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A female age 36-40, wendy23 writes:

This is a true story of love and lost. When I was 12 years old I met this 15 year guy he was very handsome he had the whole package, my parents loved him, his parents loved me, we spent every minute together, we dated for 4 years before we ever had sex because he said he wanted me to be ready, right then I knew he was the one for me, well on my 16th d=day we made love for the first time it was a very special monemt for me even though I knew he had been with other females, that didn't matter, well afterwards we told me that he loved me and that we would be together for the rest of our lives. 3 months into our realsonship I fought out I was pregent, we used protection but it busted, I was so scared what was I going to do with a baby when I myself was only 16 and a child myself. well, I just knew that we was going to be there with me and for our baby when I told him I expected him to be a little worried but thought we could get trough it together, he told me that we wanted nothing to do with me or the baby and to never come around again, I couldn't believe what I was hearing, after 4 years and all the wonderful things he had said to me, it has been 7 years and I am now a 23 year old mother of 2 children and married to the man of my dreams he has even adopted my 7 year old, the reason I'm writing this story is to let all of you young ladies to please take your time don't try to grow up to fast, don't rush into anything, take your time enjoy being a teenager, I lost the best years of my teenage years because I was busy raising a child, who I would take nothing for in this world, even though he may tell you he loves you and wants it to be special please be careful think ahead, he may be telling the truth, but most are just wanting to get into your pants. You do it when your ready not when he's ready, and if he gets mad or it he breaks up with you well then you won that battle because you don't want someone like that, I had to learn the hard way, Listen to that little voice inside you and you will do the right thing, Good luck to all of you and best wishes. Wendy A.

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