I'm playing a "dangerous game" with a married man. Do I stop this BEFORE anyone gets hurt?
Q. Im playing a dangerous game, thats how he put it. Flirting (its both sided) with a married man. we talk about sex all the time and get on well generally. last night he text me saying "do you think we're playing a dangerous game?" i replied with...
A. 9 February 2008: This man will properly end up cheating, with or without you but feel better in yourself that your not the other woman. If you really talk to the wife, I be tempted to tell her! but that's up too you... (read in full...)
Is he leading me on here?
Q. Hello, I'm 15 years old and I've met this guy in my Italian class, I really love him, I've never felt this way for anyone. So when I finally decided to talk to him, to my surprise he talked to me first. The next day he talked to me again, something ...
A. 9 February 2008: He's too old for you, why do you want to date a 35yr old? He's a freak for even wanting to date you, what would you two have in common? ... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 9 February 2008: Both really. If I'm not attracted to a person then I can't date them, it's as simple as that. But sometimes, you get to know a person more and you grow more attracted too them, I had that happen to me before. ... (read in full...)
Guys....does it matter if girls have arm hair??
Q. hello Welll i know this question sounds pretty weird but do guys care if girls have arm hair or not? I know some girls that shave their arm hair and i just wanted to know if it even matters...i've never done anything to remove my arm hair but some...
A. 9 February 2008: Wait you want to shave your arm? Why? is this how pathetic we become that we need to shave every part of our body. Arm hair on a woman is quite light, I don't understand why you need to shave it?? seriously I never heard this before. Don't do it! ... (read in full...)
Do we all have a purpose??
Q. Do we all have a purpose? I wonder how can you explain,if your life doesn't go well?I mean if its a complete disaster. Is the best way , to think, it is happening for a reason? Or that you are punished? Or what is the best way to explain downfall? ...
A. 8 February 2008: Our purpose is to enjoy life and have children. ... (read in full...)
This seems so right but we both know it is so wrong but can't end it.
Q. I need some help.I have a friend, a dear friend who has always been there for me and I have fallen in love with him. We are both married although my marriage is abusive and generally unhappy. He and his wife work away alot and she isnt always t...
A. 8 February 2008: You should leave your marriage, if you husband is abusing you in a emotional or psychical way it's time to get out. Really you should be thinking of ways to get out of the marriage and where too go. ... (read in full...)
I feel insecure without a bf and am not over my ex. Please help.
Q. I feel really insecure without a boyfriend and recently i found out i have 5 admirers the thing is i dont like a single 1 of them yet im still not over my ex. He went out with me for a day dumped me then went out with me again for a day then dum...
A. 8 February 2008: You really need to get over this while your young or it can cause you big probelms when your older. Look like the saying goes, you don't NEED a man, it sounds like you dont want one but need one and their two diffrent things. Really you should stay ... (read in full...)
I'm playing a "dangerous game" with a married man. Do I stop this BEFORE anyone gets hurt?
Q. Im playing a dangerous game, thats how he put it. Flirting (its both sided) with a married man. we talk about sex all the time and get on well generally. last night he text me saying "do you think we're playing a dangerous game?" i replied with...
A. 8 February 2008: I say just one thing, how would you feel if one day you were married and you found out your husband was having an affair? How would you feel? You are being very cold hearted and selfish.
I don't understand why we get some many questions from weak... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 8 February 2008: You got pretty good advice and it seems you haven't followed any of it. By now he should have split with his wife or you should have walked away. You have done neither so I take it you like being the other woman. I don't understand why women get ... (read in full...)
Should I confront him at school tomorrow?
Q. I have been going out with this wonderful girl for a couple weeks now. We are in a pretty good relationship. But today after school an aquatance of mine was hanging around with My girl and I and she went to reach to move him away so she could mo...
A. 6 February 2008: What a jerk! he's disrespecting you as well as your g/f, she could get him for sexual harassment anyway but yes I think you should confront him, I remember school and some kids deserve a kick.... (read in full...)
Is his controlling behaviour normal?
Q. my boyfriend is coming across as very controlling recently he trys to make sure how long I can stay out for and who my friends can be. I can't wear skirts and he is going on a boy's holiday and I can't go on a girl's one. I do not understa...
A. 5 February 2008: My dad used to be quite controllig when it came to my mum freinds. But I remember my mum rebeling and she went out clubbing all the time, it hit us kids hard as we didn't like being left alone with this grumpy man. Anyway, she would have left years ... (read in full...)
