Is my teacher a pervert?
Q. Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships ar...
A. 7 January 2008: Report him, it always amazes me how other girls don't think these teacher will do it to other girls, I'm glad you realise he will. Point is with you, he managed to hold himself back but with another girl...he may go that step further. Go to the head ... (read in full...)
I woke up having sex with a friend of my FWB. I'm worried he will tell my FWB, whom I actually like!
Q. ive been seeing a guy for about 2 years he used 2 live near me when he was at uni but moved this summer, me and him are good friends and very close, and when he was here we used 2 be with each other all the time, we used to be sexual too. he's move...
A. 6 January 2008: I have a feeling this guy won't say anything, even more so if it was rape. I think you should be thinking about that then this boy you like.... (read in full...)
This girl is notorious on chasing after other girls boyfriends, and now she is after mine! What do I do to make her back off?
Q. I have some friends that I've had since elementary school (we are all in our 2nd year of university now). One of them has over the years turned into a bit of a party girl, and she's notorious for sleeping with other girls boyfriends. I'll call her ...
A. 6 January 2008: What an horrible woman. I hope that once she meets a man who she falls in love with, an woman will come along and seduce him.
Your really going too have to trust your b/f on this one. If I was you I be calling this 'freind' all sort of names too ... (read in full...)
He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk ...
A. 5 January 2008: I have a feeling you didn't say stop because you knew he wouldn't stop...your posts dont add up, anyway goodluck! It sounds like he has learn his lesson... (read in full...)
Underage and having a relationship with a married man! - what do I do?
Q. Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do....
A. 5 January 2008: Your 13 and having an relationship with an married man? end it right now, if you are 13 then this man is a pedophile. I don't care if your not actually having sex, it's wrong on so many levels. ... (read in full...)
He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk ...
A. 4 January 2008: Even though you may not have said STOP, you said in your post that
"and he kept asking me if it was hurtin and i kept sayin yes"
That means he knew you were in pain and getting pleasure from it. You know what, if you weren't going to take ou... (read in full...)
I have had sex once but I don't wish to repeat the experience since I'm underage. What can I do to keep my bf interested?
Q. Hi, I Am 14 Years Old, And I Have Had Sex With My (Also 14 Years Old) Boyfriend. However, It Was The Once, And I Want To Keep It To The Once But He Wants It More Now. I Dont Want To Lose Him Becuase I Love Him But I Want To Wait Til I Am Legal (...
A. 4 January 2008: Why did you have sex with him if you weren't going too do it again? what have you got to gain in that? you must realise he would want more. You opened up a gate now, you should end it if you want to wait which you should have done in the first place... (read in full...)
He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk ...
A. 4 January 2008: it was hurtin that badly i started cryin and shaking, and he kept asking me if it was hurtin and i kept sayin yes. this went on for about 10 minutes ************************ End it now, he knew you were hurting. Like you said, you were crying an... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin with spots. Will this put the boys off me?
Q. I am a 15 yr old girl and i have been single for around a year now. i feel its the right time to get a boyfreind but there are non anywere and i feel none will like me because i am a virgin and i have spots which i feel put them off me. i dont have ...
A. 3 January 2008: Boys won't dislike you for being an virgin! don't worry about that. To meet boys, well join a club, get a part time job as you be around lots of boys there. At school try and talk to boys more. Don't be in any rush though, it happen when it happens.... (read in full...)
Is there any danger of me contracting an STI?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend today for the first time. (We were both virgins before). I'm happy about it, except from one thing. We didn't use protection because it wasn't really planned. If I go and get the morning after pill tomorrow, should...
A. 3 January 2008: You should have been at school at 3!... (read in full...)
I am a good mother, but since my ex upset my kids they've distanced themselves from me. Is there anything I can do to get things back how they were?
Q. i have 5 daughters i have been a good mother. I met a man who upset them and was rude we have now finished but now the family have distanced themselves i have tried to be nice and friendly but i am disabled and no one visits me and i am ...
A. 2 January 2008: What was this man like? He must have been really bad to get all your daughters to turn against you, point is they think you weren't strong enough to protect them against this man. Youre going to have too say sorry and take things slowly... (read in full...)
Why do women love to be treated badly?
