He cheated on me 3 times and I can't get over it...
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me three times. Twice in the first month, and then the third time was in the third month. We've talked about it all and it's been 8 months, and I still feel bad. He's a lovely boyfriend and I know he hasn't done it since, ...
A. 20 February 2008: Three times is alot...personally I dont think I be able to get over that many betrayals, it just shows what type of person he is. But he may of changed BUT can you get over it? some people can't ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal?
Q. I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal? He isn't forcing me into having sex but he is tryng to make me do things that I'm scared about and when I say no to something he says I can never try something new, should I tell him I'm scared because ...
A. 20 February 2008: I'm sure you asked this yesterday...I answer again anyway! This guy is too old for you, he shouldn't be intrested in a 12yr old girl. I wouldn't blame your dad for beating him up, sounds like this guy needs a beating. He's not getting what he wants ... (read in full...)
How do I show him that he isn't "sick" for dating me, despite of our considerable age difference?
Q. Alright, So I have been in and out of a relationship with this man who is 33 years older than me. I'm 21, 22 next month. I have a great time with him and he is one of my best friends. I'm very attracted to him and we have alot of things in common. ...
A. 20 February 2008: I'm more concerned about you, why are you dating a old man?... (read in full...)
Has anybody else's children heard them during intercourse??
Q. During intercourse the other night our son (6) heard me having an orgasm because he asked me next day what the noise was. I said it was a dream. Anybody else had a similar experience?...
A. 20 February 2008: Maybe you should close the door next time or be quieter. I never heard my parents have sex... (read in full...)
I am so inexperienced...can anybody help me get my self-confidence back up??
Q. help, I am 14 and extremely unexperienced. I have done nothing my whole life. A guy hasnt done anything to me and i havent done anything to a guy. Any advice on how i can get my self confidence back up since all my friends have at least done somet...
A. 20 February 2008: I can't help reading this and laugh, I mean you might not think 14 is young but it really is. I remember what it felt like at your age to not have a b/f, but I didn't get depressed about it and I felt sort of proud of not having one, It let me focus ... (read in full...)
I was suggested a threesome with my mother and her lover, when this woman found out I was bisexual!
Q. Hiya all so iam 18 years old and i realy badly need HELP!! when i was 11 my mum left my dad for a women at her gym. I live with my dad and he realy hates the both of them so i now live with my mum and her lover. we talk about...
A. 20 February 2008: NO, why are you even asking this here? your not a naive little kid. Your mum g/f is sick... (read in full...)
Is it better to get experienced and then settle down? Do I sacrifice my relationship in order to acquire that "experience"?
Q. Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person? Or is it better to get'experienced' and then settle down? I am a lil confused, I have been with my gf for 1year and 2months, shes my first gf an...
A. 20 February 2008: I can understand but just think, if you really love this girl then your risking all this love just to go out and sleep with other people? You will miss her and your properly want her back, but will she take you back? ... (read in full...)
I need to become more organized! Does anybody have any organization tips?
Q. Can somebody please tell me how I can get better organized?? I'm in for a terrible evening. My parents are always telling me that I need to get much better at organizing myself, and tonight I may have messed up big time! Tomorrow I'm suppose to g...
A. 19 February 2008: I'm a bit like you to a degree, I can't keep anything organised and all my school papers are usually creased up. So I haven't really got any tips on that but parents I have.
Lie. Say the interview been cancled, make up a reason why it has
T... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont go down on me
Q. My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 7 months. She has always said that she thinks sucking dick is disgusting. However she said that she has done it in the past to other guys. It is really starting to bother me everytime we talk about ...
A. 19 February 2008: I read this question before. If this is the same bloke, just dump the girl and let her out of her misery. Your obviously very shallow... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is making me do things and I am not confortable with it
Q. ive just got in to a relationship with someone that made me do things i wasnt sure i wanted to do. he is 16 im 12 almost 13 i cant tell my mum or dad i still love him and want to be with him but i dont know how to say can we slow down beacuse ...
A. 19 February 2008: Dump him, I know you don't want to tell your parents but they can protect you from this guy. He is 16 and shouldn't even be intrested in a 12yr old girl. You say you love him, you don't know what love is and guess what, this isn't love. When your ... (read in full...)
Another Example Of A MAN!
Q. I have 2 beautifully little daughters, one is 5 and the other is 2. The 2 year old's father (27) is a long story but to make it short... We lived together in the apartment upstairs from my mom, my younger (aged 16) cousin lived there too. That means ...
