In love with my sisters ex, what should I do?
Q. Hi, about 4 months ago my sister split up with her boyfriend of 4 years. He is a lovely person, and my whole family love him and are still in contact with him, however, I have fallen in love with him, and he feels the same way about me. Since they ...
A. 8 March 2008: Okay so your backing off, that's the right thing to do. female reader, anonymous your a total cow for what your doing to your sister, how would you feel if she slept with your ex bf who you still had feelings for? Blood is thicker than water and it ... (read in full...)
What does his text mean?
Q. i got this text from this boy that i think likes me i donno what it means. "i love you can it be our little secret u dont have a bf right can u come to our beach party fri night i wanna prove it to u love u xxxxx" what does this mean does it mea...
A. 1 March 2008: Ooo he sat next to you on the bus!! yay!! ... (read in full...)
How can I snoop on my boyfriend's cell phone to see if he's been looking at porn?
Q. How can I snoop on my boyfriend's cell phone to see if he's been looking at porn? How do you find out? Do you look at the Internet options on the phone? Please give me some help, I'm so nosy, but I don't want him to know I looked at his phone-ugh. ...
A. 1 March 2008: Don't do it. You sound really controlling... (read in full...)
Really missing a guy I dated but should I be??
Q. Hi there guys, I wanted to ask you for your advice in regards to a relationship matter. About a year and a half ago I placed an advert in my local home town in a shop window advertising a room for rent in my house and a day or two after I rece...
A. 1 March 2008: woo, maybe you should stop dating older guys?
I don't really know If I believe this, the first guy you talk about. You say he won't leave your house so why havent you phoned the police? you allow him to stay in your home and sleep in bed with you... (read in full...)
My life is a mess without my boyfriend...
Q. I've been with a guy for a year and a half it started out wrong, I accepted they way he is. He used to cheat on me and say it's meaningless and he just does it to feel "relieved".. he never used to be there for me when I needed him and he bugged me ...
A. 1 March 2008: Do you know who weak and pathetic you sound? Seriously read through your post, realise how much of a loser your b/f sounds. I think it's a blessing that this guy dumped you as you don't have the strength to do it yourself. If you want to get kicked ... (read in full...)
Should I just call the whole thing off or wait even if it hurts so much?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 16 months. I've had huge trust issues from an ex who cheated on me multiple times, was a drug abuser, self-mutilator, and stole from me and my parents. My ex's friends were all female, and I never ...
A. 1 March 2008: You sound a bit like my sister with her b/f!
Have you re read your post? Do you realise how paranoid you sound? Your boyfriend is questing your relationship because he's wondering if he should be with a person like you, your the problem here not ... (read in full...)
We've been together for 2 years but have not had sex yet, as he is never aroused - while I am, always.
Q. i'm 21 yrs old and from Sri Lanka. I have been going out with my boy friend for the past 2 yrs (he's 24)but we still haven't had sex. When I ask him if he really want to have it, he won't say anything. And I get turned on very easly and he ...
A. 1 March 2008: Sorry but he may be using you as a cover, he may be gay. Or if he's not gay then he's asexual which means someone who isn't intrested in sex. Take your pick... (read in full...)
Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?
Q. Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...
A. 29 February 2008: I chose a nice guy. Guess I'm the 1 out of the 10... (read in full...)
I wasn't invited to the party and I'm offended!
Q. Ever have that HORRIBLE feeling of not being invited to a party?? Well, happened to me this week. AS we speak, there's a sweet16 party going on and my friends are all there. Of course, everyone but me. Uhm, I'm really good friends with these gi...
A. 29 February 2008: I don't like the way you use the word, gay. Gay means a gay man, not a pissed off word because you haven't been invited somewhere.... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 29 February 2008: PATHETIC. This man wanted a affair with her, what decent teacher wouold email their students? well It wasn't allowed at my school. She's only just turned 15. I think it's very worrying that your all blaming her. Who's the adult here? who's teaching ... (read in full...)