Q. Now this will cause a stir.. and to the girls on this board. i mean no offence but someone has to say it. Why do women like/love to be treated like crap? i'm 25 years old. i don't drink, don't smoke. and i don't do drugs. i'm by no means God...
A. 1 January 2008: Okay thats a load of bull. I'm sure most women don't wake up and think, "Im gonna get myself an badass man who treats me like crap!" Don't put all women in one box male anonymous, Alot of women don't play games and don't like men that act like ... (read in full...)
My mother does not let me see this boy because "the apple doesn't go far from the tree" (she dislikes his father.) Suggestions?
Q. dear cupid, theres a boy that i love very much but my parents will not let me see him outside of school and its really taking a toll on our relationship. they wont let me see him because he has a father (in which he never sees) that my mother d...
A. 1 January 2008: Your pretty young, at your age your mum knows best so listen. ... (read in full...)
Why do women love to be treated badly?
Q. Now this will cause a stir.. and to the girls on this board. i mean no offence but someone has to say it. Why do women like/love to be treated like crap? i'm 25 years old. i don't drink, don't smoke. and i don't do drugs. i'm by no means God...
A. 1 January 2008: What sort of women are you after? maybe your chasing the wrong ones? A lot of women like the bad boy types as they want to 'change' them, once they realise they can't and move on, they learnt their lesson.
Every women wants an decent guy to settl... (read in full...)
I want to make out with him, but I'm worried I'll make a fool of myself!
Q. i have had a boyfriend for a month, and i really want to make out with him...but im worried that when it comes time, ill mess up and make a fool of myself. Help!!...
A. 1 January 2008: Go with the flow, let him lead and just follow. Your get it... (read in full...)
16, attracted to a 12 year old. Is this wierd?
Q. I'm a 16 year old male. Yesterday evening I was at a party with my family, a girl was also there with her family..I couldn't take my eyes off her, I felt extremely attracted to her...and I'm fairly sure she liked me too. Problem is...she can't have ...
A. 1 January 2008: I got an 12yr old sister, she and her freinds are still kids. They do not have the mental ability to have an serious relationship with an older person. It is very strange that you fancy an 12yr old, your in yr11 right? maybe even college. This girl ... (read in full...)
How do I get this boy to leave me alone?
Q. Theres this boy at School who likes me. He stocks me,fallows me and keeps calling my name. I usely ignore people I don't even like as a friend. I block them out. He keeps telling me how pretty I am and keeps asking me out. I don't even...
A. 31 December 2007: Ignoring isn't working! get tough, start insulting him. Tell him to stop stalking you and say your not intrested, do something too get him to back off. ... (read in full...)
My partners daughter resents me, how do I handle this?
Q. Dear Cupid. This has got to be a recurrent problem. I adore my partner. We met at work, and our feelings grew from there. She has 3 children, the eldest, a boy of 18, and the youngest, who is a girl of 8, have presented, and continue to pres...
A. 31 December 2007: You really have got too give it time and be patience. Their both very young and just want their dad. ... (read in full...)
My newly single neighbour is 15 years older than me, I'd like advice on how to get her into bed
Q. I have known this very beautiful and fun woman in my neighborhood for about ten years. We have been friends and have enjoyed doing many things together. I am 20 and she is 35. About a year ago she was divorced and her ex is not in the picture. She ...
A. 31 December 2007: Dont keep asking, she may start thinking your harassing her. Just try and kiss her, if she dosen't respound then you got your answer, she may have seen the sex as a one off thing. ... (read in full...)
How do you get over an abusive relationship when you're being framed as the crazy person?
Q. Recently my boyfriend broke up with me. This relationship has lasted over a year. It was at first the greatest thing I had, but became abusive - I seemed to be blind and held onto it because I remembered his kind self at the beginning and hoped he ...
A. 30 December 2007: I know how frustrating this must be for you, but he's only doing this too get you annoyed. Just try and forget about him, pretend you don't care but make it clear to people who ask that HE was the problem. He's obviously crazy so just keep away from ... (read in full...)
Should I move on or follow my heart and wait??
Q. Hey:) Heres whats up. I'm 15 and im in love with a guy 29, he's not a teacher or nothin either. I met him when I was 12 yrs old but I didnt think much of him I was just starting to get into boys my own age. When I turned 13 I started getting ...
A. 30 December 2007: Your too young for him, I have no ideal why your mum wants you two to get together! he properly just sees you as a freind, and he properly think its childish your mum told him you fancied him. ... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid thinking he had another girl over??