A. 19 February 2008: Does your mum know what she did? Your mum should take your side over hers. If I was you I wouldn't allow her to look after the kids, I mean if your so angry at her why are allowing her near your children? That's a perfect way of revenge if she likes ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to check girls out??
Q. I'm a 19-year-old senior in high school, and I'm always finding myself constantly looking at the girls' boobs, checking out their butts, and wondering about whether they masturbate, or not. Could someone tell me if this is normal?...
A. 19 February 2008: Yeah like someone else said, don't make it too obvious or their just think your a dirty pervert. ... (read in full...)
I caught him masturbating with the vacuum, today!!
Q. I am a married mother of 3. My oldest is a boy, he is almost 14. I caught him masturbating with the vacuum, today!! I am dumbfounded. His dad is going to talk to him, tonight. How can we deal with this, explaining the disgust and immoral act... ...
A. 18 February 2008: LOL, I had to laugh reading the title. And no beastiality is not the same as masturbating. I know you might be horrifed at the moment but come on it's not a sin... (read in full...)
Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal?
Q. Why are some guys sooo obsessed with anal? Some guys out there think it's great to fuck girls in the ass and some are really sick enough to have such things like magnam flashlights in girls asses on their porn files etc so what's the deal about...
A. 18 February 2008: Because no one want something stuck up their arse! Like you said if you ask a straight guy about being done up the arse their cringe, they don't want to go through the pain. I think it's porn fault, all porn videos I watched there's always anal sex ... (read in full...)
I can't stand him looking at other girls! What do I do?
Q. I am married to a gorgeous guy much younger than me and we are basically very happy. I just need helpwith one thing...... he really stares at other women. I've talked to him about it and he reassures me how muchhe loves me and says he finds it ...
A. 18 February 2008: Some men are worse than others. He was being out of order by making it so obvious and by keeping on looking. You really should have said something at the time, like I know your watching her. ... (read in full...)
He takes offence when I don't swallow his cum.
Q. I tried really hard to talk to my boyfriend about him cumming in my mouth, because he loves the thought, but whenever he has in the past, I've had to stop myself gagging. I don't think it's the taste, but kind of the gooey texture.. I just don't ...
A. 18 February 2008: Tisha advice was brilliant!... (read in full...)
Is sex wrong at young age?
Q. is sex a wrong thing at young age i need help because a girl wants to do it with me but i don't know help me please!!!!!...
A. 17 February 2008: Yes... (read in full...)
My bf always criticises my female friends' physical (or other personal) details, after a reunion. Why?
Q. Hi, Every time I have taken my long term boyfriend to a wedding/christening/function that I've been invited to, he makes some sort of rude comment to me afterwards about one of my friends. It is always females that he comments about and it's u...
A. 17 February 2008: I hate people like that! If I was you I would have snapped back ages ago, next time just say you're no old painting yourself. Or just say it makes you feel uncomfortable when he puts people down like that. ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my ugly friend or hold out for someone better looking?
Q. my good friend bought me a valentines card and asked me out. i think hes ugly and am a bit embarresed by him but hes also sweet, funny and likes me for who i am on the inside. should i go out with him or wait for my ideal boy who would have my level ...
A. 17 February 2008: Okay why the hell is everyone jumping down this poor girl throat? She is freinds with this boy, if she was going to grow more attracted too him it should of happened by now. If you can't see yourself kissing someone or being romantic then why should ... (read in full...)
My main problem is that she refuses to give me a blow job and she won't let me finish in her mouth...
Q. Ok, for starters I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now, and I like to think I've been a good boyfriend. I do everything to make my relationship work, for example I clean the house every day after I get home from work and on my days ...
A. 17 February 2008: Okay...end a relationship over not getting a blow job. But hey I wouldn't tell people that's why you ended the relationship, they may think your strange.... (read in full...)
Is it true that men prefer women of lower IQ than them?
Q. I read an article in Metro which said (although it was at Valentine's event for geeky Massachusetts Institute of Technology students) that men often prefer to have sex with a woman of lower IQ. Do you think that's really true, because I know som...
A. 16 February 2008: Um I'm sure guys don't make girls take an IQ test to see whos smarter. If a girl very smart maybe that will scare a guy who dosen't match her in the brian stake but then they wouldn't be a match anyway. ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the affair partner's fiancee about his affair with my ex?
