Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?
Q. Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...
A. 9 March 2008: Wow came back and looked at this question, seems all the sickos have come on! all I can say is, I hope you all die a slow and painful death. ... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 8 February 2008: You got pretty good advice and it seems you haven't followed any of it. By now he should have split with his wife or you should have walked away. You have done neither so I take it you like being the other woman. I don't understand why women get ... (read in full...)
How should I go about making our relationship something more?
Q. ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...
A. 20 January 2008: So what? its still very strange you lust over a 12yr old girl. Why can't you stick to your own age group? are you so child like you can't understand teenagers your own age? Keep away from kids and start growing up, unless you like children? then you ... (read in full...)
Is this verging on rape?
Q. I'm in Year 11 at school, and one of the boys who I've like for a while is apparently into me. I would do anything for him to like me, and we are quite physical anyway. We have intimate hugs a lot. (He's always been a player.) However, lately, ...
A. 18 January 2008: This guy is a jerk! most girls don't let guys finger them in class! I don't know how you two get away with it without anyone seeing. If you don't like it, then move away from him. This guy just wants sex, thats all he wants from you. Your old enough ... (read in full...)
How should I go about making our relationship something more?
Q. ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...
A. 18 January 2008: I'm 18yr old, my sister is 12. If I found out she was dating an 17yr old guy I would go crazy. You need to get help. There is nothing attractive about a 12yr old, NOTHING. I promise you she's still a kid mentally, Why don't you want an girl your ... (read in full...)
He rubs his body on me and is generally very gross. What should I do?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy has been flirting with me ever since school started. Hes confusing because he is flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my locker and he rubs my shoulder and says '' hey, check this ...
A. 17 January 2008: Tell your teacher, this boy shouldn't be touching you in a sexual way. He has picked you as his target. Tell a teacher before he goes any further.... (read in full...)
Could I be bi sexual?
Q. I am 19 years old and i have a boyfriend. I find men attractive and i like having sex with them. My sex life is quite normal for my age and im only interested in dating men and pulling men and i always have been. The only thing is, i get off more on ...
A. 17 January 2008: I'm fed up with this question, I go on this other site and we get it ALL THE TIME. Lots of straight women watch lesbian porn, it is not strange at all and quite normal really! I like watching gay porn, what does that make me??
You are not bi a... (read in full...)
He wants anal sex, I don't as it sounds really bad, am I overreacting?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to try anal sex. I have never done it and for some reason can't bring myself to do it. anyone have any words of wisdom. am I overreacting or is is as bad as it sounds....
A. 17 January 2008: If your female, I say don't do it if you don't want too, its not that important. If your a male, then try and do it as thats the whole point of being gay and your going to do it one day. ... (read in full...)
He harrassed me at school, I reported him and he got suspended. Was I wrong to do this?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I really need advice. This boy who is in my class has been flirting with me for a while now since school started. and then he does gross, inapropriate stuff around me with words or physical contact. Ive held this in for 4 ...
A. 16 January 2008: You did the right thing, you should not feel sorry, he should! Don't feel bad about what you did, I'm sure any other girl would have done the same. Also you sent out a good message to this boy that he can't treat girls in this way. Don't feel guilty ... (read in full...)
After sex, she dumped me! What can I do?
Q. This is so crazy!!Sorry its so long I started at a new school about 3/4 months ago and instantly became really good friends with a girl Anyways, she told me she was Bi, And i told her i was too It was great, on new years she had a part...
A. 16 January 2008: You posted this question before, you got good replies too. You better go back and check.... (read in full...)
Should I keep my B/F, just for the sex?
Q. I am 27 divorced but was married for 5 years. OK this may sound very shallow but its reality!! I have this boyfriend who I like very much but that is as far as it goes on the emotional front. I have been seeing him for 5 months but do not see a fut...
A. 15 January 2008: You could stay with him till you meet another bloke? Thats what I would do if I was you... (read in full...)
My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christ...
A. 15 January 2008: lol, oh this just sounds wrong. Your not related though so do what you want.... (read in full...)
I'm going mad! I love this other woman and I love my wife...help me!
