I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?
Q. I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been ...
A. 11 February 2008: Sounds all good, the reason I wanted you to tell her is because I don't feel you can be trusted in a strip club. As your not going there anymore, I see no problem. ... (read in full...)
I can't see why my parents won't accept my boyfriend only because he used to go out with my sister. She has gone away to have their child with another man anyway, so what's the problem?
Q. I'm 15 and am currently dating an 18yr old boy. But my family wont accept him because he is going to be the father of my sisters baby. I started sleeping with him when she was with him but then she caught us and dumped him. She's also moved away to ...
A. 22 December 2007: There's EVERYTHING wrong with this situation, you betrayed your sister by sleeping with the father of her baby. He is older than you, it's against the law at 16 to have sex with an minor. This boy and you are sick... (read in full...)
My friend is really irritating me, and I can't take her crap anymore. What should I do?
Q. I have a friend who lies about basically everything. She even made up a rumour about one of our other friends having a backstreet abortion. To be honest I think that's sick. She's aparently been pregnant twice, once she had an abortion (she would ...
A. 21 December 2007: I had a freind like this! my 'freind' said she had cancer and had an operation to remove it, sick I know. These peop;e do it for attention and need help. If I was you I'd confront her about it then ditch her... (read in full...)
I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?
Q. I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been ...
A. 21 December 2007: Well I wouldn't tell her IF you stop going to strip clubs, she trusted you and you betrayed that trust. You also may see that stripper again. If you still want too go then your wife has a right to know what happened. ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and a virgin, and feeling very pressured by my friends
Q. i am 14 and there are not many virgins in my year i am a virgin and i feel presured into having sex all my freinds have either been fingerd or wanked of someone i havent. am i a freak? or are "they too youg too soon" is it me or everyone else? a boy ...
A. 20 December 2007: who are you hanging with? I never had that at 14. Of cource most 14yr old are virgins, alot are properly lieing. Just be proud of the fact your a virgin, in a couple of years time you look back and think how slutty they all were.... (read in full...)
I think my 15 year old son was looking at my porn collection, how do I approach him?
Q. i believe my 15 yr old son has been looking at my few porn dvd collections which i kept well away from view in my room. i saw they ave been disturbed and one found under d bed where it should not be(maybe left in a hurry)I ave now gotten rid of a...
A. 19 December 2007: I think you should leave it, just because his looking at porn dosen't mean he's having sex. Remove the porn and don't speak about it, he'll will realise you removed it. ... (read in full...)
I have never been cheated on and I had imagined we'd be together forever. Should I excuse his infidelity?
Q. So here is my problem, plain and clear: My boyfriend makes no god damn sense. I am 22 years old. I am in University for engineering with a 4.0 GPA. I work out 5-6 days a week and I weigh 125 pounds, I am in top notch shape. I keep every part of ...
A. 19 December 2007: It's not all about looks, some guys fall for personality you know and you need to stop thinking about her looks but what she's got inside that you didn't.
Maybe your more of a buddy to him, you play games with him, help him with his car, you let ... (read in full...)
I like a Canadian girl but I'm afraid she'll reject me because I'm not Canadian.
Q. I want to ask a girl out, but I'm afraid of something. She's popular, not too popular but not a noname. This might seem stupid but, i'm afraid she'll reject me because i'm not Canadian. Shes Canadian, and was born here etc. I was born in Ukraine and ...
A. 16 December 2007: People aren't really giving you honest answers, in England I rarely see people with european with strong accents. But you say you haven't got an accent? and your name dosen't sound Ukraine so I see no reason for her to be close minded. ... (read in full...)
I thought I was straight but I fell for my female collegue, but I want a husband and children also. Do I stay with my lesbian lover, or get back with my ex boyfriend?
Q. im at yhe peak of my career when things started to stumble, i was introduced to a new office mate, she is intelligent, sexy and pretty, we get along very well, we became close friends, most of the time we share our pants, shoes, foods, lipstick and ...
A. 16 December 2007: birdynumnums right, you don't have to give up your dreams of having children. One of you can carry an child or you both can adopt. You been together three years, I think it's time you came out of the closet! change your christain faith and realise ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm ruining something good before it even starts! How can I reverse the damage I'm doing?
Q. Hi everyone. I posted a question recently, and it changed and changed as time has gone on, so I thought I would post something fresh, and get some new prespectives. Last night I went out with a friend, drinking. We eventually met up with a group ...
A. 15 December 2007: aww, you really shouldn't have left that voice message! but she either find it cute or think your a bit strange. If she phones, don't even mention it. Just ask her out and act a bit cooler ... (read in full...)
Our age difference is hurting him and people are calling him "paedo"... should I break this off?