Q. My ex-fiancee cheated on me with one of her male friends for several months. We broke up because she continued to keep in touch with him behind my back even when we were "fixing" the relationship. So this question is more a moral dilemma... The ...
A. 16 February 2008: If this was me personally I would tell her, BUT she may not believe you but at least you got it out there and put doubt in her mind. ... (read in full...)
My main problem is that she refuses to give me a blow job and she won't let me finish in her mouth...
Q. Ok, for starters I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now, and I like to think I've been a good boyfriend. I do everything to make my relationship work, for example I clean the house every day after I get home from work and on my days ...
A. 16 February 2008: Wait your going to cheat on her because she dosen't give you a blow job? I think you two must have deeper issues than this. She sounds selfish in the bedroom but you got to sort that out. Really I don't see this relationship working, it dosen't ... (read in full...)
I have a small penis,,how can I satisfy a female?
Q. Hi im a guy in my late teens and im really embarrassed ive got a very small penis just on 2 inches fully erect ive never had a girlfriend im to embarrassed what can i do can i even satisfy a girl?...
A. 16 February 2008: Lesbians don't have penises yet they keep each other sastified. Just remember that... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be attracted to girls as well as boys?
Q. I am 11 years old and so is my best friend, we are in the same year 7 class and I've known her for 2 years (but we weren't best friends until we were in the same class). The thing is, I'm worried that I like her too much. you know, people have ...
A. 15 February 2008: You got pretty good advice. All I can add is if you are bisexual, I would keep it to yourself. I remember how harsh school is to certain people... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend saved those videos?
Q. Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We were both in realationships prior to us being together. I snooped and found a camcorder, with some videotapes. I find out he had been filming various types of females, while he was in his old ...
A. 15 February 2008: I don't see how this is a funny Laura. It all sounds a bit freaky too me, your b/f sounds a bit of a werido. Sitting in his car all alone and filming women. I wouldn't end the relationship but don't totally wipe it off, remember. ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my ugly friend or hold out for someone better looking?
Q. my good friend bought me a valentines card and asked me out. i think hes ugly and am a bit embarresed by him but hes also sweet, funny and likes me for who i am on the inside. should i go out with him or wait for my ideal boy who would have my level ...
A. 14 February 2008: It's easy for people to say just go out with him even though you may not find him attractive. But the simple fact is, it is important. If you can't see yourself getting romantic with him then dont! he's your mate, it's not like he isn't in your ... (read in full...)
Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?
Q. Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help.......
A. 14 February 2008: NO! My freind gave a teacher a card saying how much she fancied him. Anyway, he gave it to the head and she got suspended! because he may feel if he dosen't tell someone you might blackmail him, it does happen. I wouldn't ... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: Well done Andrew! love this site.
I agree with the poster below, I hate the underage sex questions. Should we really be answering these? also some people also support the ideal which is wrong. Dazzerg also got a good ideal for expanding the site... (read in full...)
He wants me to prove myself by dancing for him....any pointers??
Q. This is for the females that like to fulfill their mans fantasy or wishes. Or for the Men out there that know what they want with a sexual dance. Has anyone ever danced for their boyfriend or husband before? If so, please help me because my boyfr...
A. 12 February 2008: If my b/f said I had to prove myself too him by dancing, that would be a right turn off.... (read in full...)
Texting a married teacher.. he wants sex but keeps saying no to emotional involvement! Help Me please!
Q. I have been seeing my teacher for the past month! ( dont all say its bad he could loose his job etc because he doesnt actually teach me and i am 18) So the problem is he is married! Over the past month we have been emailin and texting quite alot! ...
A. 12 February 2008: Is this serious? You want advice on how to continue this affair with a married man? What sort of person are you? I'm 18 too and I would never do that, you could EASILY find a single guy to sleep with just for kicks. You'll be married one day...just ... (read in full...)
I don't want to date her
Q. hello... so here i'm stuck in a tricky situation. i go to a catacism class every week on a wednesday, and theres this girl who goes there. i dont really like her too much, and she asked me out, but i said 'i dont know' (worst thing to say ever). a...
A. 12 February 2008: Oh god, it sounds like she's sort of guilt tripping you into going out with her. This girl needs to get help, you should never have said maybe in the first place. Maybe you could try and be freinds with her? say I like you as a freind. Just don't ... (read in full...)
Could I go to prison for having sex with my girlfriend? She's 15.