What does his text mean?
Q. i got this text from this boy that i think likes me i donno what it means. "i love you can it be our little secret u dont have a bf right can u come to our beach party fri night i wanna prove it to u love u xxxxx" what does this mean does it mea...
A. 28 February 2008: It means he wants to get down and get wild with you!
Don't believe he loves you, he dosen't ... (read in full...)
How should my friend handle her teacher's remarks, perhaps improper?
Q. my bestmate has been feeling really uncomfortable in one of her lessons lately. the teacher said she was really pretty and if he were the same age he would have probably asked her out. just yesterday he said that he had a girlfriend when ...
A. 28 February 2008: God we're getting alot of these questions. When I was at school, the male teachers only attacked when we actually left school! lol.
I would tell her to report him, he should be told off for saying those kind of comments. He's just crying out to g... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to feel resentful after I helped him out so much??
Q. My boyfriend has recently come into some money (about 3000 pounds). Previous to this he always struggled, and I bailed him out of many bills that he ended up struggling to pay etc etc. I did this out of kindness and never expected anything back, ...
A. 28 February 2008: Um, isn't it a bit obvious he's taking you for granted? This guy won't even pay you back the money he owes you.
Why can't you just tell him your pissed off? I would have done it by now if I was you, say something like "I find it strange how I he... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: Laura1318, the teacher was playing the game though. I don't understand why everyone wants this teacher to be let off the hook, I mean your blaming her because she started emailing him first? He started talking sexual too her and that's when she ... (read in full...)
Why does it have to be so damm hard to figure out what women want in order to have a lot of sex?
Q. Why does it have to be so damm hard to figure out what women want in order to have a lot of sex? Do most women want a lot of sex or is it only men? Why do you have to spend 10 times more time figuring out the issues rather than having wild sex? No ...
A. 28 February 2008: Maybe they just don't want sex with you. ... (read in full...)
Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older?
Q. Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older? I am interested in some real life occurances that worked out. Thanks for inputs....
A. 28 February 2008: Yes, my grandparents have a 13yr diffrence, they met when she was 17! Mind you he lied and said he was younger. My dad and mum is 8. Truth told once you get older you do serch for the older guys but I think 15-20 years is too much, that age ... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: I agree with Collaroy, this teacher is messing with fire and he deserves to get burnt. I find it sad that other aunts seem to be blaming you, yes you may have started it but he should NEVER have carried it on, he's a married man of 36 who shouldn't ... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 28 February 2008: Is this a joke? I bet you a hundred pounds that the reader anonymous below me is the original poster, "You seem like such an unselfish, kind, and loving man and it seems to be tearing you up at the decision you must make"
Don't make me laugh, h... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to feel resentful after I helped him out so much??
Q. My boyfriend has recently come into some money (about 3000 pounds). Previous to this he always struggled, and I bailed him out of many bills that he ended up struggling to pay etc etc. I did this out of kindness and never expected anything back, ...
A. 27 February 2008: Yeah I be pissed off too! Your b/f sounds like a creep. NEVER trust him with your money and never help him again with money... (read in full...)
My teacher blushes when seeing me, and MINE is not infatuation!...
Q. Hello everyone!! Well my question is that I am in love with one of my male teachers.It is certainly not infatuation. I am positive he knows because my friends have said it to him just as a joke.His answer to this was 'that's great'. Whenever he ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hopefuly he has a small crush on you but will never take it further. You should leave him alone, you know this is wrong.
A. He's a teacher, if he slept with you he isn't to be trusted with other young females
B. He's married
Isn't that a ... (read in full...)
I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?
Q. I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely...
A. 27 February 2008: What a lovely, decent man you are! Your wife must be so happy to have you, damn one day I wish I had a husband like you!!... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 27 February 2008: I hope if your wife finds out, she leaves then your mistress will grow a brain and leave you too. Then maybe you can be alone for a while, think about what kind of person you are THEN you can find another wife and actually be faithful and supportive ... (read in full...)
