... (read in full...)
Do even guys with attractive girlfriends check out other women?
Q. To sexy girls: do your boyfriends still look at other women? I'm in a new relationship and afraid of ruining it with my jealousy. In the past I always had boyfriends who looked at other women a lot and they would also comment on my weight and ...
A. 29 June 2007: the think is yes they do but we can't tell them to stop it its natural i have always said to my boyfriends u can look but don't touch. and im so sorry about ur exs what pigs. if ur boyfriend isn't happy with what he has got than u should leave ... (read in full...)
the day he left.
Q. ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
A. 28 June 2007: thank u. ... (read in full...)
Would he freak out if I asked to know what he thinks of me?
Q. Would it be ok if i asked him what he thought of me. Would he freak out. Would he think it is corny. HELP!!!...
A. 28 June 2007: well u won't know till u try. boys don't like but i love knowing what boys think of me i ask them on chat rooms (these r my friends by the way) or to there faces its nice to know if they do like u and not just putting up with u. ask him don't worry ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant from 'dry humping'?
Q. This guy and I messed around but I was wearing boyshorts, he rubbed his penis on my vagina through my shorts. Now, my period is late and I'm wondering... Could I be pregnant?...
A. 28 June 2007: to be honest u won't know till u have a test but i doubt if u pregent its a very small chance of u getting pregent with clothes on but like every1 else has been saying stress of u worry bout this can effected it so don't worry but if u r worried ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about whatpeople at school will think about me and my new bf. Help!
Q. ive been going out with this guy for 2 weeks (but ive been on holiday for the 2 weeks) and i saw him last night when i got back. he's a shy guy and he was really uncomfortable so he wasnt very touchy feely but we talked and it became more ...
A. 28 June 2007: hey who cars what other people think. i hated it everyone got invloved and they make it there business to no everything just don't let ir bother u and him being uncomfortable will go away its becausehe is ill experience in relationship and he ... (read in full...)
My girl wants sex all the time, but I don't--I don't know what to do!
Q. I sometimes wonder if my g/f is really serious about being with me, or just wants me for sex. I don't have a high sex drive much anymore, been there, done that so it's not my driving force like it was in my 20's. But she's always horny for me a...
A. 28 June 2007: my friend who is male is in the same situration as u even thou he is 18 he complains that she has sex everytime she is round his house at first i fault well why r u moaning every guy would love that but i guess not. i know she knows about ow u feel ... (read in full...)
I can't decide which guy to go for
Q. I have never been in a relationship, yet I like this guy, but I don't think he would ever date me. Then this other guys says he likes me, I kinda like him. Should I wait for the first guy or go for the second? I really don't know....
A. 23 June 2007: the only way u r goin 2 know if the first guy likes u is to ask him and only go out with the second guy if u do truly like him. but i think u should go out with the second guy but if ur worried u will keep asking urself what if about the first guy ... (read in full...)
Am I being insecure about the entire situation or do we have a problem? Help!
Q. Latley I've been feeling alot of confusion in my relationship. I don't know if I have real problems or if I'm making them up in my head. My boyfriend sometimes gets upset from stress. It affects his mood tremendously, sometimes he's stand offish, ...
A. 22 June 2007: i think you guys need to talk maybe the moving in was a big step and now you are there all time or maybe work has got stressful and he just needs to relax more. just talk and work out what could be a problem, until you talk you will never know if ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be so much in love yet be too much alike?
Q. I live with the love of my life!However... we are are so much alike in so many ways at times we look at each other and its like staring in a personality mirror. We can both finish each others thoughts... Say things to each other and understand one ...
A. 22 June 2007: well its good to have so much incommom its true opposites attract but people who have the same thoughts and feelings is also good so don't worry about that. and the arguments and than relaising what was that for is normal. so don't worry and who ... (read in full...)
He keeps cheating on me and I keep taking him back because I love him
Q. Hi ppl, im 19 yrs old and i was in a relationship for 3 years,we broke up coz he cheated on me twice..he says he loves me..it seems like im the girl he has a serious relationship with,but flirts around with other girls too..i broke up with him...
A. 22 June 2007: no matter how hard you try u just can't seem to get him out of your head its just what happens with ur first love but u can get him out of your head but don't go finding some1 else as it will make u feel worse. stay away from him the only reason why ... (read in full...)
I think I'm losing her to another guy
Q. Okay i have been with this girl for 4 months now and i trust her and love her to no end but every time i cant hang out she goes and hangs out with this other guy. The way our summer schedule has worked out we haven't been able to see each other for ...
A. 22 June 2007: i think she is trying to make u jelious and ur playin in to it. maybe u should break up if she doesn't want to meet up with u and u havent seen eachother for month maybe this is the end sorry. or u could talk to her about things like what is ... (read in full...)
I get shy when I really like someone
Q. ok, so I really like this guy...we made out last week after we went out clubbing, and we haven't mentioned it since...i get really weird when things like this happen because i'm just really shy and am intimidated when i really like ...
A. 22 June 2007: as 2day is ur last day tell talk 2 him maybe ask him what he thinks of what happen the night u guys made out i no ur shy but u will get over it the more u talk to people. good luck xxx... (read in full...)