Q. I have got a 15 year old girlfriend and I'm 16. I love her to bits and me and her both want to take our relationship to sexual intercourse but I have heard about being put in prison? Is this true? If so how likely is it? I have neices, will I be ...
A. 12 February 2008: If you really loved her, you wait. Don't take the risk, one of her freinds could dislike you and grass you up. You never know... (read in full...)
Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work?
Q. Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work? or should I just be happy with the fact that "he is trying". He has been "trying" for 2 years now and he still needs help to keep clean....
A. 12 February 2008: My dad helps around the house alot. My mum does more than 50% as she's around more. My dad cooks the dinner every night though, he irons a bit and he has a day off sunday so does the whole housework on that day! I guess I'm quite lucky I been raised ... (read in full...)
Afraid what others will think if I get back with him
Q. My boy friend broke up with me 4 days ago, but then called me. We had a long talk and he told me how much he missed me and how I was the only one for him. All my friends tell me to let go because I deserve a better guy, but I think I still like him. ...
A. 12 February 2008: You know what, the only time I said that to a freind was when she was in a BAD relationship. Maybe their only looking out for your best intrest, I can't seem them being jealous teenage girls. You haven't told us what this bloke is like so I can't ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my pubic hair to spread up to to my belly button??
Q. I'm going through puberty and my pubic hair is growing up by my belly button. i find this so embarrassing! I also have armpit leg and nipple hair and this is also so embarrassing. I try to avoid getting my shirt of at school and on holiday because ...
A. 11 February 2008: You could always shave the hair thats going up to your belly. The arm pits I leave alone... (read in full...)
I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?
Q. I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been ...
A. 11 February 2008: Sounds all good, the reason I wanted you to tell her is because I don't feel you can be trusted in a strip club. As your not going there anymore, I see no problem. ... (read in full...)
I feel like a "Homewrecker" should I tell his wife?
Q. Firstly I want everyone to know that this wasn't planned it just happened. I'm a uni student and to make some extra cash I began babysitting for a local couple. They're a great family but the father, who is 28, I was told was a bit of a player. ...
A. 11 February 2008: I agree with with the others said. Quit babysitting and don't tell the wife, he'll just manage to turn it around on you and say you seduced him!... (read in full...)
How can a gay guy have a relationship with a lesbian??
Q. I'm a lesbian..but I fell in love with this guy but I found out hes gay and hates alot of girls.I heard he harreses them; makes fun of their boobs nd stuff in a mean way not in away like a guy likes that girl. Me and him have so much in commen b...
A. 10 February 2008: Is this a joke? If not then your NOT a lesbain as hey, lesbians don't fancy boys. If this boy really is gay then you don't stand a chance, also stop calling yourself a lesbian. ... (read in full...)
I'm playing a "dangerous game" with a married man. Do I stop this BEFORE anyone gets hurt?
Q. Im playing a dangerous game, thats how he put it. Flirting (its both sided) with a married man. we talk about sex all the time and get on well generally. last night he text me saying "do you think we're playing a dangerous game?" i replied with...
A. 9 February 2008: This man will properly end up cheating, with or without you but feel better in yourself that your not the other woman. If you really talk to the wife, I be tempted to tell her! but that's up too you... (read in full...)
Is he leading me on here?
Q. Hello, I'm 15 years old and I've met this guy in my Italian class, I really love him, I've never felt this way for anyone. So when I finally decided to talk to him, to my surprise he talked to me first. The next day he talked to me again, something ...
A. 9 February 2008: He's too old for you, why do you want to date a 35yr old? He's a freak for even wanting to date you, what would you two have in common? ... (read in full...)
I'm playing a "dangerous game" with a married man. Do I stop this BEFORE anyone gets hurt?
Q. Im playing a dangerous game, thats how he put it. Flirting (its both sided) with a married man. we talk about sex all the time and get on well generally. last night he text me saying "do you think we're playing a dangerous game?" i replied with...
A. 8 February 2008: I say just one thing, how would you feel if one day you were married and you found out your husband was having an affair? How would you feel? You are being very cold hearted and selfish.
I don't understand why we get some many questions from weak... (read in full...)
I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?
Q. I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been ...
A. 21 December 2007: Well I wouldn't tell her IF you stop going to strip clubs, she trusted you and you betrayed that trust. You also may see that stripper again. If you still want too go then your wife has a right to know what happened. ... (read in full...)
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