Q. Heyz! i am a 13 year old girl.. dating a.. 18 year old guy. i know there is a big age difference. My problem is that our age difference is hurting him. everyone has been calling him a pedophile, telling him he will go to jail. He fakes a smile ev...
A. 15 December 2007: Wait so he's a freind? is he calling you his b/f? If he's not touching you in an sexual way then I don't see anything wrong with the freinship, but I still find it strange he's mates with an 13yr old. I'm 18 and wouldn't be freinds with someone that ... (read in full...)
Our age difference is hurting him and people are calling him "paedo"... should I break this off?
Q. Heyz! i am a 13 year old girl.. dating a.. 18 year old guy. i know there is a big age difference. My problem is that our age difference is hurting him. everyone has been calling him a pedophile, telling him he will go to jail. He fakes a smile ev...
A. 14 December 2007: Break it off now. The reason he's getting called all those names because it's very strange a man his age is intrested in an 13yr old girl. Keep away from him. I promise you, in a couple of years you will look back and realise how sick he was. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in jail for abusing his sister when she was younger... Am I stupid for staying with him?
Q. Well, my boyfriend is in jail now. He has been in there for almost 7 months. His sister called the cops and told them that he raped her ever since she was 8 and he was 10. Of course, i didnt believe her, but he is in jail, but then again, all the ...
A. 14 December 2007: Yes you are stupid, very stupid. He's a very sick man who needs to be locked up forever, what an horrible disgusting excuse of a man. ... (read in full...)
I respect her wish of remaining virgin until marriage but I'm tempted to cheat. What should I do?
Q. i'm having a problem with this girl i'm dating, she's a 27 years old virgin who never been touched by a man ever. we are together for 4 years now and i have never seen her naked! i respect her wish of remaining virgin till marriage but it's killing ...
A. 14 December 2007: I really like her? don't you mean love her?? Also you been together for four years, why haven't you asked her to marry you by now? There's obviously big problems in your relationship, get out or ask her to marry you. It's been four years so...... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and he's 28
Q. So we've sort of known each other (only in a certain context, through which we met) for over a year and about a week ago we admitted to having feelings for each other...We both know that this is a rather delicate situation and we know that there are ...
A. 13 December 2007: When I was 17 an guy wouldn't date me because of the age diffrence, he was 28 as well. He was a pretty decent guy. I admire him for that looking back. And yes the age diffrence is too big, why would he want an 16yr old girl at his age? Nearly ... (read in full...)
He wont go down on me until we are married but we aren't even engaged.
Q. I have been with my man for a little over 2 years and he won't go down on me, he has NEVER gone down on me or anyone else for that matter. He says he'll do it when we are married (not that we are even engaged yet!) but sometimes he teases me and ...
A. 12 December 2007: You might just have a guy who dosen't like doing it, which is a shame because you do it for him though you don't like it much. Very selfish on his part... (read in full...)
My wife says no sex until I loose weight! Am I wrong to be thinking I shouldn't have to lose weight to save my marriage?
Q. my wife married met me, married me, and great sex with me, i was a big man when she met me....now we've been married for 5 years and fot the last few years, she dosnt want to have sex with me anymore becasue of my weight, she says i need to lose ...
A. 12 December 2007: Maybe you have put on a lot of weight, she's not attracted too you anymore, at least she's telling you this instead of you standing there, shaking your head and wondering why your wife won't have sex with you. Lose some weight, thats it. Bloody hell... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.
Q. Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been tog...
A. 12 December 2007: If your g/f really against it then stop looking at it, and what I mean by that is don't have an collection, just look at the sites sometimes when she's not around. You obviously can't love her if your picking porn over her! god your not worth it ... (read in full...)
Should I choose my boyfriend or his brother?
Q. I am in a completely odd situation. Along time ago I met this guy I thought was so hot. I of course flirted with him and gave him my number. He called me and we talked a lot, sometimes late into the night. And then everything just ended. He never ...
A. 12 December 2007: well I hate to remind you but you got a daughte with your b/f! your not a care-free single girl anymore and ever will be again, now you have a child thats all gone. Your b/f brother LEFT YOU, he didn't want too be with you. If your not happy with ... (read in full...)
He wants to leave me for his male friend!!! How do I deal with this?
Q. On Saturday a good friend of mine told me she'd seen my husband in a restaurant with my best friend's husband - and that what she saw was disgusting. She said she'd seen the two of them in a restaurant having a romantic meal and overheard them s...
A. 11 December 2007: Thank your lucky stars you found out NOW and not twenty years down the line where you wasted half your life with this man. Move on and find an straight man... (read in full...)
15, pregnant, and my parents are angry with me. What should I do?
Q. I am 15 and pregnant. I am soooo scared but feel that with support i can do this. My boyfriend has just turned 18, he is my brothers friend. He says he will support me whatever happens, he has a good job and says he will do everything to support his ...