Are my two best friends lesbian/bisexual?
Q. Okay, i apologize that this may be kinda long. Okay, so i have two best friends, lets call them...Paige and Mary (:/). My friend paige has a boyfriend which shes had for 3 or 4 monthes and is very "touchy" with. i dont think shes THAT into h...
A. 5 February 2008: why do you care? I mean are you going to go round school telling everyone their gay? Just leave them alone, they obviously don't trust you and I don't blame them. ... (read in full...)
I am ready to have sex with him, but I am worried about my friends.
Q. first of all, let me apologize for this being so long... it is a LONG story ( and this is with leaving a lot of stuff out) me (age 15) and "MT" (age 17) both really like each other. we arent dating right now because he is under a lot of stress (d...
A. 4 February 2008: Okay I didn't know your freinds were having sex. Just ignore them, they are being two faced and if I was you I wouldn't really listen to them. You don't have to tell them you have sex. On your guy, some guys say anything to get a girl to like them ... (read in full...)
We argue because he buys a paper with 18 year old topless girls. Got opinions?
Q. Need your opinion!! Just found out my boyfriend who is 34, reads the Sun newspaper daily. He says he doesn't buy it for the page 3 girls but has admitted to having a look and reading the sleazy Deadries casebook. I feel very upset by this as I fin...
A. 4 February 2008: If your really against it then he should value your relationship and stop buying the sun newspaper. I'm sure he wouldn't like it if you bought a mag with naked men in it every week! ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to pursue a relationship with somebody 1-2 years younger??
Q. dear cupid, I would like to know is it wrong for a person to go out with someone who is 1-2 years younger than themselves. I recently saw this good looking girl, went over to her found out how old she is and that, she seems to be 1 year younger tha...
A. 3 February 2008: She's only 1 year younger than you! so no I don't think you got a problem here... (read in full...)
My little sister gives me self esteem issues, how can I handle this?
Q. Hi guys, I've found the culprit of my low self esteem but don't know how to handle it. My sister is a very very very immature 17 year old. Whenever she speaks to me it's to call me ugly or fat and even a dog. She always always calls me a fat u...
A. 3 February 2008: Your sister is jealous. Your going to have to get past the point of caring, she's got her own issues and you should not take what she says seriously. Listen to your b/f, he sounds the only nice one. ... (read in full...)
Would girls not want to have sex with you if they see that you're a bit fat or won't they mind?
Q. dear cupid I am 16 years old and would like to know, if someone who has lost weight but still has flabs has sex with a girl, would the girl not want to have sex or will they take the piss after, because I currently lost weight but still have flabs...
A. 3 February 2008: I tell you, she wouldn't have sex with you if she didn't fancy you. We all have issues with our bodies, no one is perfect. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sister is accusing him of sexually abusing her!
Q. I have been dating a guy for a year and a half and about 4 months ago he had an argument with one of his sisters over the father's will and she accused him of sexually abusing her while they were growing up. This took place over the phone but I was ...
A. 3 February 2008: I really don't know what to say. Personally I would try and talk to the sister, face to face. Ask her about it and see her reaction. Your get the answer there... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my sister
Q. Hi I have a problem. I'm 16, and I'm in love with my 14 year old sister. At first I thought it was just hormones, but it's been 4 years and I still feel the same way. Also I think she already knows, but I can't be sure. Help! ...
A. 3 February 2008: Wow female and male anonymous your really not helping! Just because you may have a sick relationship with your brother/sister dosen't mean it's right. So push off to your dark cave and stay there... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with her or let her down easy?
Q. Ok I'm 17 and a lot of younger girls have been flirting with me. A few 13 year old girls have already told me they would have sex with me. I'm not sure of what I should do. Yeah I would love to get a little action but I think they are too young. I ...
A. 3 February 2008: Why are you asking this here? I mean you should be laughing at these girls. I don't know what type of 13yr olds your hanging with but tell them their too young, a bit obvious dont you think? and also WHY are you hanging with 13yr olds? dont you have ... (read in full...)
How can I forget my old love?
Q. I'm 39, happily married with four boys. My old love found me on Facebook. It was just an internet talk and It's over now. But why can't I just forget him? He's constantly on my mind. The feeling is so hard. He's also married. What should I do? ...
A. 2 February 2008: um, just forget about him. It was just one talk on the internet. You should really work on your marriage ... (read in full...)
I think I might be bi!!!