Q. I don't know if i am being paranoid or not. My b/f of three years bought a new toliet seat cover and it was laying there for awhile. Meanwhile--in the three years that i have been with him--he has never really straighted up anything(like placing ...
A. 30 December 2007: He said he wanted to tidy his place up and he did! where's the problem? just think if he had a girl over, would he have time to really clean up his flat? Sounds like he wanted a day too get things sorted out, and he has. ... (read in full...)
Torn between two brilliant online girls who I both care for but I know I have to pick one.
Q. I have met two incredible girls online and have met one of them but with the one i haven't met yet we have already arranged to go away in March for her birthday. I am having to talk to the one i haven't met yet online because i am currently on ...
A. 30 December 2007: Is this serious? this is online. You only met one online and you arranged a holiday with the other one!! Your a perfect reason you can't trust people online, your playing both of these girls. ... (read in full...)
I discovered my husband's infidelity, now he is very insecure, afraid I'd leave him. Why is he doing this? How can I help him?
Q. I caught my husband in an affair, I have forgiven him now he never wants to be alone, it is as if I had the affair. I feel as if he is afraid I am going to leave him, I told him I love him, but I will never love him the same or feel the same as ...
A. 29 December 2007: I read that cheating partners get more controlling of their partner because their afraid that they may cheat and they have to forgive them as you forgave them. Just a thought... (read in full...)
What would you say, how young is too young?
Q. Right then, I'd just like to ask your opinions on "how young is too young"? I'm 22, and have feelings for a younger girl, she's 15. I don't care about sex, I just have loads of feelings at the moment for her, I feel like she's too young, she ...
A. 29 December 2007: Yes she is, wait till she's 16 then make a move on her. I dont know why you would want to date an school girl anyway, your way out of your teen years. ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I'm in love with a 19 year old...what should I do?
Q. ok i'm 13 and i'm in love with this 19 year old guy and he really loves me for me. but he is scared to ask me out because of the age different. but he wants no sex or anything. he doesn't even mind people seeing us together. should we go out or not? ...
A. 28 December 2007: NO, you're 13! he is a possible pedophile. Keep away from him... (read in full...)
Why won't he pleasure me?
Q. dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his ...
A. 28 December 2007: Why oh why are you still pleasuring him? I read about alot of girls going through this, it's very selfish behaviour but your letting him get away with it! Do you really want to be with man like this? talk too him about it, tell him to change. If he ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy, he has a girlfriend but I don't think he likes her very much. I want to be with him, what can I do??
Q. Hey guys i really need some help, im 19 years old and have hada lot of shit in my life.last year was my first year in college and towards the end of the year i realised i had feelings for my housemate, a guy ive known for seven years and never ...
A. 28 December 2007: He has a g/f, how would you feel if you had a b/f and a girl tried to creep up on him? I bet you wouldn't like it. If he didn't like his g/f, he wouldn't be with her. Try finding an single guy who you connect with, seems more of a lust thing between ... (read in full...)
Is it love or do I just want to keep control over her?
Q. Very complicated situation but I'll try to summarize it. I'm a 23 year old guy and I broke up with my long term girlfriend about a year ago. We went out for 2 years, had an on/off relationship for a while (I was the one who kept breaking it off)...
A. 28 December 2007: Depends, do you want an serious relationship with her? if not then let her move on. If you do and don't want too lose her, then win her back. Up too you... (read in full...)
I'm intrigued by my female teacher but I'm not gay, so what is going on?
Q. So heres the deal im 15 and my teachers 40. I dont know if its infatuation or developing into love but sometimes the way she looks at me or approaches me I could really have a chance with herbut then other times I know its impossible. Im thinking ...
A. 28 December 2007: Ever heard of a girl crush? loads of girl have them, I still get them at 18 but never on a teacher mind you. She's your teacher, just look at her from afar and maybe you can tell her after you graduate? One of my freinds fancied an male teacher, she ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and he is 15, would it be wrong for us to be together considering this age gap?
Q. I am 17 and a senior in high school..and i have this friend that i think i am starting to like but the problem is he is only 15 and a freshman in high school...we go to school and church together and stuff and i am wondering could it be possible for ...