I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?
Q. I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatabili...
A. 27 February 2008: Your both pretty young and haven't even been together for that long really. What happen if you two get married and go through another rocky patch? (which you will)
Your still young and don't need to stay with a cheat. I'm 18 and if I actually... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: Why do girls do anal sex?? why why why? I don't believe women get pleasure from it, mind you I never tried it and never will!! hahah... (read in full...)
We both love each other, but is love enough? I'm worried about jobs.
Q. I Have a long distance realtionship. We both love eacho ther. I'm crazy for him and i'm sure he does too. The only problem is that he has a better chances for the future for good jobs. For me i may just be working out in a supermarket again. One ...
A. 26 February 2008: Wait, you ended a relationship because you work in a supermarket? My mum works in a supermarket, this girl she knows at work has finished uni but decided to stay because it's easier and less hassle there. There's diffrent jobs for diffrent people ... (read in full...)
My gf broke up with me to find out with certainty if she is gay. What to do?
Q. hey I broke up with my gf 5 days ago this is really complicated lol anyways i've known her on and off since i was 13 and i always thought she was the one, we got together 2 years back and it was great all 2 years of it only ever had one or 2 ...
A. 26 February 2008: She needs this time alone to explore and realise what she really wants, she properly is bisexual but wants to try the other side of that. Loads of bisexual women feel this way, just be thankful she didn't do this to you if you two got married! She ... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 26 February 2008: leonard j. Douglas, this man isn't young he is around my dad age, he has messed three women up and is obviously a bit deluded, I mean what sane person would compare themsevles to Charles, Diana and Camilla?? lol. ... (read in full...)
Do I push for sex or respect my girlfriend's wishes?
Q. i want to have sex but my girlfriend doesnt want to until engagement. Should i try to push for sex or just respect her wishes and hope for the best??...
A. 25 February 2008: HELLO? You can't make her do anything she dosen't want too do. If you push and she dosen't want it, that's called rape. You are both very young, maybe you could propose too her? lol... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 25 February 2008: Your a cheater. You cheated on both your wives, if you get with the other woman then you will just cheat on her like the others. Listen at your age if you can't be faithful and still have that, grass be greener on the other side complex maybe you ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for him, but I am 12 and he is turning 18! Help!!
Q. i have fallen head over heels for this boy and 89% of the time i think about him. the only thing is i am 12 and he turns 18 this month. i need help!!...
A. 24 February 2008: Unless this guy a pedophile he isn't going to be intrested in you :) I got a 12yr old sister and she's mentally still very much a kid! ... (read in full...)
Could you give me advice on how to broach the subject to him without embarrassing him or making him feel worse?
Q. I started dating my 34-year old boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother's) when I was 15, and we've been seeing each other for about a year now. I've been really happy with him so far, and I feel like he's not only my boyfriend but a casual friend as ...
A. 24 February 2008: My freind like you went out with a older guy when she was 15. I even thought back then how controlling he was. He used to pick out her clothes and she agreed to have a threesome! at 16!! Looking back on it now I realise he wanted to mould her into ... (read in full...)
How do you know a married man is sincerely in love and not pursuing an affair?
Q. My question is how do you know if a married man has fallen for you and whether his love is honest and not just looking for an affair? with an age gap Good advice needed and alot of advice needed...
A. 23 February 2008: If he splits with his wife. It's that simple... (read in full...)
Why do I play games with nice guys? Am I lesbian?
Q. Hi. I am a bisexual female. I think I am totally turning lesbian. how do I tell my family. I liked a guy. I played mind games with him because he was honest with me.Why do I play games with certain guys.Probably because he is nice.Maybe it is ...