A. 10 December 2007: Your only 15...I totally understand why your parents are freaking out and blaming the boy, he is older than you and can get done for sleeping with an underage girl. Your parents WILL calm down and allow him to see you, but you must give it time. You ... (read in full...)
We hug, cuddle up, even hold hands - how can I get her to see me as a lover rather than a brother?
Q. Heyy, im a 13 year old boy, and i REALLY love my best friend, she knows how i feel but she says "sorry, i just dont feel the same way" she's like a sister and i know she loves me, she just isnt admiting it,we hug, cuddle up, even hold hands but ...
A. 9 December 2007: Isn't that enough? Your only 13yr old. Do you want to have sex with her? ... (read in full...)
Should a guy still be a gentleman?
Q. Should a guy still be a gentleman? Should i open car doors, Pay for dinner, Give compliments or write poetry? Or should i go down the pub while my girlfriend stays home and iron my clothes and gets ready to "Give me some" when i get home? I try to d...
A. 9 December 2007: Sounds pretty good for me! and not all girls like the bad guys, I wouldn't put up with a man who went off the pub all night and came home expecting some. Um no way! ... (read in full...)
After loosing virginity, I don't think of sex much.
Q. Alright, I'm wondering why I haven't felt so eager about sex and whatnot recently... A few weeks back I lost my virginity, and since then I've been sexually active with another girl too. The thing is though, before I lost my virginity I thought a...
A. 9 December 2007: Sex always seems better than it actually is! maybe your one of those people who needs to be in love to really enjoy sex, and thats a great quality to have.... (read in full...)
How often should I change my pad?
Q. I just got my first period 3 days ago i was wondering how often should i change my pad?...
A. 8 December 2007: Everytime you go too the loo, thats what I was taught... (read in full...)
My-bf and his friend have seen escorts while we were broken up. I am determined to stop our relationship. Any advice?
Q. Well I feel unbelievably jaded right now. My boyfriend and I had broken up. I broke up with him for GOOD reason. And no he hadn't cheated on me. YET. Anyways we got back together about two and half months after breaking up. Two days later I found ...
A. 8 December 2007: I have the same reaction, you did the right thing by leaving him. ... (read in full...)
I fantasise about men but the thought of doing it for real it repulses me...am I gay??
Q. I fantasise about being with men all the time, more than women. I also fantasise about being a woman satisfying men but when it comes to doing it for real the thought repulses me. Is this normal, am i gay?...
A. 8 December 2007: I think your bottling up your true desires. Don't listen to Heartly, Obviously an relgious nut who believes all gay people have daddies problems!
Your either gay or bisexual, your maybe repulsed by the actual thought of doing it for real because ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether my trainee teacher is being "too nice..."
Q. Hey, im sorry guys if these seems stupid but i really need some help. There is this trainee teacher at school and everyone says he likes me far too much. He asks everyone where i am if he cant see me and he always comes to sit with us at lunch to ...
A. 8 December 2007: Tell someone off this guy! if he like this when he's trainee, think about when he becomes an actual teacher. I put in an world of complaint to the head.... (read in full...)
He watches porn, should I be worried.
Q. My boyfriend and I are 30 years old.I am not sure if I should be worried about this or not.I have been with my him for 13 months now. I have known from the day one of the relationship that he watches porn on the computer and he a has several porn ...
A. 7 December 2007: Does he know how upset you are by it? Guys watch porn thats a fact, but everyday? thats a bit high. Tell him how you feel and see if it cools down a bit. If it dosen't, he may be addicted to it. ... (read in full...)
My husband has sex dreams every night and I am upset!
Q. My husband has strange bedtime habits - insight would be greatly appreciated. When he falls asleep he very often starts moaning, making noises like he's enjoying sex, occassionally he mutters something, and he is clealy in a sexually arroused state. ...
A. 6 December 2007: Is it keeping you awake? I can understand that. But if it's really annoying you, see a sleep expert and get it sorted... (read in full...)
13, My boyfriend wants Sex from me, but I don't think I'm ready. Can you help me?
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 wks and 5 days and he wants to have sex with me and im still a virgin and he is'nt i dont know if im ready or not how would i know if im ready or not. ...
A. 6 December 2007: Dump this guy, if he's already sex at 13 then he's a bad apple. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a paedophile?
Q. I started talking to an older guy at the age of 14. I am now 23 and he and I are happily married. He was 22 at the time. The problem is this... now that I am older, I wonder if maybe my boyfriend is a pedophile? I read up on the internet that there ...
A. 6 December 2007: Your like this because you realise it was wrong a man his age pursing you at 14. This happens to alot of young kids when they grow up, they realise how perverted that person was! You need to have a serious talk with you husband about your ... (read in full...)