A. 28 December 2007: 2 years is not a lot. If you said he was 14, I would say he was off limits. You know what this guy is like, if you hope to have an sexual relationship that be a no no as your be the one to get into trouble. Teenager age gaps are huge but if he's ... (read in full...)
How can I prevent her leaving and going hundreds of miles away to school?
Q. im i4 year's old, i have the greatest girlfriend a guy could ask for.she is very atractive she has a good personality. and she is very ahppy about our reltionship. I also feel very strong about it. we have been going out for a few month's, and we ...
A. 27 December 2007: Your both very young, I'm afraid to say there's nothing you can do. You could still visit her but you got to let her go. If its meant too be, your meet up again when your both adults... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that I slept in the same bed as another guy, even though it was platonic?
Q. I went out with my friends a few days before xmas, and it got quite late, so i stayed at a friends house. There were only two double beds, and four of us. The couple got one, and i was left to the other one, having to share with my male friend who i ...
A. 27 December 2007: Dont tell him, simple. Your really making a big deal out of this, you didn't do anything! yes you shouldn't have shared a bed with this guy, even more so as he fancies and you and you put yourself in risk in a way.
Your bf sounds the very jeal... (read in full...)
To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?
Q. What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ...
A. 27 December 2007: shaved chest! looks so much better, I feel that hairy chest are for older men ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?
Q. I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... ...
A. 27 December 2007: Why are you taking the fall? what your sister and husband did was disgusting, I have a sister and would NEVER do anything like this too her, if she slept with my b/f I would tell all my family. I dont understand why you want to protect them, after ... (read in full...)
How do I resist the temptation to cheat?
Q. How do i resist the temptation to cheat? I have been with my girlfriend for four years and i have always been faithful but every now and then a very very tempting offer comes up. A couple years ago a gorgeous girl started working with me and we ...
A. 26 December 2007: 'The way guys are' well you seem to be doing pretty well so far, why give up now? You should tell your g/f about this and she'll properly be able to help you or give more strength into you. If not, then dump her, dont hurt her feelings even more by ... (read in full...)
How can we show them it is for real and how can I find out if all he wants is sex??
Q. Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go ...
A. 25 December 2007: Doc right but it seems you won't take that advice. If you expect people to give you advice like your an adult, well you got another thing coming! You say your gonna make your b/f wait, then you can tell if he wants just sex! you know how pathetic ... (read in full...)
I don't want to get him arrested - what should I do?
Q. there is this boy who is 4 years older that me we both love each other but both sets of parents don't approve n mine say if i ever see him again thay will get him arrested.i do want to see him again but i dnt want him to get hurt or arrested what do ...
A. 24 December 2007: Don't see him again. Both sets of parents don't agree, that must mean something too you! How old are you? 13? stop being stupid ... (read in full...)
Is 13 - 17 too much of an age gap??
Q. Im 13 turning 14 in a month. He's 17 turning 18 in a month. Is he to old for me? He's had sex and i havent i told him that and he is absoulute cool with it. But is he to old by 4 years? x...
A. 23 December 2007: Fairy_Lu how old are you? do you not remember being an teenager??
You two have an HUGE age gap, you know as well as I do that in teenage years, two years is a lot. I'm 18 and would never dream of dating an 13/14yr old, nor would any of my frein... (read in full...)
Is it ok for me to date a girl that my friend had or has liked?
Q. Ok my friend obsesed over a girl for the last few months and seemed to really like her. Well i went to a party with him and met her. We talked a lot and messed around together and had a lot of fun. Then this entire time my friend kept giving me ugly ...
A. 22 December 2007: You're going to have to chose between freindship or a girlfreind, do you really like this girl? you're risking losing your freind trust if you do it but all I can say is, get to know this girl more on a friend level and see if it's worth the risk. ... (read in full...)
I can't see why my parents won't accept my boyfriend only because he used to go out with my sister. She has gone away to have their child with another man anyway, so what's the problem?
Q. I'm 15 and am currently dating an 18yr old boy. But my family wont accept him because he is going to be the father of my sisters baby. I started sleeping with him when she was with him but then she caught us and dumped him. She's also moved away to ...
A. 22 December 2007: There's EVERYTHING wrong with this situation, you betrayed your sister by sleeping with the father of her baby. He is older than you, it's against the law at 16 to have sex with an minor. This boy and you are sick... (read in full...)
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