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Good memories of one night stands?
Q. There are topics on regretting, or feeling hurt after a one night stand. This topic is about the opposite. They say having a one night stand changes you, or it stays with you. So does it stay with you in a good way? I was wondering if any of ...
A. 19 May 2008: Other people too coy to answer?! LOL
I think it is a turn on for somebody, when they meet somebody who is nervous, and obviously not done this before. It is down to the other person not to be too unsuspecting or easily shocked.
My first one ... (read in full...)
I've been told the guy I'm seeing is a playa. How do I talk to him about it?
Q. hey everyone! I'm a 17 year old girl from the UK. Lately I've been hanging out at a friend's flat most nights as there is always good company, and I've developed a crush on a guy I met quite recently who is often there. About a week ago we kissed ...
A. 18 May 2008: It is easy to fancy the wrong sort of guy, so to speak.
Possibly at a party.
Once I was told "Whatever you do, don't end up kopping of with ******" Of course I did, just snogging.
All part of life that sort of thing, but you have been... (read in full...)
I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!
Q. Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...
A. 18 May 2008: I am wondering if it is love, rather than sex you are looking for.
Don't worry about it, we all have different life experiences.
Leave it for a nice girlfriend, not a prostitute.
It will be fine.... (read in full...)
Why do people think first night sex is cheap and the girl lacks self respect?
Q. Ok guys why do ppl think it is cheap and the girl lacks self respect if they have sex on the first night? I mean after going out on a date and lots of talking? What is the difference between waiting for the second date as some ppl think it is more ...
A. 18 May 2008: Here's a contradiction in terms for you....
We had sex on the first date. I figured we had a nice evening, got on. The silences were relaxed and not awkward too.
Having had 3 one night stands before we met, I didn't see the point in pretend... (read in full...)
Good memories of one night stands?
Q. There are topics on regretting, or feeling hurt after a one night stand. This topic is about the opposite. They say having a one night stand changes you, or it stays with you. So does it stay with you in a good way? I was wondering if any of ...
A. 18 May 2008: Thanks again for the replies.
I can imagine things would be more complicated if you knew the person so to speak.
I am sure the experience depends on how you handle it.
Wow you are sensitive, hope you were not hurt.... (read in full...)
We are ready for sex. Recommendations?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about different methods of contraception and are thinking about a condom since they're easy to get. I'm just wondering though if intercourse feels better without one-especially semen pouring ...
A. 18 May 2008: Condoms!
Easy to get, and free from the family planning clinics.
The pill is one thing, but it doesn't prevent STD's. Plus you could forget to take it, antibiotics, being sick...
Different forms of contraception at different points in y... (read in full...)
I've never met a guy who's wanted this much sex... and I start doubting myself if he's just using me for sex. Men's opinions?
Q. I met my bf about 2 months ago, and I've noticed that he lovessss to have sex. In the beginning of our relationship, we would have sex atleast 5 times a day, and then it eventually went down to 3 times a day, and at the least twice a day. He treats ...
A. 18 May 2008: To hell with it, a female answer!
By any chance did you have sex on the first date? I don't mean the time you met, your first night out together afterwards?
Just wondering because that is what we did, and we had sex 3 times in the evening and ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity but why was there was no blood?
Q. I'm 20 yars old. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. first it was very dificuld and it hurt, but than it was OK and I liked it. it didn't hurt that much anymore. but . . . there was no blood! it's suppose to bleed . . . isn't it?! and ...
A. 18 May 2008: I didn't bleed, and I wasn't sore either.
My hymen broke playing hockey.
He just said "You didn't bleed" and seemed surprised, although he knew from how I reacted when we met that I was virgain.
Plus he had fingered me, so I doubt that if t... (read in full...)
Good memories of one night stands?
Q. There are topics on regretting, or feeling hurt after a one night stand. This topic is about the opposite. They say having a one night stand changes you, or it stays with you. So does it stay with you in a good way? I was wondering if any of ...
A. 18 May 2008: Hi thanks for the 3 replies.
For lonleytwo, gosh that must have felt odd, if you reconed she was married afterwards - not good!
It has got to feel right to do it.
I agree a fond memory occurs when you get a buzz out of it, and you know it i... (read in full...)