Can a gay/bisexual man have a committed relationship with a women while still looking at gay porn??
Q. Ok this is a very big problem. I've been having. I moved in with my boyfriend 7 months ago. We've known each other for over a year now. We've not kissed yet, we're in seperate bedrooms and frankly I'm getting tired of it. He tells me he's scared b...
A. 5 December 2007: Peronally I don't believe men can be bisexual, so him saying that is a warning flag. The gay sites you found and him not wanting to have sex with you, its pretty obvious isn't it! your his beard! his cover girl. Get outta there... (read in full...)
Everybody says we would look cute together...I don't know what to do because if I wait too long won't he be taken??
Q. Hello. I am 13. I'm not really interrested in any one right now. I hang out with people who are mainly 15 and 16 (people my age are retarded lol). Well I met this guy; and he is 16. He doesn't seem interested in me nor I in him, but he is very s...
A. 5 December 2007: No decent 16yr old will date an 13yr old girl. What the hell are you doing with kids those age? and why are they allowing you to hang with them... (read in full...)
I am being harressed and bullied at school...what should I do??
Q. I think I might be harassed and bullied at school. There is a group of people that laugh at me, and I don't know why. Its starting to make me wonder. I think its because of the way I look. I can't help myself of the way I look. There is another ...
A. 2 December 2007: Your be leaving school soon? Just stick it out, I been bullied and these bullies are really pathetic. You will grow in confidence once you leave, most of them are jealous or bully you to big themselves up... (read in full...)
Once you cheat will you cheat again??
Q. OK, a poll: Do you think once you cheat you will always cheat? Even if you found your soul-mate, married and are happy with each other and both agree that finding each other was the best thing that ever happened to you? I cheated and know it was w...
A. 2 December 2007: Unless the person deserves to be cheated on its fine, but if you really love that peron and he treats you well. Then your a cheater and you obviously don't love that person... (read in full...)
We are getting married, but he's neglecting me in bed, is there hope I can turn this around?
Q. Hello, Well I have a bit of a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we are going to be married in a few months. When we were first together, he was a sensual and giving lover, and did perform oral sex on me occasionally. But as time ...
A. 2 December 2007: I wonder why he lost intrest in you! He may have lost a bit of respect for you as your doing EVERYTHING for him, a bit like a mother and I'm sure you don't want to be his mum do you? He's a man not a boy. You got to stop doing everything for him, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my future fiance I kissed another girl??
Q. I am doing long distance with my girlfriend for 2 years. I am about to propose to her and move in together, but for the next month we will still be apart. Last week, I kissed another girl. There was absolutely no emotional connection. Should I ...
A. 1 December 2007: Yes tell her. My sister b/f did this to her, she found out not by her b/f but by going on his account. Point is she felt worse that he didn't tell her but she found out another way. She'll trust you more if you tell her, if it shows its tearing you ... (read in full...)
I am married...but am I normal to crave sex so bad with another woman?
Q. I'm really confused about my sexuality. I'm pretty sure that I'm bi-sexual, but I'm not exactly sure. The only way I can really get sexually aroused when I have sex with my husband is if I think about gay sex. (That includes men and women). My ...
A. 1 December 2007: Women in your situation happens quite a bit actually! Your husband first is ignoring your sexual needs, he seems content with you only sastifying him. Please stop it, don't give him oral till he gives it back. It seems like you already know you... (read in full...)
The kids at school tease me about my virginity and sex...Whatcan I do?
Q. Dear Cupid the year 9s at my school keep on asking whether i'm a virgin or not. I reply I am and they start laughing. I've never even kissed a boy or had a proper relationship before; and I don't particurlly want to get teased about it... a...
A. 1 December 2007: I was in your situation and I know what it's like at school. I PROMISE you, when your a couple years older you will look back at 14yr olds and think its too young to have sex. Most of these people properly haven't had sex but are just laughing at ... (read in full...)
What can I do to change the fact I always tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, love dramas...?
Q. I'm wondering if anyone here can answer this question for me, or atleast attempt to. I'm wondering what it is about me that attracts a certain type of girl. I tend to attract girls who cheat, fight, party, and are in lvoe with drama. For the most...
A. 30 November 2007: What about school? any nice girls there? have you got a job? good place to meet people. The reason you get bad girls is cause youre hanging around the messed up ones. Thats it... (read in full...)
We are getting married, but he's neglecting me in bed, is there hope I can turn this around?
Q. Hello, Well I have a bit of a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we are going to be married in a few months. When we were first together, he was a sensual and giving lover, and did perform oral sex on me occasionally. But as time ...
A. 30 November 2007: Do you really want to be married to an selfish lover? sex is not the most important on the list but its right up there! and has broken up relationships. You deserve better than this, it's pretty strange his like this even before you marride but a ... (read in full...)
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