We're in love but her step dad doesn't like me
Q. I'm in a similar situation. I love my 32 year old cousin's daughter. i didn't even know my 32 year old cousin was my cousin. Well my cousin's daughter is my age and she loves me too, we love each other so much. I don't know what to do my parents ...
A. 21 June 2007: her step dad is just tryin to protect his step daughter and the fac u r so close to be family that he doesn't like. just wait he may come a round and if u like eachother enough u can wait.... (read in full...)
I am 16 and I am in love with a 23 year old guy...but he's got a girlfriend! What should I do?
Q. i am 16 and i am in love with a 23 year old guy, he is perfect in every single way but he already has a girlfriend, what should i do? i can't get him out of my head and whenever we see each other we always have a really good chat. help! what should ...
A. 21 June 2007: oh hun i have been there im 17 and his 22 but he was single and i was but im the boss daughter and every1 found out so that ruined everythin. so im going to give u the advise that everyone else gave me here. he has a gf whivh i no makes it more fun ... (read in full...)
Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 21 June 2007: ooooooooooooo if its in London i just have to catch the train that would be so weird to meet u all lol but i don't mind lets see what Andrew thinks lol ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a guy, now after having sex several times later, I've got these strange signs that something's wrong. Please help!
Q. ..After i lost my virginity to my boyfrend of 1 year he got agressive with me and made my life hell being too jealous. So i finished us and moved away..But after having sex a couple of times I've noticed thick creamy discharge and it hurts when i ...
A. 21 June 2007: u may have picked up from ur bf a sex disease i will advise u 2 go 2 ur doctor as u r due to have a test soon as u have just had sex, go soon as possile the quicker u treat it the sooner it will be over and u may have to tell u boyfrind he will have ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I think I've got the first sings of pregnant. Do you think I am?
Q. Im 15, Ive had alot of the first signs of pregnancy like morning sickness, thrown up twice, sick stomach feeling, tiredness, backaches and headaches, Could I be Pregnant?? Please reply soon, I need all the advice I can get!! ...
A. 21 June 2007: well its good that u no the signs of pregency but the only way u r going to find out is through a test, than u may have to start thinkin about what this can mean 4 u ur family and ur boyfriend and his family ur school work his school work. good luck ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl. How do I find out more about her without being too obvious?
Q. I really like this girl. I just need some advice on how i can talk to her more, find out what she's interested in? How do i do that without being too obvious. We are goin out on a date, but i want to know her bit more and make her feel really easy ...
A. 21 June 2007: well if u don't want to be obvious but u want to find out u should get her MSM (thats if she got one). just ask her questions bout her that doesn't mean u fancy her it just shows u are interseted in her views and stuff and girls like that. just be ... (read in full...)
Im getting to like him more each time I see him, but theres no physhical attraction!!
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A. 20 June 2007: well u could stay friends with him as there isn't any physcial attraction which can make ur eyes wonder but personality is the best part of a guy most good looking guys just relay on there good looks to get them somewhere (but not saying all) so ... (read in full...)
My friends hate him and I am scared he will break my heart
Q. I used to date this boy for 3 years but it was on and off but we really like each other. He kept doing stupid things like he had anger problems and would always yell at me. My friends hated us being together but sometimes hed be fun and sweet. my ...
A. 20 June 2007: listen to ur friends ever heard the sayin boyfriends and girlfriends come and go byt friends and family last forever thats the way u have got to think bout it u can do some much more better than this guy just been friends with him thats the best way ... (read in full...)
I'm not sexually attracted to my husband! Any advice?
Q. When I was in highschool, I fell in love with a guy who broke my heart 6 mon.after we started seeing each other. His younger brother started coming over to my house after the break up and we'd hang out, sometimes go for pizza or a movie. Then one ...
A. 20 June 2007: well after the affairs u have lost the feelings for him like flower girls says go counselling and maybe sex counselling as well its not fair on any of u and there still has to be a reason that u go home to him after work u still care for him just ... (read in full...)
I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. Should I do it with him?
Q. I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. He wants me to come over to night and have sex with him. Should I do it with him?...
A. 20 June 2007: well honestly NO u shouldn't u are givin up somethin really special to u and u want to give it up at ur age they are loads of conquences that can happen like getting pregent and diseses and u and ur bf can get into a lot of trouble its against the ... (read in full...)
What do I do... tell my lover how I feel and risk him ending our relationship... or carry on trying to hide the fact I love him?
Q. Relationship advice wanted.... i'm in a sexless marriage with a 12 year old child...... there has been no intimacy within the marriage for 8 years but I stay for the sake of the child and because frankly it seems like too much upheaval and upset to ...
A. 20 June 2007: well the longer u leave it the worst it will getbut it could be a good thing that this fling might stop than u could go sex counselling maybe u need to get back into ur relationship with ur husband, there still has to be something there for husband ... (read in full...)
Not sure if flirty guy really likes me or not
Q. So for the past 6 weeks, I have had class with this guy and there has been flirting between us. Last week, we decided to go out after an exam...and his friends were supposed to go as well. When I showed up to his apartment, he informed me that his ...
A. 20 June 2007: well i love the way he got u round and u ended up alone. maybe he does like u but don't rush into things get to know him first there could be things u don't like bout him but well done for sayin no to him that was a shock to him. good luck xxx
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