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writes: Theres this boy at School who likes me.He stocks me,fallows me and keeps calling my name.I usely ignore people I don't even like as a friend.I block them out.He keeps telling me how pretty I am and keeps asking me out.I don't even like him as a friend.HEs a pisces like me.Thats ine of the reason I don't like him.I don't want to date anotther Pisces.He calls my name during class when I look at him he acts like he didn't call my name.I tried to Ignore Him one time.He was standing rite next to me.I tried to block him out but he wouldn't stop calling my name.He called it 7 times.I was like what do you want.0_o.but I did not say it out loud.I finally looked at him.He said hi sara.I said Hi then walked away.then the alst day before Christmas break he pulled up a chair and sat in front of me.then he stared into my eyes.He said its a shame you won't go out with me.then he said your so beautiful.How do I get him to leave me alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): ive finnished with school now but i had the same problem with a boy for 4 years except whenever i rejected him he used to be horrible to me. all i can say is try and be polite and civilised and let it seem like you dont care because he wants the attention then hopefully he will stop. if it carries on then tell a teacher or get your parents to do something (i wish i had). it would be embarrasing at first telling someone but youve got to stop him as soon as possible otherwise things could get worse. Also let him know that its upseting you, a couple of months before i left school the boy said sorry to me for what he had put me through but i will never forgive him. be strong and dont be nasty to him because it will just drag on. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni broke up with him.he was to much for me to handal
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok.his name is will.i will give him a try but if it doesn't work out i will go back to trying to get casey to notice me
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reader, ilovetroybutcant  +, writes (1 January 2008):
hello silent jester. if i were you i would go up to him and tell hm calmly,"i do not want to date you nor will i ever. please leave me alone." but thats only my opinion. or you could always just get a restraining order. lol.
good luck!
-ilovetroybutcant
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reader, 1morenite +, writes (1 January 2008):
 You should definelty go to an adult, if you go to a counciler they can issue him a harrassment forum Which if he keeps doing this he can get suspended becuase stalking is a serious thing.
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reader, [B]aybee [K]ris  +, writes (1 January 2008):
tell him you dont like him not even as a friend because of the way hes acting owards you and that if he stops calling your name all the time you might start to become his friend. also tell him that if he really did like you he would do what you want him to do if the probem persists tell an adult or call the police
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx ^_^
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (31 December 2007):
 I agree with Brooke.
I'd like to add that if he still does not leave you alone after respectfully telling him that you are not interested, you could tell him that you view his insistence as stalking. Furthermore, if he does not stop ... you will have no alternative, but to tell your parents that he's stalking you.
Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx
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reader, hello1 +, writes (31 December 2007):
 Ignoring isn't working! get tough, start insulting him. Tell him to stop stalking you and say your not intrested, do something too get him to back off.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (31 December 2007):
 gah he sounds really annoying and he's coming on wayyyy too strong. i think you just need to tell him. ignoring him obviously isnt working so just say to him "i dont want to sound mean but i'm not interested so can you leave me alone please". then after you've told him, keep ignoring him. hopefully he'll get bored and move on.
good luck
brooke
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reader, shandygirl + ♥, writes (31 December 2007):
 Just say in a joking way.... "Oh, knock it off!" Then walk away. If that doesn't work, then say " You are a nice person, and I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I am not interested." If that doesn't work, then say, "Stop it already!" I don't know if you know this, but STAKING SOMEONE IS AGAINST THE LAW. If he continues, after all this, then have your parents call his parents, or even talk to a police officer.
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reader, 2old4this + ♥, writes (31 December 2007):
 You might want to just stop him and say, "look, I know you like me and everything. And i'm really flattered. But I'm just not interested in being your girlfriend or anything. And all this attention you give me is just making me not like you more. So please just move on". If after a few days he's still bothering you, then you have no choice but to be mean. I hope this helps
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