Q. Help Im going crazy Im a 47 year old married man with 4 kids. About 6 months ago I meet a lady shes 35 years old 3 kids I meet her at work her husband had just walked out on her and I was concerned about her there was nothing sexual about it I was ...
A. 15 January 2008: You knew what you were getting into when you started calling her, this is text book cheating! The woman lost her husband, married man comes along and wants to just comfort her and it leads to something more. Just walk away from this situation. My ... (read in full...)
She hates me and puts the whole family through hell! What is happening to my sister?
Q. I am completely confused about this, I was wondering if someone can give me some ideas about why this is happening. Four years ago my sister had an abusive relationship and shortly afterwards she developed an eating disorder. She almost died from...
A. 15 January 2008: Your sister needs help. It sounds like even before she got better, she’s in the habit of putting the blame somewhere else. Do you live with your sister? is there anyway of moving out?
I got a sister and if she acted like that with me..I don't know... (read in full...)
I'm bi and have a gf. Not sure about this gay lifestyle as I want kids and family someday. What should I do?
Q. Hi, i'm a woman who likes men and women. I have never been comfy about my female attraction and kept it hidden for along time, my close friends and family now know, they are great about it. My problem is i have now fallen for a lovely woman, she is ...
A. 15 January 2008: You know you could still have a baby? you could have IVF and carry the baby. But you already got problems with this relationship, I know its properly hard but you need to show more affection when out, be proud of who you are. You know your bi and in ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with a celebrity
Q. I'm married, have been for years,with children but have recently become utterly obsessed with a celebrity, to the point of spending time chatting to fellow obsessives in fan forums and neglecting my family and man. the obsession began when I met ...
A. 15 January 2008: I used to get quite obsessed with actors but as I got older its now gone on to TV shows! There's nothing with going on a fan site but if your ignoring your real life then there's a problem. Set a time limit on the computer and spend the rest of the ... (read in full...)
Met a guy off the internet, had sex and I like him. How do I tell him about my son?
Q. I'm 19, and I've been meeting guys off the internet. I've already met 3 this week, I've had sex with 2 of them and realised I like 1 of them. I've met him twice, but we only met for sex. He wants to meet me again and knows I have an 8 month old son. ...
A. 15 January 2008: Is this a joke? do you really think he be the father to your baby? the last two times you saw him, you had sex. You only meet for sex. If you want a proper relationship, get off the net and get out and meet someone. ... (read in full...)
FAllen for my best gal pal..but..she is interested in another girl!
Q. I have fallen for my best female friend. Unfortunately, she has other interests... another girl. They are consumed with each other, although they do not claim to be an item, they pretty much are and they have kissed, that's as far as I know they've ...
A. 15 January 2008: move on, she's obviously in another relationship. She might not even be straight.... (read in full...)
How do I walk away from someone I love so much?
Q. hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...
A. 14 January 2008: If he's really unhappy as you said, he'll leave his wife. You should say one last time, leave your wife or its over. if he dosen't then BREAK UP, if not then you like being in this sort of relationship, you like being second best, being the other ... (read in full...)
How do I know if she is a lesbian?
Q. Ok, well there is this woman at work, who the first time i saw her i developed a huge crush on. But i dont know if she is a lesbian or not. We dont talk at all. When i see her i just smile and say hello and she does the same I need some help here. ...
A. 14 January 2008: You haven't given us enough details. How are we suppose to know if she's a lesbian? just because she makes you nervouce. Your just going to have to ask her... (read in full...)
My younger sister makes me horny, please help.
Q. hi. I am 15 and i get really horny when i am around my younger sister who is 13. I really want to see her naked but never have. What should i do?...
A. 13 January 2008: I REALLY hope that you are joking. Join a club or even better, get a girlfreind! there's something wrong in your head as if you grew up with your sister you shouldn't be feeling this. You should feel protective over her, not lust. ... (read in full...)
Husband says he doesn't love me anymore.
Q. hi i have just got married and my husbands says he doesn't love me anymore, i believe that it isn't true but i can't be sure please help...
A. 13 January 2008: Is this true? you just got married and he says that? why would he marry you in the first place. How are we suppose to know? ... (read in full...)
I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!