Q. so, im a normal secondary school gal, except i think im bi. Theres this girl hu I hang round with along with the rest of my pals, but i think she kinda likes me. Shes always lookin at me, she talks to me more than anyone, she laffs the hardest at my ...
A. 2 February 2008: Try flirting with her, see what happenes. Whatever happens take things slow ... (read in full...)
How can I get my dad to allow me a bf??
Q. My dad won't let me have a boyfriend and i'm 13. What can i do to allow me to have a boyfriend? He said i could do something called courting and thats when i invite a boy over my house to watch TV and my dad questions the hell out of him; that is ...
A. 2 February 2008: 13 is too young. Please just be a kid. If I have children, I'm not allowing them to have a b/f or g/f! ... (read in full...)
I am ready to have sex with him, but I am worried about my friends.
Q. first of all, let me apologize for this being so long... it is a LONG story ( and this is with leaving a lot of stuff out) me (age 15) and "MT" (age 17) both really like each other. we arent dating right now because he is under a lot of stress (d...
A. 2 February 2008: Well in America the legal age is 18, so that's properly why your freinds are freaking out. If you have sex, which I don't think you should do. I mean you two aren't even b/f or g/f, you might not even see each other again. I also don't believe he's ... (read in full...)
Why has my gf suddenly decided we have to wait for sex??
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years this month, and the last 7 months have been without sex. We're both in our mid/upper 20s and have goals of starting a family, and up until about 7 months ago we had a perfectly normal sex life. I ...
A. 1 February 2008: This seems to be her way of getting you two to get married quicker. Some couples do this, once they plan the date they say we'll wait till the wedding night to have sex. But your g/f going a bit over the top by waiting a year. I think she wants the ... (read in full...)
I like him, I know he likes me, yet he has a girlfriend, what do I do?
Q. Ok, I'm Really In Love With A Guy 1 Year Younger. He Liked Me For Ages And Everytime We Met At A Monthly Disco He Wanted Me 2 Dance With Him, This Went On For About 5 Months, And He Started Noticing Me At School. Eventually We Kissed. Now, About 6 ...
A. 1 February 2008: I always wonder how people like you can be bothered to put a capaital before each word. ... (read in full...)
Girl kissed my bloke, they were both drunk, how do I trust him in the future?
Q. My boyrfriend of 5 months told me the other day that his friend came on to him and kissed him but he pulled away. They were both drunk and he said it ment nothing. As he is 2 years older i was always curiouse but i trusted him, he said it ment ...
A. 1 February 2008: This happened to my sister. Forgive him, if he does it again though, like Waterloo Sunset said, dump him.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my sister
Q. Hi I have a problem. I'm 16, and I'm in love with my 14 year old sister. At first I thought it was just hormones, but it's been 4 years and I still feel the same way. Also I think she already knows, but I can't be sure. Help! ...
A. 1 February 2008: You loved your sister when you were 12 and she was 10? strange. I read we got chemicals in our body to stop us falling for our family members, at least the ones we grow up with. You got a chemical imbalance in your body. Leave your sister alone and ... (read in full...)
What levels of detail would you want to know if your wife cheated on you?
Q. Hey all there. I' coming again with an additional question. My wife cheated on me and I want to thank all the persons who gave me quite helpful advice. You can see my earlier question on http:/...
A. 1 February 2008: If I got cheated on, I would want to know who and when it started and how long for. But couldn't stomach if he enjoyed it or not stuff.
If it's better for you to get it all out in the open, then ask her. But it may make it worse... (read in full...)
How can I have sex with other girls without hurting my girlfriend?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been dateing for 7 mounths now and the frist couple day of our relationship she took my virginity and for the past 4 or 5 mounths i wanted to experience it with other girls but with out hurting her can sombody please help ...
A. 1 February 2008: Break up with her then sleep with other girl. Do the right thing, she will never get back with you if you cheat on her. You may stand a chance if you break it off, see other girls then realise you love her, come back..bla bla. you get the story... (read in full...)
Am I really gay? I can't decide if I want to be with men or women!!!
Q. I wrote in before about being in a gay relationship and wasn't sure if that lifestyle was for me. I have now ended the relationship and i am gutted.... My ex g/f has been great, i've hurt her really badly but she understands my dilema about being wi...
A. 1 February 2008: And what's wrong with the donor way Flynn? Lots of dads don't even stick around to see thier children so the whole daddy issue dosen't really work :) ... (read in full...)