He is way more experienced in bed than me and I don't think I am satisfying him?
Q. Hey guys, i am going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now and mad about him. I lost my virginity to him and i dont regret it for one minute. The thing is that he is way more experienced in bed than me and i dont think i am satisfying him. He does...
A. 18 May 2008: Let me think...
I am not sure if guys really say much, so you can assume all is well. I might say "Did you enjoy that?" and I get a "yea". So just ask. He will be turned on, otherwise you won't be having sex.
If it feels good for you, then it... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea for a 21 year old girl to lose her virginity with an older guy?
Q. Hey, Do you guys think it is a good idea for a 21 year old girl to loose her virginity with a much experience men who's 35 years old or do you guys think that's too old or that we've got too much of a difference in experience ?...
A. 18 May 2008: I am open-minded about age gaps, and have always been with somebody older so to speak. For example 6-11 years age gap. I would draw the line at 15 years plus, and certainly shunned a guy who was my Dad's age who chatted me up, yuck!
It can be n... (read in full...)
I finally came clean about everything about my past, and he broke up with me
Q. My ex broke up with me a couple of days ago. It was because I had lied about some stuff from the past, several times. The other day I finally came clean about everything, and he broke up with me as I expected. Of course I was hurt, and of cou...
A. 18 May 2008: What are these past issues?... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to this older guy?
Q. Heya.For about a year now ive been seeing this guy and we get on really well and both really like each other. The only problem is he's 28 and im only 16. The age dosen't matter to me that much its just a few of my friends know and are really teasing ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hi
I was 18 and lost my virginity to a 29 year old. Some peole were surprised that I was with somebody older - If you get on, why not.
Although I am surprised that you have not already!
Don't worry about not knowing what to do, he will alri... (read in full...)
Met a man online, he's much older and suggested that I lose virginity to him! I am not sure what to do.
Q. hi i have meet this man online. at first he used to annoy me but now he is easy to talk to and a right laugh. he is very forward though and has never hid the fact that he likes me. he has given me confidence about my hourglass size 14 figure...
A. 17 May 2008: Why do men find taking a girls virginity so appealing grr!
When I was 18, my first was with somebody older, he was 29. At the time people were surprised that I was with somebody older.
I remain open minded about age differences. How... (read in full...)
Am I old enough for sex at 14 or should I still be playing children's games?
Q. i am 14 and i am worrying how should a 14year old act? am i old enough for sex or should i still be playing around and having fun like a child. am i old ? or am i worrying over nothing i feel that i am too old for christmas am i ? what...
A. 17 May 2008: Gosh, I hated being 14. I am speaking from somebody who is youngish at 31, not your Mum's age.
I can speak almost from some experience.
At 14 I stayed over at a boy's house (he was in my year at school). We had loads of fun in bed kissing and ... (read in full...)
Is sex wrong at young age?
Q. is sex a wrong thing at young age i need help because a girl wants to do it with me but i don't know help me please!!!!!...
A. 17 May 2008: I am astonished that I read such questions? Are you for real?
If so, please please wait. I agree you are not physically ro emotionally ready. Plenty of time for this in the future.
It is against the law, and many would class it as abuse at s... (read in full...)
I really don't know if I lost my virginity or not, please advise me.
Q. I was hooking up with this guy a while back. We had agreed not to have sex because I'm still a virgin and want to stay that way, and he's never been with a virgin and doesn't want to be. He was rubbing his penis along the inside of my labia and he ...
A. 17 May 2008: You know something...
I am just surprised he didn't fully penetrate you, you gave him the chance to.
For future reference...
There are a lot of men who wouldn't simply rub his penis along the labia, they would simply penetrate. They won't a... (read in full...)
Is it ok to wait til your 18 to lose your virginity or do anything sexual?
Q. is it ok to wait til your 18 or so or at uni to lose your virginity or do anything sexual (other than kissing)? p.s i live in uk where everyone has sex before 16 [rolls eyes] id like everyones personal oipinions please, also not "don't be press...
A. 17 May 2008: Hi
I am from the UK too.
I think 18 is an ideal age. I have to say, I had to do it before I went to uni, didn't want to be the only virgin at uni LOL.... (read in full...)
Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Q. Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...