Q. ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and ...
A. 13 January 2008: No you weren't, I'm surprised your even staying till she gives birth. ... (read in full...)
How long will my ex take to get past this??
Q. After being with my boyfriend for over a year I found out that he cheated on me a couple months after the fact. When I found out it completely ruined any trust I had in him but we tried to work through it. Although I genuinely believed that he was ...
A. 12 January 2008: How were you wrong about the kiss? you two weren't together at the time, also you didn't have oral sex with the guy like you said. I really don't see the problem, I can understand him being upset and jealous but he should be angry at his freind not ... (read in full...)
Recently became pregnant, I have an hot-cold relationship with a man I do not love, should I keep the baby? I'm 35.
Q. I have recently found out Im pregnant. I have been in an on off relationship with this man for a year. I am 35 this month and do not have any children. I do not love him and dont know what to do. I cant do it by myself? If I terminate the ...
A. 12 January 2008: You could keep it, it sounds like he wants to be in the child life. You don't have to be an couple to raise an baby together. But if you want too wait till you meet an man who you really love, then terminate the pregnancy.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?
Q. Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...
A. 12 January 2008: As you keep the two things seperate then that's okay. I don't agree with with you think, but I know no one choses to be a pedophile. Just don't act on your thoughts. Also I don't think you should have children when your older, the temptation may get ... (read in full...)
Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?
Q. i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...
A. 11 January 2008: I think the 18yr old worse, sleeping with an 13yr old girl is sick. Also you have very sick freinds... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?
Q. Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...
A. 11 January 2008: No it's not. It's very wrong, why would you want to think of kids? Go see someone and get help... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a player and wanted to make him jealous so I lied about giving oral to a friend. He flew off the handle and now I don\t know what to do to make him like me again??
Q. There's this lad who I've liked for over 2 years. He liked me for one of them, but we never went out we just had a few kisses in private. He's a player and all my friends have told me to get over him, but I really feel strongly for him. I might even ...
A. 10 January 2008: He's calling you a slag?? double standards to the extreme there!
He sounds jealous but why does that matter? he's a player and if he really liked you, he would have made a move by now. I think you should stop seeing him, he was way out of order with... (read in full...)
Do you think it's ok for me to let my wife have another guy as her best friend??
Q. I'm 32 and my wife is 28. My wife and a good friend of mine (male friend) are good friends. I think it would be safe to say that they are best friends (which is totally okay by me). My friends say I'm crazy to "be okay" with this. I disagree, ...
A. 10 January 2008: Personally I would be so jealous if my b/f had a close girl freind and was doing all these things with her and not me. If you trust her then that's okay, but you never know what may happen...you two could have an argument, she goes to her boy mate ... (read in full...)
Which is hotter - blonde or brunette?
Q. A bit of a survey here... Are girls hotter as blondes? or brunettes? I would love to know your personal preferance... thnx xoxo ...
A. 10 January 2008: I don't think it really matters. Some guys may pefer a colour, like blonde but still go for a black haired girl. ... (read in full...)
Why do so few women masturbate?
Q. OK, so I know the question I'm going to ask doesn't apply to all women but... Why do so few women masturbate? I was doing an interveiw on facebook, and with each new question it shows you the answer given by the last 10 participants. The que...
A. 10 January 2008: Do you really think their going to admit it? even more so on facebook where people can see! They do just won't admit it!... (read in full...)
My fiance can't come through sex, he wants a blow job which I find revolting
Q. okay. I've been in a relationship of a little over a year now and engaged for a bit of it. But my finance can't cum during sex. he can cum using his hand fine, this bothers me a bit, but I have gotten over it to some extent. I still feel bad for ...
A. 10 January 2008: ALOT of girls don't like doing it, like some guys who don't like going down on a girl. But couldn't you give a bit? like just give him an handjob? If you can't do that then I think you two should split, he'll keep moaning and your just get more ... (read in full...)
I slept with him and now he's avoiding me, what's gone wrong?
Q. hi, i'm a 20 yr old girl and i've recently met this guy who works at my gym. we went on 1 date on boxing day, which was great fun and a couple of days later i met his mum and stayed the night. we talk for hours and had a great time and I ended up ...