A. 23 February 2008: Maybe you play mind games so you can keep guys at a distance from you emotinally? If you are a lesbian or bisexual! It's best to tell your family. If your living at home and their against gays I would keep my mouth shut, if not then sit them down ... (read in full...)
Embarassing to date a fat person?
Q. is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....
A. 23 February 2008: I don't care. When I see a fat couple I barely look. Though if one fat and the other skinny I may look but I don't judge. ... (read in full...)
How do I politely deny their invitation to go on a date?
Q. I regularly work in the evenings at my parent's family business. Of course, I get customers who are in their 20's, 30's, all ages. I'm 18, and some of the men have giving me their numbers,or myspace..or shown some sign of interest, such a...
A. 23 February 2008: Okay you need to stop taking their numbers, you have to be tougher. Who cares if you hurt their feelings?? Just say I'm already taken or say your a bit old for me, I said that line before! Just shoot them down before they get any further. If you ... (read in full...)
In love with my sisters ex, what should I do?
Q. Hi, about 4 months ago my sister split up with her boyfriend of 4 years. He is a lovely person, and my whole family love him and are still in contact with him, however, I have fallen in love with him, and he feels the same way about me. Since they ...
A. 22 February 2008: What a horrible sister you are. Exs are off limits! that's the way it is, it causes too much trouble and hurt. Your sister hasn't even been apart from her ex for long and now you come barging in. If your sister against this relationship then you ... (read in full...)
What makes you mistresses of this world think you're so special?
Q. I have been criticized on my backlashing women who sleep with married men,,,and that I dont attack the men....WRONG...the men are the scumbags in this whole ordeal... Now my question, if these men are scumbags, and these women say that the wife wil...
A. 22 February 2008: It takes a stronger woman to stay, sorry but thats wrong. It takes a stronger woman to LEAVE. ... (read in full...)
When we are alone in a private location on the plane what are some fun sexual activities that we can do?
Q. I often fly night time flights that do not have many other passengers. I have thought that it would be fun to join the mile high club. What information/advice do you have about joining the mile high club? I would really like to do it with my gi...
A. 22 February 2008: Right...if my g/f dosen't do it your do it with a flight attendant. What a lovely man you are! Also these sort of things shouldn't be planned, I read a story in the newspaper about a couple who were giving each other oral sex and the rest of the ... (read in full...)
He never says "I love you", not even to our daughter.....
Q. Can a marriage survive this way? We've been married for only 5 months, and we have a 10 month old daughter, and I am due again next month. We love eachother, and have known eachother for a long time. The thing is that there is no intimacy in our ...
A. 21 February 2008: My dad was like this. He still rarely says I love you to us kids but we know he does and he shows it in other ways. Like your husband he was brought up without that affection, had a very bad childhood. I remember my mum and dad having huge problems ... (read in full...)
What makes you mistresses of this world think you're so special?
Q. I have been criticized on my backlashing women who sleep with married men,,,and that I dont attack the men....WRONG...the men are the scumbags in this whole ordeal... Now my question, if these men are scumbags, and these women say that the wife wil...
A. 21 February 2008: What do you mean your ready for them again? Have you told your husband if he does that again he's out?
On these women, yeah I think their scum and I don't understand why they want to sleep with a married man. They properly don't respect marriage... (read in full...)
This girl has not had other boyfriends before, what should I say on our date?
Q. Hey, I'm 13 in May and i'm going on a date soon im her first boyfriend and i dunno what to do, because every girl ive dated have had bfs before me? help me please =\...
A. 21 February 2008: Is this a joke? if not then just hold her hands, take her to the movies.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me 3 times and I can't get over it...
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me three times. Twice in the first month, and then the third time was in the third month. We've talked about it all and it's been 8 months, and I still feel bad. He's a lovely boyfriend and I know he hasn't done it since, ...
A. 20 February 2008: Three times is alot...personally I dont think I be able to get over that many betrayals, it just shows what type of person he is. But he may of changed BUT can you get over it? some people can't ... (read in full...)
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