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To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?

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Question - (27 December 2007) 19 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair?

And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed?

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A female reader, cammiejoann United States +, writes (2 June 2009):

chest: in my opinion, im not a big fan of hair...so for me, i like clean and bare, its just sexier to me. but thats just my opinion and my preference.

pubes: not shaved..but trimmed ya know? again this is just my opinion and my personal preference.

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A female reader, nybabygirl United States +, writes (27 December 2008):

i like guys with no chest hair or a little very little

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A female reader, gottascrewlose86 United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

gottascrewlose86 agony auntWell i dont mind a little hair as long as you dont look like bigfoot or something.

I like hairless chests but only if its natural. If you have some hair...keep it!!! My ex used to shave his chest and when we would mess around and have sex if he hasnt shaved in a couple days i could feel the stubble. Not very pleasant in my opinion. His chest hair would be much better.

As far as pubic hair goes, do whatever you want i really dont care, hair or no hair. But if you choose to have hair, keep it trimmed and tame so its not a jungle. lol

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

hi i just want to say that hairy or shaved it really doesnt make much of a difference when u like a person .. though personally i will shave my chest and pubic hair when i eventually get to sleep with a gal ... and if she approves of it then the trend cntinues or else the unshaved chest is always there ... and the sign of a real man is the hair on his chest

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008):

Wow! You want girls to like your chest and pubic area!

It's okay to change the way you look to make yourself feel more comfortable/confident. But I'm concerned that you might be doing this for the wrong reason - to live up to other people's standards. It sounds okay, but it brings a big risk. Girls won't be fancying or loving you for who you are. Once you've started changing yourself to live up to somebody else's fantasy, when do you stop? Do you know exactly what your limits are, or will you only find out once you've become a common clone?

If a girl is soooo picky that she can't see past the hair on your body, she doesn't deserve you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007):

As you can see you get a range of answers. Each woman is different in the amount of hair she likes on her man. As some of the woman have said, you just need to ask her! You cannot make all woman happy because each has individual preferences.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007):

totally agree with the "trimmers"....down south you want to keep it tidy and short or gone. Less hair in the mouth...As for the chest...Waxing would keep it from being prickly.

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A female reader, Mushgirl United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2007):

Mushgirl agony auntMost people here seem to like some hair, but not so much that you could be mistaken for a yeti. I agree... hairless men look like kids, I find shaved pubic hair a major turnoff. But too much hair is kinda impractical and uncomfy at times. But that's just my opinion - ask whoever you're sleeping with.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007):

hi ya i think a lttle hair on the chessed is fine to much and that gets a bit wrong but guys should never change their downstairs hair and i wouldn.t worry too much because if she/he likes you that much they will take you for who you are

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007):

I think a shaved chest is disgusting. I don't think a guy should shave anything but his face. You can trim your pubes, I guess that's fine.

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A female reader, devonique United States +, writes (28 December 2007):

devonique agony auntNipples with afros are gross and so is a jungle of hair headin down the happy trail. i like no chest hair and non or trimmed pubic hair but im just one girl you ned to get the opinion of ur partner.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (27 December 2007):

birdynumnums agony auntYes, women are all different.

I loved my husband's bare chest when we were young, and I love his chest now at 50+. The only thing I never liked was shoulder and back hair - waxing! I like him to trim all his hair if it starts to get too long, more than 1/2". It gets messy and in the way after that length. Definitely manscaping!

You should talk about this with your partner to find out what they prefer on you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007):

my ex was hairy chested and had a lot of pubic hair and i hated it.

my bf has all shaved off pubic region and hair free chest, some people would find that strange but i love it

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (27 December 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey there,

Everyone is so different. I liked smooth chests until I met my current boyfriend of two and a half years... he's got hair on his chest and I love it!! I feel like I'm finally dating a MAN and not a teenage boy. Now I look at kids with smooth, naked chests and they look like little kids.

TOO much hair, the "bear" look (as opposed to the "bare" look, haha...?) that's not for me. That's a little too much. But I like a nice sprinkling... it's sexy. Suggests a nice, virile man.

As for pubic hair, I prefer my man to do some "manscaping" as we like to call it. So nice and trimmed, not totally bare. Again, with the pre-pubescent look, a little creepy for me. But VERY nicely groomed (and a short trim. Too much hair down there is a little gross to me), that's the ticket.

That's me, but sweetness - EVERYONE is different. Everyone likes different things. You are fine the way you are.

xx India

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007):

Well my boyfriend keeps his pubic hair trimmed and sometimes shaved a little. When I first met him he shaved his chest but I found this really prickly and I like a bit of hair there so told him to let it grow. There is a line from a James Bond film where, yet again, he is bed with a beautiful woman and she says whilst laying on his rather hairy chest "Birds don't nest in bare trees". :-)

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2007):

lovehate agony auntI like a smooth chest. Yet all women differ to what they like. Never A LOT of chest hair. A big turn off.

As for the pubic hair trimmed, yet some women may prefer shaven.

Different things turn on different individuals.

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2007):

hello1 agony auntshaved chest! looks so much better, I feel that hairy chest are for older men

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A female reader, sexseahot United States +, writes (27 December 2007):

sexseahot agony auntI personally like my man to be a little hairy, not TOO much though. Hair on the chest, a definite. For the pubic hair, just trimmed or shaved all the way, either way works for me!!!

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A female reader, red1982 United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2007):

I think most women differ with this. I like a smooth chest whereas my sisters boyfriend is really (really really) hairy and she loves it.

I think most women prefer trimmed pubic hair as it looks cleaner. I think shaved completely would look strange, but again some women probably like it.

Sorry if that confused you even more, but we're all different and different things turn us on. I don't think most women mind about hair one way or the other at the end of the day, but when you get a girlfriend you could always ask her what she likes.

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