A. 17 May 2008: I was 18, which I think is a good age.
I had been with this guy for 2 months, so to wait is important, to be sure he is not just after sex only. Needs to be a nice relationship. We went out for 6 months.
No way, I couldn't tell my parents ... (read in full...)
Tiredness is ruining my life, please help.
Q. Hello, My question is about being tired. I am 19 and for as long as i can remember i have been tired. And i dont just mean a little bit, i am ALWAYS tired and it seriously affects my life. Half the time i dont have the energy to go out with my f...
A. 17 May 2008: Hi
Sadly I have ME/CFS.
They go off your symptoms, and how you have been over the last 6 months. They do blood tests to rule out other illnesses.
In a nutshell, it is like having the flu, hangover and get lag all at once, and that is on ... (read in full...)
During sex he got too rough and wouldn't stop! I love him but this has me hurt and confused..what should I do?
Q. well last night i went to the pub, with my boyfriend and our 2 mates. we were all having a good laugh and drinking. and me and paul* were pretty horny, so when we got home we had sex. bout an hour after we did it again. and for some reason it kinda ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hey,
Huggs hun!
I can see how this happened, and sex can be more vigorous after a drink or two. Vigorous, or something spontaneous is ok, if you want that too.
There is one thing feeling submissive, and the other if you feel it doesn't feel... (read in full...)
Does sex hurt first time?!
Q. Most of my mates have had sex and they say it really hurts first time. I feel so left out when they talk about it because i havnt had it yet. Does sex hurt first time?!...
A. 17 May 2008: It didn't hurt at all for me! However tbh the hymen broke once in a hockey tackle! So that can happen doing any ordinary things and not just the sexual experience. There is more peer pressure about sex than anything else. So only do it i... (read in full...)
How many partners have you had?
Q. This is a very general question, based on the numerous questions that I see posted about couples dealing with one partner's sexual past. How many sexual partners have YOU had? Do you regret the number, be it big or small? How many "one-night-stand...
A. 16 May 2008: Not at all, no regrets, in fact I think I could have had more. Only 6: 3 one night stands, 2 partners and my husband.
I was instantly turned off by a guy who claimed he loved me on the 2nd date just to do the obvious. I had more respect for a gu... (read in full...)
A one night stand - should I give him a call?
Q. I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me ...
A. 16 May 2008: Hi! I would say leave it. After all, he hardly handed you a slip of paper with his number on. Perhaps he was just being polite and saying an alternative to "See you around" or "It was nice meeting you". If you did meet again, it would only... (read in full...)
1 year without sex... Do I have a one night stand now?
Q. Approaching a year since I last had sex. I haven't really been tempted to have meaningless sex, or a one night stand or anything, because I'm told that sex is so much better with somebody you love. But after a year of celibacy, I'm really feeling ...
A. 16 May 2008: Hey,
One year, that is ages, so go for it! There is nothing to loose and nobody to hurt.
There are two different kinds of sex, both equally as great in their own way. Now is the time, not when you are with somebody else. I used to say I wo... (read in full...)
Virgin or one-night stand... *You* decide!
Q. Hi, bit of a mental dilemma i'm in..... I have two dreams....very opposite to each other... The first one is to get married and to save myself (I am a virgin) for 'the one' The second is that I have this fantasy where I want to have a one n...
A. 16 May 2008: One night stands are not for a virgin!
Do wait until you are dating somebody.
I used to be against a one night stand until i did it LOL!
Few people wait for "the one". It wasn't what I chose to do.
For my first boyfriend I waited a long ... (read in full...)
Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?
Q. Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be ...
A. 16 May 2008: It is often mutual the feeling of only wanting some fun for one night only. If both of you get a buzz from that, and there is no suggestion of anything more in advance, then there is no hurt and no dumping. If you see where I am coming from, ... (read in full...)
Average amount of sex partners in a lifetime.
Q. I was wondering whether anybody knew the average amount sexual partners men and women have in their lifetimes. Im 17 years old and only have had One, I know this is quite normal and am relatively happy about it. I suppose im asking, what can i ...
A. 27 April 2008: I have only had 6 sexual partners.
The guy who I married, two previous boyfriends, and 3 one night stands.
I used to get a lot of male attention, so looking back, I could have doubled this figure by the time I was 21. Must have been a bit ... (read in full...)
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