A. 10 January 2008: You gave it up too easily, that simple really. You should move on from him, next time get to KNOW a man before you sleep with him. ... (read in full...)
My bf has a fetish with bestiality. Is this normal?
Q. I recently discovered my boyfriend of 2 months has a huge fetish with beastiality. Is this normal?! Personally, it grosses me out.....
A. 9 January 2008: This isn't common or normal. You got a strange one on your hands! You might have to be careful he dosen't give any of your pets the eye! make sure you don't ever visit the zoo or a farm.... (read in full...)
How important is attraction in a relationship?
Q. Me and my fiancé broke up about 3 months ago. I still miss him and love him and am holding on to some sort of hope that we will be together in the future. However there is a new guy I have been talking to quite a bit lately.he is such a sweet and ...
A. 9 January 2008: Attraction is quite important, you need to be at least a bit attractive too a guy to date him. A guy was intrested in me, usually I find people more attractive the more I get to know them but with this guy it didn't happen. He was decent and all but ... (read in full...)
I found my brother and his business partner making out, they are both married, should I say something?
Q. I just went by my brother house to pick something up of mine, I have a key, so I went on in the house. When I opened the door, he was making out with his female business partner. I played it off like I didn't notice, and I don't think he or she ...
A. 9 January 2008: If I saw my brother or sister doing that, I wouldn't tell their partner straight away. I would confront him and have a right go at him. If he carried on the affair, I properly would tell the wife. But thats just me, personally I would feel really ... (read in full...)
Is this rape? Should I forgive him?
Q. I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...
A. 7 January 2008: Oh I need therapy because I told her too go to the police 2old4this? sorry if I sounded a bit blunt but this is online, I'm not going to step around the matter. All I'm concerned about is that he's going to do this to other women. ... (read in full...)
We had sex but I don't want to be with her...so why do I hate the fact that she feels the same way?
Q. This is so crazy!!Sorry its so long I started at a new school about 3/4 months ago and instantly became really good friends with a girl Anyways, she told me she was Bi, And i told her i was too It was great, on new years she had a party ...
A. 7 January 2008: I don't want too be with her.
But i hate the fact she just wants to forget it!!
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That makes no sense. You either want to be with her or not, she split up with her b/f so that must mean something... (read in full...)
Is this rape? Should I forgive him?
Q. I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...
A. 7 January 2008: He drugged raped you! I don't know for sure if it was but it sure sounds like that! I don't understand why you didn't go straight to the police? this man raped you, drug raped you. He needs to be put in jail, don't you feel guilty about other women ... (read in full...)
He's a big boy and I'm letting it get in the way. How can I get over this?
Q. ok i met this guy we get along really well an have hooked up a few times, i like him alot... iam a slim good lookin girl an he is kinda a big boy, an for some reason im lettin that get in the way an keep thinkin what other ppl are goin to say, how ...
A. 7 January 2008: People will look and think, she can get a better guy. But your old enough to not worry about what other people think. If you really liked him, you wouldn't care. ... (read in full...)
Sacred for her because some of the girls are going to do bad stuff to her! What should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and I'm really into sports. I play netball for my county and last year, my school netball team did really well @ national schools, so my team was invited to rain with the senior girls @ our school, after school. We did well i guess, ...
A. 7 January 2008: Report it, it sounds very dodgy and could get very out of hand with boys and girls there. Truth told, I don't think she should go on this tour ... (read in full...)
I'm a faithful wife and mother, but there's this guy at work I cant get out of my head, advice please
Q. I can’t discuss this with my family, girlfriends or husband. Maybe someone out there can help to enlighten me. I am a happily married woman with kids. I’ve been married almost twenty years, to a wonderful man, that I love very much. He i...
A. 7 January 2008: This is so werid, my mum was in a situation like this! he was a goodlooking guy and was always looking at her. It seriously messed up her head, like your guy he was half her age. Honestly I found it so pathetic, luckily this guy moved to another ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher a pervert?
Q. Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships ar...
A. 7 January 2008: Report him, it always amazes me how other girls don't think these teacher will do it to other girls, I'm glad you realise he will. Point is with you, he managed to hold himself back but with another girl...he may go that step further. Go to the head ... (read in full...)
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