A good position for our first intimate encounter? (we are both not virgins)
Q. i've been friends with this girl for a while now but i think we are ready to get intimate now. i want this to be comfortable, she's definitly not a virgin and i'm not either but what would be a good position to start off with. ladies any help would ...
A. 31 January 2008: You on top and her laying on her back. Bit obvious don't you think?... (read in full...)
I like this guy but I'm secretly jealous that he looks at other girls.
Q. Hi ok i really need your help, i'm not the type to actually want a bf but i seriously like this lad at college, Although we don't have an awful lot in common we are the same personality wise, i do talk to him abit but why do i get so jealous when he ...
A. 31 January 2008: Well if you fancy someone, it's quite normal to get jealous if you think their flirting with someone else. Really you should try and talk too him, in a freindly way and see if there's any signs there. ... (read in full...)
Am I really gay? I can't decide if I want to be with men or women!!!
Q. I wrote in before about being in a gay relationship and wasn't sure if that lifestyle was for me. I have now ended the relationship and i am gutted.... My ex g/f has been great, i've hurt her really badly but she understands my dilema about being wi...
A. 31 January 2008: I remember your last question. Its sad you actually went ahead and dumped your g/f, you're VERY lucky she's willing to take you back and forgive you. Alot of lesbians would have left you by now, due to the whole losing your partner to a guy thing. ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him to 'Back Off'?
Q. MY girlfriend and I have been best friends for over 5 years, though we only really started seriously dating last March. I am in college about an hour away, and she is in her senior year in high school. Recently, this guy we both know suddenly ...
A. 31 January 2008: No, don't show him you care. He may just laugh at you. Tell your g/f how you feel, she's the one you should be worried about, there will always be more guys.... (read in full...)
I'm undecided - should I give in to my brother's urges and have sex with him?
Q. My brother trying to seduce me. He's been trying for a long time, from time to time he was making a move on me, but now I think he's serious. When we were in early teens (13-15) we already had a kind of sexual relationship with him - we've been tou...
A. 31 January 2008: Your brother needs help, you don't film your sister having sex or changing. I hope this is a joke post. If not then you get help too... (read in full...)
I can't decide.....my wife?? Or my girlfriend??
Q. I need help from someone who has been through this life crisis before, and has time to read my story! My wife and I married in our late 20s, thinking we both knew what we wanted, and although we didn’t have a whirlwind passionate romance, we thou...
A. 31 January 2008: If you don't love your wife, get out. Because in the long run, your hurting your wife and children more. Do your kids want a happy dad or a sad dad?... (read in full...)
I'm embarassed at my friends' behaviour. Was it my fault?
Q. They had Sex in my presence, I am unable to come from that trauma..... Dear My plight is a v troublesome one. I belong to a traditional indian background, am a virgin bachlor female in mid twenties.I had two best friends, a female-23, and m...
A. 31 January 2008: It's not your fault! Anyone would have felt bad if they were in your situation. They could have had a seperate room yet stayed in yours, why? they properly wanted you to hear. YOU should be annoyed at them not the other way round. Their pathetic... (read in full...)
My ex wanted me back but wont give up her new guy. I feel like I'm being manipulated, what should I do?
Q. My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was mostly because I wasn't attentive enough. She started seeing someone else. I stayed away from her. I didn't call her at all. She called me after a month and told me she missed me. She told me she thinks ...
A. 31 January 2008: She's a player! just cut her out of your life. She isn't to be trusted... (read in full...)
Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?
Q. i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...
A. 31 January 2008: what sort of freinds do you have? slut house this way!... (read in full...)
I think I might be worrying too much
Q. I had sex for the first time. Me and my boyfriend used a condom but I am still extremely scared that I could be pregnant. I told my boyfriend, but he just laughed and said I worry too much. He is a very experienced guy, and has had many long term ...
A. 31 January 2008: Maybe your a paranoid person? I was the same first time, even though I knew I couldn't be. Just relax, you had your period. ... (read in full...)
On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?
Q. Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...
A. 31 January 2008: That's a bad one! I don't blame her for being upset, any girl would be. Keep apologising and say how much of a idiot you are. If she dosen't forgive you, move on but remember your lesson. ... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 14 January 2008: If he's really unhappy as you said, he'll leave his wife. You should say one last time, leave your wife or its over. if he dosen't then BREAK UP, if not then you like being in this sort of relationship, you like being second best, being the other ... (read in full...)
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